She’s the Georgia farm girl who became Miss America 2016. Pageant winner Betty Maxwell joins us live. Plus, he spent 13 years behind bars and a lifetime as a prisoner to the pills. See what finally set him straight.
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- [Announcer] The following program
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- [Wendy] Coming up the Georgia farm girl
who rose to become Miss America 2016.
Pageant winner, BettyMaxwell, joins us live.
And then, 13 years in the slammer.
- It was like a bottomless pit.
- [Wendy] And a lifetimeas a prisoner to the pills.
- [Sidney] I didn't wanna be a drug addict
and I knew that I was.
- [Wendy] What finally set him straight.
- He just turned around and just said,
I'm not gonna make it am I?
- [Wendy] On today's, 700 Club.
(upbeat orchestral music)
- Well, welcome folks to thisedition of, The 700 Club.
President Trump's legalteam came out swinging
they did a fantastic job yesterday.
They cut through Adam Schiffand Jerry Nadler's remarks
like, hot knife through butter,
it was just amazing what they did.
And they was saying thePresident did nothing wrong,
but the Democrats, just like they did
in the Kavanaugh hearings
they've come up with a surprise witness.
Suddenly John Bolton is on the scene
and they are claiming thatthey have heard something
about a book he's going to write.
They haven't seen the book,
but they wanna claimwe, here's what's in it,
and they say the Presidentwanted a one-for-one deal.
That's leaving out whattheir own story said,
their own story said hewas talking about Russia,
he was talking about corruption,
talking about meddling inour elections, et cetera.
But the headline said, Trump asks Bolton
to hold up Ukrainian aid until he gets
the Biden problem settled.
That wasn't accurate even according
to their own sources.
But that's the way the mediais going to handle this thing
and Trump's under the gun.
Well, Mark Martin, has gotmore about what's happening.
- President Trump's legal team said
the commander-in-chief was acting
under his Constitutionaland legal authority.
Adding that asking a foreign leader
to get to the bottom of corruption
is not breaking the law.
The President's attorneys argue
the Ukrainian naturalgas company, Burisma,
paid Hunter Biden millions of dollars
to serve on its board even though
he had no experience in the industry.
- Well, he did have one qualification,
he was the son of the VicePresident of the United States.
He was the son of the man in charge
of the Ukrainian portfoliofor the prior administration.
- [Mark] As to the chargeis the President used
executive privilege to obstruct Congress.
- Really, is that the principle
in the United States of America?
That if you assert legalprivileges, or rights,
that means you're guilty?
That the innocent don'tassert their rights,
that the President can't defend
the Constitutionalprerogatives of his office?
That doesn't make any sense.
- [Mark] However reports that
former national security advisor,
John Bolton's upcoming book,
claims that the President said he wanted
to hold up aid to Ukraineto pressure an investigation
into the Biden's is cuttinginto the defense's case.
- I haven't seen a manuscript,
but I can tell you nothingwas ever said to John Bolton,
but I have not seen a manuscript.
- Nothing in the Boltonrevelations, even if true,
would rise to the levelof an abuse of power,
or an impeachable offense.
- [Mark] The allegations sent shock waves
and gave Democrats renewed energy
to call for witnesses.
- It boils down to one thing.
We have a witness with first-hand evidence
of the President's actionsfor which he is on trial.
- [Mark] Bolton said he would testify
if subpoenaed by the Senate.
Now even some RepublicanSenators have come out saying,
let him speak.
- It's pretty fair to say that John Bolton
has a relevant testimony to provide
to those of us who aresitting in impartial justice.
- Some warn that will mean more witnesses
and a longer trial.
Senator Lindsey Graham Tweeting,
"If there is a desire anddecision by the Senate
to call Democratic witnesses,
then at a minimum the Senate
should allow the President
to call all relevantwitnesses he has requested."
There are reports thatGOP leaders are receptive
to a suggestion by RepublicanSenator, Pat Toomey,
to allow one prosecutionwitness for one defense witness.
The question on witnesses could be decided
later this week.
The President's legal team is expected
to wrap up opening arguments today.
Mark Martin, CBN News.
- I wanna show you now the actual text
in The New York Times of what they said
that was in the book.
"In his August 2019discussion with Mr. Bolton,
the President appearedfocused on the theory
Mr. Giuliani had shared with him.
That Mr. Bolton's questionthat he preferred sending
no assistance to Ukraine until officials
had turned over all materials they had
about the Russia investigationthat related to Mr. Biden
and supporters of Mrs.Clinton in Ukraine."
Now, that's a totally differentthing from the headline
The New York Times put out.
And what was picked up todayin The Wall Street Journal
as if it was a fact.
He and Bolton didn't talk about that
as it was initially showedand that's what was said
in the press release,but the headlines said,
President ties meeting with Ukraine aid
to investigation of the Bidens.
The thing was wrong, they just lied,
and that's what's happening so often
in this particular case.
Well, I wanna congratulateJay and his team.
