A married couple face life more like roommates than romantic partners until a dramatic event rekindles their love. See the explosive story on today’s 700 Club.
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AGREEMENT.
TODAY ON THE 700 CLUB
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HEZBOLLAH.
A MASSIVE ASSAULT ON ISRAEL
THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN EVEN THAN
THE HAMAS ATTACKS ON OCTOBER
7TH.
ISRAELI IN LEBANON ARE
CAPTURING THE WEAPONS THAT
WOULD HAVE BEEN USED ATTACKS.
PAUL STRAND BRINGS US THE STORY
FROM JERUSALEM.
IN SOUTHERN LEBANON, THE IDF
,THE WORLD HEZBOLLAH WAS SET
TO USE MANY HOMES JUST ACROSS
THE BORDER AS LAUNCHING PADS
FOR A MASSIVE INVASION OF THE
THE JEWISH NATION.
EVERY HOUSE IS A TERROR BASE
.
THE IDF CHIEF SPOKESMAN SAYS
HEZBOLLAH'S ELITE RADWAN UNITS
SET TO STRIKE FROM SIX OF THESE
LOCATIONS SIMULTANEOUSLY WITH
SOME 4 TO 6000 TERRORISTS.
THEY USE ALL THESE HOMES FOR
STORAGE.
YOU SEE THE HAND GRENADES
HERE, SNIPER RIFLES EXTREMELY
HIGH SNIPER RIFLES.
THE IDF SAYS THE INVASION
WOULD HAVE EVEN BEEN BIGGER
THAN HAMAS'S OCTOBER 7TH
ATTACKS.
HEZBOLLAH HAD PLACED ITS
TERRORIST ALONG THE BORDER
BORDER DAYS AFTER THOSE ATTACKS
WAITING FOR THE ORDER TO STRIKE
WHILE ISRAEL.
ISRAEL PREVENTED THAT POTENTIAL
INVASION.
IT'S ALSO PROMISING TO STRIKE
BACK AT IRAN FOR LAUNCHING MORE
THAN 180 BALLISTIC MISSILES AT
IT.
AND ISRAEL'S DEFENSE MINISTER
SAYS IT WILL HIT HARD IN
ANOTHER ATTACK WILL BE LETHAL,
PRECISE AND ABOVE ALL.
THEY WILL NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT
HAPPENED AND HOW, HOW IT
HAPPENED.
BUT A SENIOR IRANIAN
MILITARY ADVISER IS WARNING FOR
EVERY ONE LOCATION ISRAEL HITS
IRAN WILL TARGET DOZENS OF
ISRAELI BOTH CIVILIAN AND
MILITARY AND THE U.N..
THE U.N. RELIEF AND WORKS
AGENCY IS BACK IN THE NEWS THIS
TIME AS A NOMINEE FOR THE NOBEL
PEACE PRIZE AFTER BEING
NOMINATED IN FEBRUARY BY A
NORWEGIAN.
IT'S BELIEVED AT LEAST NINE
GAZANS ON UNRWA'S PAYROLL HAVE
TAKEN AN ACTIVE PART IN HAMAS'S
BRUTAL ASSAULT ON ISRAEL.
OCTOBER SEVEN.
SO THERE'S FRESH OUTRAGE THIS
WEEK THAT THE COMMITTEE PICKING
THE WINNER THE NOBEL PEACE
PRIZE REFUSED TO REMOVE UNRWA'S
NOMINATION PROTESTS FROM
THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE.
ONE MORE CRITIC HILLEL NEUER
U.N. WATCH WAS FURIOUS AT
PREDICTIONS THE U.N. RELIEF
AGENCY COULD.
IT WOULD BE REALLY AN AN
ABOMINATION.
IT WOULD BE OBSCENE.
I YELL AT SOME IRAN HIS SON SON
YONATAN WAS MURDERED ON OCTOBER
SEVEN AND THEN AN ULTRA SOCIAL
WORKER HAULED HIS BODY OFF TO
GAZA.
I YELL IT IS DISGUSTED UNWRA IN
THE RUNNING FOR THE PRESTIGIOUS
PEACE PRIZE.
WE ARE TALKING AN
ORGANIZATION THAT IS TAKING A
VERY ACTIVE PART THE MURDER,
RAPE AND KIDNAP OF OF INNOCENT
PEOPLE.
THE U.N. SECRETARY GENERAL
WHO'S CRITICAL OF ISRAEL AND
THE U.N. INTERNATIONAL COURT OF
JUSTICE WERE ALSO NOMINATED BUT
NONE OF THEM WON THE PRIZE
WHICH WENT TO A JAPANESE
ORGANIZATION OF ATOMIC BOMBING
SURVIVORS.
PAUL STRAND, CBN NEWS,
JERUSALEM.
NOW LET ME REMIND EVERYONE
THE U.N. WAS SUPPOSED TO KEEP
SOUTHERN LEBANON AS A WEAPONS
FREE ZONE AND HERE ISRAEL IS
SHOWING THE EVIDENCE THAT WELL,
THERE ARE A LOT IN FACT EVERY
SINGLE HOME ALONG THAT BORDER
WAS USED THEM AND YOU GO WHERE
WAS THE U.N. WHERE WHERE WAS
THE RESOLVE TO MAINTAIN PEACE
AND INSTEAD OF MAINTAINING THE
PEACE THEY'RE ACTUALLY FUNDING
THE WAR UNWRA HAD SALARIED
EMPLOYEES WHO WERE PART OF
HAMAS PARTICIPATED IN THE
OCTOBER 7TH ATTACKS.
IS ABSOLUTELY MIND BOGGLING
THAT THAT WOULD BE ALLOWED.
BUT THEN THERE WOULD BE
CRITICISM FROM THE U.N. STANDS
UP AND SAYS WE CAN'T HAVE UNWRA
OPERATING.
IT'S OBVIOUSLY COMPROMISED.
WE WE WE JUST CAN'T HAVE THAT.
LET'S RECOGNIZE THE TRUTH
HERE AND RECOGNIZE THAT THE
U.N. SEEMS TO ARRAYED AGAINST
ISRAEL.
AND ANYTHING COMING OUT OF THAT
ORGANIZATION DIRECTED AT ISRAEL
SHOULDN'T BE ALLOWED TO STAND
AND THE U.S. SHOULD STAND
ABSOLUTELY IT.
WELL, HERE AT HOME JEWS ALSO
FACE THREATS THEIR LIVES RIGHT
IN THE U.S..
JOHN JESSUP, THAT STORY FROM
OUR CBN NEWS BUREAU IN
WASHINGTON.
JOHN THAT'S RIGHT, GORDON.
JEWS AROUND THE WORLD AS
WELL AS HERE THE UNITED STATES
WILL OBSERVE YOM KIPPUR
BEGINNING TONIGHT.
IT IS DAY ON THE JEWISH
CALENDAR.
AMERICAN JEWS THOUGH THOUGH
ALSO FACE GROWING THREATS
SIMPLY BECAUSE OF WHO THEY ARE.
THIS MONTH AN ARMED GUNMEN
KILLED 11 PEOPLE AT THE TREE OF
LIFE SYNAGOGUE THE WORST
MASSACRE IN THE HISTORY OF THE
AMERICAN JEWISH COMMUNITY.
CBS 20 GRIFFITH SPOKE WITH A
SECURITY EXPERT WHO WAS THERE.
HE EXPLAINS WHO HE NOW TARGETS
FOR FULL TIME TRAINING AND WHAT
TO DO IN A WORST CASE SCENARIO
TRAIN THE COMMUNITY TO SURVIVE
FOR 3 TO 5 MINUTES.
AND WHY DO WE DO THAT?
IT'S THAT TIME WHEN SOMETHING
BAD HAPPENS AND LAW IS CALLED.
WHAT IS THE PROTOCOL IS RUN,
HIDE, FIGHT AS PITTSBURGH'S
FIRST JEWISH COMMUNAL SECURITY
DIRECTOR BRAD ORSINI WILL NEVER
FORGET SATURDAY, SEVENTH, 2018.
