Diane Markins wrote and spoke in a "high def, life-transforming style" about issues that impact daily living. She hosted Bold Living radio show, was a speaker and writer. She enjoyed travel and had been from Mexico to Zimbabwe but always loved coming home to roost in Arizona near her family. Diane went home to be with Jesus on July 31st, 2019.
CBN.com Coyotes frequently show up on my street. No, I don’t live in the middle of Montana, I live smack in the middle of Phoenix—a major metropolis. But my neighborhood is bordered by a desert mountain preserve, and since there is no giant wall with a Keep Out sign posted, wildlife and city dwellers often cross paths. My sweet, aging tabby (Bagheera—we called him Baggie) was snatched from our front yard a couple years ago by one of these hungry hunters, never to be seen again.
This can present a problem in that many of us city folk have beloved pets stashed away in our homes and yards. We have the illusion that they are safe but the truth is that a coyote can, and will, jump a six foot fence without breaking stride to get a tasty morsel you affectionately know as Mitzy. Red Tail hawks and Great Horned Owls are also out scouting for sustenance and can swoop down from the sky right into a fenced back yard to grab an eight pound kitty or even a ten pound dog. This was recently demonstrated by the fact that Lucy, an 11 1/2 –pound terrier mutt survived an owl attack because she was just a bit too heavy to be carried away like Toto.
The common thread is that these predators hunt stealthily for food and don’t care about your love affair with it. They also don’t know that it is supposed to be protected.
Just as we are lulled into a false sense of security about our pets’ safety, we often forget that there are hazards all around us that threaten our existence too. They come in the form of busyness that can snatch our attention from our family; fear that can keep us from trying something new; materialism that can cause us to lose perspective; lust which can damage our marriage; pride which can cause us to put ourselves ahead of others and hopelessness which can diminish our faith and rob our joy. says, “The thief comes only to kill, steal and destroy.”
These marauders are just as treacherous as any wily coyote or cunning hawk. They are also insidious. They sneak up on us and we never see them enter our life but they are a serious threat all the same. Prevention is clear; “Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature.”
Just as pet lovers in my ‘hood have to take extra precautions, there are things we can all do to prevent the destructive powers of skewed thinking. Create a checklist and ask yourself these questions periodically:
Those questions (and others that come to mind) are the hardware you need to build a protective wall around your heart and mind. Preventing attacks is much wiser (and less painful) than treating a wounded life.
Any personal encounters with one of the natural enemies listed above? I’ve had plenty!
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Diane Markins writes and speaks in a "high def, life-transforming style" about issues that impact daily living.She is the host of Women in High Def radio show, but is also a speaker and writer. She enjoys travel and has been from Mexico to Zimbabwe but always loves coming home to roost in Arizona near her family. See more of her writing at DianeMarkins.com.
Does your prayer time seem a little lack-luster on occasion? I know mine does. God wants to hear from us. He expects us to show up and delights in the minutes we give solely to him. But once in a while it starts to feel a bit contrived and obligatory… going through the motions.
When this happens to me, I change things up. I let God speak to me, through me. Yeah, I know… you’re thinking, “What did she just say?”
When I’ve done the usual: praising, examining my life, sharing it all with the Lord and still feel like I’m in the room alone - I try letting Him talk to me. Based on many years of reading the Bible and getting to know God’s ways, I speak out loud to me as though Jesus were uttering the words. If we follow what it says in "> , this becomes second nature:
“Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus.”
It may sound a little wacky, but there have been times God has revealed a deep truth, brought renewed joy, increased my faith, and healed my wounded spirit through my own voice using His mind. says,
“For who has known the mind of the Lord that he may instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ.”
I simply give voice to what I believe God is telling me through His word.
But what if you don’t have the time or place to be alone and share a verbal dialog with God? Write a letter from the Lord to you. It seems that just the right measure of encouragement, wisdom, conviction, and peace will begin to appear on the paper as you allow your Father to speak intimately to you.
This is an example:
My precious child,
I am here. You are not alone. I have held you in my hands for all of the days of your life. I will move mightily and you will be amazed. Do not fear, do not doubt, trust in me and know that I am God. Be patient, I am working things you will never understand, and I am.
Dear one, turn your heart to me, and remember that I am not against you. I find you in my favor and because of where you are I will be able to move mountains. Do not question me, but allow me to work in my way in my timing. (Reprinted with permission from Ally Johnson.)
Your words may not be as beautiful or poetic as Ally’s but they will reflect your personality and God’s heart; the message a very private one, for your eyes only.
If you’re new to this journey of Christian faith and maybe don’t know too much about God’s character or what He might say to you, dig in and begin finding out. Maybe a book of Bible promises will help jump-start the process.
While the Lord cherishes hearing our praises and requests, He also longs to speak to us, saying exactly what we need to hear.
Copyright Diane Markins. Used by permission.
