Author Gary Thomas shares the one word that can radically change your marriage. Plus, a prison cell proves to be the breeding ground for truth for one female felon.
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COMING UP...THE PLAN TO
BUILD THE THIRD JEWISH
TEMPLE AND FULFILL
BIBLICAL PROPHECY ALONG
THE WAY.
> THEN...MARRIAGE EXPERT
AND BEST-SELLING AUTHOR
GARY THOMAS SHARES THE WAY
TO TURN ANY RELATIONSHIP
AROUND.
> PLUS...A SINGLE MOM
TAKES ON THE FEDS.
WHO AM I TO GO UP
AGAINST THE UNITED STATES?
I CAN'T WIN THIS.
ON TODAY'S "700 CLUB."
*
Pat: WELL, IT'S BACK
TO WORK AFTER WHAT I HOPE
WAS A PLEASANT MEMORIAL
DAY WEEKEND, AS WE HONORED
THE FALLEN MEN AND WOMEN
OF OUR ARMED FORCES OVER
THE YEARS.
IT USED TO BE MEMORIAL DAY
HAD TO DO WITH THE CIVIL
WAR.
NOW IT IS ALL OF THE OTHER
WARS WE FOUGHT.
AND IT WAS A DAY OF
REMEMBRANCE, AND FOR THAT
I'M GRATEFUL.
I'M SURE YOU HAD A GOOD
TIME.
WE ALL DID.
BUT THEN WE WAKE UP TO
HEADLINES THAT SAY
CATASTROPHIC.
THAT'S HOW THE SECRETARY
OF DEFENSE DESCRIBED A
POSSIBLE WAR WITH NORTH
KOREA OVER ITS NUCLEAR
WEAPONS PROGRAM.
STILL, IT SEEMS LIKE
NOTHING WILL STOP THE
NORTH FROM BUILDING THOSE
WEAPONS AND POSSIBLY THE
WILL AND THE TECHNOLOGY TO
CARRY THEM ALL THE WAY TO
THE MAINLAND OF THE UNITED
STATES.
Terry: SO THE DEFENSE
DEPARTMENT IS TESTING A
MISSILE DEFENSE PROGRAM
TODAY TO SEE IF IT CAN
STOP A NORTH KOREAN ATTACK
ON AMERICA.
CHARLENE AARON HAS THE
STORY.
Charlene: THE
PREVIOUSLY SCHEDULED U.S.
MISSILE DEFENSE TEST COMES
AFTER NORTH KOREA FIRED
OFF YET ANOTHER MISSILE
MONDAY.
PYONGYANG LAUNCHED A SCUD
CLASS MISSILE INTO THE SEA
OFF ITS EAST COAST.
IT IS THE LATEST IN A
FAST-PACED SERIES OF
MISSILE TEST, DEFYING
INTERPRESSURE.
SOUTH YEAR SAYS IT LOOKS
LIKE THE NORTH PLANS TO GO
AHEAD WITH ITS NUCLEAR
WEAPONS AND MISSILES
PROGRAMS, IN MATTER WHAT
THE REST OF THE WORLD
THINKS.
Through Translator:
THE BALLISTIC MISSILE
FIRING THIS TIME SEEMS TO
REVEAL THE NORTH'S
WILLINGNESS TO BUILD ITS
CAPACITY IN NUCLEAR
MISSILES, DESPITE
SANCTIONS AND PRESSURE
FROM THE INTERNATIONAL
COMMUNITY.
Charlene: AND THE
U.S. AND SOUTH KOREA
CONDUCTED A JOINT EXERCISE
ON MONDAY, INVOLVING B1-B
BOMBERS.
THE DRILL INVOLVING
B1-Bs IS THE SECOND THIS
MONTH.
AND PRESIDENT TRUMP
CONDEMNED THE DEFIANT
REGIME IN THE NORTH,
TWEETING: "NORTH KOREA HAS
SHOWN GREAT DISRESPECT FOR
THEIR NEIGHBOR CHINA, BY
SHOOTING OFF YET ANOTHER
BALLISTIC MISSILE, BUT
CHINA IS TRYING HARD."
THE PRESIDENT TOLD REUTERS
LAST MONTH THAT A MAJOR
CONFLICT WITH NORTH KOREA
WAS POSSIBLE.
HE SAID HE PREFERRED A
DIPLOMATIC SOLUTION, BUT
HE ADDED THAT WOULD BE
VERY DIFFICULT.
AND IF A DIPLOMATIC
SOLUTION ISN'T POSSIBLE,
WHAT WOULD A WAR WITH
NORTH KOREA LOOK LIKE?
DEFENSE SECRETARY JAMES
MATTIS TOLD CBS, IT WOULD
BE -- PEOPLE
PROBABLY THE WORST KIND
OF FIGHTING IN MOST
PEOPLE'S LIFE TIMES.
Charlene: AND MATTIS
ALSO WARNED THAT A
POSSIBLE BATTLE WITH NORTH
KOREA WOULD PLACE U.S.
ALLIES IN THE REGION AT
EXTREME RISK, AND HE
WARNED OF THE CONSEQUENCES
OF SUCH A CONFLICT.
THE BOTTOM LINE IS: IT
WOULD BE A CATASTROPHIC
WAR IF THIS TURNS INTO
COMBAT.
IF WE'RE NOT ABLE TO
RESOLVE THIS SITUATION
THROUGH DIPLOMATIC MEANS.
Charlene: CHARLENE
AARON, CBN NEWS.
Pat: WELL, IS THERE
ANY OTHER WAY OUT OF IT?
YOU KNOW, YEARS AGO I WAS
STATIONED IN CAREER. KOREA, DURING
THE SO-CALLED KOREAN WAR.
THAT WAS THE TIME
MCCARTHUR SAID, LET'S GO
WIPE THEM OUT.
AND TRUMAN SAID, NO, WE'LL
INCITE CHINA AND WE'LL
HAVE A MAJOR WAR.
SO WE DIDN'T FOLLOW HIS
ADVICE, AND WE SHOULD
HAVE.
WHAT CAN WE DO?
IS THERE SOME WAY WE CAN
GO IN THERE AND DECAPITATE
THAT REGIME, AND TAKE OUT
KIM JONG-UN?
THAT'S A POSSIBILITY, BUT
DIFFICULT, TO SAY THE
LEAST.
A SUICIDE MISSION.
BUT SOMETHING HAS GOT TO
BE DONE BECAUSE IF THEY
DROP A NUKE ON SAN
FRANCISCO OR LOS ANGELES
OR SOME PLACE IN ALASKA,
THE CONSEQUENCES WILL BE
SIMPLY OVERWHELMING.
THE GRIEF WILL BE
HORRENDOUS.
BUT IF THEY START A WAR
AGAINST SEOUL, THEY CAN
DESTROY SEOUL KOREA, WHICH
IS RIGHT NEAR THE BORDER,
AND HAS ALL OF THESE
HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF
INNOCENT CIVILIANS.
IT IS A TERRIBLE CHOICE TO
HAVE TO FACE FOR OUR
LEADERS.
WE'VE ALLOWED THAT GUY TO
GET TO THIS POINT.
THERE WAS A TIME WE COULD
HAVE STOPPED HIM, BUT WE
KEPT PLAYING WITH HIM AND
PLAYING WITH HIM.
IT'S LIKE YOU HAVE A COBRA
IN YOUR BACKYARD AND YOU
WANT TO PLAY WITH IT AND
MAKE IT A PET.
IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY.
THIS MAN IS VICIOUS.
HE IS CRAZY.
HE IS PSYCHOPATHIC.
HE HAD HIS OWN RELATIVES
MURDERED.
AND HE WOULDN'T HESITATE
TO TAKE OUT A LARGE PORKS
PORTION OF THE AMERICAN
POPULATION AND HE WOULD
GLOAT IN THE PROCESS.
> THE BRUTAL TERRORISTS
FROM ISIS HAVE STRUCK
AGAIN.
THIS TIME WITH A DEADLY
CAR BOMB IN BAGHDAD.
JOHN JESSUP HAS THAT.
John: THAT'S RIGHT,
PAT.
IN ADDITION TO THAT
ATTACK, THERE WAS A SECOND
CAR BOMBING AS WELL.
MORE THAN 30 ARE DEAD FROM
BOTH OF THE ATTACKS.