They were just fantastic and Pam Bondi
who was I guess attorneygeneral in Florida
did a masterful job ofpointing out Burisma
and how corrupt that company was
and Hunter Biden was sittingthere getting, I think,
$50,000 a month as a member of the board
which is just unprecedented.
Well, CBN chief politicalanalyst, David Brody,
is here to talk impeachment and politics.
And, David, what are youhearing about the White House
on John Bolton's claim about this thing,
the so-called bombshell?
- Well, there are lots to report.
Just this morning, Pat,
a senior administration official saying
that John Bolton, and these are the words
of the senior administrationofficial, not mine,
that John Bolton is a world-class jerk,
that from a senior administration official
to me this morning.
They talk about how he had a lot
of policy differences with the President.
He was persona nongrata in the White House
and this White House official,
or I should say administration official,
goes on to tell me that, look,
even if any of this didcome up in conversation
that's the President's prerogative.
It is public policy discussion,
it's okay to discuss it and does not rise
to the level of beingan impeachable offense.
So that's the line from the White House
and of course we heardthat from Alan Dershowitz
as well yesterday.
- Well, how is this gonnaaffect the impeachment trial
in terms of witnesses?
- Well, Pat, that's a great question.
As we like to say here in Washington,
and I think every sinceDonald Trump became President,
it's fluid and that's prettymuch the way it is now.
Look, I think you've gotSusan Collins and Mitt Romney,
those are two Republicans that looked,
at least think they're gonna probably go
for more witnesses, theywanna see more witnesses.
But they're gonna need four,
Democrats are gonna needfour Republicans, that's two.
You got Lisa Murkowski,potentially Cory Gardner as well,
that might be a couple others.
We'll see, but this is a veryfluid situation right now.
And I have to tell you Patit is interesting to note
that when you said atthe top of the broadcast
about this New York Times article,
is really really troublingand I think you nailed it
right on the head there, that the headline
did not have anything to do
with actually what the article reported.
And as a matter of fact thearticle never reports at all
from the book, there are noquotes from the book at all,
and what's really interesting,
maybe even most damning of all here, Pat,
is that in the article itself,
The New York Times article,
the prestigious, airquote, New York Times,
says that multiple people told them this.
Well, hold on for a second,let's unpack multiple people,
that sounds to me, well, who is that?
The guy at the local deli?
I mean the point is is that at some point
readers need to know whothese multiple people are
because let's face it, weall know people, sources,
have an agenda and a reader most know
where that person, himor her, are coming from.
So I think that's a big part of this Pat.
- Well, you know, it's, it's echos
of the Kavanaugh hearings.
They held a surprise--- Right.
- Witness that came outand alleged that Kavanaugh
was engaged in all this sexual misconduct
and it just damaged the poorman for the rest of his life,
but he still got confirmed.
- Well, and now we find out whether or not
this is gonna be a BrettKavanaugh, part two,
when it comes to the Republicanparty sticking together.
Brett Kavanaugh, when thatall, when all of that happened,
Republicans said, enough, they got upset,
they banded together and that was it,
they shut the Democrats down.
They had Trump to leadthem through it who said,
I'm not gonna throw Kavanaughunder the bus for all of this.
The question then becomes, in the Senate,
what will McConnell do?
Will McConnell be able to stay strong?
But look, the reality is this,
if he's got four Republicans
that are willing to jump ship,
and we're about to find out on witnesses,
that McConnell and Schumerat that point, Pat,
would go into deal-making mode.
In other words, if there aregonna be four Republicans
that are gonna vote with Democrats
to call Bolton as a witness,then McConnell's gonna say,
all right well what amI gonna get out of it?
Am I gonna get a Hunter Biden?
Am I gonna get a Joe Biden,who am I gonna get out of it
and I think that's wherethe deal-making goes down.
And then Democrats, Pat,are forced with a decision,
okay, you want John Bolton,great, knock yourself out,
but you're also at that point,
do you really wanna hear from Hunter Biden
in front of a national television audience
because let's faced it, let's face it,
Hunter Biden on the stand would,you would think in theory,
bolster the Trump argumentthat there was indeed
corruption, or at least
the appearance of corruption going on
is the case they'll make andthat could obviously help Trump
and hurt Democrats.
- What's the final arguments gonna be?
(mumbles) Trumps alreadystarted setting up,
it's gonna be socialism versus capitalism
and Bernie Sanders is the leader.
Joe Biden, you know, I really like him.
He's a likable sort of guy, but he's done
some strange things.
I went to New Hampshirewith him the same day
on the same plane, he was going Democrat
and I was going Republican,
but he plagiarized Neil Kinnock
and now he's gotten intothis problem with Hunter.
I don't think he can survive this do you?
- Well, Joe Biden's had a lot of problems
right from the very get-go.
And honestly Pat it's allstarted with his announcement
when he wanted to become President.
I mean what was his reason for running?
Well, cue the crickets because what's the,
I mean to stop Trump, I meanthat's the uplifting message,
to stop Trump?
So, it's been a problem for him.