IT WAS A RAINY MORNING MORNING
.
WE ALL WENT DOWN THEN TO OUR
SANCTUARY SPACE.
I TURNED AROUND AND THERE
WAS THE MAN WITH THE GUN NOT
FAR SHOT BUT THEY HAVE AN
ACTIVE SHOOTER IN THE BUILDING
WAS AN UNIMAGINABLE WORST CASE
FOR THE JEWISH COMMUNITY THAT
AN INDIVIDUAL WENT IN WITH A
HIGH POWERED RIFLE, AN AR 15
AND JUST SHOT PEOPLE WHILE
THEY'RE PRAYING THEIR MOST
VULNERABLE.
11 PEOPLE LOST THEIR LIVES.
THERE WERE TWO BROTHERS AND A
HUSBAND AND WIFE AND IT WAS A
HORRIFIC CRIME SCENE.
ORSINI.
IT COULD HAVE BEEN WORSE HAD
CONGREGATES AT TREE AT TREE OF
LIFE SYNAGOGUE NOT BEEN
TRAINED.
THE PITTSBURGH COMMUNITY AND
THE JEWISH COMMUNITY TRAINED
FOR THIS AND WE SPENT FROM THE
TIME THE PROGRAM STARTED IN
JANUARY OF 2017 UP UNTIL THE
SHOOTING WE TRAINED OVER 6000
PEOPLE IN THE JEWISH ON BASIC
SAFETY MEASURES HOW TO SAVE
YOUR LIFE, ORSINI SAYS THE
NUMBER ONE RULE IN A SHOOTING
ATTACK IS RUN.
IT'S HARD TO HIT A MOVING
TARGET AND GIVE THEM
STATISTICS, SAYS, SAYS SOMEBODY
MOVING.
EVEN A TRAINED PROFESSIONAL
MIGHT HAVE TROUBLE HITTING A
MOVING TARGET.
THAT'S WHY ACTIVE SHOOTERS ARE
SO SUCCESSFUL.
PEOPLE LAY ON THE GROUND AND
THEY'RE EXECUTED.
AND WE BECAUSE THEY'RE
PARALYZED WITH FEAR BECAUSE
THEIR MIND CAN'T REACT.
THEIR HEART RATE IS SO HIGH.
DURING THE TREE OF LIFE THERE
WAS A 90 YEAR OLD MAN WHO RAN
UP TO FIGHT TWO STEPS
BARRICADED AND LIVED.
STEPHEN WEISS CREDITS THE
TRAINING AS AS WELL AS GOD FOR
SAVING HIS LIFE THAT DAY.
I RAN UP THE SIDE OF THE
CHAPEL ACROSS THE BIMA AND OUT
A DOOR THAT'S ON THAT SIDE OF
THE BIMA AS I WAS GOING OUT OF
THE DOOR.
SHOTS WERE STARTING TO HAPPEN
IN THE CHAPEL ITSELF.
I LOOK BACK ON IT AND TO GOD
HAS A REASON WHY I'M STILL
HERE.
ORSINI NOW TRAINS THE
COMMUNITY IN SECURITY ON A
NATIONAL LEVEL.
HE SAYS
OF ANTI-SEMITISM THE NEED IS
MORE IMPORTANT EVER.
WE'RE DOING A TRAINING
MODULE FOR JEWISH CAMPUS
STUDENTS AS WELL TO GIVE THEM
THAT HEIGHTENED AWARENESS TO
GIVE THOSE TOOLS NECESSARY SO
THEY CAN FEEL MORE EMPOWERED
BECAUSE WE WANT THEM TO LIVE
THEIR BEST BEST JEWISH LIFE.
ESPECIALLY ON CAMPUS THEY
SHOULD FEEL FREE TO WEAR A
KIPPAH, WEAR A STAR.
DAVID THAT IS MOVIES THROUGHOUT
THE CAMPUS THEY DON'T FEEL THAT
WE ARE LOSING.
AS THE THREAT OF MORE
WIDESPREAD VIOLENCE GROWS
COMBINED WITH STUDENTS BACK ON
CAMPUS AND JEWS CELEBRATING THE
HIGH HOLY DAYS, ORSINI SAYS THE
PRIORITY IS TO BE PREPARED AND
REMAIN VIGILANT.
WE'RE ENCOURAGING THE
COMMUNITY.
WE'RE BEGGING THE COMMUNITY.
YOU SEE A SIGN, A HATE REPORT
TO US AND WE WILL MAKE SURE WE
SURE WE ASSESS IT AND GET AT
THE LAW ENFORCEMENT IF
ACTIONABLE.
WENDY GRIFFITH CBS NEWS THE
THANK YOU, WENDY.
WELL, TURNING NOW TO THE
AFTERMATH OF HURRICANE MILTON,
RESIDENTS IN FLORIDA ARE TRYING
TO PUT THEIR LIVES BACK
TOGETHER IN THE WAKE STORM.
STILL, DESPITE THE DESTRUCTION,
MANY ARE RELIEVED WORSE.
SO WE STILL HEARD HAS A STORY.
FLORIDIANS ARE STILL
DISCOVERING THE FULL EXTENT OF
MILTON'S DESTRUCTION AND
LEARNING STORIES OF SURVIVAL.
THIS MAN WAS FOUND FLOATING 30
MILES OFF THE GULF COAST
CLINGING TO A COOLER TO STAY
AFLOAT.
THE COAST GUARD RESCUED HIM
AFTER HE TRIED TO RIDE OUT
MILTON ON HIS FISHING BOAT IN
FIVE FOOT SCENES.
MILTON CAME ASHORE WEDNESDAY
SOUTH OF TAMPA AS A CATEGORY
THREE HURRICANE.
THE.
THE HILLSBOROUGH COUNTY
SHERIFF'S DEPARTMENT WAS GOING
DOOR TO DOOR ON BOATS RESCUING
MORE THAN 700 PEOPLE.
PLEASE BE.
IF YOU FEEL BETTER, GO ON
THE DRY GROUND.
WE CAN TAKE YOU THERE.
FIVE WERE RESCUED FROM THIS
APARTMENT COMPLEX.
THIS THIS 14 YEAR OLD BOY
WAS FOUND FLOATING ON A PIECE
OF FENCE IN TAMPA.
A MOTHER AND SON USE THEIR
FISHING BOAT TO HELP STRANDED
PEOPLE.
THESE PEOPLE ALL NEED HELP.
NOBODY HAS BEEN HERE TODAY.
IN GULF COAST COMMUNITIES
FROM NAPLES TO VENICE, SOME
HAVE FOUND THEIR HOMES BURIED
UNDER AS MUCH AS THREE FEET OF
SAND.
EIGHT REPORTED TORNADOES
DAMAGED HUNDREDS OF HOMES ON
THE OTHER SIDE OF FLORIDA IN
PALM BEACH GARDENS.
THIS DUMPSTER WAS PICKED UP BY
A TORNADO AND THROWN ON TO OUR
HOUSE.
AT LEAST SIX PEOPLE WERE KILLED
WHEN A TORNADO HIT THIS
RETIREMENT COMMUNITY.
WHEN I WAS COMING BACK
AROUND THERE'S PEOPLE SCREAMING
IN THE TRAILER PARK AND TWO OR
THREE OF US JUMPED A DITCH TO
GO CHECK IT OUT AND.
ONE GUY WAS ALREADY PASSED AWAY
AND IT LOOKED LIKE THERE WAS A
BOMB WENT OFF RIGHT THERE.
THE PALM BEACH COUNTY
SHERIFF CALLED THE DAMAGE AREA
EXTENSIVE 200 HOMES HE SURVEYED
WERE UNINHABITABLE.
AND I CAN I CAN TELL YOU WHY
BECAUSE THE PLACES THAT I SAW
IT LOOKED LIKE IT WAS AN ATOMIC
ATOMIC BOMB BLEW IT UP.