ISIS HAS CLAIMED
RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE CAR
BOMB THAT EXPLODE OUTSIDE
A POPULAR ICE CREAM SHOP
IN CENTRAL BAGHDAD.
THE SECOND CAR BOMB KILLED
12 PEOPLE IN THE DOWNTOWN
AREA OF THE CITY WHEN A
CAR FILLED WITH EXPLOSIVES
WENT OFF DURING RUSH-HOUR.
THE ATTACKS COME AS ISIS
IS STEADILY LOSING MORE
TERRITORY IN THE BATTLE
FOR MOSUL, WHICH HAS BEEN
ISIS' DEFACTO CAPITAL IN
IRAQ.
> THE PHILIPPINE
MILITARY SAYS THE RADICALS
INCLUDE FOREIGN FIGHTERS
AND LOCAL GUNMEN.
AND NOW THE MILITARY IS
CONDUCTING AIRSTRIKES,
TRYING TO REGAIN CONTROL
OF THE CITY OF MARAWI.
IT IS LOCATED ON THE
ISLAND OF MINDANAO, WHERE
MORE THAN 100 PEOPLE HAVE
DIED AND 70,000 PEOPLE
HAVE FLED SINCE THE
TERRORISTS LAUNCHED THEIR
ATTACK.
AMONG THE DEAD ARE NINE
CHRISTIANS WHO WERE
EXECUTED FOR THEIR FAITH.
FILIPINO TROOPS HAVE
CARRIED OUT PRECISION
ATTACKS WITH TANKS AND
ROCKET LAUNCHERS TO TARGET
THE RADICALS.
MINDANAO HAS BEEN THE BASE
FOR HOME-GROWN ISLAMIC
RADICALS IN THE
PHILIPPINES, AND
GOVERNMENT OFFICIALS SAY
THEY'RE GETTING OUTSIDE
HELP.
> SOLDIERS HAVE TAKEN
CONTROL OF ABOUT 70% OF
THE CITY.
PAT?
Pat: YOU KNOW, THE
KOREAN THING IS SOMEWHAT
DIFFICULT.
THE ISIS THING IS NOT
DIFFICULT, IF WE DO IT
RIGHT.
WE JUST HAVE TO MOUNT THE
MILITARY FORCE TO DESTROY
ISIS.
WE NEED TO GO INTO RAQQA
AND SYRIA.
WE NEED TO TAKE OTHER
STRONGHOLDS OF ISIS.
WE NEED TO DECAPITATE,
DESTROY THEIR LEADERSHIP,
AND LITERALLY RUN THEM
OVER.
WE CAN'T PLAY THIS THING
ANYMORE.
IF WE HAVE TO PUT A COUPLE
OF DIVISIONS OF AMERICAN
TROOPS IN THERE, WE HAVE
TO DO IT.
NOW IS THE TIME.
MY THOUGHT -- AND I'VE
SAID IT OVER AND OVER
AGAIN -- IT MIGHT NOT
PLEASE TURKEY, BUT WE NEED
TO ARM THE KURDS AND WE
NEED TO ALLOW THE KURDS TO
HAVE THEIR OWN NATION.
AND THEN WE WOULD HAVE A
COUNTER-BALANCE TO THIS
RADICAL ISIS PHILOSOPHY.
BUT IT HAS TO BE DONE.
AND IT HAS TO BE DONE
QUICKLY.
OR THEY WILL CONTINUE TO
SEND OFF BOMBS, CONTINUE
TO WREAK TERROR IN FRANCE
AND LONDON AND HERE IN THE
UNITED STATES.
WE HAVE TO DO SOMETHING.
IT IS KIND OF LIKE AN
ALL-OUT EFFORT.
IT IS NOT JUST AIRPLANES
AND BOMBS.
WE ARE GOING TO HAVE TO
PUT BOOTS ON THE GROUND
AND GO INTO THEIR
STRONGHOLDS IN FORCE AND
TAKE THEM OVER.
AND WE HAVE TO DO THE SAME
THING, SOMETHING IN SYRIA,
I THINK.
IT IS LONG TIME FOR THAT
DICTATOR THERE TO BE TAKEN
OUT.
WE SAY WE DON'T HAVE ANY
ALTERNATIVES.
WELL, WE NEED TO MOUNT OUR
ALTERNATIVE.
WE NEED TO FIND SOMEBODY
AND GET SYRIAN SUPPORT FOR
SOMETHING LIKE THAT.
IT IS TIME TO DO IT.
WE CAN'T WAIT ANY LONG.
WE HAVE A PRESIDENT WHO
LIKES ACTION.
NOW IS THE TIME, DONALD,
SIR, TO ACT.
JOHN?
John: PAT, WE'RE
LEARNING PRESIDENT TRUMP'S
SON-IN-LAW, JARED KUSHNER,
JOINED A SENIOR TRUMP
ADMINISTRATION ADVISOR FOR
A ONE-TIME MEETING WITH A
RUSSIAN AMBASSADOR.
IT FOCUSED ON SYRIA.
AND THE RUSSIANS BROUGHT
UP THE IDEA OF USING A
SECURE LINE BETWEEN RUSSIA
AND THE TRUMP
ADMINISTRATION, NOT
KUSHNER HIMSELF.
THAT COMES AFTER A
"WASHINGTON POST" REPORT
THAT SAID KUSHNER WANTED
TO APPOINT A PRIVATE LINE
TO RUSSIA.
> WELL, A REGENT
GRADUATE IS LEADING AN
EFFORT TO GET PEOPLE
WORLDWIDE TO PRAY FOR
PRESIDENT TRUMP.
SOME OF THE PRAYER
WARRIORS CAME HERE TO
WASHINGTON FROM ALL OVER
THE WORLD TO DO JUST THAT.
PAUL STRAND HAS THE STORY.
Reporter: ALMOST
EVERY AT THIS FESTIVE
GATHERING HAD ONE THING IN
COMMON: THEY CONTRIBUTED
PRAYERS TO A BOOK CALLED
"PRAYERS FOR THE
PRESIDENT."
VERONICA CLEARLY FELT GOD
GAVE HER THE MISSION OF
GETTING THAT BOOK
TOGETHER, AND TO GET THESE
PRAYER WARRIORS TOGETHER
TO CELEBRATE, WORSHIP, AND
PRAY.
IN JESUS' NAME, WE KNOW
THIS IS A HOLY MOMENT.
WE KNOW, FATHER, THAT EVIL
HAS BECOME SUCH A
PRONOUNCED DAILY PRESENCE
IN OUR LIVES.
BUT WE KNOW THE LIGHT IS
BRIGHTER.
AND LIGHT OBLITERATES
DARKNESS.
Reporter: NEXT STOP
WAS A PLACE CALLED
"DAVID'S TENT," A 24-HOUR
A DAY HOUSE OF WORSHIP,
ONE LIKE KING DAVID HAD BY
HIM DURING THE TIME HE
RULED ISRAEL.
THIS GROUP REALLY WANTED
TO COME TO DAVID'S TENT
WHILE IT WAS HER IN
WASHINGTON, D.C., WHERE
PRAISE AND WORSHIP HAS
BEEN GOING UP TO THE LORD
FROM AROUND THECLOC CLOCK FOR
NEARLY SIX DAYS.
BACK AT THE TRUMP HOTEL,
EACH ONE HAD A STORY TO
TELL OR A PROPHETIC WORD.
THIS IS SO SIGNIFICANT
THAT WE PRAY NOT JUST FOR
PRESIDENT TRUMP, BUT WE
PRAY FOR OUR NATION.
Reporter: NANCY
SLOGUM WANTED TO WRITE A
PRAYER FOR THE BOOK
BECAUSE OF A PROPHECY SHE
RECEIVED, THAT GOD WOULD,
IN A MANNER, TRUMP TRUMP.
THAT GOD WAS GOING TO
PUT HIS ANOINTING ON
TRUMP.
Reporter: THIS WOMAN
SAID GOD LET HER KNOW WHAT
THEY DID WITH THE BOOK,
"PRAYERS FOR THE
PRESIDENT" WAS A GOOD
START.
THAT WAS THE GROUND
LEVEL.
HE WANTS TO TAKE US
THROUGH A WHOLE NEW LEVEL
WITH PRESIDENT TRUMP.
PRESIDENT TRUMP NEEDS MORE
PRAYER NOW THAN HE DID
BEFORE.