And look, Bernie Sanders is poised
to potentially win Iowa and New Hampshire,
and if that happens watch out
the train to Leningrad, whicha lot of folks might think,
look it up Millennials, and the Gen Zers,
but the train to Leningrad
may be be moving out towardsRussia if Bernie gets there,
I mean it wouldn't be,make America great again,
it could be, make America red again,
I mean that's potentiallywhat we're seeing here
and that would give Democrats fits.
- David, thank you so much.- You bet.
- My guess, by the way brother,
is that Trump's gonna survive this
and this impeachment thing is a joke
and it's gonna be overpretty soon and, you know,
what do you think?- Well, they were sure happy
when they were handing out
the impeachment pens though.- Oh, yeah, yeah,
it was a big celebration.
And somebody said, you'resupposed to be solemnity,
you're gonna overturn an election.
Well, in other news, what iscalled the deal of the century,
is what President Trump is calling
his Middle East Peace Plan.
The question, can he get the deal done?
John Jessup has that on CBN News Bureau.
- Thanks Pat, ahead ofhis noon White House
unveiling of the Middle East Plan,
the President, and former businessman,
known for the art of the deal,
said this one is for the ages.
- In the business world,
when I was back in the business world,
when a deal was tough
people would jokingly refer to it as
this is tougher than Israel
and the Palestinians getting together
and that's what I've heard all my life
and so we'll see what happens.
We have something that makesa lot of sense for everybody.
- [John] Trump met withIsraeli Prime Minister,
Benjamin Netanyahu, andBlue and White party leader,
Benny Gantz, who both praised the plan,
but he did not meetwith Palestinian leaders
who have already rejected it.
The plan reportedly lays out boundaries
for an eventual Palestinian state
and it could have a major impact
on the Palestinian Israeli conflict,
Israel's upcoming national elections,
and Israel's relationship
with it's Sunni Islamic Arab neighbors.
Well, turning to the expanding coronavirus
the death toll in China has risen by 25
claiming the lives of at least 106 people
including the first deathin the capital of Beijing.
That comes as the United States
is preparing to fly Americans
out of the city of Wuhan tomorrow.
They'll be screened ata stop-over in Alaska.
Also the government is nowscreening arriving passengers
at 20 airports.
The number of confirmedU.S. cases remains at five.
With health officials testingfor 110 potential cases
in 26 states.
And in a sign there arefears about the outbreak
effecting the economy.
Big losses on Wall Street Monday.
The Dow Jones industrialaverage closed down 454 points,
the S&P and the NASDAQ also dropped.
The three indexes passingthe worst day since October.
- Well they're concernedthat the Chinese economy
is gonna tank because you can'tshut down major industries
of this nature and expectthe economy to grow.
You know what we're facingwith, ladies and gentlemen,
is an enormous debt overhang of the,
in the overall economy of the world.
America's unfunded anddeclared an unfunded obligation
is something in the neighborhood
of 70 or 80 trillion dollars.
Around the world it'ssomething close to 250 trillion
and if one of the big trading partners
goes in the tank thenit's gonna hurt everybody.
So, people who are trading stocks
and looking at themarket are very concerned
that the Chinese economy willgo south because of this.
And when you shut down whole industries,
tourism, travel, the variousindustries associated with it,
it's gonna have a profoundeffect on the Chinese economy
and that will hurt the world
so that's what they're all worried about.
Wendy.
- Well, coming up an anxiety epidemic.
Millions of Americans aresuffering from depression,
PTSD, and worse.
Is the church failing todeal with this major issue?
Plus, she's Miss America 2016
and maybe also, Miss Unlikely.
Betty Maxwell tells usabout her unusual journey
to the crown.
(upbeat orchestral music)
- It's a shocking fact one in five adults
struggles with mental illness each year.
What's worse there's a crippling stigma
in getting counseling for mental problem,
especially in the churches.
Well, how did onepastor's personal struggle
become a wake-up calland how is his church
now helping those fightingdepression and despair.
Our, Heather Sells, wentout and found the answer.
- [Heather] As a collegesenior, Decari Middlebrooks,
got a dreadful call.
His best friend had been murdered.
This led to three yearsof violent nightmares
when finally a seminaryprofessor suggested therapy.
Middlebrooks rejected it flat out.
- I said, I appreciate your suggestion,
but black people don't go to counseling
we just pray about it.
- [Heather] The governmentestimates that each year
48 million struggle with anxiety disorders
and millions with challengeslike major depression,
post traumatic stressand bipolar disorder.
For the young mentalillness can turn deadly.
Suicide is the secondleading cause of death
for ages 10 to 34.
Fortunately Middlebrooks did make his way
to a therapist.
- I went to counseling and I enjoyed it,
it was the, the greatest2 1/2 years of my life.
- [Heather] He began attending a church
with a pastor who openlytalked about his struggle
after his first wife died.
- Went through incredible loss in my life
and found myself in a place of depression
and didn't realize what it was.
I knew I was in a dark place.
- [Heather] Bishop Walker
also eventually sought out counseling
and as he healed herealized his own church
needed a wake-up call.
- I think that there is, inthe African-American community,
this whole idea that,you know, this phobia,
this stigma, if you getcounseling you know you're crazy.
