I DIVORCED MY HUSBAND, AM I STILL MARRIED IN THE SIGHT OF GOD? IS IT ACCEPTABLE TO GET MARRIED ON A SUNDAY? HOW CAN I DEAL WITH MY ADOPTIVE FAMILY FALLING APART?
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Well, guess what, it's time
for your email questions,
and we're going to
get right to it.
Martha writes in,
she says, "Hi Pat,
I divorced my husband
after years of infidelity,
and a child was born
from that adultery.
Also, my marriage was a mentally
abusive relationship that left
me and my children homeless.
Am I still married to this
person in the sight of God?
I know that the Bible
speaks of the divorced
wife, and any man who gets
with her is an adulteress.
Please help me to get an
understanding of this."
Look, the exemption that
Jesus gave is very clear,
is except for the
cause of infidelity.
Your husband was
committing adultery.
When he did, he broke the
marriage relationship,
and you, as a woman, are
not bound any longer.
That marriage is over.
You know, you're still married?
No, you're not.
He broke it, and that
adultery broke it.
And the other stuff he
did would, you know,
be intolerable.
So you're free.
If the Lord gives you
another spouse, by all means,
enter into the relationship
knowing you are free.
Amen.
All right.
This one from Mary,
she says, "I know
this is probably a silly
question, but my fiance
and I are setting
our wedding date,
and we've been
considering a Sunday.
Is it acceptable in God's eyes
to get married on a Sunday,
since that is the day we
should set aside only for him?"
Well, I think to solemnify
your marriage on a Sunday
would be very appropriate.
[LAUGHING] I see
no reason why not.
I think-- marriage
is a sacrament.
It is one of the holy moments
where you place yourself
in the sight of God.
So what would be a
more appropriate thing
to do, on the Lord's
day, than to enter
into that wonderful union
that he's going to bless.
And to get that blessing
on Sunday, by all means.
Most weddings aren't
on Sunday though,
for some reason or other.
Maybe it conflicts
with church services.
You can't get a church.
But most of them are on
Saturday or some other time.
Yeah, most are on Saturdays.
I've heard of a few on
Friday, but yeah, it
is unusual to have it on Sunday.
But--
The churches aren't available.
People get married in church.
They can't-- there's
no church available,
because they're having service.
All right.
Looks like you've got
permission for Sunday there.
OK.
PAT ROBERTSON: [LAUGHING] Yeah.
All right.
Shelley says, "Just wondering,
Jesus is the great physician,
so when we ask for healing,
why would he only heal
one thing instead of
the multitude of things
wrong in our bodies?
I have several
medical issues, Pat,
and you tell us to put
our hands on the area
where we need healed.
I would need several extra
hands to accomplish this.
Thank you."
I tell you, just put
your hand over your head,
and receive it as the
head of your whole body.
And just declare that
my whole body is healed.
The Lord will do whatever you
ask, because he loves you.
And it doesn't have to
be, well, my eye hurts,
and he gets to heal that.
But you wonder
sometimes, really,
when somebody does get
specifically healed,
why the Lord didn't do it all.
But sometimes he does,
sometimes he doesn't.
So he's in charge, you know.
All I got to say is
I just stand in awe
of the fact he'll do any of it.
But by all means, ask
for what you want.
Ask and you shall receive,
that your joy might be full.
WENDY GRIFFITH: Amen.
I like the word Shalom.
It means nothing
missing, nothing broken,
perfect wholeness.
So I just pray Shalom.
BOTH: Shalom.
PAT ROBERTSON: I like that.
All right.
WENDY GRIFFITH: All right.
PAT ROBERTSON: Nothing
healed, nothing broke--
OK, this is from faith.
She says, "My mom and dad
haven't gotten along for years
now.
Yesterday, in a small
argument, my mom
banned my dad from
coming to see us.
I already lost my birth
mom, and my birth father
abandoned me at a young age.
How can I deal with my adopted
family crumbling apart?"
Hm.
It's very hard.
It's very hard
for a young person
to try to change the way
adults around them act.
And I don't know
how young you are
or how old they are, but it
really rips the kid apart
to see--
you know, I remember two of
my children, one was saying,
well, I love daddy, and the
others say, I love mommy,
and the other one said,
I love mommy and daddy.
And I think that's
the way that--
we yearn to love our parents,
and if they're tearing apart,
all I can say is pray.
And maybe you could
talk to them and say,
would you do it for me,
could you love each other?
You know, a little
child should lead them.
Talking about the
millennium time,
that's a little
child with animals,
but nevertheless, the
example of a little child
can have a huge
impact on people.
All right, one last--
All right.
Ann writes in, she
says, "The Bible
says that you have to be
born of the water and Spirit
to enter the kingdom of heaven.
It also says that whoever calls
on my name in the last days
shall be saved.
This verse doesn't say anything
about the water and the Spirit.
I don't understand.
Can you please
explain this to me?"
Well, I think in an
emergency situation, whoever
calls upon the name
the Lord will be saved.
I mean, you got a crisis and the
world is collapsing around you,
and you say, oh God, save me.
And God will hear your prayer,
and you haven't got time
to get baptized.
But I think the whole
idea of water and spirit
has to do, you know,
when a woman is pregnant
and she gets ready
to give birth,
there's a bursting of waters.
And there's more symbolism
involved than that
than just merely baptism.
And I think that the initial
early birth is one thing.
We were born of
flesh and blood, then
we were born of the Spirit.
So the Bible has all
kinds of symbolism
to talk about what's
happening to us,
because it is a
spiritual experience.
It's very hard to get
words to describe it all.
And so Jesus is
basically saying,
if you're not renewed
in this fashion,
you can't enter
the Kingdom of God.