OPERATION BLESSING ALREADY
HELPING VICTIMS OF HALLOWEEN IN
NORTH CAROLINA IS SENDING
PREDEPLOYMENT TEAMS INTO THE
TAMPA BAY AREA.
OB RELIEF WORKERS WILL BE
TAKING MOBILE KITCHENS,
CONSTRUCTION EQUIPMENT,
CHAINSAWS AND OTHER SUPPLIES TO
HELP THOSE IN NEED.
DALE HURD CBN NEWS.
HEARTBREAKING SCENES NOT
JUST PROPERTY UPROOTED GORDON
BUT LIVES ALSO UPROOTED.
THE DEATH TOLL IS HORRIBLE.
THESE THESE TRAGEDIES ARE JUST
AFTER ANOTHER AND WE WE CAN'T
GET INTO ABOUT THIS.
WE HAVE TO SAY WE NEED TO DO
OUR PART NEED TO SAY LET'S
LET'S BE OF HELP.
.
THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO ARE
SUFFERING WHO ARE IN ABSOLUTE
DESPERATE NEED AND WE WANT TO
BE THERE FOR THEM TO LET THEM
KNOW THAT WE LOVE THEM AND WE
CARE FOR THEM.
OUR MOTTO IS QUITE CLEAR WHEN
STRIKE WE STRIKE BACK WITH LOVE
AND COMPASSION.
WE PEOPLE TO KNOW THAT PEOPLE
CARE ABOUT THEM AND ARE DO
WHATEVER IT TAKES IN ORDER TO
HELP THEM.
IF YOU WANT TO BE TO BE A
PART OF THE RELIEF EFFORT IT'S
REAL SIMPLE PICK UP A PHONE AND
CALL US.
1-800-700-7000.
SAY I I WANT TO GIVE TO THE
OPERATION BLESSING DISASTER
RELIEF FUND.
CAN CALL THAT NUMBER.
YOU CAN GO ON CBS CBN.COM.
THERE'S A THE GIVING PAGE TO
DESIGNATE YOUR GIFT TO DISASTER
RELIEF.
YOU CAN TEXT OB D.R. 71777.
OR YOU CAN WRITE A CHECK AND
JUST PUT DISASTER RELIEF FUND
IN THE MEMO LINE.
MAIL IT TO US AT CBN CENTER
BEACH, VIRGINIA 23463.
BE A PART BE A PART OF HELPING
STAY CONNECTED WITH CBN ALL DAY
ACROSS OUR PLATFORMS.
MOST ISRAELI TEENAGERS ARE
DRAFTED INTO THE MILITARY RIGHT
AFTER THEY FINISH HIGH SCHOOL.
SOME OF THEM SPEND TIME A YEAR
AT AN ARMY PREP SCHOOL.
SINCE OCTOBER, THE FIVE FINGERS
IDF PREP SCHOOL HAS BEEN GIVING
A CRASH COURSE IN DEALING WITH
THE TRAUMA OF THE ONGOING.
CBS MIDDLE EAST CORRESPONDENT
JULIE STAHL REPORTS.
THEY CALL IT FIVE FINGERS
WHICH MEANS WHATEVER YOU DO DO
IT WITH YOUR FULL HEART, MIND,
SOUL AND STRENGTH.
THIS IS LIKE A PREPARATORY
SCHOOL FOR LIFE WHERE STUDENTS
LEARN THEIR HEARTS AND EVEN LAY
DOWN THEIR LIVES FOR THE GOOD
THE GOOD OF OTHERS.
IT'S A WAY OF LIFE.
IT'S A PHILOSOPHY.
FORMER ISRAELI SEAL DRAW
YANAI LEADS THE FIVE FINGERS
MACHINA, A ONE YEAR PROGRAM
HELPING.
YOUNG PEOPLE GET READY FOR
CHALLENGES THEY'LL FACE IN THE
IDF AND LIFE OVERALL.
THE FIVE FINGERS.
IT'S A VALUE THAT YOU
UNDERSTAND FROM DAY
ONE EVERYTHING YOU DO YOU DO IT
TILL THE END.
THAT YOU DO THE BEST THAT
YOU CAN.
KEY PRINCIPLES INCLUDE THE
MIND AND BODY IN THE FIVE
FINGERS METHOD WITH A FOCUS ON
COMMUNITY OUTREACH AND SOCIAL
AWARENESS.
VERY HARD TO TEST THOSE
THINGS ALL IN THE COURSE LIFE.
IT TAKES TIME TO SEE THE
IMPACT.
THIS PAST YEAR 67 STUDENTS FROM
ISRAEL AND OTHER COUNTRIES TOOK
PART IN MONTH PROGRAM.
IT BEGAN ABOUT A MONTH BEFORE
THE OCTOBER WAR.
FIVE FINGERS BOARD MEMBER SAW
FELDMAN SAYS DEALING WITH THE
IMPACT AND REPERCUSSIONS OF
THAT TURNED THEIR CRASH COURSE.
AND WHAT THE MACHINE THAT
DID WAS.
IN A WEEK THERE WAS A WHOLE
PROGRAM TO HELP KIDS THAT WAS
REFUGEES FROM THE SOUTH.
SUDDENLY THE SITUATION PUT
STUDENTS LIFE TEST AND IT WAS
AMAZING TO SEE.
THEY WERE BECOMING LIKE
TEACHERS LIKE COACHES FOR KIDS
AND NOT FOR
KIDS THAT CAME WITH ALL THE
IMPACT AND ALL HORROR THAT
THEY'VE SEEN.
15 PAST GRADUATES HAVE DIED
DURING THE WAR.
A HIGH PERCENTAGE LEADERS
ATTRIBUTE TO MANY SERVING IN
TOP UNITS AND TO LAY DOWN THEIR
LIVES FOR OTHERS.
CBN NEWS NEWS MET THREE
STUDENTS FROM THE U.S. AND
CANADA WHO JOINED THE SCHOOL.
19 YEAR OLD JILL DORI FROM
PHILADELPHIA FINISHED THIS YEAR
AS PART OF THE SCHOOL'S SIXTH
GRADUATING CLASS.
I'M A GAP YEAR BEFORE THE ARMY
AFTER HIGH SCHOOL A VERY
SPECIAL YEAR A YEAR WHERE I
WANTED TO BETTER TO BETTER
MYSELF.
I WANTED TO LEARN NEW THINGS.
I WANTED TO COME TO ISRAEL AND
AND THE CULTURE AND THE
LANGUAGE.
WHILE DORY THE GREAT
GRANDSON OF THE IDF OF STAFF
DIDN'T HAVE TO SERVE IN THE
ARMY, HE CHOSE SO.
IT'S BEEN GREAT.
THERE'S BEEN ROUGH PARTS BUT
OVERALL IT'S BEEN A GREAT YEAR
AFTER THE WAR AND EVERYTHING
WE'VE DONE AND THE WHOLE YEAR
THAT WE WE SPENT HERE I THINK
THERE'S THERE'S NOTHING MORE
MEANINGFUL THAT I'VE DONE IN MY
LIFE THAN THIS.
BORN IN ISRAEL LEHIGH MOVED
TO BALTIMORE, MARYLAND AT EIGHT
YEARS OLD.
SHE THE PROGRAM LAST SUMMER.
I HEARD THAT WE'RE MOVING
MOVING DOWN SOUTH TO VOLUNTEER
AND HELP KIDS.
I WAS WONDERING IF I'M
COMING BACK.
I DON'T CARE.
I WANT TO HELP.
FRIEDMAN SAYS WHILE IT'S
DIFFICULT BEING AWAY FROM HER
FAMILY, SHE THE RIGHT CHOICE.
IT WAS DEFINITELY THE
HARDEST YEARS THAT I'VE EVER
HAD IN MY HAD IN MY LIFE BUT
THE BEST YEAR WHEN I WANT TO DO
ANYTHING ELSE.
DESPITE THE CHALLENGES OF
HELPING CHILDREN WHO'VE HAD TO
DEAL WITH TRAGEDY, FRIEDMAN
SAYS IT'S WORTH IT.