- Research shows thatpeople who are struggling
with their mental health oftenturn first to their church.
That's an enormous opportunity.
Now remarried, BishopWalker, and his wife,
Dr. Stephaine Walker, a pediatrician,
are bringing mentalhealth to the forefront.
They started, Church Fit, at Mount Zion
offering classes and programs
on total physical and mental health.
This includes a push from the pulpit
in an effort to fight the stigma.
- We now make it a part ofour every day conversation
as opposed to something that's whispered,
or something that's talkedabout only in the corner.
It's a part of the every-day conversation.
So, do you need help?
How are you feeling today?
And asking three questions beyond that
because what is a common answer,
well, I'm fine.
Well really, so tell me more.
- [Heather] Psychologist, Vanessa Bell,
attends Mount Zion andsays the new direction
has been huge.
- I think that's what he did in essence,
normalized it from the pulpit that
you know what you're experiencing is real,
we can pray about it,
but there are also resources available.
- [Heather] Dr. Walker has alsodeveloped a referral system
so church members can easilyfind a counselor, psychiatrist,
or support group.
- As a church we don'thave to recreate the wheel,
the resources are out there.
We have the people,they have the resources,
and we serve as connectors.
- [Heather] And Mount Zion makes sure
it's people know how to help,ask the right questions,
and not let go when someone is hurting.
- It's not an option to leave you,
it's not an option to hangup the phone,
it's not an option to tell you we don't,
we can't help you, wheredo I need to send you next?
And they're trained tofigure out immediately,
in that moment, what are the next steps
in terms of getting this person help
and getting them connected.
- [Heather] For Middlebrookshe's gone from shame,
to healing, to transparency.
He writes about hisjourney in the new book,
"The Depressed Millennial,"and he says he's seen
a change in his church as well.
- I think the church is now aware
that there has to be a space and I think
that's what we've been ableto do here at Mount Zion
is carve out a space for dialog.
A lot of people were afraidto share that I'm broken.
- [Heather] Middlebrookhopes more churches
will adopt this model as they become
aware of mental health needs
in their congregations and communities.
Reporting in Nashville,Heather Sells, CBN News.
- Thanks (mumbles).
I wanna point out that Regent University
has a School of Psychology.
It gives a degree, adoctorate, in psychology
and trains people who are qualified
to be mental health professionals.
They're not psychiatrists,which involves an M.D.,
but in terms of psychology and psychiatry
and that kinda thing, we give doctorates.
And the reason is later, a few years ago,
pastors were giving counseling to people
who'd come to them as troubled
and in the case of one or two people
they committed suicide andthe church was blamed and sued
that these people weren't credentialed
and therefore they hadto have state licensing.
Well, we have people nowwho are fully credentialed
with a doctorate in this subject
and they are credentialed before the state
or by any board, and we inturn give master's degree
in this field so that our,
the pastors can be trained
and credentialed when they,because that's the first line,
people are troubled they come to a pastor
and they say, look, I'm havingtrouble with my marriage,
I'm having trouble with my wife,
I've got depression whatam I supposed to do?
Well, one thing you can do is say,
well, I refer you to thedoctor down the street,
but a lot of timespeople were being advised
to get engaged in what amountsto unbiblical practices
as the advice of some health professional.
Well, go out and have anaffair you'll feel better.
No way, and so guilt andsin and that sort of thing
has got to be dealt with andthe pastor's the man to do it.
So we, at Regent University,are training people
who can be pastors
and in their pastors
they can be skilled enoughin these disciplines
so they know how to help people
and I think that's very important, Wendy.
- The Bible has all the answers though.
- It really does and youknow sin is a problem
and if you, if I regardiniquity in my heart
the Lord won't hear me, Idon't get my prayers answered
and I feel guilty and all of a sudden
the thing eats inside of me
and I've gotta deal with it.
And how do you do it?
But, I mean, we need to understand
we're fearfully and wonderfully made.
Some things have to dowith chemical imbalance
and they've got to
be dealt with.- Right.
- Some things are, you know,a psychotherapy can help,
others it doesn't.
There are a lot of ways of treating people
who have a mental problem,
but these things are real and boy
I congratulate any churchesthat are getting into that,
yeah.- Amen.
Well, later on today's showa real-life Cinderella story
from a double-wide trailerin the middle of nowhere
to Miss America 2016.
How did this imperfectpageant queen take the crown?
But first, this junkie hadfeet like hamburger meat
all because he kept pounding the pavement
in search of his next fix.
How did he finally come clean?
Find out, next.
- The bottoms of his feetlooked like hamburger,
that's how Judy Smithdescribed her husband, Sidney.
He was a hard-core drug addict
who pounded the pavementlooking for a score.
Sometimes he woulddisappear for weeks on end
so why did Judy stick with him
and how did he ever come clean?
You're about to find the answer.
- Well I remember him coming in
and he'd been out on the streets for days
and literally the bottoms of his feet
were just like hamburgermeat 'cause he has just been
walking and walking andsearching to do drugs.
- [Narrator] Newly wed, Judy Smith,
already knew about her husband, Sidney's,
occasional bouts with drugs,
but this, this was the signof a full-blown addiction.
