'They've Had a Lot of Practice': What the Black Church Can Teach America About Forgiveness
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- As Christians, we're called to forgive
whether it's requested or not because
we believe it benefits thegiver more than the receiver.
It's a principle thatapplies across the board.
When you add in generations of oppression,
however, the dynamicproves to be different.
The wrongful death ofGeorge Floyd is now seared
into the consciousness of America.
Cellphone video of the incident.
- I can't breathe.
- I can't breathe, I can't breathe!
- [Eric] Led to a moralexplosion around the world
and became the catalyst for seeming
cultural change in the United States.
- Black lives matter!
- [Eric] But it had been mounting.
David Bailey specializesin racial reconciliation.
- Race relations inAmerica stays at a simmer
and then as an incident that comes in
it takes it up to a boilingpoint but it's always there.
- [Eric] In this case, the boiling point
followed closely behind the deaths
of jogger Ahmaud Arbery in Georgia
and 26-year-old Breonna Taylor,
shot by Louisville Policeserving a no-knock warrant.
Pastor Bill Haley'sCoracle ministry focuses
on spiritual development and action.
He says forgivenessshould be a part of any
ongoing cultural shift,especially among Christians.
- I would like us to get to a place
where white Americansare constantly asking
for forgiveness from black Americans
for what we've done and for what we do
and for what we allow andsometimes what we even support.
- [Eric] He's quick to point out,
though, that unsolicited forgiveness
has been a norm for black Americans.
- In fact, I think theblack church is the teacher
for the country on what Jesus meant
when he said forgive other people.
They've had a lot of practice.
- [Eric] One of the biggestexamples came last year
in a Texas courtroom from ayoung man named Brandt Jean.
- I forgive you and I knowif you go to God and ask Him,
He will forgive you.
- [Eric] Those words came about a year
after Dallas Police OfficerAmber Guyger killed his brother,
Botham Jean, in his own apartment.
After working a longshift, she had somehow
mistaken Jean's apartment for hers
and shot him becauseshe said she was afraid.
Brandt Jean then went even further.
- I don't know if it's possible,
but can I give her a hug, please?
Please?
- [Judge] Yes.
- When we watched BrandtJean offer forgiveness
in that courtroom, we'rewatching God enter the room
because forgiveness likethat is not a human act.
Forgiveness is Ph.D. level Christianity
because it's so very difficult.
To be called to forgive means
that something of valuehas been taken from you.
- [Eric] While Haley sawthe act as honorable,
some were infuriated.
- Because black people arealways being asked to forgive,
and it's a lot to forgive.
- [Bailey] I think too often,particularly in conservative
Christian spaces, we can be very forgetful
of the 500-year history of our country.
- [Eric] Bailey says anexpectation for blacks
to forgive goes back to slavery.
On top of that, he says,justice isn't just.
- If that black man killedthe white police officer
because he got confusedabout where he was,
that was not going to be a thing.
That brother is going to jailfor the rest of his life,
might have got the electric chair.
- [Eric] In this case,the judge sentenced Guyger
to 10 years in prison.
- It seems so hard tohave a police officer
suitably punished for an action
that is egregious andclearly over the line.
10 years seems merciful.
- [Eric] Four officers have been charged
in George Floyd's death,
one of them with second-degree murder.
But a trial has yet to happen.
For Christians, thesesituations present a challenge.
- When you're a Christian,it just adds a new level
of complexity because you've got to see
both the sin and the effects of sin,
the consequences of sin.
But then you also haveto see the opportunities
for grace and forgiveness in God.
- [Eric] It's not somethingMarquis Jefferson wanted
to do in October of last year.
- I don't want no hug.
- [Eric] A Texas police officer shot
and killed his daughter, Atatiana,
at home as she played video games.
Soon after, Jeffersonmade this declaration.
- That's my one and only daughter.
I'll never forget this.
- [Eric] Sadly, Jeffersondied just one month
after his daughter was killed.
He died from a heart attack,literally a broken heart.
- Unforgiveness is not the answer,
not showing grace is not the answer.
But exercising grace andexercising forgiveness
without truth is also not the answer.
- Of course, from a legal perspective,
whether or not a person gives or
receives forgiveness has nothing to do
with how one is punishedbut it can make a difference
in the court of public opinion
and most certainly in the eyes of God.
Eric Philips, CBN News.