IT WAS DEFINITELY HARDER
HEARING ALL THE TRAUMA THEY
WENT THROUGH.
WHILE WE DON'T KNOW WHAT'S
GOING ON WHAT WILL HAPPEN NEXT.
SO IT WAS DEFINITELY HARD BUT
AT THE END WE REALLY JUST SAW
HOW IMPACTFUL WE WERE THEY
STILL TALK TO US.
WE REALLY MADE A CONNECTION
WITH PEOPLE THAT WE NEVER KNEW
WE WOULD EVER IN OUR LIVES.
ABRAHAM FROM TORONTO, CANADA
FIRST CAME TO ISRAEL HALF YEARS
AGO.
I JUST FELT SOMETHING
DIFFERENT IN THE AIR.
I JUST LOVED IT.
I FELT LIKE MYSELF HERE.
MY LIFE GOAL IS TO GET ARMY
DRAFT AND TO COMBAT TO PROTECT
THIS COUNTRY THAT I LOVE SO
EVENTUALLY YOU LIVE HERE AND
RAISE KIDS HERE.
ABRAHAM CAME CAME TO THE
MAFIA IN ORDER TO ENTER THE
DRAFT AND THEN OCTOBER HAPPENED
.
MY MOM CALLED ME AND SHE
SAID EZRA, YOU'RE COMING HOME.
STOP IT.
I'M SORRY.
I'M PART OF THEM THAT I'M PART
OF.
I JOINED JOINED THE ISRAELI
CULTURE AND THIS IS THE
ULTIMATE TEST.
IF THEY'RE ALL STRUGGLING I'M.
IF THEY GO TO WAR, I GO TO
WAR.
A FEW WEEKS LATER THEY BECAME
CERTIFIED COACHES HELPING
EVACUEES IN A LOT AND WE
BASICALLY TAUGHT THESE KIDS
VALUES AND GAVE THEM A REASON
TO WAKE UP UP EVERY MORNING.
EVEN WHEN I WASN'T GIVING
THEM WORKOUTS I WAS JUST WITH
THEM BECAUSE THAT BIG BROTHER
THEY BUILT THEIR HEARTS AND ME
THEY CAN CALL ME WHATEVER THEY
WANT.
THAT'S WHERE IT'S LIKE AND
WITH SOME KIDS HAVING A LITTLE
BIT OF A MELTDOWN AND I ASK THE
DOG AND TALK TO DAD DAD'S A
HOSTAGE.
WHAT DO YOU SAY TO THAT?
.
WHILE HE ENTERED HERE AS A
STUDENT, ABRAHAM SAYS THE WAR
HIM QUICKLY MATURE.
IT'S THE STORY OF THESE KIDS
AND GIVING KIDS THAT WENT
THROUGH SO MUCH.
THERE'S NOTHING BETTER THAN
GIVING BACK TO THESE PEOPLE.
THAT'S THE ULTIMATE DORI SUMS
UP WHAT THIS YEAR HAS MEANT TO
HIM.
I ALWAYS SAID TO MYSELF WHEN
I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL AND STUFF
WE STARTED.
THAT TAUGHT ME ABOUT LIFE ABOUT
AND IT TAUGHT ME ABOUT HOW I
CAN BE PERSON AND THIS IS THAT
THIS IS EXACTLY THAT.
SITTING THROUGH THESE LECTURES
AND STUFF IS LESSONS THAT YOU
CAN TAKE TO YOUR LIFE THAT THEN
YOU CAN PROCESS AND USE ONWARD.
AND THAT'S WHAT LIKE THE GOAL
THAT THAT LIES HERE.
JULIE STAHL NEWS.
FIVE FINGERS MINA'S CORNEA A
COVE.
WELL THAT'S JUST ONE OF THE
REASONS WITH ISRAEL.
JUST IMAGINE THAT KIND OF
PROGRAM.
SOMEONE WHO HAS THE
OPPORTUNITY TO LIVE IN THE
UNITED STATES BUT THEY SAY NO,
I WANT TO BE WITH PEOPLE.
I WANT TO BE IN ISRAEL.
I WANT TO RAISE TO RAISE A
FAMILY HERE.
THIS IS WHERE I WANT TO LIVE.
AND RIGHT NOW THAT HOMELAND IS
IN DANGER AND WANT TO DO
EVERYTHING IN MY POWER TO
PROTECT IT.
WHAT AN INCREDIBLE CULTURE.
WHAT AN INCREDIBLE HEART SAY
I'M ALL IN.
IT'S JUST PART OF THE GENIUS
.
WHY IS ISRAEL IN THE MIDDLE OF
ALL THIS CONFLICT IN THE MIDDLE
TERRORISM, ALL THE OPPOSITION
THAT IS SEEMINGLY MARSHALED
AGAINST THEM FROM AROUND THE
WORLD?
THEY STILL STAND STRONG AND ON
RATINGS OF WHAT ARE THE
HAPPIEST NATIONS IN THE WORLD.
THEY STILL RANK IN THE TOP TEN.
IT'S ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE.
.
AND I WANT YOU TO HAVE A
WONDERFUL DOCUMENTARY THAT
WE'VE PUT TOGETHER CALLED THE
GENIUS OF ISRAEL THAT EXAMINES
ARE THE ASPECTS OF THEIR
CULTURE THAT MAKE SUCH A
SIGNIFICANT AND THE CONTRAST
BETWEEN ISRAELI AND THEIR VALUE
OF LIFE AND THE CULTURE OF
HAMAS AND THE CULTURE OF
HEZBOLLAH AND THE CULTURE OF
THE IRANIAN THEOCRACY.
THOSE ARE CULTURES OF DEATH
WHERE THEY SOMEHOW THINK
THEY'RE GOING TO PARADISE IF
THEY.
THEY DIE IN AND IN ATTACKING
JEWS.
IT'S JUST ABSOLUTELY A STARK
CONTRAST AN ISLAMIC DEATH CULT
VERSUS THIS WONDERFUL
FLOURISHING CULTURE THAT'S A
LIGHT TO THE NATION OR STARTUP
NATION THIS WONDERFUL SHOWS YOU
THE REASONS WHY.
WHAT ARE THE VARIOUS THINGS IN
ISRAELI THAT ALL COME TOGETHER
TO MAKE THIS SO UNIQUE SUCH A
LIGHT TO THE NATIONS?
YOU CAN HAVE IT FOR A GIFT OF
AMOUNT AND YOUR CONTRIBUTION
WILL GO INTO A FUTURE DOCUMENT
.
RIGHT NOW WE'RE WORKING ON
ONE CALLED THE ORACLES OF GOD
WHICH EXPLAINS HOW WE GOT THE
SCRIPTURES AND HOW THE SAME
BIBLE JESUS AND THE DISCIPLES
READ 2000 YEARS AGO IS THE
ONE WE HAVE TODAY.
I THINK IT'S REALLY IMPORTANT
TO GET THAT GET THAT MESSAGE
OUT AND YOUR GUEST WILL GO INTO
THE PRODUCTION COSTS OF THAT.
SO TO GET A DVD COPY OF THE
GENIUS OF ISRAEL THEN INSTANT
4K STREAMING ACCESS ON THE CBN
FAMILY APP TO JUST CALL US
ONE 707,000 OR YOU CAN GO TO
THE GENIUS OF ISRAEL FILM DOT.
YOU CAN ALSO TEXT GENIUS TO
THAT USE FOR YOU.
CALL
LEE HAUER HAUER FELT LIKE HE
WAS BEING STABBED BY NEEDLES AT
TIMES HIS LIPS TURNED BLUE.
THIS BOY HAD A HOLE IN HIS
HEART AND WITHOUT AN OPERATION
HE COULD DIE.
LEE HOWE HAS BEEN AN
ASPIRING AUTHOR SINCE.
HE WAS TEN ALTHOUGH I STARTED
WRITING ABOUT A BOY WHO ALWAYS
OVERCAME HIS ENEMIES.
