Paul
Dailey
Contributing Writer
Paul Dailey was raised in Smithton, MO, and moved to Virginia in 1999. He served in the U.S. Navy and felt called to full-time ministry.
Paul Dailey was raised in Smithton, MO, and moved to Virginia in 1999. He served in the U.S. Navy and felt called to full-time ministry.
Recently, I made an over two-hour trek from Virginia Beach to "King’s Fest," a three-day Christian music event at Paramount’s King’s Dominion in Doswell, Va, with some of the teens from our church. For an entire weekend, we jammed and worshiped with some of the premier acts in Christian music. Artists such as Third Day, Rebecca St. James, Pillar, FFH, Newsboys, Thousand Foot Krutch, Audio Adrenaline, and Jeremy Camp took the stage and led us on a journey into the presence of God.
There were thousands of people packed into the amphitheater and the atmosphere was electrified. We were a few of the hundreds "fortunate enough" to be seated on the lawn, so far away from the stage that it was difficult to make out who was performing. In the midst of all the excitement, one of my teens made the comment, “It would be so awesome to get a backstage pass.”
The images of that enormous crowd and those distant figures on stage, as well as that backstage pass comment, came rushing back to me the next morning during my quiet time with the Lord. I was taken away in the glory of God as I knelt there in my tent while the sun crept over the eastern horizon. I began to express to the Lord as eloquently as I knew how that I love Him so much and that I long for real intimacy with Him. Then I said, “Jesus, I don’t want to be just one of the faces in the crowd. I don’t want to just stand there and watch You perform while being robbed of a relationship with You.” I could sense in my spirit all over again the Lord’s desire for more intimacy than I was even willing to accept. Then I felt the Spirit prompting me to ask for “more than a backstage pass.”
That’s pretty much the ultimate thing at a concert. People pay good money to go behind the curtains with their favorite artists, to see the inner workings of these “American Idols.” Though I’ve never gotten a backstage pass to any concert, I can imagine it would be exciting to get a few minutes to meet my favorite artists with only a small group or maybe even get a handshake. But Jesus wants even more than that.
There are three Scriptures that really spoke to me that morning that express God’s desire for intimacy with us:
“One thing I have desired of the Lord, that will I seek: That I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to behold the beauty of the Lord, and to inquire in His temple. For in the time of trouble He shall hide me in His pavilion; In the secret place of His tabernacle He shall hide me; He shall set me high upon a rock.”
Psalms 27:4-5 The one thing I ask of the LORD— the thing I seek most—is to live in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, delighting in the LORD's perfections and meditating in his Temple. For he will conceal me there when troubles come; he will hide me in his sanctuary. He will place me out of reach on a high rock. OPEN VERSE IN BIBLE (nlt)(NKJV)“You shall hide them in the secret place of Your presence…”
Psalms 31:20 You hide them in the shelter of your presence, safe from those who conspire against them.You shelter them in your presence, far from accusing tongues. OPEN VERSE IN BIBLE (nlt)(NKJV)“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will guide you with My eye.”
Psalms 32:8 The LORD says, "I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you. OPEN VERSE IN BIBLE (nlt)(NKJV)
Nestled gently within those verses are some incredibly delicious morsels of God’s heart. He longs to be close enough to us that He doesn’t even have to wave His hand — we are close enough to see the movement of His eyes; to know what He’s thinking just by the direction He looks. And when He refers to “the secret place” or “the tabernacle” or “pavilion,” those are all pictures of the intimacy shared between a husband and a wife.
If you feel you have been standing in the crowd, lost in a sea of faces, there is hope. Even if you have gotten that backstage pass but your heart tells you there is still more, press in.
Copyright © Paul Dailey, used with permission.
God most often speaks to me in analogies. This time was no different. As I was preparing a message for our youth group several weeks ago on “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,” I got a revelation from two different Scriptures.