- He just turned around and looked at me
again with tears inhis eyes and just said,
I'm not gonna make it am I?
- I knew in my mind that I couldn't quit
because I had tried.
- [Narrator] They met ata job interview in 1994
in Gulfport, Mississippi.
Sidney, coming from Oakland, California,
was hoping for a new start.
Judy, was the hiring manager.
- He had a real leadershipability about him
'cause he would take charge of something
once he was given a task to do.
- [Narrator] So Judy not only hired Sidney
she fell for him, but shedidn't know the whole story.
He grew up in a poorneighborhood in Oakland,
but unlike many henever had to do without.
His mom worked hard to make sure of that.
But what Sidney really neededwas her love and attention,
he got neither.
At 12 years old hedowned a bottle of pills
desperate for any sign she cared.
- I just felt like I wanted her attention
and I couldn't get itand I was willin' to go
to whatever extremes I could
to get her attention.
The next thing I knew I washaving my stomach pumped.
I remember going to like an institution
and being left there
and it broke my heart.
- [Narrator] It was only a matter of time
before he discovered drugs
and would spend the next several years
buying and selling them and stealing
to satisfy his habit.
- Chasing that feelingoutweighed everything else
in importance and it provided an escape,
you know, I didn't have todeal with, with anything.
- [Narrator] Numerousattempts at rehab failed.
By the time he left for Mississippi at 23
he was an addict running from police
and desperately hoping for a new start.
- [Sidney] I didn't wanna be a drug addict
and I knew that I was.
- [Narrator] When hehad met Judy he was able
to hide the depth of his addiction,
but now after a few months of marriage
the truth had come out.
- I knew that it would be her that left
before I would change.
- [Narrator] But Judy, a Christian,
saw Sidney through God's eyes
where there was potential and hope.
- And so the hope gave me some direction
to some faith that God was drawing me
into this for a reason.
- [Narrator] Keeping hopealive was another matter.
Arrested in 1996 on outstanding warrants
Sidney would spend 13 years behind bars.
Despite finding religion in prison
he relapsed soon after his release.
- I just didn't have whatI needed inside of me.
It wasn't satisfying the hole,
it was like a bottomless pit.
- [Narrator] Disappearingat times for weeks.
Sidney would bounce betweenbouts of sobriety and addiction.
- And there were points in time for me
when I was desperately sad,afraid, angry, resentful,
I went though all of those things,
but it would always come back full circle
to have the hope.
- [Narrator] Then in2010 his parole officer
recommended he go to the faith-based
rehab program, Teen Challenge.
There Sidney had toface the hurt and anger.
- I just angrily screamed out at God,
you know, if you're who you say you are
here's an earnest, fromthe bottom of my heart,
opportunity for you to show up and fix me
'cause I'm done.
I felt like I had wallsthat I had built up,
you know, to protect me fromother people all my life.
I felt like he just reached out
and they just turned to dust.
- [Narrator] Sidney says atthat moment he gave his life
to Christ realizing that through Judy
God had been showing hislove for him all along.
- Because it didn't matter who I was
or what I had done I wasstill loved and accepted
even in the worst position in my life
and, and she still wanted me.
And that, you know, I feel the same thing
when God saved me, that'sthe exact same feeling
that just overwhelmed methat no matter what I did,
you know, and no matter who I'd hurt,
or how many times I'd failed,
he didn't care, he loved me.
- The part of him that I had always loved,
the joyful, kind,compassionate, loving person,
and he was so willingto do whatever it took.
And again, I guess that'sjust the God, the hope,
the faith in me that just believed.
- [Narrator] In 2013 at 43 years old
Sidney graduated from Teen Challenge
and is still drug-free.
He went on to earn a master's degree
in social work and today works as
a substance abusecounselor in Mississippi.
- Well, it had to be God,there's no other way.
I couldn't have done it on my own,
of my own free will, or my own volition,
I wouldn't have been strong enough.
- I got God's attention
and it satisfies everything.
- What did Sidney want all along,
he wanted a mother, a father,
to love him and hug him, little child.
You know little children want love,
they want affection, theywant somebody who cares,
you know, and so they'llhold their hands up and say,
look at me, listen tome I'm here, I'm here.
And Sidney was looking for that,
but his parents apparentlydidn't give it to him
and so what does he do?
He does something radical,he starts taking drugs.
And the next thing you knowhe's almost committed suicide
and maybe now they'll notice me
now that I'm killing myself.
But you know what is the blessing,
there's something calledthe Aaronic blessing,
the Lord bless you and keep you,
the Lord cause his face to shine upon you,
and the Lord lift uphis countenance upon you
and give you his peace.
We look for God to lookat us, look at me, God,
may you lift up your countenance upon me.
And, you know, that'swhat God wants to do.
He will, accepts youregardless of who you are
or what you've done.
Remember the Prodigal Son,he came and he said, look,
I'm not worthy to be called your servant,
make me one of your hired hands
I can't be your son.
And the father ran to himand threw his arm around him
and said, put him up specially because he,
my son has been dead and nowhe's been found alive again.