THERE WAS A LOT OF HOPE IN MY
STORIES WHICH GAVE ME HOPE.
LEE HOWE WAS BORN WITH A
HOLE IN HIS HEART.
HIS MOTHER ABANDONED THE FAMILY
LEAVING HIS FATHER TO RAISE LEE
HOWE ALONE.
HIS CLOTHES WERE MUCH WORSE
THAN THE OTHER KIDS HE CARVED
AND CARVED.
IT IS HARD BEING REALLY
POOR.
IT WAS DIFFICULT TO WATCH HIM.
MY HEART WAS REALLY BAD LIKE A
BIG STONE PRESSING ON THAT.
MR. STONG WORKED LONG HOURS
.
WHENEVER POSSIBLE HE RESEARCHED
REMEDIES AND WENT TO THE
MOUNTAINS TO GET HERBS HE
THOUGHT MIGHT CURE LEO'S.
BUT NOTHING WORKED AND LEE HOWE
CONTINUED GET WORSE.
THE LARGER THE HOLE GOT THE
WAS ON HIS HEART AND THE MORE
PAIN JUST JUST SOMETIMES DEEP.
CAUSE MY HEART BEAT REALLY
FAST LIKE A NEEDLE NEEDLE WAS
PIERCING ME.
I FELT DIZZY AND MY EYES GOT
HOT AND COVERED MY CHEST AND
LAY ON THE GROUND.
MY CLASSMATES AT ME.
SOMETIMES HE GOT PNEUMONIA.
I LOOK AWFUL.
HIS LIPS GOT BLUE.
I WAS I WAS SCARED.
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THE DOCTOR HOMICIDE A CRITICAL
NOTICE HE SAID THAT IF LEE HOW
DID HE GET SURGERY?
HE MIGHT LIVE TO BE 20 YEARS
OLD.
BUT THE SURGERY WAS VERY AND
THERE WAS NO WAY FOR ME TO EVER
AFFORD IT.
THE NEWS LIKE A BUILDING
CRASHING DOWN ON ME.
I WAS THEN COLD AND I COULDN'T
CATCH MY BREATH.
THE OXYGEN IN MY NOSE.
I HAVE A FRIEND WHO ALSO HAD
HEART DISEASE AND HE DIED OF A
HEART ATTACK.
I WAS WORRIED I HAD TO DIE JUST
LIKE HIM.
THROUGH IT ALL LEE HOWE
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FOR MONTHS DON SPICER
WORKING PART TIME AT HER CHURCH
SHE WAS SINGING ON THE PRAISE
TEAM CONDUCTING BIBLE STUDIES
AND HAVING AN AN AFFAIR WITH A
COWORKER.
ALL THE WHILE SHE THOUGHT IT'S
GOING TO BE OKAY.
DON AND JEREMY SPICER'S
MARRIAGE HAD GOTTEN OFF TO A
GREAT START.
THE COUPLE LOVED THEIR TIME
TOGETHER.
WE SEEM TO GET ALONG VERY WELL
AND YOU KNOW, I NEVER SAW ANY
RED FLAGS.
I DIDN'T FEEL LIKE HAD
PROBLEMS.
IT WAS GOOD.
IT WAS GOOD.
BUT THAT STARTED TO WHEN THREE
YEARS INTO THEIR MARRIAGE THEY
HAD TWIN BOYS.
I BELIEVE OUR FOCUS CHANGED
FROM BEING FOCUSED ON EACH
OTHER BEING BEING FOCUSED ON
OUR MARRIAGE TO BEING FOCUSED
ON OUR BOYS BEING PARENTS.
OUR MARRIAGE WAS STRAINED
BECAUSE.
HOWEVER, I DON'T THINK EITHER
OF US REALLY SAW THAT.
IN ADDITION TO TAKING CARE OF
THE DON WORKED PART TIME AT
THEIR CHURCH AND WAS A SINGER
ON THE WORSHIP WORSHIP TEAM.
OVER THE NEXT FEW YEARS SHE
STARTED FEELING OVERWHELMED AND
THAT SHE WASN'T BEING A GOOD
MOM OR WIFE.
SAW MYSELF AS NEVER BEEN GOOD
ENOUGH.
I NEVER WAS CONFIDENT IN
ANYTHING.
ALWAYS FELT LIKE I HAD MOM
GUILT THAT I COULD DO SOMETHING
BETTER AND AS A WIFE I FELT
LIKE I COULD DO BETTER.
I FELT LIKE, YOU KNOW, JEREMY
DESERVED BETTER.
THERE WAS NOTHING THAT ANYONE
ELSE WAS MAKING FELT LIKE IT
WAS MY OWN INSECURITIES.
JEREMY HAD HIS OWN STRUGGLES
AND THE COUPLE STARTED GROWING
APART.
DAD WAS FOCUSED ON TAKING CARE
OF THE BOYS AND JUST REALLY NOT
PUTTING THE FOCUS ON HER AS
MUCH FOCUS ON HER AS LIKE I
SHOULD BE FEELING ALONE.
DON WAS DRAWN TO A COWORKER'S
AFFIRMATION.
HE WOULD TELL ME GOOD JOB OR
.
HE DID GREAT TODAY OR THINGS
LIKE THAT WHICH KIND OF BOOSTED
MY CONFIDENCE AND MADE ME FEEL
GOOD.
THAT WAS FILLING A VOID OF
OF NOT BEING GOOD ENOUGH AND
ALL OF THAT AND HEARING THOSE
THINGS FROM HIM LED US INTO A
BAD PLACE THAT BAD PLACE WAS AN
AFFAIR THAT LASTED THREE MONTHS
AND THE ONLY WAY TO IN IT WAS
TO JUSTIFY IT.
I NEVER THOUGHT I'M GOING TO
LEAVE.
I NEVER THOUGHT I'M GOING TO
LEAVE MY CHILDREN.
I WOULD JUST KIND OF PRETEND
THAT JEREMY WASN'T IN THE
PICTURE WHEN WHEN I WAS WITH
HIM AND VICE VERSA WHEN I WOULD
COME HOME
BOX AND PRETEND IT WASN'T THERE
AND I WOULD JUST BE WIFE AND I
WOULD JUST BE MOM.
AND SO JUST IN MY HEAD
JUSTIFIED IT ALL AND JUST SAID
JEREMY JEREMY WILL NOT FIND OUT
AND IT'S ALL GOING TO BE OKAY.
DON SPICER IS HERE WITH US
NOW FOR MORE OF HER STORY, WE
WELCOME YOU TO THE PROGRAM.
THANK YOU SO MUCH.
YOU HAD THE PERFECT FAMILY KNOW
YOUR COUPLE THAT LOVED EACH
OTHER STARTED TWO PERFECT
LITTLE BOYS.
WHAT HAPPENED?
I WAS TRYING TO FILL A VOID
THAT I FELT INSIDE OF ME WITH
SOMETHING OTHER THAN GOD.
AND SO I WAS CRAVING THE
ACCOLADE AFFIRMATIONS FROM
PEOPLE AND THAT'S WHAT I
THOUGHT WAS GOING TO COMPLETE
ME.
DON IN YOUR BOOK YOU TALK
ABOUT THE FACT THAT YOU WERE
EVEN FEELING SOME OF THOSE
THINGS AND JEREMY EVER MARRIED
AND YOU KNOW WHEN WE'RE IN
CHURCH THE DOING THE RIGHT
STUFF AND GOING THROUGH THROUGH
ALL OF THAT AND WE FEEL THAT
EMPTINESS THERE'S ALWAYS
SOMETHING BEFORE US THAT WE
THINK IS GOING TO WHEN I GET
HERE WHEN I MEET THIS PERSON I
DO THAT.
BUT YOU TALK ABOUT THE FACT
THAT REALLY INTENDED THAT THIS
WOULD DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE SO
OF THIS WHILE IT WAS HAPPENING,
HOW DID YOU JUSTIFY IT?