First, in John 4, is the story of Jesus speaking with the Samaritan woman at the well. His disciples had gone into town to get some food while Jesus stayed behind. When they returned and offered Him something to eat, He replied,
“I have food that you don’t know anything about.”John 4:32 But Jesus replied, "I have a kind of food you know nothing about." OPEN VERSE IN BIBLE (nlt)(CEV)
This left the disciples scratching their heads as to what He might possibly mean, so Jesus clarified it for them by saying,
“My food is to do what God wants! He is the one who sent me, and I must finish the work that he gave me to do.”John 4:34 Then Jesus explained: "My nourishment comes from doing the will of God, who sent me, and from finishing his work. OPEN VERSE IN BIBLE (nlt)(CEV)
Then, in
“My soul thirsts for you.”
God had brought him to a dry, deserted, lonely place in his life so that his craving for the presence of God would overwhelm him. That’s often a hard pill to swallow, but it is such good medicine!
After reading these several verses, the Lord began to speak to me in terms I could really understand. Think back to a time in your life when you sat down to a tantalizingly delicious meal. Perhaps it was a perfectly cooked and juicy steak right off the grill, complete with a side of sautéed mushrooms and onions. Or maybe it was that salad that had just the right combination of fresh veggies and topped with that one special dressing that just makes your mouth water. Or imagine being one of the five people left in this country who hasn’t sworn off carbs and there’s that particular dessert you dreamed about one night — you know, the one oozing with chocolate or caramel, smothered in fresh strawberries.
Now, if you just kept eating and eating and eating your favorite food, whatever that might be, and never took a drink, that steak or salad or dessert would quickly lose its appeal, wouldn’t it? Imagine how dry and scratchy your throat would get. The food that once made your head spin with delight is now causing you some potentially life-threatening problems. That’s because the liquids we drink help to coat the food as we get it from the plate to our stomachs.
It works the same in the spiritual as in the natural. Our food is to do the will of God, but it is God’s presence that we thirst for. Too many people have burned out and choked to death on the will of God because they neglected to make regular trips to the river for a drink of the water of life.
Jesus offered the Samaritan woman at the well water that would leave her eternally and completely satisfied. That water is Jesus Himself. Are you living for God at a breakneck pace, trying to do everything He’s called you to do? How long has it been since you stopped and just drank deeply of the presence of God? How long are you going to wait before you answer the Lord’s call to drink the water which will become in you a spring of eternal life?
If you are choking on God’s will, He is calling you to put down your forks, spoons, and knives for just a moment and take a healthy gulp of His presence. Do what the Samaritan woman did and just ask Him for that water. You will be glad you did!
Copyright © Paul Dailey, used with permission.
I call it soda. Some call it pop. Still others call it soda pop. There are a few who call everything that’s carbonated and caramelized either Coke or Pepsi, regardless of its flavor — unless it’s clear — and then it’s Sprite or 7-Up. Whatever your local vernacular mandates, I think you know what I’m talking about.
For many years now, Americans have had a torrid love affair with soda. There’s nothing that tastes better on a hot summer day than to come into the house from the sweltering heat, grab your favorite ice-cold soda, flop down on the couch, and just let the summer heat dissolve into that sweet carbonation.
As I was praying this morning, the Lord began to speak to me about “Spiritual Soda.” Don’t write me off as a nutcase just yet; stick with me. I have been feeling very dry lately with life in general. And it seems like the more I try to satiate my thirst, the thirstier I get. It’s as if some big joke is being played on me, and I don’t have the sense to stop and figure out what’s going on. But anyone who has ever felt that way and then gone to God for the answers can tell you, He always puts His finger on the problem and helps you work your way out of it.
He began to show me that all the things I was filling my life with, trying to quench my thirst, are like soda. You know what I mean. It tastes great at first and initially, you are satisfied. But within just a few minutes of finishing the first one, your mouth gets all pasty again and you need another drink. The more you drink, the thirstier you get.
God has created each human being with an innate desire to reach beyond ourselves for fulfillment. He knows, and every true believer in Jesus Christ knows, that thirst is satisfied only in Him.