Reporter: NOW HERE IN
D.C., THEY'VE ALL COME
TOGETHER AND FORMED
SOMEWHAT OF A COMMUNITY.
AND THEY'RE ANXIOUS TO SEE
WHERE GOD IS GOING TO TAKE
THEM ALL TOGETHER NEXT.
PAUL STRAND, CBN NEWS,
REPORTING FROM THE
NATIONAL MALL.
John: THANKS, PAUL.
PAT, THE BIBLE IS VERY
CLEAR ABOUT PRAYING FOR
THOSE IN LEADERSHIP.
Pat: HE IS GOD'S MAN
FOR THIS JOB.
HE IS TAKING BOLD STEPS,
AND STEPS THAT PLEASE MOST
EVANGELICALS.
AND I THINK WE NEED TO
SUPPORT HIM.
I'VE BEEN AN ARDENT CRITIC
OF A NUMBER OF OUR LEADERS
BECAUSE THEY HAVE NOT DONE
WELL.
BUT IN THIS CASE, I FEEL
IN MY HEART THAT THE THING
I SHOULD DO, AND ALL OF US
SHOULD DO, IS PRAY
ERNESTLY FOR GOD'S SUPPORT
OF THE MAN I BELIEVE HE
HAS PUT IN THIS OFFICE.
TERRY?
Terry: WELL, 50 YEARS
AGO, ISRAELI FORCES RETOOK
THE TEMPLE MOUNT, AND SOME
BELIEVE THAT WAS ONLY ONE
STEP TOWARDS FULFILLING
BIBLICAL PROPHECY.
IT'S LIKE A KISS FROM
HEAVEN.
IT IS LIKE A DIVINE KISS.
IT IS AN INTIMATE BRUSH
WITH THE REALITY OF GOD'S
COMPASSION AND LOVE.
HE KEEPS HIS PROMISES.
Terry: WHY SOME ARE
HOPEFUL ABOUT BUILDING THE
THIRD JEWISH TEMPLE.
THAT'S NEXT.
Pat: WELL, YOU LOOK
AT BIBLE PROPHECY AS
THINGS GO ON IN OUR WORLD,
AND ONE OF THE THINGS THAT
JESUS SAID, THAT HIS
DISCIPLES -- WHEN YOU SEE
THE ABOMINATION STAND IN
THE HOLE PLACE, THEN THOSE
IN JUDEA FLEE TO THE
HILLS, AND SO FORTH AND SO
ON.
SO IT WILL BE A DAY OF
SUFFERING, ETC.
NOW, PEOPLE HAVE SAID IN
ORDER FOR ABOMINATION OF
DESOLATION TO STAND IN THE
HOLY PLACE, YOU HAVE TO
HAVE A HOLY PLACE.
AND THE HOLY PLACE IS TORN
DOWN.
SO WHAT THEY'RE SAYING IS
IN ORDER FOR THAT PROPHECY
TO BE FULFILLED, THEY HAVE
TO REBUILD A TEMPLE, A
THIRD TEMPLE IN JERUSALEM.
BUT I DON'T BUY THAT
EXACTLY.
AND THE REASON WHY NOT IS
I THINK THE PROPHECY THAT
JESUS GAVE WERE YO WAS TO HIS
DISCIPLES AT THAT TIME.
HE WARNED THEM THAT
SOMETHING WAS GOING TO
HAPPEN, AND INDEED IT DID
HAPPEN.
THE ROMANS MADE THE TEMPLE
MOUNT INTO A JUPITER.
IT WAS ALL OF THE
ABOMINATION THAT YOU COULD
THINK OF IN THOSE DAYS.
AND INDEED THERE WAS AN
ATTEMPT TO DESTROY THE
NATION OF ISRAEL.
AND THOSE WHO FLED TO THE
HILLS WERE THOSE WHO
DIDN'T GET KILLED.
WHAT HE SAID WAS FULFILLED
IN THE LIFETIME OF THOSE
PEOPLE.
AND WHEN YOU READ
PROPHECY, YOU HAVE TO
REALIZE HE IS TALKING IN
ONE INSTANCE ABOUT THE
IMMEDIATE FUTURE.
IN ANOTHER INSTANCE, HE IS
TALKING ABOUT THE END OF
THE WORLD.
PEOPLE NOW ARE SAYING,
WELL, THAT'S THE END OF
THE WORLD.
WE'VE GOT TO BUILD ANOTHER
TEMPLE.
WELL, LET'S SEE WHAT IS
HAPPENING.
THERE IS A MOVEMENT IN
ISRAEL THAT ONCE ISRAELI
TROOPS HAD SECURED THE
TEMPLE MOUNT.
INDEED, IT WAS TIME TO
REBUILD THE TEMPLE.
CHRIS MITCHELL HAS THAT
STORY.
Chris: ON JUNE 7,
1967, ISRAELI BRIGADE
COMMANDER MOTTA GUR MADE
AN ANNOUNCEMENT THAT THE
JEWS HAD WAITED TO HEAR
FOR SOME 2,000 YEARS.
RETAKING THIS GROUND WAS
IMPORTANT FOR A NUMBER OF
REASONS.
FOR ONE, IT IS WHERE KING
SOLOMON BUILT THE FIRST
JEWISH TEMPLE.
AFTER THE BABYLONIANS
DESTROYED IT, THEY LAID
THE FOUNDATION STONE FOR A
SECOND TEMPLE, THAT WAS
LATER EXPANDED BY KING
HARROD.
IT FELL AT THE HANDS OF
THE ROMANS IN 70 A.D.,
WHEN THE COMMANDER
DECLARED THAT THE TEMPLE
MOUNT IT WAS BACK IN
JEWISH HANDS, IT REKINDLED
HOPE FOR A LONG-AWAITED
THIRD TEMPLE.
THE SIX-DAY WAR WAS A
CATACLYSMIC OPENING OF A
NEW ERA FOR ISRAEL AND FOR
THE WHOLE WORLD.
Chris: RABBI CHAIM
RICHMOND SEES THE TIME
SINCE THE SIX-DAY WAR WARF
AS A PROPHETIC SHIFT.
IT WOULD BE HARD NOT TO
SEE WHAT HAPPENED IN THE
PAST 50 YEARS AS A
TREMENDOUS JUMP-START, A
TREMENDOUS FAST FORWARD.
IT IS MORE THAN PROPHETIC.
IT IS LIKE A KISS FROM
HEAVEN.
YOU KNOW, IT IS LIKE A
DIVINE KISS.
IT IS AN INFINITE BRUSH
WITH THE REALITY OF GOD'S
COMPASSION AND LOVE.
HE KEEPS HIS PROMISES.
Chris: THE INSTITUTE
SHARES A KEY CONNECTION TO
THE BATTLE FOR JERUSALEM.
ITS FOUNDER, RABBI ISRAEL
ARIEL, SERVED WITH THE
55th PARATROOPER BRIGADE
THAT CAPTURED THE TEMPLE
MOUNT.
AFTER THE VICTORY, A
JORDANIAN GUIDE GAVE THEM
A REMARKABLE TOUR.
THIS JOB WAS TO CARRY
THE COMPANY MACHINE GUN.
HE, THE FIRST NIGHT OF THE
LIBERATION OF JERUSALEM,
HE WAS GIVEN THE TASK OF
GUARDING OVER THE SPOT OF
THE ROCK.
THE STORY THAT HE TOLD US
WAS THAT THE SOLDIERS WERE
ON THE TEMPLE MOUNT, AND
IT WAS JUST LIKE THE FIRST
HOUR OR SO.
AND THEY WERE APPROACHED
BY A JORDANIAN FELLOW IN
WESTERN DRESS WHO
EXPLAINED THAT HE WAS THE
OFFICIAL TOUR GUIDE FOR
THE JORDANIAN PARLIAMENT.
HE OFFERED TO TAKE THE
SOLDIERS AND SHOW THEM THE
SIGHTS ON THE TEMPLE
MOUNT.
AND HE TAKES THE SOLDIERS
AND THE RABBI THERE, AND
HE SAYS, WELL, THIS IS
EXACTLY WHERE THE
SANCTUARY STOOD.
THIS IS WHERE THE ALTER
STOOD.
AND THIS IS WHERE THE MEN
MENORAH STOOD.
AND THE RABBI ASKED HIM,
WHY ARE YOU TELLING US ALL
OF THIS?