WHAT WAS IN YOUR HEAD, IN
YOUR HEART?
IT WAS A DISTURBING PLACE TO BE
WHEN LIKE I SAID.
I WOULD COMPARTMENTALIZE
THINGS.
SO WHEN I WAS AT HOME I PLAYED
THAT PART AND WHEN I WAS WITH
HIM I PLAYED THAT PART I KIND
OF JUST BLOCKED EACH OTHER OR
EACH THING OUT.
BUT IN THE DEEPEST, DARKEST PIT
OF SIN I THOUGHT GOING TO MAKE
THIS GOOD AND REDEEM IT.
YEAH.
YEAH.
WELL HE DOES BUT IT'S NEVER
EASY, IS IT?
NO.
YOU SHARE WITH WITH A FRIEND
THINKING THAT THE FRIEND WHO'S
A VERY CLOSE PERSONAL IS GOING
TO KEEP THIS CONFIDENCE AND
WHAT?
SHE SHE KEPT IT FOR A LITTLE
BIT AND THEN SHE REALLY JUST
SAID YOU'VE GOT TO TELL OR I.
AND SO KIND OF GAVE THAT
ULTIMATUM WHICH REALLY SAVED MY
IN A WAY.
SO YEAH THAT THAT'S THAT'S A
TRUE FRIEND THAT WILL CALL YOU
TO ACCOUNTABILITY.
WHAT WAS IT LIKE WHEN YOU
FINALLY SAID I HAVE TO TELL
JEREMY?
WHAT WAS THAT LIKE?
THAT WAS KIND OF THE MOMENT I
THINK I'VE EVER FELT THINKING
ABOUT THE DESTRUCTION THAT WAS
GOING TO COME FROM THAT.
THE PAIN FOR HIM THAT WAS GOING
TO COME COME FROM THAT AND SO
IT WAS A TERRIFYING THING BUT
IT WAS AN ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY
THING.
HOW DID YOU MANAGE WHAT HE
WAS FEELING?
BECAUSE IT WAS YOU LOVED HIM
BUT TO WATCH SOMEONE LOVE GO
THROUGH PAIN LIKE THAT WHEN YOU
KNOW YOU'RE THE ONE CAUSING IT
HOW YOU DEAL WITH THAT.
THAT WAS A HARD SPACE TO BE
REALLY.
IT WAS JUST FULLY SURRENDERING
TO THE LORD AND BEGGING FOR HIS
HELP.
THERE WAS A MOMENT WHERE JEREMY
WAS LAYING ON THE BATHROOM
FLOOR UNABLE UNABLE TO EVEN GET
UP BECAUSE HE WAS SO DEVASTATED
AND I LAID THERE BESIDE HIM
THINKING I SHOULD BE THE
ONE THAT'S COMFORTING HIM BUT.
I'M THE ONE THAT HAS INFLICTED
SO MUCH OF THIS PAIN.
AND SO IT WAS A VERY STRANGE
DUALITY TO BE IN.
YEAH, BUT IT'S NOT AN
UNUSUAL STORY REALLY.
I MEAN WE SEE THIS HAPPENING
NOT JUST OUT THERE THE WORLD
BUT IN THE CHURCH AND WITH
PEOPLE WHOM PROBABLY EVER
THOUGHT THEY'D SEE THEMSELVES
THERE THROUGH OF THIS GOD HAS
REALLY TAUGHT YOU THINGS,
SPOKEN THINGS TO YOU WHERE THIS
AND BEGIN YOU KNOW IT GETS A
FOOTHOLD AND THEN WE SAY YES TO
ONE THING AND PRETTY SOON WE'RE
UP TO OUR ELBOWS.
TALK ABOUT DYING.
IT STARTS WITH SMALL
DECISIONS THAT REALLY JUST IN
THE MOMENT BUT STUFF THAT
ONE DECISION OF JUSTIFICATION
THAT JUST LEADS TO THE NEXT.
AND I HEARD THE SAYING OFTEN
ARE ALWAYS ONE DECISION AWAY
FROM A BAD DECISION AND I
DIDN'T EVER UNDERSTAND THAT
UNTIL I WAS IN THAT POSITION
AND IT REALLY DOES IT STARTS
WITH THAT ONE LITTLE JUSTIFIED
NATION WHERE YOU JUST DON'T
THINK IT'S A BIG DEAL AND IT
SLOWLY BECOMES A STRONGHOLD.
SO YOU TELL TELL YOUR
HUSBAND AND YOU'RE WALKING
THROUGH THE MUCK AND THE MIRE
OF ALL OF THIS WHICH HAD TO BE
AWFUL FOR ALL OF YOU, FOR YOUR
HUSBAND, YOUR FAMILY, YOU BUT
GOD HAS OBVIOUSLY REACHED INTO
YOUR HEART AND YOUR MIND AND
THAT EMPTINESS WAS THERE EVEN
BEFORE JEREMY WHILE YOU WERE
GOING THROUGH ALL THE
PERFUNCTORY CHURCH IS NOW FULL.
HOW DID GOD MINISTER WHOLENESS
TO YOU IN SUCH A PLACE OF
BROKENNESS?
WHEN YOU GET TO THAT PLACE OF
BROKENNESS YOU'RE COMPLETELY
EMPTY.
THERE'S NOTHING LEFT.
AND DAY IN AND DAY OUT FOR
MANY, MANY MONTHS I SAT AT OUR
KITCHEN TABLE AND IT STARTED
OFF WITH ME JUST BEING ABLE TO
JUST SAY JESUS HELP AND I JUST
CONTINUED TO JUST DIVE WORD AND
SEEK HIM AND SURRENDER AND THE
FREEDOM THAT COMES FROM FULL OR
FULLY SURRENDERING TO HIM IS
LIKE NOTHING ELSE THAT YOU CAN
POSSIBLY FATHOM IN YOUR LIFE.
AND SO FEELING THAT FREEDOM FOR
THE VERY FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE
HAS GIVEN ME FULLNESS THAT HOPE
AND THAT JOY THAT I WILL LIVE
WITH.
I AM IN ETERNITY WITH HIM.
WHAT ARE THE OTHER ELEMENTS BE
A PART OF THIS FOR THIS TO ALL
TRANSITION INTO A MIRACULOUS
RECOVERY HAD TO BE JEREMIAH'S
FORGIVENESS?
ABSOLUTELY THAT COME ABOUT.
HE AS SOON AS I CONFESS
ABSOLUTELY BROKEN BUT HE
IMMEDIATELY LOOKED AT ME AND HE
SAID I HAVE A GOD THAT FORGAVE
ME.
HOW DARE I NOT FORGIVE YOU?
HE DID JUST THAT.
AND THAT'S NOT TO SAY THAT IT
IT WASN'T A STRUGGLE.
IT WASN'T A FIGHT.
BUT HE NOT ONCE DID IN MY FACE
AFTER THAT HE FULLY FORGAVE ME
AND FROM AND FROM THAT POINT ON
JUST DECIDED THAT WE WERE GOING
TO FIGHT HARD AND WORK THIS OUT
.
THE OTHER ASPECT OF THAT HAD
TO BE YOU FORGIVING YOURSELF.
ABSOLUTELY.
ABSOLUTELY TO BE A
CHALLENGE.
IT WAS A AND THAT'S WHERE
COUNSELING CAME IN.
THAT'S WHERE THE ACCOUNTABILITY
.
I DID ABSOLUTELY.
YES.
I THINK COUNSELING IS AN
ABSOLUTE DEFINITE IN THIS AND I
HAD A SMALL INNER CIRCLE OF
THAT SURROUNDED ME AND SPOKE
TRUTH TO ME AND THAT IS CARRIED
ME TO THE NEXT LEVEL.
YOU TALK ABOUT THAT HOW
IMPORTANT IT IS TO HAVE PEOPLE
IN YOUR LIFE TO WALK THROUGH
THE MUDDY PLACES WITH YOU TO
GET TO THE THE WHOLENESS.
IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU FOUND THAT
GROUP.