Jesus, in speaking with the woman at the well, said,
“Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life” (
John 4:13-14 Jesus replied, "Anyone who drinks this water will soon become thirsty again. But those who drink the water I give will never be thirsty again. It becomes a fresh, bubbling spring within them, giving them eternal life." OPEN VERSE IN BIBLE (nlt)NIV).
Since Adam and Eve sinned and were thrust out of God’s perfect garden, mankind has been in an eternally futile struggle to replace our need for God’s living water with anything else. Satan is more than happy to oblige by inundating us with “soda” of every color and flavor. But God has been there all along, pleading with us, holding out His hands to us, longing for us to come back to Him. He knows, because He created us, that only His water can refresh us.
You may be saying the same thing the woman said to Jesus some 2,000 years ago: “Sir, give me this water so that I won't get thirsty and have to keep coming here to draw water.” Jesus is the Living Water. If you are thirsty and tired of chugging the spiritual soda that never really quenches your thirst, all you have to do is stop wherever you are and cry out to God from your heart. Everyone who sincerely looks for God will find Him.
"For the Lamb at the center of the throne will be their shepherd; 'he will lead them to springs of living water. And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes.'"
Come. Take a drink of the water God is offering to you.
Copyright © Paul Dailey. Used by permission.
Who would have ever thought that such a simple phrase could be so powerful? I have recently begun to discover, or perhaps rediscover, the power of thanksgiving. Have you ever been through one of those seasons when it seems like no matter how hard you climb, you just keep sinking further and further down into a bottomless pit of misery and confusion? How does the old adage go … “One step forward and two steps backward?” I’m sure you know what I mean.
Well, it was in the middle of a particularly hard day that I decided to give my dad a call. I got his voice mail because he and my mother were out of town celebrating their 32nd anniversary. I left a completely pitiful message. I was crying and complaining about how everything was falling apart. My budget was stretched tighter than Santa Claus’ waistband, which was putting an enormous strain on my marriage. It was beginning to affect our daughter because my wife and I were under so much stress. Worst of all, neither of us could see the light at the end of the tunnel. But how many of you can testify that God always makes a way when there doesn’t seem to be a way? Can I get an Amen?
Several days later, my dad finally caught up with me on my cell phone while I was at work. In hindsight, I can see that God orchestrated circumstances so that I had about 30 minutes alone. I was free so that my dad was able to share with me some great wisdom. Praise God for godly dads!
He began to speak to me about being thankful. He began to teach me that there is more to being thankful than just thanking God. He shared that it is possible to say “Thank You” without actually being a thankful person. Before I knew God, I thanked Him for what He did in my life. But as I have gotten to know Him, I spend more time thanking Him for who He is.
With every passing minute, the light in my soul began to shine brighter and brighter as God spoke through my dad. He was pouring His Words of grace and mercy over my heavy heart. Let me tell you! Within those 30 minutes, I became a different man. My dad asked me again, as he had on a previous occasion, “Do you want the money or do you want the faith?” Well, the right answer was obvious, albeit a little harder to grasp. Of course I wanted the faith. Any amount of money will always run out, but when you get a grip on real life-changing faith, you have tapped into a resource that makes a penny look like you’ve hit the jackpot.
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The same thing began to happen with my wife and me the very same day we set our hearts to thanksgiving. Not only did the cloud of despair and hopelessness lift immediately, but within one week, God orchestrated a $750 a month turnaround in our budget. As if that wasn’t enough, God set my wife free from a job she had grown to dislike and gave her three other job opportunities, with less hours, and significantly more money.
But before we saw any of this, I began to call all my friends and tell them how good the Lord had been to us. I wanted everyone to know what a loving, forgiving, gracious, compassionate, patient, merciful, kind, gentle, faithful, amazing, and wonderful God He is. David, the master Psalmist, wrote in
Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God. My soul is downcast within me; therefore I will remember you…
So, if you are facing a mountain in your life that seems insurmountable, just begin to worship God for His awesome glory and majesty. Many times, the only thing holding you back is your lack of thanksgiving. It is evidenced in the Word time and time again; when God’s people remember God and worship Him with thanksgiving, He begins to work on their behalf.