God is looking for you.
He is looking all overand what you may have lost
in your childhood, what youmay have missed along the way,
what you may have missed in a marriage,
you may have an abusive husband,
you may have a,
a mean unfaithful wife,
who knows what you've got?
But God almighty says, look,
I love you,
and I died for you and Iwill accept you as my own.
And I'll put my arms aroundyou and welcome you home
and you can be part of the family of God.
Would you like that?
You want somebody to really love you.
You know a lot of people just, you know,
they don't care anything about you.
A lot of people don't becauseof the huge world we're in
and we kinda pass oneanother and, you know,
so tough luck about you.
But God feels your pain.
He knows who you are.
And right now if you wantto know the love of a father
I want you to pray with meright now, pray these words.
Jesus, that's right pray with me.
Jesus,
I know that you love me so much
that you died for me because you said
you loved the world so much
that you gave your only son
that through him I might live.
And so Lord through you I want to have
the love of a father andI come to God through you.
And so now Lord JesusI open my heart to you,
I turn away from sin and selfishness,
and the bitterness that's in my heart,
and the frustration, and the anger,
and all the other things,I give 'em to you,
every bit of it, and from this moment on
I confess Lord I'm yours and you're mine.
Thank you Jesus, thank youthat you heard my prayer
and thank you that you'vecome into my heart.
And if you prayed with me just then
I have something I wanna give you.
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And if you don't have amachine I've got a packet,
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I'll give this to youfree all you have to do
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look, I've just prayed with Pat,
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I know he loves me and I love him.
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- Thank you Pat.
Well still ahead Patweighs in on the issues
that matter to you.
Like this one from Chuck who writes,
"My wife's jealousy didn't show up
until after we were married.
She has left 11 times in six months.
Please help.
What can I do?"
Get Pat's take on that and more.
Your Questions/Honest Answersis just around the corner,
but first here she is, Miss America 2016.
Betty Maxwell looks backon her time with the tiara
and the unlikely roadshe took to the crown.
- Welcome back to Washingtonfor this CBN News break.
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Pat and Wendy will be backwith more of the 700 Club
right after this.
- Well, any time there was amishap in Betty Maxwell's home
her family had a term for it,
someone had just pulled a Betty.
But in 2016 Betty had the last laugh
when she was crowned Miss America.
(cheering)- Betty Maxwell.
♪ Miss America ♪
- Becoming Miss Americaone day wasn't something
Betty Maxwell had dreamedof as a Georgia farm girl.
When her mom pointed outthat pageants were a way
to earn scholarship money she decided
to give them a try.
Crowned Miss America in 2016
Betty found her year-longreign to be one of the best
and the most exhaustingexperiences of her life.
She recounts the many highs and lows of it
all in her book, "Miss Unlikely."
Betty also shares howshe's learned to cope
with recent crises in her life.
And please welcome to the700 Club, Betty Maxwell.
Betty, it's great to meet you,
welcome.- Thank you.
It's so nice to behere, thank you so much.
- I loved what, I Googled when you,
when you won and you genuinely
looked shocked.- Shocked,
(laughing) yeah I was, very much so.
I, in my book I talk about, you know,
all the mishaps I had that night.
I tripped in my evening gown
which is like the ultimate stereotype,
so of course I tripped a little,
I think twice I tripped.
And then--- Lost an earring.
- Lost an earring twiceand then I of course
got a question about TomBrady and the Deflategate
when I had prepared forall these, you know,
tough political questions and then they
asked me about football.- Right, and they asked you
about football.- And I'm like,
are you kidding me rightnow (laughing), like.
- How did you, how did you answer that?
- You know at first I waslike, I like to be funny,
you know I'm a funnyperson, so I was like,
I'm gonna start out with a joke.
So I was like, you know, Ithink I'd have to be there
to feel the ball toknow if it was deflated
or not deflated.- That's perfect.
- I mean that makes sense to me, right,
and nobody laughed.
So, so I was like, but in all honesty
if there was question to be had about it,
if there was anything sketchy going on,
then yeah, I think he probably cheated
and he should be punished for that.
And of course then all of New England
hated me, so.- Oh, well.
Well, it didn't stop youfrom winning the crown.
Well, you grew up on a farm in Georgia
and grew up in a double-wide trailer
'cause that's what you say,
from farm girl to Miss America.
But faith was so key in your family life.
Tell us about your faith growing up.
- So I'm, I'm actually 50% Greek.
My mom's side of the familyis full-blooded Greek
and so I'm a Greek Orthodox Christian,
I grew up in the Greek Orthodox Church.
A lot of people don'treally know about orthodoxy,
it's a very traditional, very old faith,
and way of practicing religion.
And so a lot of people don'treally know much about it
so I'm glad I get to talk about that
a little bit in my bookand sort of educate people
on our faith, but it'salways been the foundation
of my upbringing and in our household,
leaning on God and having astrong foundation in faith.
- Well, strangely enough you were never
one of those little girls that dreamed
about being Miss America, it was actually
the farthest thing from your mind, right?
