IS GOING BEFORE THE CHURCH AND GETTING MARRIED BUT AVOIDING A LICENSE VIOLATING THE LAW? IN HEAVEN, WILL PEOPLE REMEMBER HAPPENINGS IN THEIR LIFE THAT THEY DON'T WANT TO REMEMBER?
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And welcome back
to "The 700 Club."
It's time to bring it on
with your email questions.
We're going to
start with Carl, who
write, "Did I understand your
statement on a previous show
correctly that couples
living together,
avoiding the social
security law,
should go before the church
and get married and forget
about a license because
it's only a piece of paper?
If so, is the minister
violating the law?
I agree with your
idea, but I want
to make sure I wouldn't be
breaking the law by doing so."
There's no law to break
about getting married.
I mean, you know, you can get
married and say, I'm married.
Well, what I was
saying, essentially,
is that you need to
solemnify a relationship.
Just living together doesn't
fulfill the biblical mandate
of marriage.
You need to have something
where you commit yourself
to your spouse and
it's solemnified.
But as I say,
before God you don't
have to go down to a clerk
at a court and get a license.
And I don't think
you're breaking
any law because of that.
I mean, you say, I married.
Well, OK, you're married.
And let them
determine you're not.
[LAUGHING] All right, what else?
All right, Terry
says, "Hi, Pat.
In heaven, will people remember
happenings in their life
that they don't
want to remember?"
I have a feeling
that there will
be no tears and no
sorrow in heaven.
And the Bible talks about the
sea of God's forgetfulness.
I think the thing
about heaven is we're
going to be spiritual beings.
And we're going to be
in the presence of God.
And we're going
to be so consumed
with the joy of the glory of
God that all this stuff is
going to fail in this--
fade into insignificance.
Right now, it's such a big deal.
All right, I lied
on my taxes or I
stole money or I cheated on
my wife or whatever you did.
All that is just
not going to have
any significance in
heaven, because we'll
be in the presence of God,
and it will be so glorious.
And I think that's
the focus of our life,
not will we carry
over those memories.
I don't know if we will
or not, but chances are,
God can cause us to forget.
And He says there won't
be any sorrow, any tears.
So if you've got
regret and sorrow,
that means that He'll take
away the things that cause when
you're in heaven, all right?
Amen.
All right, this viewer
says, "Dear Pat,
the Bible says in
Isaiah 53:2, 'He
grew up before him like
a tender shoot and like
a root out of dry ground.
He had no beauty or majesty
to attract us to him,
nothing in his appearance
that we should desire him.'
This was referring
to our Lord Jesus.
So I wonder, why wasn't
Jesus fair to look at?
He was God, so why did God
come and become so ordinary?
Was that a part of him humbling
himself from a glorious God
into fully human
but also fully God?"
As one part of the Bible--
I think-- was it 53rd
of Isaiah that said,
he was beaten so badly he
didn't even look human.
He was so badly beaten, I
think this one of the things
that Mel Gibson
got in that series
he did on "The Passion
of the Christ."
But it was so bad he
didn't even look human.
He had no form of comeliness
that we should desire him.
He wasn't some Adonis,
this beautiful guy
with this big physique and
all these pretty stuff.
But he was humble and like
a root under dry ground.
I mean, he was subject
to the vagaries of life.
He was born in a stable, and
he had none of the majesty
that you would associate with
royalty and wealth and power
and all that, because that's
the way God wanted him.
So we can identify, I can
identify with the Savior
who was born in a stable.
I have a hard time
identifying with some,
you know, superman with all
kinds of muscles and beauty.
He didn't have that,
and that was God's plan.
So what we desire is the
spirit that was in him, not
his outward appearance.
Good answer.
All right, Carol
says, "I have been
and am currently on
antidepressants for 45 years.
My first husband had a hot
temper, and after 27 years,
I left him.
I married someone else
who turned out to be just
like my first husband.
I have no hope left.
How do I continue living with
a man who has a horrible temper
day in and day out?
Luckily, we don't
have any kids."
I think there's something
psychologically wrong
with you that you desire
some guy who'd abuse you.
You're drawn to the
same kind of person.
I'm not sure that your
second marriage has validity.
I don't know why you got
divorced the first time
and whether this one
has any validity at all.
But-- so I don't know
enough about you,
but I would say
that you don't need
to live in a situation
that is hell on Earth.
You don't have to be tortured.
You don't have to be abused.
You don't have to
set yourself up
because of some rule that
says you can't get divorced,
all right?
I mean, Jesus loves
her and wants her to be
free from that depression.
I think that's exactly it.
All right.
OK, Joellen says,
"My doctor wants
to put me on a statin drug.
I know you've talked about
these drugs in the past.
However, can you please
remind me why they are so bad?
I need to know before I go in
for my follow-up appointment."
All right, the drug
companies have sold statins
like a kid eating candy.
It's unbelievable how many
of them have been prescribed.
Look, what do statins do?
Number one, they take away
CoQ10, which is a heart health
vitamin you desperately need.
So you're setting
yourself to a heart attack
when you take statins.
The next thing is,
almost invariably they
cause terrific muscle
pain and aches and pains.
You feel like you're old
and you got arthritis.
They are not good
things for you.
There are many ways-- and
you know, this obsession
with lowering cholesterol, we're
not sure we need cholesterol.
I mean, our brain works
off fat and cholesterol.
It's good for us.
And so there's been this
obsession with cholesterol.
But there are other ways.
My wife takes something
called red yeast rice, which
is a natural form that the
liver responds to and doesn't
take statins.
I say you just can't
take those things,
because they make
you suffer and hurt.
And I think it's an abomination
that they push these things
on patients by the millions.
And sure, if you're
a cardiologist
and you think somebody's
cholesterol should be lowered,
well, then that's
a worthy thing.
But there are many
ways of doing it.
For example, dark chocolate
lowers cholesterol.
There are other
ways that you can
get your cholesterol under
control without taking statins.
There are natural
ways of doing it.
So, I just--
I'm anti-statin,
ladies and gentlemen,
even though the drug companies
probably won't like it.