Seems like yesterday it was Spring and now it’s Summer-with-a-vengeance. That’s how it happens in Phoenix. I was raised right here in this blazing city but still struggle with the sweltering heat every year. Our vehicles sizzle as we enter them, the sun fries our skin if we aren’t fully covered in SPF 50 and clothing options are limited. Comfort wins over style as we don shorts and sleeveless tops.
Last year I realized I had spent my entire life of summers complaining about the heat. We all do it. Casual conversations with store clerks, waitresses and friends are riddled with short comments about how hot it is. I decided to make a promise to myself that I wasn’t going to utter any more negative comments about the rising mercury. It took discipline and intention, but I had a lot of success. "> says,
“Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not be.”
When I’d slip and the H word would bounce out of my mouth I’d quickly change the subject.
Guess what happened? I actually didn’t notice the debilitating heat quite so much. My mind was learning a new way of thinking; I was retraining my thoughts to move away from the heat so that my conversation didn’t drift there.
This can be applied to any issue we tend to be bothered by and give undue negative attention.
“If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit.” ( "> )
Do you think people don’t know it’s hot? You’re not enlightening them. Do you think they are encouraged that you hate it too? It probably doesn’t ease the discomfort.
But if you smile and talk about pleasant things you might divert their attention to a more cheerful topic and get a smile in return. Our words wield great power and they are typically generated by our attitudes and thoughts. If we purposely take our thoughts captive (“Put on the mind of Christ”) and don’t spew out the junk that sometimes surfaces, we can be a vessel of kindness and positive influence. Negative attitudes and complaints are contagious but encouragement is even more so.
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“Whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely and admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”
…and we usually speak about what we’re thinking, so this way of thinking will edify others.
If not the heat, what thought do you sometimes dredge up and share with others? Are you willing to do the work and replace that with a new way of thinking and interacting? The investment will be worth it.
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God has made it possible for you to know Him and experience an amazing change in your own life. Discover how you can find peace with God.You can also send us your prayer requests or chat online with the CBN Prayer Team
Diane Markins writes and speaks in a "high def, life-transforming style" about issues that impact daily living. She is the host of Women in High Def radio show, but is also a speaker and writer. She enjoys travel and has been from Mexico to Zimbabwe but always loves coming home to roost in Arizona near her family. See more of her writing at DianeMarkins.com.
At church, we look around and may think all those people in the seats around us are holy, spiritual, and wise. They never use bad language, over-indulge at a party, get really mad at their spouse, yell at their kids, complain about their jobs, or watch junk on TV.
Take a closer look. Each and every person sitting in those seats is human and has as many temptations, weaknesses, and personality flaws as you.
If you come to church with this illusion, take the blinders off. If you come to church and try to create this illusion about yourself, take the mask off. The only way we can truly know each other as brothers and sisters in Christ is to be who we really are and let it show.
"And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full.” (NIV)
There is always room for improvement and the pursuit of Godliness should be a key part of everyone’s life, but there is no room for “perfect Christians” in our church. That’s because they don’t exist this side of Heaven.
Following is an excerpt from a post in the blog of Holly Pelz (used with permission):
…I’ve gone almost my whole life feeling like a failure of a Christian. I always understood my spiritual success to be measured by an unspoken set of rules, and if I did ABCD, I’d be considered a good Christian.
I knew everything about how to appear Godly — how to act, how to worship, pray, respond with “God” answers, etc. I wanted to fit in with the Christian community, but somehow never felt good enough. Eventually, this false me took over completely and I lived in it fully, deceiving even myself at times.
In this existence, I always experienced a significant amount of spiritual envy. I looked at the people around me, wondering what the secret was, how they could be experiencing God so intimately. And I lived with fear. Fear that people might see right through me.
And now ... I’m done. The façade of “everything being great, I’ve got it together, I’m a really spiritual person, etc” is exhausting. For the first time in my life, I believe I’m experiencing freedom in Christ, freedom from guilt and freedom in who I am. ... My time with God might be a little unconventional, I might go through phases where I feel like an inconsistent mess, and I WILL make mistakes — but it’s okay. I’m okay.
At church (and with church friends), more than any other place, we need to be real and seek authenticity in others. If people are putting you on a pedestal, you only have one way to go: down. If you are admiring or idolizing some “spiritual giant” you will surely be disappointed.
says, “But godliness with contentment is great gain.” (NIV)
As we open our lives up and let God’s light shine on it for others to see, they will be more inclined to reciprocate. Timothys will ask for guidance and Pauls will freely offer wisdom as Christ-centered friendships emerge.
Mistakes and failings make us "experts” in helping others avoid the same pitfalls. Only then does the Lord see us as genuinely seeking holiness. That is the measure of real faith and the beginning of spiritual freedom.
Copyright © Diane Markins. Used by permission.