- That's true, it just never,
it's really this whole world
that people don't knowabout and I certainly didn't
and my family, it justwasn't part of our life.
- You guys were on like 600 acres
no neighbors really
that close by.- No.
- So you were sort of isolated
and you weren't--- And no cable,
no cable TV so I had neverwatched Miss America,
I had no idea this was a thing.
And so I was 19 whenI did my first pageant
and my mom suggested it to me,
from someone who suggested it to her,
that I should compete because I can sing
and I can walk in high heels,
like I can do this.(laughing)
And I can talk obviously.
So, so I decided to give it a try,
earn some scholarshipsand a chance to show off
my vocal talent which hasbeen my ultimate dream
since I was a little girl tobe a singer and an actress
so I saw it as a great opportunity
and it's obviously ledme to where I am today.
- And you once believedthat pageants were full
of catty girls.- Oh yeah.
I totally believed it.- What did
you actually find when you got involved?
- So, I definitely believedthe full-pageant stereotype,
you know the cattiness, themean girls and all of that,
but that, stereotypesthey obviously all come
from some sort of truth.
There are always gonnabe mean people out there,
there are always gonna be mean girls,
but that's not just inpageantry, that's just life,
that's the real world we live in.
The reality is that thegirls I competed with
are some of the mostbrilliant, talented, smart,
kind women that havethe best golden hearts
and I say this every single time,
that any young woman that I competed with
would have been an incredible Miss America
and truly deserved it.
I'm just so humbled andfortunate that I got to be
their representative andI'm so thankful for that.
- So you talk about how Miss America
is not a mold that you fit into,
but it's a shapeshifter,what does that mean?
- Yeah, Miss America isdefinitely a shapeshifter.
You will never see the samegirl, type of girl twice.
Every girl has her ownunique abilities and talents
and their own perspectiveto offer to the title.
And for me, my year, mywhole mantra was be yourself.
Be your most authentic self and that's how
you will succeed in life.
I know if I hadn't madethose mistakes on stage
and been, you know, just Betty, myself,
that I probably wouldn't have won.
The judges told me that those mistakes
made me so relatable theyliked that I was okay
with making mistakes andI laughed it off on stage,
they could see that it didn't bother me
that I'm okay with being myself, you know,
warts and all sort of.- Yeah.
- So accepting that about yourself
is how you will win in life for sure.
- Now what was your favoritememory of Miss America?
I know there's too many,
I know that's not a fair question,
but was, just one or two.
- Oh my gosh there are so many.
So one of the, you know,sort of funny things,
one of my favorite thingswas I actually got to meet
Harrison Ford and I metso many celebrities,
but Harrison Ford, I mean,he's freakin' Indian Jones
like my idol.- I know.
- So that was incredible I
loved meeting him.- Every girls' dream.
- And he was so nice by the way.
And then one of my otherfavorite things I got to do
was a USO tour where I got to go
to eight countries in eight days
with some other celebrities
and we got to perform for the troops.
- Oh wow.- And that was just
absolutely incredible, humbling work,
it made the entire year worthwhile,
that and working withChildren's Miracle Network
and just getting to work with those kids
and go into the hospital with my crown on
and you just see their faces light up
I mean that was just so rewarding
in and of itself.- Oh, I love that.
Well, during this time youhad to keep a secret, Betty,
your relationship with Spencer,
who's now your husband, right?
- Yes he is, he put
a ring on it.(laughing)
- Tell me, why did youhave to keep that a secret?
- So the Miss America Organization
has always sort of frowned upon having,
Miss America having aboyfriend because, you know,
they don't want her to be distracted
from the year first of all.- Right.
- But second of all they want Miss America
to be America's sweetheart
and that's what they always told me.
They want you to seemavailable which is sort of,
to me I think a little bit dated,
but, you know, you haveto keep those things
out of the public eye.
The biggest secret I had to keep though
was when we got engaged during my year
as Miss America.
I couldn't wear my ring,I couldn't tell anyone,
and oh my gosh, that wasso hard to keep a secret.
- Let's check, oh, that's very nice,
that would be hard--- Thank you.
- Not to wear that.- I would slip it on
in my hotel rooms at night
when I was all by myself and be like,
oh my gosh, I'm engaged.
- [Wendy] Well, every MissAmerica has a platform, Betty,
what was yours?
- So my platform was called,
healthy children strong America.
The platform that I madeup on my own with my mom.
And growing up in myhousehold health and fitness
was always so so important.
My dad's a nutritionist,
my parents are both physical therapists.
So taking care of our bodies
has aways been so so important
in our family.- Sure.
- So it just made sense to me
that I take that on as myplatform as Miss America
to help our kids.
You know, put down the cell phones,
go outside.- Right.
- Be active, get back to our roots
and actually exercisebut for fun, make it fun,
that was something thatwas really important to me
during my year.
And not only that buthelping our kids learn about
where their food comes from
from growing up on a farmand teaching them about
where their food, itdoesn't come from Target,
it comes from the land--(laughing)
From farmers.