AND HE SAID, WE HAVE
TRADITION FROM OUR FATHERS
AND THEIR FATHERS THAT ONE
DAY THE JEWS WILL WAGE A
WAR AND CONQUER JERUSALEM,
AND I ASSUME YOU'RE
STARTING TOMORROW, AND I
WANT THIS TO BE MY PART IN
HELPING YOU.
Chris: WHAT WAS THEIR
REACTION TO THAT STORY?
THEY WERE VERY
SURPRISED.
BUT THE BOTTOM LINE IS, IN
HINDSIGHT, IT DOESN'T LOOK
LIKE WE WERE READY.
Chris: 50 YEARS
LATER, THAT HAS CHANGED,
WITH THE TEMPLE INSTITUTE
PREPARING BLUEPRINTS, AND
GATHERING ELEMENTS, SUCH
AS THE PRIESTLY GARMENTS.
LET'S START AT THE
BEGINNING.
WHAT WAS THE HOLY TEMPLE
REALLY ALL ABOUT?
Chris: ALL OF THIS
MEANS TALK OF REBUILDING
THE TEMPLE IS NO LONGER
CONSIDERED A FRINGE IDEA.
HOW MANY MEMBERS OF
KNESSET ARE CONSTANTLY
SPEAKING ABOUT JEWISH
RIGHTS.
THEY TALK ABOUT THE
REBUILDING OF THE HOLY
TEMPLE.
20 YEARS AGO, THESE PEOPLE
WOULDN'T HAVE BEEN GIVEN A
MOMENT ON PRIME TIME
TELEVISION IN ISRAEL TO
SAY THESE THINGS.
THEY WOULD HAVE BEEN
LAUGHED OUT.
Chris: A FEW YEARS
AGO, THIS WAS CONSIDERED
FRINGE?
LUNATICS, PECULIAR.
TODAY IT IS MAINSTREAM.
Chris: ONE OF THOSE
MEMBERS IS YAHODA GLICK.
TODAY WE HAVE 20
MEMBERS WHO ARE INTERESTED
IN PRAYING ON THE TEMPLE
MOUNT AND ARE PART IN THE
BATTLE FOR THE REDEMPTION
OF THE TEMPLE MOUNT, AND
FOR BRINGING THE TEMPLE
MOUNT BACK INTO THE CENTER
OF THE NEXT STEP IN THE
REDEMPTION PROCESS.
Chris: RICHMOND SEES
THE TEM PULL THROUG TEMPLE OF THROUGH THE
EYES OF ISAIAH.
IT MEANS BASICALLY
THERE IS A GOD IN THE
WORLD AND THE BEST IS YET
TO COME.
AND THAT WE ARE SO
EXPECTED TO HIM AND TO
EACH OTHER AND TO THAT
PURPOSE AND TO ALL
HUMANITY, AND IT IS JUST A
WONDERFUL PRIVILEGE TO BE
HERE WITH YOU TODAY, TO BE
LOOKING OUT OVER
JERUSALEM, AND TO REALIZE
WE ARE LIVING IN PROBABLY
THE MOST TIME IN HISTORY.
IF YOU BELIEVE IN THE GOD
OF ISRAEL AND YOU SEE HIS
HAND ON HIS PEOPLE AND YOU
UNDERSTAND THE TREMENDOUS
CHANGES THAT HAVE GONE ON
OVER THE YEARS, YOU SEE
THAT THE ONE WHO BROUGHT
US THIS FAR ISN'T FINISHED
AND WILL KEEP HIS
PROMISES.
Chris: CHRIS
MITCHELL, CBN NEWS, THE
TEMPLE MOUNT, JERUSALEM.
Pat: WELL, WE'LL KEEP
YOU INFORMED AS THE
PROPHECY UNFOLDS.
THE PROPHECY THAT I'VE
HUNG MY HAT ON -- IF I CAN
USE THAT TERM -- IS WHEN
JESUS SAID JERUSALEM WILL
BE TRODDEN UNDER THE FOOT
OF THE GENTILES, UNTIL THE
TIMES OF THE GENTILES BE
FULFILLED.
THAT HAD TO DO WITH
EVERYBODY.
AND IT HAD TO DO WITH THE
GENTILE NATIONS AROUND THE
WORLD.
AND THE FACT THAT
JERUSALEM WAS UNDER
GENTILE DOMINATION FROM
586 B.C. UNTIL 1967.
THAT, TO ME, IS A
FULFILLMENT OF MAJOR,
MAJOR PROPHECY.
TERRY?
Terry: IT HAS BEEN A
REMARKABLE 50 YEARS.
> SPEAKING OF
REMARKABLE, LAST WEEK THE
ENTERTAINMENT COMPANY
FATHOM EVENTS HOSTED A
PRESENTATION OF CBN'S
DOCUMENTARY ABOUT THE
SIX-DAY WAR.
CALLED "IN OUR HANDS: THE
BATTLE FOR JERUSALEM."
MANY OF THE SHOWINGS FOR
THAT WERE SOLD OUT.
SO GREAT NEWS: IF YOU
MISSED YOUR CHANCE THE
FIRST TIME AROUND, "IN OUR
HANDS" IS GOING TO BE BACK
IN THEATERS ON JUNE 1st
AND JUNE 6th.
WE WANT TO ENCOURAGE YOU
TO GET TICKETS EARLY,
BEFORE THE SHOWS ARE SOLD
OUT AGAIN.
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO TO DO
THAT IS JUST GO TO
inourhands1967.com.
IT IS WELL WORTH YOUR
TIME.
> COMING UP, SHE NEEDED
A WAY TO MAKE CASH WITHOUT
HER BOYFRIEND KNOWING.
SO HE STARTED DEALING
DRUGS.
AND THE NEXT THING I
KNOW, IT WENT FROM A KILO
OF COCAINE TO SEVERAL
KILOS OF COCAINE.
I WAS BUYING CARS,
CLOTHES, HOUSES --
WHATEVER I WANTED, I
BOUGHT.
Terry: WATCH WHAT
HAPPENS WHEN HER SECRET IS
DISCOVERED BY THE FEDS.
THAT'S NEXT.
Pat: WELCOME BACK.
YOU'RE WATCHING "THE 700
CLUB" ON THIS DAY OF
MEMORIAL DAY.
WE'RE DLIED DELIGHTED TO HAVE
EVERY ONE OF YOU WITH US
AND WE HOPE IT IS
ENJOYABLE.
> I WANT TO INTRODUCE
YOU TO TRESER MITCHNER.
SHE HAD A RAP SHEET.
DRIVING ON A SUSPENDED
LICENSE.
TRAFFICKING IN COCAINE.
SHE DEALT DRUGS A KILO AT
A TIME.
WHILE SHE ORIGINALLY
STARTED IT IN SECRET, SHE
COULDN'T HIDE HER ACTIONS
FROM THE D.E.A.
THE UNITED STATES OF
COURSE TRESER.
THAT BLEW MY MIND.
I'M LIKE, THE UNITED
STATES?
WHO AM I TO GO UP AGAINST
THE UNITED STATES?
Reporter: SHE
COULDN'T BELIEVE HER LIFE
HAD SUNK SO LOW.
INSIDE, SHE STILL FELT
LIKE THAT LITTLE GIRL,
WHO'S PARENTS DIVORCED
WHEN SHE WAS THREE.
THERE WAS NO FOUNDATION
OF LOVE.
SAYING I LOVE YOU OR
HOLDING YOU.
I DO REMEMBER TIMES WHEN
MY MOM WAS WORKING, AND
SHE WAS DOING GOOD, TRYING
TO TAKE CARE OF US.
BUT IN THE PROCESS, I
THINK SHE KIND OF
DEVELOPED THAT.
MY FATHER REALLY WASN'T
THERE FOR US.
Reporter: AS A TEEN,
SHE FOLLOWED THE LEAD OF
HER FRIENDS, SKIPPING
SCHOOL AND SHOPLIFTING.
I THINK THE REASON I
DID IS BECAUSE I WAS
TRYING TO GET ACCEPTANCE
FROM THEM AND TRYING TO
FIT IN.
I WAS ANGRY, HURT, OUT OF
CONTROL.
IT IS LIKE I DIDN'T EVEN
CARE ABOUT LIFE.
Reporter: AT 15,
TRESER WAS SENT TO A
JUVENILE FACILITY.