Dig back in your memory to those things He has been to you in the past. Thank Him for what He has already done and what He has promised He will do. I assure you, if you do this, the cloud will lift off your life and you will begin to see God’s promise of blessing come alive. That is “multiplication by the power of thank you.”
Have you ever felt like saying, “God, you’re wasting my time”? Unknowingly, I had developed this attitude toward the Lord in prayer. It happened very subtly and quite unintentionally, but nevertheless, it was there.
For some time I had felt the prompting of the Spirit of God to just slow down in prayer. You could probably quote
Yet, when it came to my prayer time, I was all about charging ahead, doing spiritual warfare, binding and loosing, shouting down the powers of darkness, and declaring the will of God into the earth. Now, don’t get me wrong. There is most certainly a place for this type of prayer. And, personally, that is part of my character because I really identify with the warrior mentality. But I had begun to neglect those times of real intimacy and quietness with the Lord.
My pastor recently returned from a week of services at the Toronto Airport Christian Fellowship, home to that great move of God that has reached around the globe and affected millions. The most profound thing he brought back was the concept of “soaking in the presence of God.” He began to describe how the Lord had used this trip to introduce him to a new level of prayer. It’s a place in God where we just shut down and listen to the Spirit. Rather than filling his time before God with all sorts of words, he would simply put on some quiet “soaking music” and lay at God’s feet.
I think at first I laughed him off. “Well, that’s all well and good for him but blah, blah, blah …” You know how we get when someone tries to introduce something new. We dismiss them as nutty and keep on with our old way of doing things. But I watched as his relationship with God went to a whole new level and his passion for God grew by the day while mine faded like an old pair of jeans.
That’s when life hit me. There I was, naked and broken before God. Where was my shouting? Where was my binding and loosing? Where was my charging toward the frontline? I had the wind knocked out of me, and my only recourse was to crawl to God on my hands and knees and plead for His mercy. I thought to myself, This soaking thing isn’t such a bad idea after all. I didn’t have the strength anymore to swing that sword even one more time.
So it was there on a Sunday night, while I lay on the floor at church, that I began to learn the value of just shutting up before God. And the most amazing thing happened! When I stopped talking, it became so much easier to hear God talk. “This is not wasted time,” He said. Over and over again, He kept telling me that. “This is not wasted time.” It was uncomfortable at first because I felt like I should be doing or saying something. But I couldn’t deny that after just an hour or so on my face before God, simply listening and soaking, I was changed. Something real and significant had taken place in my Spirit. I couldn’t put my finger on it, but neither could I deny it.
Then yesterday, while soaking in the presence of God again, the Spirit directed me to Mark chapter four. Jesus had just spent the afternoon speaking to the crowds in parables. The Word tells us that He didn’t say anything to them without using parables. But when He was alone with His disciples, He explained everything.
That was it! That’s why God was drawing me into these times of soaking. Without that intimate and quiet time alone with Jesus, the secrets of the kingdom of heaven remain a hazy mystery. So, this idea of soaking in God’s presence, a time that I viewed as unproductive, was actually the very thing I needed.
If you’ve been sensing a lack of power in your walk with God, or if you feel like you’re stuck in the mud, spinning your wheels but going nowhere, just get before God and soak a while. Don’t pray, don’t sing, don’t shout, march, declare, or proclaim. Put on some quiet worship music, and just lay there and listen to God.
Sure, you’ll be a little uncomfortable at first and your mind will wander, as mine did. But soon you’ll find yourself hearing God much more clearly. You’ll find that He will begin to explain things to you that before were mysteries. God is not wasting your time.
