WHEN I MARRIED MY HUSBAND I MADE A VOW TO GOD TO BE WITH HIM FOREVER. HE MADE THAT VOW BUT ADMITS IT WAS A LIE. AM I BOUND TO STAY MARRIED TO HIM? HE HAS DONE LOTS OF THINGS THAT ARE DESPICABLE AND I CAN'T LOVE HIM ANYMORE; WHAT DOES GOD SAY ... ...
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Welcome back to The 700 Club.
And it's time for your questions
and some honest answers.
This viewer writes in,
"When I married my husband,
I made a vow to God to
be with him forever.
He made that vow but
admits it was a lie.
Am I bound to stay
married to him?
He has done lots of
things that are despicable
and I can't love him anymore;
what does God say about that?"
Pat--
Well, God says that
marriage is forever.
But I don't know--
as a lawyer, we
have a term called
fraud in the inducement--
fraud in the inducement.
And if there was fraud
in the inducement,
the contract doesn't
pertain, because you
were induced to
enter into a contract
under fraudulent premises.
I tell you what, your husband
has done despicable things,
you said?
Does despicable mean that he
is having affairs with people?
If he does, adultery is a
ground that we know for sure.
This whole matter of
marriage and divorce
is really a difficult
problem that people
are dealing with today.
And it is so pervasive,
I don't think
getting married is a contract
to enter into a life of torment
and torture.
It should be a
joyous experience.
And what God has joined together
let not man put asunder.
But has God joined you together?
You said there was a
lie in the inducement.
When you first got married,
your husband was lying to you.
He's now done, quote,
despicable things.
What does that mean?
I don't know what you
mean by despicable.
If it includes fornication,
if it includes adultery,
then that's a clear
scriptural ground.
I don't know what else they are.
You'd have to tell me
more that I could give you
a clear answer on.
All right?
It doesn't sound good, though.
PAT ROBERTSON: It
doesn't sound--
what a horrible marriage.
Horrible guy--
I don't like him.
[LAUGHTER]
Well I'm trying to--
you don't like him?
I don't know him,
but I don't like him.
[CHUCKLING]
WENDY GRIFFITH: Anyway--
well, God help him.
That's all I'm gonna say.
PAT ROBERTSON: All right.
All right.
Katie writes in, "I
have been told recently
from another
Christian that it is
possible to lose your salvation
after you accept Christ
if you turn away from
God and sin against him.
I have an uncle that came
into a relationship with God,
but turned away from
his Christian faith,
and now is into
eastern spirituality.
Did he lose his salvation?
What do you have
to say about this?
PAT ROBERTSON: Um-- the Bible
says that if apostatizes,
there is no more
salvation for them.
Is your uncle
committing apostasy?
It sounds like he is.
He's turning his life--
I mean, he's turning
his back on Jesus.
He's counting the blood of
Christ as a despised thing.
And he's turning to
this eastern religion.
It isn't for me to say whether
he has lost his salvation
or not.
But I will say, he's
in danger of it.
And can he lose it under
those circumstances?
Absolutely.
You know, I know somebody
who went off-- was a Christian,
then went off to the new
age for about a year,
lived in a commune,
and came back.
Because the husband never
stopped praying for the wife--
came back stronger than ever.
So there is hope, at least.
PAT ROBERTSON: Oh,
of course there is.
But yeah-- but if, like you
said, if you turn your back,
it's not gonna be good.
You turn the back on the Lord.
But yes, there's always hope.
Absolutely-- absolutely.
OK.
Vinnie says, I have forgiven my
dad for my childhood traumas.
Why do I still face
depression and anxiety?
What exactly would cure me?
PAT ROBERTSON: You know,
I hate to tell you,
I'm not a psychiatrist.
And I'd have to get to
know you better to tell you
what's wrong with you.
Those early traumas--
I don't know
what your father did to you.
But the biggest thing in
your life is to forgive.
You know, when you stay
and pray, the Bible says,
if you have ought
against any, forgive,
that your Heavenly
Father may forgive you.
If you want to enter
into the power of God,
forgive the trauma that
your father created.
Whatever he did to
you-- and I don't
know what it was-- whatever
it was, you forgive him.
Because you're not
hurting him by having
a grudge in your heart.
But you are hurting yourself.
OK.
All right.
Charlotte says, I was recently
invited to a startup church.
And during the service,
I was introduced.
The pastor said that
there are things I'm
going to do within the church.
That grabbed my attention.
Yet it was my first visit.
And I felt pressured.
He also preached that it is
a sin not to come to church.
Is this true?
PAT ROBERTSON: Well,
look, the Bible
says don't forsake the assembly
of yourselves together.
But is it a sin not to go
to church on Sunday morning?
I don't see that it is.
Assembling together
is whatever--
coming together in the
Lord, and not showing up
with that man's church.
I think that he has a revelation
about you that may be faulty.
I don't think you need to alter
your life after the revelation,
so-called, of somebody else.
You know, God will give you--
he knows how to speak to you.
He knows who you are, where you
live, and what your name is.
And he can speak to you clearly.
So let him talk to you.
Don't let somebody
else tell you what
you are supposed to be doing.
I think that's very important.