SHE WAS ALSO PREGNANT BY
THE 21-YEAR-OLD GUY HER
MOTHER WARNED HER ABOUT.
I FELT LOVE, SOMEBODY
THAT CARED ABOUT ME.
SO, YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT
YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT, MOM.
Reporter: WHEN SHE
WAS RELEASED SIX MONTHS
LATER, SHE INFURIATED HER
MOM BY MOVING IN WITH THE
GUY.
A DRUG DEARLY AND ADDICT,
HE BECAME ABUSIVE WHEN SHE
TRIED TO LEAVE WITH THEIR
YOUNG SON.
ONE TIME HE KNOCKED HER
UNCONSCIOUS.
ONE TIME I WENT TO THE
BATHROOM AND LOOKED IN THE
MIRROR, AND I HAD THESE
BLACK EYES.
Reporter: HE ALSO FOR
BID HER TO WORK.
HER ONLY OPTION WAS TO
STAY WITH HIM.
I DIDN'T HAVE ANY
MONEY.
I DIDN'T HAVE MY OWN
PLACE.
I FELT LIKE I WAS STUCK.
I WANTED TO REGAIN MY
LIFE.
Reporter: AFTER SHE
HAD HER SECOND SON, SHE
REACHED OUT TO HER MOM'S
SISTER, JACKIE.
WHILE SHE DIDN'T HAVE THE
MEANS TO HELP, SHE TRIED
TO GET TRESER ON A
DIFFERENT PATH.
MY AUNT ALWAYS WOULD
ASK ME TO GO TO CHURCH
WITH HER, OR SHE WOULD
TAKE MY BOYS TO GO TO
CHURCH WITH HER SOMETIMES.
SHE KNEW I WAS IN THAT
LIFESTYLE, BUT SHE WOULD
STILL ASK.
I KNEW OF GOD, BUT I
DIDN'T KNOW HIM.
Reporter: FINALLY,
THE TRESER DECIDED THE
ONLY WAY TO MAKE MONEY
WITHOUT THEIR FATHER
KNOWING WAS TO DEAL DRUGS.
I ASKED THEM, HEY, LET
ME TRY THIS.
THE NEXT THING I KNOW IS
IT WENT FROM A KILO OF
COCAINE TO SEVERAL KILOS
OF COCAINE.
I WOULD HAVE $150,000
THERE TO DO WHATEVER I
WANTED TO DO WITH IT.
I WAS BUYING CLOTHES,
CARS, HOUSES -- WHATEVER I
WANTED, I BOUGHT.
Reporter: NOW WITH
MONEY AND THE PROTECTION
OF FRIENDS, TRESER FINALLY
GOT AWAY.
FOR THE NEXT EIGHT YEARS,
SHE INDULGED IN THE
LIFESTYLE THAT CAME WITH
DRUG DEALS AND MONEY
LAUNDERING.
LIFE WAS GOOD, BUT ON
THE INSIDE I STILL WAS NOT
HAPPY.
I DIDN'T HAVE PEACE OR
JOY.
I SPENT $80,000 TO BUY ONE
CAR.
THREE WEEKS GO BY, AND I'M
BACK TO THE SAME FEELING.
AND THEN I WAS REALLY
WONDERING, WHAT IS WRONG
WITH ME?
THERE IS LIKE A HUGE VOID
THAT IS IN ME.
Reporter: ONE NIGHT
TRESER DECIDED HER AUNT
JACKIE MIGHT HAVE BEEN
RIGHT.
I SAID GOD, IF THERE IS
A GOD, THERE HAS TO BE A
BETTER PLAN FOR MY LIFE.
I'M TIRED, LORD.
HELP ME.
HELP ME, LORD.
HELP ME.
Reporter: THREE DAYS
LATER, TRESER WAS ARRESTED
AND CHARGED WITH
CONSPIRACY TO SELL COCAINE
AND MONEY LAUNDERING.
HER FIRST PHONE CALL FROM
JAIL WAS TO HER AUNT
JACKIE.
WE'RE GOING TO KEEP
MOVING FORWARD, WE'RE
GOING TO KEEP PUSHING, AND
THAT'S WHAT WE DID.
Reporter: LATER SOME
MINISTERS CAME TO THE
JAIL.
SHE LISTENED AS THEY
TALKED ABOUT JESUS IN A
WAY SHE FINALLY
UNDERSTOOD.
IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT
YOU HAVE DONE IN LIFE, HE
WILL REDEEM YOUR LIFE.
THAT'S WHAT HE DIED FOR.
I ASKED HIM TO COME IN MY
LIFE, TO HELP ME, TO SAVE
MY SOUL, TO MAKE ME KNEW.
CREATE IN ME WHAT YOU
CREATED ME FOR, LORD.
Reporter: SHE SERVED
FIVE AND A HALF YEARS IN
PRISON.
SHE POURED OVER THE BIBLE
EVERY DAY AND CAME OUT A
VERY DIFFERENT PERSON.
MY HEART TOTALLY
CHANGED.
I FELT THE OVERWHELMING
LOVE NOW.
I HAD BEEN SET FREE FROM
ALL OF THE HURT BECAUSE I
STARTED LEARNING THE
FATHER'S LOVE.
I STARTED LEARNING THE
LOVE OF A FRIEND.
I STARTED LEARNING THE
LOVE OF A BROTHER.
I STARTED LEARNING THE
LOVE OF GOD THAT CHANGED
EVERYTHING WITHIN ME.
I'M VERY PROUD.
VERY PROUD.
LOOK AT GOD.
LOOK WHAT HE CAN DO.
Reporter: TRESER
FORGAVE HER PARENTS AND
RECONCILED WITH BOTH OF
THEM.
SHE IS NOW VERY HAPPILY
MARRIED TO WILLIE, AND
REACHING OUT TO OTHERS
WITH THE TRUTH SHE HAS
FOUND.
MY PURPOSE TODAY IS TO
HELP PEOPLE CHANGE THEIR
LIVES.
TO HELP THEM TO GROW IN
CHRIST.
TO HELP THEM TO KNOW HIM.
BECAUSE ON THE INSIDE I
HAVE JOY, I HAVE PEACE, I
HAVE HAPPINESS.
I WAS FREE.
Pat: YOU KNOW, WE
CALL SOME PEOPLE THE DRAGS
OF SOCIETY.
HAVE YOU HEARD THAT TERM?
WORTHLESS.
PROSTITUTES.
WE'VE GOT ALL KINDS OF
NAMES FOR PEOPLE.
BUT GOD ALMIGHTY LOOKS
DOWN AND SEES SOMETHING
SPECIAL IN EVERY HUMAN
BEING.
AND TRESER HAD THAT SPARK
IN HER THAT CAME FROM GOD.
WE ALL HAVE IT.
WE ALL HAVE IT.
GOD PUT IT THERE.
HE PUT IN US A YEARN FOR
HIM.
ING
FOR HIM.
HE PUT IN US A DESIRE TO
BE LIKE HIM.
HE PUT IN US A DESIRE TO
BE SOMETHING BETTER.
I DON'T CARE WHERE YOU GO
IN THE WORLD.
YOU FIND THAT IN PEOPLE.
YOU FIND THE DESIRE TO
CREATE.
THE DESIRE TO MAKE THINGS
BEAUTY.
THE DESIRE TO LOOK AFTER
THEIR CHILDREN.
ED GOD PUGOD PUT IT IN THE HEART OF
PEOPLE.
AND HE PUT IT IN YOUR
HEART, A DESIRE TO BE LIKE
HIM, AND TO BE BEAUTIFUL
AND TO BE CLEAN AND TO BE
FREE.
GOD DID IT BECAUSE GOD
ALMIGHTY LOVES HUMANITY.
HE LOVES PEOPLE.
HE LOVES YOU.
AND HE LOVES TRESER.
AND FORTUNATELY SHE FOUND
THAT LOVE, RETURNED TO
GOD, RETURNED THE LOVE
THAT SHE FELT FROM HIM.
AND NOW HER LIFE IS
SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL.
AND YOU CAN HAVE SOMETHING
BEAUTIFUL IN YOUR LIFE,
TOO.
GOD ALMIGHTY LOVES YOU.
YOU WERE DESTINED TO BE
HIS CHILD.
THAT'S YOUR DESTINY.
YOU WANT TO ACCEPT THE
DESTINY.
PRAY WITH ME RIGHT NOW.
RIGHT NOW, DO IT.