"Commit your way to the Lord, trust also in Him, and He shall bring it to pass. He shall bring forth your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noonday" (
Psalms 37:5-6 Commit everything you do to the LORD. Trust him, and he will help you. He will make your innocence radiate like the dawn, and the justice of your cause will shine like the noonday sun. OPEN VERSE IN BIBLE (nlt)).
We have those times in our lives when it seems we have stepped from sure footing onto shaky ground. Looking back, we find that everything seemed so certain. But in the present we feel like someone standing on a log in the middle of a river, frantically moving our feet this way and that, with our arms outstretched and trying to keep our balance.
I'm sure that's how Peter felt when he got out of the boat. Along with the other disciples, he was in a storm, but as a fisherman, he was used to that and the boat was a place of safety for him. It was familiar and required relatively little faith to stay in the boat. Despite his fear, he could go under his own strength and do what he knew to do in order to save himself. But the minute he stepped over the side of the boat and placed his foot solidly on the top of that first wave, he was in foreign territory.
Walking on water isn't something you do halfway. In the same way, you either commit totally to the Lord, or you don't. That's where God separates the men from the boys. (No offense ladies.) However unnerving it may be to find yourself standing in the most unlikely, unpredictable circumstances as Peter did, it's really a place of surety. When you put your trust in the Lord and commit to follow Him wherever He leads, you've actually stepped out of the boat and onto the solid rock. God will never allow you to utterly fall when you are living by faith.
Verse six of Psalm 37 says, "He shall bring forth your righteousness as the light." Abraham was counted righteous because of his faith. He left his normal routine in order to follow God's voice. From that day on, his life was changed. When his enemies attacked him, they were destroyed. When people tried to curse him, God cursed them. His life was indelibly etched into the tablets of history.
Copyright © Paul Dailey. Used by permission.
CBN.com Those of you who remember the Back to the Future movie trilogy of the mid-to late ‘80s may recall a scene toward the end of Part II with Dr. Emmett Brown, or Doc. He had traveled back in time from the 1950s to live out the remainder of his years in the Old West as a blacksmith, scientist, and general handyman. You may recall how he met Clara, the new schoolteacher in town, and began to win her heart through his awkward charm and knowledge of science, until a turn of events led to their breakup.
In a fit of depression, Doc wanders into the local saloon late at night and has the bartender pour him a shot of whiskey. He remains there all night long, spending hours upon hours with the same drink still in his hand, telling stories of the future, while the other patrons sit listening, amused by his description of life in the 20th century.
He begins to explain to them about “auto-mo-biles.” One old-timer asked him, “If everybody’s got one of these auto-mo-whatsits, does anybody walk or run anymore?” “Of course, they run,” Doc explains, “but for recreation -- for fun.” At that, the old-timer replies something to the effect of “Run for fun? What kind of fun is that?” Every time I think of that line, it makes me chuckle because that’s exactly how I feel about running.
As I was speaking to the teenagers at our church last night, I wanted to relay one point to them. Whether or not we like it, we are all running a race. Paul wrote in
However, I consider my life worth nothing to me, if only I may finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me—the task of testifying to the gospel of God's grace.
The Lord keeps telling me this over and over again. It doesn’t matter how well I start the race of faith. Millions of people start every day. What matters is how I finish. Anyone who has ever completed the grueling 26.2 miles of a marathon will tell you, every inch of those miles would be completely useless if the runner doesn’t cross the finish line. Likewise, if while running the race of life and fighting the good fight of faith, we don’t see it through to completion, we have gained nothing.
That is where the grace of God comes in. It’s inevitable that we will get tired. During his missionary travels, Paul encountered many trials. This is how he recounts those experiences:
We do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about the hardships we suffered in the province of Asia. We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired even of life. Indeed, in our hearts we felt the sentence of death…
But he continues in verse nine with these words,
…this happened that we might not rely on ourselves but on God, who raises the dead (
2 Corinthians 1:7-9 We are confident that as you share in our sufferings, you will also share in the comfort God gives us. We think you ought to know, dear brothers and sisters,* about the trouble we went through in the province of Asia. We were crushed and overwhelmed beyond our ability to endure, and we thought we would never live through it. In fact, we expected to die. But as a result, we stopped relying on ourselves and learned to rely only on God, who raises the dead. OPEN VERSE IN BIBLE (nlt)).