I DID.
THERE WERE A LOT OF PEOPLE THAT
RAN.
THERE WERE A LOT OF PEOPLE THAT
RAN RAN AND YOU CAN'T BLAME
THEM FOR THAT BECAUSE THESE ARE
SITUATIONS THAT YOU DON'T KNOW
HOW KNOW HOW TO HANDLE.
A LOT OF PEOPLE DON'T KNOW HOW
TO HANDLE IT.
BUT I DID I HAD A SMALL CIRCLE
OF WOMEN AT THE CHURCH THAT
CHOSE TO STEP IN THE MUD, CARRY
ME THROUGH AND AND EXODUS
THERE'S A STORY TALKS ABOUT
MOSES WHERE HE IS ON THE HILL
ON THE HILL THEY'RE FIGHTING
AND JOSHUA THAT WERE WITH HIM
CAME AND CARRIED HIM OR HELD
HIS ARMS UP SO THAT THEY COULD
FIGHT.
AND I REALLY FEEL LIKE THAT'S
WHAT MY PEOPLE DID FOR FOR ME
WAS THEY HELD MY ARMS UP AND
CARRIED ME TO FREEDOM TO THE
FINISH LINE.
WHAT DO YOU.
YOUR BOOK IS CALLED EVEN STILL
THE JOURNEY FROM BETRAYAL TO
FORGIVENESS AND REDEMPTION.
WHAT DO TAKEAWAY TO BE FOR
PEOPLE?
I WANT THE TAKEAWAY TO BE
FOR ONE IF YOU ARE IN DARKNESS
RIGHT NOW, IF ARE SITTING IN
SIN OR WHATEVER POOR CHOICE OR
STRUGGLE THAT YOU TURN THE
LIGHT ON.
STEP INTO THE LIGHT BECAUSE THE
DARKNESS WILL ONLY GET DARKER
AND THERE IS SO MUCH FREEDOM
AND THERE IS A LOVES YOU MORE
THAN YOU CAN POSSIBLY FATHOM
LOVES YOU MORE THAN ANY ANY
POOR DECISION THAT YOU'VE MADE.
AND SO JUST TURN THE LIGHT ON
AND TAKE THAT FIRST STEP.
WELL, THE BOOK IS CALLED EVEN
IT'S AVAILABLE NATIONWIDE.
DON, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR
BEING WITH US TODAY.
HER FROM THE DARKNESS AND I'D
NEVER CRIED THE WAY I CRIED IN
THAT MOMENT.
MONDAY BABA ARGUED ABOUT
EVERYTHING.
THEY DIDN'T SEE EYE ANYTHING.
THEY DIDN'T EVEN LIKE EACH
OTHER.
THIS THIS COUPLE'S MARRIAGE WAS
MISERABLE UNTIL THE DAY THEY
TOOK TOOK A BOAT RIDE.
SEPTEMBER 19TH, 99 WE TOOK
THE BOAT OUT ONTO THE RIVER FOR
A CRUISE.
WHAT HAPPENED NEXT?
IT CHANGED OUR LIVES FOREVER.
CAROL AND I WERE MARRIED ON
AUGUST 24TH, 1984.
WHAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN A DAY
THAT USHERED IN MARITAL BLISS
WAS INSTEAD THE BEGINNING OF A
VOLATILE UNION.
WE ARGUED ABOUT EVERYTHING
WE ARGUED ABOUT NOTHING.
CAROL TO GET MARRIED AND I
DIDN'T AND I FIGURED IF I
MARRIED HER THAT THE ARGUMENT
WOULD STOP AND WE'D GET ALONG A
LITTLE BETTER AND OBVIOUSLY
THAT DIDN'T WORK OUT VERY WELL.
WE'RE TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE.
WE'RE JUST TOTAL OPPOSITE.
SO MANY PEOPLE ARE TOTAL BUT WE
DON'T SEE EYE TO EYE ON
ANYTHING.
WHAT MADE MATTERS WORSE WAS
THAT I GREW UP IN AN ITALIAN
AND IT SEEMED LIKE THE MEN GAVE
THE WOMEN WHATEVER WANTED AND
THAT'S WHAT I EXPECTED ALSO.
OUR WORLD WERE SO DIFFERENT AND
WE REALLY DIDN'T LIKE A MARRIED
COUPLE.
WE WERE MORE LIKE ROOMMATES.
WE JUST I THINK I THINK THERE
WAS ALWAYS A SPARK OF LOVE
THERE BUT WE JUST DIDN'T LIKE
EACH OTHER.
I THINK WE BOTH WANTED TO BE
RIGHT AND COULDN'T UNDERSTAND
WHY THE OTHER PERSON WASN'T
THINKING THE THE SAME AS CAROL
BECAME MORE AND MORE BITTER.
I ESCAPED THROUGH DRINKING
ALCOHOL AND STAYING GONE.
I A PILOT I WAS ABLE TO PICK UP
THE LONGEST TRIPS I COULD PICK
PICK UP I STAYED HAS GONE AS
MUCH AS I COULD.
THE MORE THAT TRIED TO
CHANGE HIM, THE MORE THAT HE
STONEWALLED.
HE AND THAT'S WHY HE DIDN'T
EVEN WANT TO COME HOME.
ALCOHOL JUST SEEMED TO DOLE THE
PAIN.
DRINKING WAS A REAL PROBLEM FOR
ME.
IF HE HAD ONE DRINK HE WAS
GOING TO HAVE DRINKS AND THEN
HE WOULD JUST NOT BE BE FUN TO
BE AROUND FOR THE NEXT 15
YEARS.
WE FURTHER AND FURTHER
APART.
WE SORT OF SETTLED INTO
MEDIOCRE OR LESS THAN MEDIOCRE.
EVERYTHING ON SEPTEMBER 19TH,
1999.
IT IT STARTED WITH US ATTENDING
MY FRIEND'S WEDDING AT THE
BEGINNING OF THE WEDDING BILLIE
GOES DOWN TO THE FRONT OF THE
CHAPEL AND HE GAVE US HE JUST
TALKED ABOUT WHAT JESUS HAD
DONE IN HIS LIFE AND I JUST
KNEW GOD WAS SPEAKING TO ME.
GOD WAS TELLING ME BOB TO GET
OFF THE FENCE.
IT'S TIME TO QUIT DRINKING AND
IT WAS JUST PROBABLY THE
CLEAREST I'D EVER HEARD GOD
SPEAK AND I JUST KNEW THAT MY
LIFE WAS GOING TO CHANGE.
LATER THAT DAY WE TOOK OUR
BOAT OUT ONTO THE OHIO RIVER A
CRUISE.
I TOLD CAROL WHAT I FELT GOD
HAD SPOKEN ME THAT DAY.
I'M THINKING WELL THAT
SOUNDS REALLY GOOD.
I DON'T REALLY KNOW THAT'S
GOING TO HAPPEN BUT ONE COULD
ONLY HOPE.
BOB WENT TO START THE BOAT BACK
UP BUT.
THE ENGINE WAS DEAD.
THERE WAS A FUEL LEAK AND AND I
FIXED THE FUEL LEAK, CLEANED
EVERYTHING UP AND I THOUGHT
EVERYTHING WAS GOING TO BE
FINE.
BOB HIT THE STARTER SWITCH.
THE BOAT EXPLODED, BLEW UP
FLAMES EVERYWHERE AND CAROL I
LOOKED AT HER AND SHE WAS
ACTUALLY FLYING BACKWARDS OFF
OF THE BOAT AND I'M GUESSING 20
OR 25 FEET FROM THE BOAT SHE
WAS JUST IN THE AIR GOING SINCE
I WASN'T A SWIMMER I DIDN'T
HAVE A LIFE JACKET ON.
I WAS PRETTY SURE I WOULD DROWN
AND THAT'S WHEN I CRIED OUT GOD
AND I SAID LORD, PLEASE DON'T
LET IT END LIKE THIS.
I WAS COMPLETELY SURROUNDED
BY FLAMES AND AND I.