PRAY WITH ME.
LORD JESUS, I RECEIVE YOU
NOW AS MY SAVIOR, AND I
ACKNOWLEDGE THAT MY
DESTINY IS TO BE IN MY
FATHER'S HOUSE.
AND, FATHER GOD, I COME TO
YOU AND I PLEAD THE BLOOD
OF JESUS OVER EVERY SIN
THAT I'VE COMMITTED.
AND I THANK YOU THAT
YOU'VE FORGIVEN ME AND
THAT YOU'VE ACCEPTED ME.
THANK YOU, LORD.
IN JESUS' NAME, THANK YOU.
NOW, IF YOU PRAYED WITH
ME, YOU SAY, WHAT DO I DO
NEXT?
AND I'M PLEASED TO SAY WE
DON'T WANT TO JUST LEAVE
YOU THERE.
I'VE GOT SOMETHING CALLED
"A NA NEW DAY."
IT IS A C.D. IN HERE.
AND THE BOOKLET TELLS YOU
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ALL OF THE PROMISES OF GOD
AND THE WONDERFUL THINGS
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THIS IS AVAILABLE, AND
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PRAYED WITH PAT, PRAYED
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I'VE GIVEN MY HEART TO THE
LORD, AND I AM PART OF THE
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OF GOD.
AND THE BIBLE SAYS THE
ANGELS OF GOD ARE
REJOICING OVER ONE SINNER
WHO REPENTS.
AS ONE MINISTER SAID A FEW
YEARS AGO, ALL HEAVEN IS
IN AN UP ROAR BECAUSE OF
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MADE.
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TERRY?
Terry: STILL AHEAD, A
SIMPLE WORD THAT CAN
REVITALIZE YOUR MARRIAGE.
BEST-SELLING AUTHOR GARY
THOMAS EXPLAINS WHEN WE
COME BACK.
AND WELCOME BACK TO
"THE 700 CLUB."
A TOUGH NEW ANTI-SANCTUARY
CITIES LAW IN TEXAS LED TO
A MASSIVE PROTEST IN THE
STATE CAPITAL BUILDING.
IT LED TO A SCUFFLE ON THE
TEXAS HOUSE FLOOR BETWEEN
DEMOCRATS AND REPUBLICANS.
THE LAW THREATENS TO PUT
IN JAIL OR REMOVE LAW
ENFORCEMENT LEADERS FROM
OFFICE IF THEY PROVIDE
SOME PROTECTIONS TO
ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS.
THEY WERE SAYING STUFF
TO ME, AND I WAS SAYING
STUFF TO THEM.
BOTH OF THEM DESIGNED TO
INCITE EACH OTHER.
BOTH SIDES WERE EMOTIONAL.
PROTESTORS IN TEXAS ARE
PROMISING LEGAL ACTION
AGAINST THE LAW.
THE TEXAS LAW RESEMBLES A
2010 ARIZONA LAW THAT
ALLOWS POLICE TO ASK ABOUT
A PERSON'S IMMIGRATION
STATUS, EVEN DURING
ROUTINE STOPS, LIKE
TRAFFIC STOPS.
> PRESIDENT TRUMP
HONORED FALLEN SOLDIERS
AND THEIR FAMILIES DURING
A MEMORIAL DAY OBSERVANCE
AT ARLINGTON CEMETERY ON
MONDAY.
THE PRESIDENT TOLD STORIES
OF THE HER HEROISM OF MILITARY
MEMBERS.
HE SINGLED OUT FOR SPECIAL
MENTION HIS HOMELAND
SECURITY SECRETARY JOHN
KELLEY, A FOUR-STAR
GENERAL WHO'S SON, ROBERT
M.KELLY, I WAS KILLED IN
NOVEMBER 2010, WHEN HE
STEPPED ON A LANDMINE
WHILE ON PATROL IN
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NOT ONLY DID HE PROUDLY
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INCREDIBLE WIFE KAREN HAVE
BORNE THE SINGLE MOST
DIFFICULT HARDSHIP OF THEM
ALL: THE LOSS OF THEIR
SON, ROBERT, IN SERVICE TO
OUR COUNTRY.
AND THE PRESIDENT
TALKED WITH FAMILIES,
INCLUDING BRITTANY JACOBS
AND HER 6-YEAR-OLD SON,
CHRISTIAN, WHO DRESSED
LIKE A MARINE.
HIS FATHER, MARINE
SERGEANT CHRISTOPHER
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CALIFORNIA IN 2011.
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PAT AND TERRY WILL BE BACK
WITH MORE OF "THE 700
CLUB" RIGHT AFTER THIS.
Terry: WELL, IF YOU
HAD TO DESCRIBE YOUR
MARRIAGE IN ONE WORD RIGHT
NOW, WHAT WORD WOULD IT
BE?
LOVE, PERHAPS?
AUTHOR GARY THOMAS SAYS
THERE IS A DIFFERENT WORD,
A MINDSET, REALLY, AND IF
IT IS PUT INTO PRACTICE,
IT CAN CHANGE EVERYTHING
IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
Reporter:
BEST-SELLING AUTHOR GARY
THOMAS HAS BEEN HELPING
THOUSANDS OF COUPLES TURN
THEIR RELATIONSHIPS
AROUND.
HE SAYS THERE IS ONE WORD
THAT CAN RADICALLY DO
THAT.
CHERISH IS SORT OF THE
SPICE.
YOU CAN LOVE WITHOUT
CHERISHING, BUT YOU CAN'T
CHERISH WITHOUT LOVING.
LOVE IS IMPORTANT, BUT I
WANT TO GO TO THAT NEXT
LEVEL.
Reporter: IN HIS BOOK
"CHERISH," GARY CHALLENGES
US TO LOVE WELL, AND SHOWS
US HOW TO TREASURE OUR
SPOUSE LIKE NEVER BEFORE.
Terry: GARY THOMAS IS
WITH US NOW.
WE WELCOME YOU TO "THE 700
CLUB."
THANK YOU FOR HAVING
ME, TERRY.
Terry: MOST OF US USE
THAT WORD, IF WE USE
TRADITIONAL VOWS WHEN WE
MARRY, AND WE SAY, "TO
LOVE AND TO CHERISH."
AND WE DON'T REALLY THINK
ABOUT IT TOO MUCH.
WE THINK THEY MEAN THE
SAME THING, BUT IN FACT
THEY'RE DIFFERENT.
THEY REALLY ARE.
AND THE WORD IS HIDING IN
PLAIN SIGHT, I PROMISE TO
LOVE AND CHERISH.
AND EVEN DOING SEMINARS ON
IT, IT WAS ALWAYS ABOUT
LOVE, PERSEVERANCE,
COMMITMENT, HANGING IN
THERE.
I DO THINK THAT'S THE
FOUNDATION OF A
RELATIONSHIP.
IN ONE SENSE YOU CAN CALL
IT THE BREAD OF THE
RELATIONSHIP.
IT IS WHAT NOURISHES YOU.
BUT CHERISHING IS LIKE THE
JAM.
IT IS WHAT MAKES IT
DELIGHTFUL AND TASTY.
IF WE SETTLE FOR LOVE
WITHOUT CHERISH, WE END UP
HAVING MARRIAGES THAT SEEM
MORE LIKE THEY'RE BASED ON
DUTY THAN DELIGHT.
I DON'T THINK THAT IS THE
KIND OF RELATIONSHIP THAT
IS THE BEST WITNESS TO OUR
CHILDREN OR ONE THAT
HONORS GOD.
Terry: YOU SAID
SECONDS AGO, IT IS THE
WORD THAT HAS BEEN HIDDEN
IN PLAIN SIGHT.
YOU HAVE WRITTEN LOTS OF
BOOKS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS
AND MARRIAGE.
WHAT WAS IT IN YOUR OWN
MARRIAGE THAT NEEDED
CHANGE WHEN YOU DISCOVERED
CHERISH?
I THINK I WAS SO
FOCUSED ON MY
OBLIGATIONS -- I WANT TO
DO THE RIGHT THING.
I WANT TO BE A GOOD
HUSBAND.
BUT I BELIEVE GOD
CONVICTED ME SAYING, GARY,
I WANT YOUR WIFE, MY
DAUGHTER, TO BE ADORED.
I WANT HER TO KNOW SHE'S A
DELIGHT TO YOU.