So if you are getting tired and you aren’t sure you have the strength to go another step, if you feel like you are almost dead, stop where you are, pull out your racing manual (The Bible), and see what God says about being refreshed. If you are tired, it is only because you have been trying to go on your own steam.
Even the great prophet Elijah needed nourishment from heaven to endure his long journey (
This race that God has given us to run is serious business. But it doesn’t have to be such drudgery. Unlike the old-timer’s sarcastic attitude, running can be fun. Who would argue that Jesus ran the best race that could be run and He was more joyful than anyone around Him? Obviously, He knew something about tapping into the abundance of heaven to accomplish His work.
That same abundance is available to you, right where you are. The grace of God is sufficient for you, but it can only be appropriated to your life through faith. So don't get weary by looking at the long race that's ahead of you. Look to Jesus and you will be able to endure to the end. Remember Paul's words to us:
I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us (
Romans 8:18 Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory he will reveal to us later. OPEN VERSE IN BIBLE (nlt)).
God bless you. Bless you. Gesundheit. Salud. Make sure you wipe that up when you’re finished. For every person there is a different response to the common sneeze.
It’s difficult to outline the roots of why we feel a need to say anything at all. Most likely, though, it comes from the ancient Romans. The Romans held the belief that when someone sneezed, that person was expelling evil spirits from his or her body. In reply, others would invoke some sort of blessing to wish the person luck in ridding himself or herself of the evil.
I started thinking about this today when a co-worker of mine sneezed and I instinctively said, “God bless you.” Those really are some powerful words. Do I realize what I’m saying when I ask the God of the entire universe to bless someone?
Well, it got me thinking about the whole sneeze thing, so I did some research just to make sure I had my facts straight. What a thing to research! I found out that, according to the dictionary, the act of sneezing is an attempt by the body to expel air to get rid of the irritating bodies (i.e., dust, pollen, strong perfume, etc).
This new vein of research follows directly on the heels of some especially forceful prayers of mine. I’ve been asking God frequently for a revelation of the cross of Christ. I keep expecting to have a dynamite, soul-shaking experience, but instead I’m finding that it comes little by little in a hundred different ways.
At this point you may be asking yourself, what in the world does sneezing have to do with a revelation of the cross? Let me explain.
When God fashioned Adam and Eve, they were absolutely sinless. Then within a short amount of time, Eve was deceived, Adam disobeyed, and sin sprang into the picture. Essentially, God now had this dreadful irritation to deal with. What was God’s solution? God’s answer was to send His son, Jesus, to die on the cross.
II Corinthians 5:21 says, “God made him who had no sin to be sin for us….”
Remember the definition, that the act of sneezing is an attempt by the body to expel air to get rid of the irritating bodies? Mark recorded the following concerning Jesus on the cross: “With a loud cry, Jesus breathed His last” (
Then think about another aspect: doesn’t it feel great when you stop sneezing? Your head seems a little clearer and your whole body just feels good -- even if it is just for a moment! It’s a purifying act. Because of the cross, we have been purified, times of refreshing come from God, and we embrace the cross and repent.
Peter preached to the crowd shortly after the day of Pentecost and implored them to do this very thing:
Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord ( ">
Acts 3:19 Now repent of your sins and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped away. OPEN VERSE IN BIBLE (nlt)).
So the next time someone near you lets go with one of those ogre-ish sneezes or even a dainty “sneezelet”, rather than merely doing your social duty, stop and pray that the Lord will open their eyes to see what Jesus accomplished for them on the cross. Take the opportunity to pray that they will repent and turn to God so they can know those times of refreshing.
And the next time you sneeze, remember to thank God for the real blessing, salvation purchased by Christ’s death and resurrection.
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