Joyce Zook is an international speaker, author and life coach who helps women create success and balance in their everyday lives. She is the author of 12 Keys for Marriage Success and encourages women with practical tips and wisdom based on biblical principles in her ministry at www.practicalchristianwoman.com. She is a Certified Professional Life and Marriage Coach, and, Board Certified Biblical Counselor. Joyce and her husband, Aaron, have been married for 36 years.
) I do the next thing He sets before me and remind myself that God is always in control.
"A person's steps are directed by the LORD. How then can anyone understand their own way?" Proverbs 20:24 NIV
We don’t know God’s reasons, nor are we able to see His plan. We do know He loves us and is working things for our good. (see
Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you," says the LORD. "They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.
OPEN VERSE IN BIBLE (nlt)
) Really Lord? Colds, tired and achy body, and then allowing me to trip and sprain my fingers? I don’t get what God’s plan is — and you may not understand your situation either.
Why or What
A good pastor and friend suggested that when things aren’t going our way, or the circumstances seem out of control, we ought to ask “What’s Next?”
When we ask God, “Why Me?” we intimate that we think we know better than God what is best for our lives. In time, God may show us the reasons why we go through certain situations. But for now, what we need to know is what to do next.
Slow down and listen for God to answer the “What’s next?” question.
"Be still, and know that I am God... " Psalm 46:10 KJV
Maybe today, being still is sitting with ice on my hand for 20 minutes each hour.
What has God allowed in your life today? Are you still asking God, “Why me?” or are you ready to say “What’s next Lord?”
Pity Parties are easy. It’s takes courage, patience, and maturity to listen and follow God’s directions instead.