SO I LEFT 1 CORINTHIANS 13
BEHIND FOR A LITTLE BIT,
AND STARTED CAMPING OUT IN
PSALM 6: 9.
"MY DOVE, MY PERFECT ONE
IS THE ONLY ONE."
SO FOR A SLICE OF TIME,
EVE WAS LITERALLY THE ONLY
WOMAN IN THE WORLD.
SHE DEFINED TO ADAM WAS WHAT A
WOMAN IS SUPPOSED TO BE.
I WANT IT TO BE MY WIFE
THAT WAY.
THAT I WOULD SEE MY WIFE
AS EVE, THE ONLY WOMAN IN
THE WORLD.
Terry: SO IS THAT THE
MINDSET YOU'RE TALKING
ABOUT?
WE CHANGE THE WAY WE SEE
OURSELVES.
ROMANS 12: 1: "BE
TRANSFORMED BY THE
RENEWING OF YOUR MIND."
SO FOR ME IT WAS FIRST THE
PROMISE.
I PROMISED TO LOVE AND
CHERISH -- IT IS NOT JUST
THIS GREAT IDEAL.
IF YOU WANT A SUPER
MARRIAGE, YOU'LL DO IT.
WE PROMISED TO DO IT.
THEN IT IS THE MINDSET,
LOOKING AT OUR HUSBAND OR
WIFE, AS ADAM AND EVE, THE
ONLY WOMAN IN THE WORLD,
SO WE'RE NOT COMPARING
THEM.
AND WHAT ENCOURAGED ME SO
MUCH, TERRY, WHEN GOD
CHALLENGED ME WITH THIS,
IT IS SOMETHING THAT CAN
BE LEARNED.
IT IS SOMETHING THAT CAN
BE CHOSEN.
INFATUATION IS SO PASSIVE.
I FELL IN LOVE.
SO IF YOU FALL OUT OF
LOVE, YOU CAN'T GET BACK.
BUT CHERISHING CAN BE
CHOSEN.
IT CAN BE PRACTICED.
IT CAN BE CULTIVATED.
Terry: SO IF ONE
WANTS TO DO THAT, HOW DO
YOU CHOOSE TO CULTIVATE
IT?
WHAT ARE THE
METHODOLOGIES?
WE HAVE TO FOLLOW
THROUGH ON THE PROMISE.
IT IS NOT NATURAL.
JAMES 3: 2, WE ALL STUMBLE
IN MANY WAYS.
WE'RE NOT CHERISHING
PERFECT PEOPLE.
NOBODY GETS TO MARRY THE
FOURTH MEMBER OF THE
TRINITY.
THAT PERSON DOESN'T EXIST.
HOW DO YOU CHERISH
SOMEBODY WHO STUMBLES IN
MANY WAYS?
ONE OF THE WAYS IS YOU
SHOWCASE THEM TO OTHERS.
IF YOU CHERISH
SOMETHING -- LIKE A NEWLY
ENGAGED WOMAN WITH HER
ENGAGEMENT RING.
SHE WANTS EVERYONE TO SEE
IT.
GUYS WILL GET THIS, IF YOU
CHERISH A CAR, AND THEY
POLISH IT AND SHOW IT OFF.
HOW DO YOU SHOW OFF YOUR
SPOUSE?
ONE OF THE ANALOGIES I
CAME ACROSS FROM THE
BALLET COMMUNITY.
HE SAID, THE BALLET IS
WOMAN.
AND THE NOTION WAS THAT
PEOPLE GO TO THE BALLET TO
SEE THE BALLERINA.
AND SO THE BEST MALE
DANCERS UNDERSTAND THEIR
JOB ISN'T TO SHOW THEIR
MUSCLES OR THEIR MOVES.
IT IS TO SHOWCASE THE
BALLERINA.
THEY'RE TURNING HER AND
TWISTING HER SO EVERYBODY
CAN SEE HER BEAUTY.
THE MALE DANCERS TAKE
DELIGHT BECAUSE SHE CAN BE
MORE BECAUSE I'M BEHIND
HER.
IT IS LOOKING AT MARRIAGE
THAT WAY, THAT I WANT
OTHERS TO CELEBRATE HER.
I DID THAT WITH MY WIFE BY
SHOWCASING HER TO MYSELF.
IN 2016, I HAD A DAILY
JOURNAL WHERE EVERY DAY I
WROTE DOWN SOMETHING SHE
HAD DONE THAT DAY THAT I
WAS GRATEFUL FOR, OR I
JUST APPRECIATED ABOUT
HER.
WHEN YOU GET TO SEPTEMBER
AND YOU'VE WRITTEN 200
THINGS -- IT IS HARD TO
ASK GOD TO CHANGE YOUR
SPOUSE WHEN YOU'VE HAD
HUNDREDS OF THINGS YOU
HAVE CELEBRATED.
WE WERE WITH A COUPLE ONE
TIME, AND I HAD COME UP
WITH AN IDEA TO GIVE TO
THE WIFE, AND SHE LOVED
IT.
AND SHE WAS GUSHING ON
LISA ABOUT IT.
AND SHE SAID, THANK YOU SO
MUCH.
IT WAS SO THOUGHTFUL.
I WALKED IN THE ROOM, AND
SHE SAID, THANK YOU, TOO,
GARY.
IT IS LIKE WE BOTH KNOW
YOU HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH
THIS GIFT.
15 YEARS AGO, WHEN I WAS
JUST FOCUSED ON LOVE, I
THINK I WOULD HAVE SAID,
HEY, THAT GIFT WAS MY IDEA
AND I PAID FOR IT.
THIS TIME, TERRY, I SAID,
WHAT GIFT?
BECAUSE I LOVE TO SEE
PEOPLE EXALTING MY WIFE.
BECAUSE WHEN YOU ADORE
SOMEONE, WHEN YOU CHERISH
SOMEONE, YOU WANT TO SEE
OTHERS CELEBRATE THEM.
I REALIZED HOW MY OWN
HEART THAT CHANGED BY
SHOWCASING MY WIFE TO
MYSELF AND THEN TO OTHERS.
Terry: THERE IS POWER
IN OUR WORDS, EVEN WHAT WE
SPEAK TO OURSELVES.
MAYBE THAT'S THE BEGINNING
OF IT ALL.
YOU SAID YOU STARTED
CHERISHING HER IN YOUR
HEART AND MIND.
IT IS GREAT THAT YOU GO
WITH WORDS BECAUSE EVERY
CONVERSATION LEADS US
TOWARDS CHERISH OR WE
START TO DESCEND TOWARDS
DESCENT.
AM I GOING TO NOURISH MY
WIFE WITH THESE WORDS, OR
WITH MY APATHY AM I GOING
TO IGNORE HER?
IT IS ALL ABOUT, LIKE,
CATCHING BITS.
IF SHE IS INTERESTED IN
SOMETHING, AND I CHERISH
HER, I SHOULD CHERISH WHAT
SHE IS SAYING.
NOT BECAUSE I'M INTERESTED
IN WHAT SHE IS SAYING, BUT
IF I'M INTERESTED IN WHO
IS SAYING IT, THAT'S HOW I
SHOW HER I CHERISH HER.
Terry: YOU TALK ABOUT
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN
CHERISH AND CONTEMPT.
WE'RE REALLY DOING ONE OR
THE OTHER, AREN'T WE?
I BELIEVE WE.
THEY SAY FAMILIARITY
BREEDS CONTEMPT.
IT SHOULD SCARE EVERY
MARRIED PERSON BECAUSE
NOTHING IS MORE FAMILIAR
THAN MARRIAGE.
THAT'S WHY I DON'T SEE
CHERISHING AS THIS EXTRA
CREDIT ADD-ON.
FOR ME IT IS ESSENTIAL.
WE'VE ALL SEEN MARRIAGES
WHERE THEY STARTED OUT
DELIGHTING IN EACH OTHER
AND THEY ADORE EACH OTHER,
AND THEN THEY CAN'T STAND
TO BE IN THE SAME ROOM.
I SHARE THE STORY OF A
WIFE WHO IS UPSET BECAUSE
I CALLED HER HUSBAND A
CHEF.
AND SHE SAYS, NO, HE IS A
COOK.
AND YOU'RE JUST, LIKE, I
KNEW THEM ON THEIR WEDDING
DAY.
WHERE DOES THAT CONTEMPT
COME FROM?
THE DAILY FA FAMILIARITIES IS
KIND OF WHERE ARE WE GO.