- Right exactly, andrecently you took part
in a suicide prevention panel
and that's an issue that reallyhits close to home, right?
- Yes, so in 2018, December 23, 2018,
so just a year ago, mymother-in-law took her own life
while we were there andso that was something
that, a challenge that I'dnever experienced before.
I had to lean on my faithin a way that I never had
and my husband and I wereable to come together,
but come even closer andstronger in a situation
that normally should have broken us apart,
it should've torn us downand because of our faith
and our love for each other we were able
to come back stronger and be able
to speak at such events and be able
to help other people who may be going
through the same thing.
- Yeah, well you can readmore about Betty's story
in her brand new book,
"Miss Unlikely: From FarmGirl to Miss America."
It's available wherever books are sold
and Betty you are delightful.
God bless you.- Thank you so much
for having me.- Thanks for
writing your story.
Well, coming up the part of the program
you've been waiting for.
Pat answers your questionswith honest answers.
Benita says, "I only seemy long-distance boyfriend
once a month.
He refuses to FaceTimewith me in-between visits.
Should I end the relationship?"
What will Pat say, findout when we return.
Miss America is saying, yes, end it.
Welcome back to, The 700 Club.
It's time for Your Answers,
Your Questions and Honest Answers.
Chuck says, "Dear Pat, please help!
My wife and I have beenmarried for 16 months,
we are both retired.
My wife has packed up and left me again.
This makes number #11, that's right.
The past 10 times I went and got her
and moved her back to the house.
She is immensely jealous ofjust about every lady at church
and thinks that I have hadsexual relations with them.
We cannot watch a programthat stars a lady.
She has to be constantly reminded
that she is the mostbeautiful, best-dressed woman,
with the best hair.
There was never any indicationof this jealous behavior
prior to the marriage.
I'm going bonkers.
I do not know what to do.
Any advice?"
- Well, I remember JohnWesley was married to a woman
who was kind of nasty tolife with and she left
and his remark was,
I didn't send her awayand I didn't go get her.
And I think this womanhas left you 11 times,
that, she is eaten up with
jealousy and--- She needs help.
- That thing is corrosiveand it's destroying her.
She needs a lot of help.
She obviously has a very bad self-image,
she's had it probably most of her life,
she probably wasn't loved as a child
and doesn't have a good self-image.
But you didn't marryher to do a psychiatrist
and a makeover.
She's walked out 11 times on you
my advice is don't go get her.
You know she ended themarriage it's all over.
I mean scripturally she, she's departed.
And the Bible says ifthe unbeliever departs
the brother or sister isnot bound in that case.
I'd let it go, okay?
- All right.
Benita writes in, "I've beenin a long-distance relationship
for six months.
He lives in the samestate, 300 miles away,
but we only see each other once a month.
We are originally from the same country;
both of us are bilingual,hardworking, single parents.
I have suggested we Skype or FaceTime
but he refuses.
Should I end this?"
- Well, that's your decision.
I don't have any scriptural advice
one way or the other.
It does seem a little strange.
I mean, really this kind of relationship
is gonna be,
what essentially you're having to do
is live celibate for all these years
and you deserve a loving relationship
of a man or a woman ina relationship with you
as part of a family.
You need to have childrenand all the rest of it.
So, if this, I don'tknow if it was a woman,
guy, a man, whatever, I mean I'd just say,
it's over, goodbye, okay?- Yeah, I'd move on.
All right, James says,"I have become disabled,
with vision problems andspinal issues as well.
It has been three years anddoctors are still baffled
but think they're closingin on the problem.
My faith has truly been tested.
I've been off work almost a year,
and my family and I arefar behind on bills.
We're about to lose ourhome and electricity.
We have no income and disabilityis not accepting me yet
because there isn't an exact diagnosis.
I pray and pray and havesold everything I own.
I have begged God tohelp us and two children.
What else can I do?"
- Well, I think there are agencies
that'll help people like youand I think you oughta go to a,
what is it, the Departmentof Social Welfare,
and see if there isn'tsomething they can do for you.
You oughta have something to help you.
But in the meantime, you know,
take charge of this stuff.
A man shall eat good throughthe fruit of his lips
and it's time to startdeclaring your independence.
I am free in the name of Jesus
and declare the victory rather than being
under your circumstances,rise above your circumstances
and take control of 'em.
That's what my advice is.
All right, one last question.- That's great advice.
All right, Lauren writes in,
"I recently bought twolittle elephant statues
and the elephant trunksare pointed upward.
I didn't think much of it at first
but after a few weeks I started to get
a bad feeling about them.
I researched it further online and learned
if an elephant has a trunk facing upwards
it represents good luck.
Is it wrong?
Should I get rid of them?"
- Well, who needs I it?
I mean why should youhave some talisman around
that is either gonna bringyou good luck or bad luck
or tie you into some Hindu ritual.
Just throw the things awayit's a whole lot easier.
You don't have to ask questions about it
just put 'em in the trashcan.
- Amen.- Okay.
Well our Power Minute comes from Romans.
"If God is for us, who can be against us?"
Tomorrow a special Q&A program
I'll see ya then, bye-bye.