I SAW CAROL COME TO THE TO THE
SURFACE OF THE WATER.
I CAN'T EXPLAIN IT BUT JUST
IT WAS SERENE JUST LOOKING
AROUND LOOKING AT A BURNING
BOAT NOT, UNDERSTANDING WHAT
WAS REALLY HAPPENING AT THE
MOMENT.
BOATERS SAW THE ACCIDENT AND
CALLED 911.
THEY HELPED US TO SHORE AND AN
OFF DUTY NURSE TENDED TO US.
I WAS REMARKABLY UNSCATHED.
CAROL, HOWEVER, SUFFERED FIRST,
SECOND AND THIRD DEGREE BURNS.
SHE SPENT A WEEK IN THE
HOSPITAL RECOVERING AND THE
NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCE WAS A
WAKE UP CALL FOR BOTH OF US.
WE KNEW THAT GOD SAVED US FOR A
PURPOSE.
JUST NO QUESTION ABOUT IT.
CAROL AND I WERE IN TOTAL
AGREEMENT ON THAT.
OF THE FIRST TIMES WE EVER
AGREED ON ANYTHING.
ALL OF A SUDDEN WHEN YOU
ALMOST THAT YOU LOVE EVEN
THOUGH THE MARRIAGE WASN'T GOOD
GOOD WE WERE BOTH IMMEDIATELY
ON BOARD TO FIND A WAY TO HAVE
A GOOD MARRIAGE.
WE JUST IMMERSED OURSELVES IN
GOD'S WORD AND EVERYTHING WE
COULD DO TO GET CLOSER JESUS.
WE BEGAN A FAITH JOURNEY THAT
DAY.
WAS TEACHING ME THINGS THAT I
DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT MYSELF AND
DOING THE SAME THING.
ALL OF A SUDDEN WE FOUND
OURSELVES TO BE ON THE SAME
PAGE.
WE WERE CHASING AFTER THE SAME
THINGS WE HAD DONE IN OUR OWN
WAY FOR WAY TOO LONG.
AND ONCE WE STARTED BEING
OBEDIENT TO WHAT GOD WAS
TELLING US WE FELL IN LOVE.
OVER THE NEXT 15 YEARS OUR
MARRIAGE FROM BEING SOMETHING
THAT CAUSED US PAIN TO BECOMING
SOMETHING TO THIS DAY.
AS A RESULT, 2014 WE STARTED A
MINISTRY WE CALL MERCY TO
STRUGGLING IN THEIR MARRIAGE BY
THE GOD I JUST WANT TO PRAY FOR
EVERY THAT'S WATCHING THIS LORD
GOD HAS TRANSFORMED EVERY AREA
OF OUR LIVES WHICH MADE IT
EASIER FOR US TO DO WELL IN
MARRIAGE.
WHEN WE DO GOD'S WAY IT'S
BEAUTIFUL.
WE DO IT OUR WAY.
MAYBE NOT SO MUCH.
LOVE IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT WHEN
IT'S UNSELFISH.
IT'S LIKE FINDING THE CURE FOR
CANCER.
YOU JUST WANT TO SHOUT IT FROM
THE ROOFTOPS THAT IF COULD SAVE
OUR MARRIAGE HE COULD SAVE
EVERYBODY'S MARRIAGES.
WE WENT THROUGH FIRE AND WATER.
YET YOU TOOK US TO A PLACE OF
ABUNDANCE AND THAT'S THE LIFE
WE'RE LIVING NOW LIVING A LIFE
OF ABUNDANCE FOLLOWING GOD'S
AND SHARING IT WITH OTHER
PEOPLE AND WE CAN'T HAVE A
GREATER THAT.
DON AND JEREMY, CAROL AND
BOB VERY CANDID ABOUT THE
STRUGGLES THAT THEY'VE GONE
THROUGH.
IF YOU'RE WATCHING TODAY AND
YOU'RE MARRIED YOU KNOW,
MARRIAGE IS HARD.
IT'S HARD.
IT HAS TO BE WORK THAT WHEN WE
FIRST MARRY IT'S USUALLY PRETTY
IMPRACTICAL AND IT IS PRETTY
SELFISH.
WE REALIZE THAT OR NOT WE FEEL
LIKE SOMEONE IS LOVING US WANT
AND NEED TO BE LOVED AND WE GET
TO LOVE THEM BACK AND THEN WE
HAVE TO LIVE TOGETHER.
GOD USES ALL OF THIS TO REFINE
US BECAUSE THE THE PERSON WE'RE
SUPPOSED TO BE MOST IN LOVE
WITH IS HIM.
IT'S NOT LIKE HE LEAVES US
HANGING OUT THERE.
HE'S MADE PROVISION.
THE PROBLEM IS THAT MOST WE TRY
TO SOLVE ALL OF THIS ON OUR OWN
AND MOST OF THE TIME OUR FOCUS
ISN'T GETTING TO HIM.
IT'S MEETING OUR OWN NEEDS.
WHAT WOULD ME HAPPY?
WHAT WOULD MAKE ME FEEL
FULFILLED?
WHAT WOULD MAKE ME FEEL?
WHAT KIND OF PERSON WOULD IT
TAKE?
LOVE ME.
THE TRUTH IS WE DON'T EVEN
REALLY REALLY KNOW WHAT THAT
WOULD TAKE FOR OURSELVES.
IF YOU'RE STRUGGLING IN YOUR
MARRIAGE TODAY I HOPE THAT BOTH
OF THESE HAVE BEEN AN
ENCOURAGEMENT TO YOU.
YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES BE DIFFERENT
BUT WHAT ISN'T DIFFERENT IS THE
ABILITY TO STEP RIGHT INTO THE
MIDST OF IMPOSSIBLE SITUATION
WHERE LOVE IS LOST, WHERE
PEOPLE DON'T SEE ANY OR ANY
FUTURE AND REDEEM IT TO IS TO
BUY BACK WHAT WAS LOST.
YOU KNOW CAROL SAID WE WERE
SUDDENLY LOOKING OUTWARD IN THE
SAME DIRECTION THAT SOMETHING
BIGGER THAN US.
WE NEED THAT IN OUR MARRIAGES.
THAT'S JESUS.
HE'S THE ONE WHO CREATED IT.
HE'S THE ONE WE MAKE OUR VOW
BEFORE WHEN WE COMMIT TO EACH
OTHER.
LET HIM HEAL YOUR MARRIAGE IF
IT'S BROKEN.
CAN FOR YOU RIGHT NOW, FATHER.
MARRIAGE IS A IS A UNION AND IT
REALLY TAKES THREE.
IT TAKES YOU AND THE BRIDE AND
THE GROOM AND SO GOD LIFT UP
EVERY COUPLE THAT'S LISTENING
RIGHT NOW THAT'S WATCHING
THAT'S STRUGGLING RIGHT NOW.
AND I ASK YOU YOU TO HELP US TO
BE HONEST WITH OURSELVES BEFORE
YOU HELP US TO BE WILLING TO
SURRENDER OUR NEEDS OUR WAY.
HELP US TO BE WILLING TO
CHANGE.
HELP US TO GIVE AND TO MAKE
WHAT WE GIVE PERCENT NOT 5050
BUT WITH YOU AND FOR YOU AND IN
YOU GOD HELP US TO TRUST YOU.
WHEN IT ALL LOOKS SO BLEAK
TODAY WE JUST SURRENDER TO YOU
OUR RELATIONSHIPS WE TO OUR
FAMILIES AND WE ASK YOU TO HEAL
US AND TO MAKE US WHOLE AND
JESUS MIGHT BE MORE IF THAT'S
YOU AND YOU'D LIKE MORE
INFORMATION ON GOD'S WHAT DOES
HE SAY ABOUT MARRIAGE?
WE'VE GOT A LOVE AND MARRIAGE
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HERE'S A WORD FOR YOU FROM
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ABOVE ALL LOVE EACH OTHER
DEEPLY BECAUSE LOVE COVERS OVER