Terry: SO BUILD UP
AND CHERISH.
THAT'S THE NAME OF THE
BASKETBALLBOOK, "CHERISH," AND IT IS
AVAILABLE IN STORES
NATIONWIDE.
THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE.
THANK YOU SO MUCH,
TERRY.
Terry: COMING UP,
TIME TO "BRING IT ON" WITH
YOUR QUESTIONS.
TINA ASKS: "CAN A
NARCISSISTIC PERSON EVER
CHANGE?
I'VE BEEN MARRIED TO ONE
FOR 19 YEARS."
PAT IS GOING TO WEIGH IN
ON THAT AND MORE WHEN WE
COME BACK.
*
Terry: TIME TO "BRING
IT ON" WITH YOUR E-MAIL
QUESTIONS.
PAT, THIS FIRST QUESTION
COMES FROM TINA WHO SAYS,
"CAN A NARCISSISTIC PERSON
EVER CHANGE?
I'VE BEEN MARRIED TO ONE
FOR 19 YEARS.
HE NEVER OWNS UP TO HIS
BAD BEHAVIOR, ONLY COVERS
UP THINGS.
I'VE HAD ENOUGH, BUT
DIVORCE DOESN'T SEEM TO BE
AN OPTION BECAUSE HE
REFUSES TO LEAVE.
WHAT CAN I DO?"
Pat: YOU MIGHT TALK
TO HIS MOTHER AND SEE WHAT
SHE DID WITH HIM.
YOU KNOW, THE
NARCISSISTIC -- THE WHOLE
IDEA IS HE IS ABSORBED
WITH HIMSELF.
HE LOVES HIMSELF.
LIKE THE MAN WHO LOOKED IN
THE REFLECTING WATER AND
FELL IN LOVE WITH THE
IMAGE THERE.
NARCISSISTS ARE SO TOTALLY
SELF-ABSORBED.
BUT HOW DID THEY GET THAT
WAY?
AS I SAY, I WOULD TALK TO
HIS MOTHER.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU DO.
YOU MARRIED HIM.
I DIDN'T.
THE PRESIDENT TALKS ABOUT
EXTREME VETTING -- YOU
OUGHT TO DO EXTREME
VETTING BEFORE YOU GET
MARRIED TO SOMEBODY.
Terry: MAYBE SOME
COUNSELLING --
Pat: HOW ARE YOU
GOING TO COUNSEL SOMEBODY
WHO IS INGRAINED IN
SELF-LOVE.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU CAN
DO.
THE ONLY THING THAT WOULD
CHANGE THAT WOULD BE A
SERIOUS ACCIDENT OR SOME
TRAGEDY THAT MIGHT WAKE
HIM UP TO WHO HE IS.
I DON'T KNOW.
A REVELATION FROM GOD.
BUT YOU SAY HE WON'T
LEAVE.
WELL, YOU GET A DIVORCE
AND HE WILL BE FORCED TO
LEAVE.
MAYBE A SEPARATION.
YOU KNOW, I JUST DON'T
THINK WE HAVE TO LIVE IN
INTOLERABLE SITUATIONS
OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
YOU CERTAINLY CAN GET A
SEPARATION, AND MAYBE THAT
WOULD SHAPE HIM UP.
I DOUBT IT.
PEOPLE ARE -- HE'S HAD ALL
THOSE YEARS TO FALL IN
LOVE WITH HIMSELF.
AND YOU'RE NOT GOING TO
SHAKE IT OUT OF HIM ANY
TIME SOON.
Terry: OKAY.
THIS IS CAITLIN WHO SAYS,
"I AM THE ONLY CHRISTIAN
IN A LIBERAL BUDDHIST
FAMILY.
THEY'VE ALWAYS BEEN
ASHAMED OF ME FOR MY FAITH
AND CONSERVATIVE POLITICAL
BELIEFS.
I'VE ALWAYS BEEN KIND AND
PATIENT AND SUPPORTIVE OF
THEM THROUGH LIVE'S
CRISIS, JUST HOPING BEING
A GOOD PERSON WILL BE A
REFLECTION OF JESUS SINCE
THEY WON'T LET ME TALK
ABOUT MY FAITH.
THEY TREAT ME TERRIBLY.
ALSO, I HAVE A HARD LIFE.
MY HUSBAND IS SEVERELY
DISABLED AND I CARE FOR
HIM FULL-TIME.
THE RELATIONSHIP WITH MY
FAMILY BRINGS EXTRA,
UNNEEDED STRESS.
IS IT WRONG FOR ME TO CUT
TIES WITH MY FAMILY?
MY HUSBAND HATES THE WAY
THEY TREAT ME."
Pat: LISTEN, I THINK
THAT'S WHAT HAS GOT TO BE
DONE.
WHEN MY MOTHER AND FATHER
CAST ME OUT, THE BIBLE
SAYS, THE LORD WILL PICK
ME UP.
I THINK YOU HAVE TO RELY
ON O HIM.
BUT, LISTEN, THE BIBLE
SAYS, FOR THIS CAUSE A MAN
SHALL LEAVE HIS MOTHER AND
FATHER AND CLEAVE TO HIS
WIFE.
A NEW FAMILY IS FORMED.
THE OLD ONE IS OVER.
AND THIS IS NEW.
YOU STILL HONOR YOUR
MOTHER AND FATHER, BUT AT
THE SAME TIME, YOU'VE GOT
TO GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE
WITH YOUR HUSBAND.
IF YOUR HUSBAND IS WITH
YOU, BY ALL MEANS -- IF
THESE PEOPLE ARE BEATING
YOU UP, WHY ENDURE IT?
YOU DON'T HAVE TO DO THAT.
Terry: KAY SAYS,
"WITH ALL OF THE VIOLENCE
IN THE WORLD TODAY AND THE
FEAR OF BEING ATTACKED,
WHAT DO YOU THINK OF
CHRISTIANS CARRYING GUNS?
IS IT OKAY TO PROTECT
YOURSELF.
OR WOULD KILLING IN THE
NAME OF SELF-DEFENSE BE
CONSIDERED A SIN?
DOES THE TERM "TURNING THE
OTHER CHEEK" APPLY HERE?"
Pat: BROTHER, DON'T
YOU UNDERSTAND THAT IF
YOUR TIME HAS COME, YOU
SHOULD BE PREPARED FOR IT
AND RELY ON THE LORD.
AND HE SAID, BUT WHAT IF I
MEET AN INDIAN WHO'S TIME
HAS COME?
IT IS ONE OF THOSE THINGS.
I DON'T KNOW.
I'VE GOT NO -- THEY HAVE
FOUND, AND I KNOW THIS MAY
UPSET PEOPLE, THAT IN
COMMUNITIES WHERE THE
CITIZENS ARE ALLOWED TO
HAVE GUNS, THE INCIDENTS
OF VIOLENT CRIME GOES DOWN
BECAUSE THE PERPETRATORS
KNOW THEY CAN'T HAVE A
FREE PASS AND BEAT UP ON
SOME UNARMED PERSON.
SO I DON'T THINK THERE IS
ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT.
BUT AT THE SAME TIME, TO
TAKE AN INNOCENT LIFE --
BUT IN SELF-DEFENSE, I DO
BELIEVE THERE IS AN
EXCEPTION FOR THAT.
AND THAT'S WHAT YOU'RE
TALKING ABOUT.
Terry: THAT'S WHAT
OUR POLICE OFFICERS DO
EVERY DAY, IF THEY NEED
TO.
Pat: OF COURSE THEY
DO.
> THAT'S ALL OF THE TIME
WE'VE GOT.
THESE ARE TOUGH
QUESTIONS -- I MEAN TOUGH
QUESTIONS.
> WE LEAVE YOU WITH
TODAY'S POWER MINUTE FROM
JEREMIAH 33: 3: "CALL UNTO
ME AND I WILL ANSWER YOU
AND SHOW YOU GREAT AND
MIGHTY THINGS WHICH YOU DO
NOT KNOW."
> TOMORROW, LIVE LONG
AND LIVE STRONG.
MICHAEL ROYCE WILL BE WITH
US.
FOR TERRY AND ALL OF US,
THIS IS PAT ROBERTSON.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR
BEING WITH US.
WE'LL SEE YOU FOR AN
EXCITING THING ABOUT HOW
TO LIVE LONGER TOMORROW.