Born without arms, Daniel Ritchie explains how he found peace and contentment.
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- [Gordon] The brothers whotook a stand for their faith
and lost their TV show because of it,
David and Jason Benham sayGod can use your boldness
and your brokenness.
Plus, are you content?
Daniel Ritchie says heis even with no arms.
Find out how you can be too ontoday's 700 Club Interactive.
Welcome to the show.
Here's Efrem Graham withthis week's top five
from Studio5.
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- [Efrem] At number five.
- Good evening and welcome
to the one millionth Academy Awards.
- [Efrem] Snapshotsand moments to remember
from this year's Academy Awards.
- [Reporter] 29.6 millionviewers watched the Oscars
Sunday night, an 11%increase over last year.
- [Reporter] Diversity alsoa big winner Sunday night
with Regina King ofBeale Street Could Talk
and Mahershala Ali of Green Book clinching
Best Supporting Oscar wins.
- God is good all the time.
(applause)
- [Reporter] Spike Lee wonhis first ever Academy Award
for his BlacKkKlansman screenplay.
- [Efrem] And in the much anticipated
Best Picture category.
- And the Oscar goes to Green Book.
(applause and cheering)
- [Reporter] Green Book,the segregation era
road trip drama crowned Best Picture.
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- [Efrem] At number four.
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- It's not easy being Queen.
- [Efrem] Queen Latifahgraces this year's Oscar stage
but the star is scoringan even golder moment
back in her hometownof Newark, New Jersey,
making a splash of headlines
for a multimilliondollar housing investment
she's making in the city.
- [Reporter] In a couple years
this empty block on Springfield Avenue
is expected to look like this.
♪ Just another day living in the 'hood. ♪
- [Efrem] That $14 millionplan for Latifah's old 'hood
includes 23 family townhomes
and a 76 unit apartment building
with at least 16 affordable apartments.
- Queen has always representedNewark and East Orange.
- Yes, I think it's good.
- This development isexpected to begin to open up
by December of 2020.
- [Efrem] And the Queen's building project
may not be the only onecoming to Brick City.
- We have been havingongoing conversations
with a few othercelebrities so stay tuned.
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- [Efrem] At number three.
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- We got them beat.
- [Team] Yeah.
- It's in our feet.
- [Team] Yeah.
- It's in our hair.
- [Team] Yeah.
- It's everywhere.
- [Efrem] Run the Race, TimTebow's first theatrical film
opens in the box office in the top 10.
- What do you think of yourfiance's first feature film?
- I couldn't be more proud but most of all
I'm so proud of the reason andthe meaning behind this film
and hopefully that isto bring people closer
to our Lord and savior, Jesus Christ.
- I've coached hundreds of kids, man.
I've never made kids like these boys.
And they've been dealt a tough hand
and they've been through a lot
but somehow it managedeverY single day to make it.
(swoosh)
- [Efrem] At number two, another newcomer
to the film industry.
- [Woman] Today is your moment to shine.
- [Man] Don't show us what you've got.
- [Woman] Show us what you've been given.
- So do I have a second callback?
- [Efrem] These arescenes from Bethel Music's
Bright Ones' first feature film.
- I don't want to perform.
- I think this is your time to be seen.
- Do you want to write this weekend?
♪ Get your hopes up ♪
♪ Get your head up ♪
♪ Let your faith arise ♪
(screaming)
- [Principal] Gentlemen.
- Principal Franken.- Principal Franken.
- [Efrem] Bright Ones isin theaters, nationwide,
for one night April 22nd.
- You ever wonder about your real parents?
- [Boy] Nobody wants theold dog from the pound.
(swoosh)
- [Efrem] At number one.
(swoosh)
- You think I'm dead now, Mabel?
- [Tyler] Didn't eat nopork and look at him.
We done outlived him, layin' there dead.
We still alive.
- [Man] Are you satisfied?
- [Efrem] It's the end of anera for Tyler Perry as Medea.
- This is the last Medea film.
It's been a wonderful run, I'm so grateful
but I'm turning 50 andI certainly don't want
to be her age playing her.
So I think she's had a great run.
I'm really grateful for it.
- [Efrem] It's the lastMedea movie and play.
Perry's been traveling the country
with Medea's Farewell Tour.
(crowd talking)
And this week he stops in New York City
to premiere A Medea Family Funeral.
- It's been a good run.
All good things must come to an end
and a lady always knows when to leave
so she knew to leave.
- Yeah, you have to go to court.
- I don't go to court, okay.
I'm dragged to court.
I don't just go to court 'causethe judge said go to court.
I'm a thug.
(quirky music)
- Well, Efrem joins us now.
Let's start with the Oscars.
- Okay.
- Any surprises from your standpoint?
- Not really.
I guess I was really grateful to see
what Black Panther did manage to score.
It was a first for at leasttwo African Americans.
We saw one woman take homethe award for best set design.
I believe her last name is Beachler
and then we saw RuthCarter who is a graduate
of Hampton University whichis right here in our backyard.
She take home the Oscar for Best Costume.
That was, I think, her third nomination,
which was also great.
We saw Spike Lee takehome Best Screenplay.
And I don't think anybody was more excited
about that Oscar than he was,
jumping in the arms of Samuel Jackson.
And I think it was definitely--
- You can say it was about time.
- Yeah, about time for him.
He's been at this for a while.
Regina King gave a really moving speech.
Her mom was there in the audience.
Her mom is a teacher, was ateacher in Cincinnati, Ohio,
obviously a family of faith
and we heard that in her speech repeatedly
as she said, thank you Mom for telling me
that God has always beenleaning in my direction
and God is indeed good all the time.
Because she's been in thebusiness for a very long time,
since a child, and it'sso hard for a child actor
to start as young as she did
and to stay in the industryas long as she has.
- And to stay sane.
- And to stay sane.
Family woman, a mother herself, divorced
but still raising her son
and making a difference.
I think this year shecommitted that I think,
75% of the projects she isgoing to do from her on out
she is going to see to itthat there are more women
working behind the scenes thanever before on her projects.
And she challenged other women to commit
to the same thing, just tomake sure that filmmaking
becomes even more diverse.
And to see her win anOscar, it was about time.
Glad to see it.
- Were you surprised with Green Book?
- I guess I was kind of torn.
Everyone was saying that I think,
it was Roma was going to win instead.
But Green Book is, it's apowerful film, although--
- [Gordon] You really liked it.
- [Efrem] I did like it.
- You said it on the show.- Yes, I really did like it.
- It's a great film.
It taught me things that I didn't know
and that I had to go backand then start asking
my family, said, wellyou guys never told me
about a green book.
There was a green book?
And I learned new things.
And the relationship between these two,
two real life charactersand the concert pianist
shared his story with filmmakers before
and said you can't make thefilm though, until I die.
And so after he died, theydied just months apart
so they were friends for a very long time.
And then to see this playout, it was really good,
really good to see.
- There was some controversy over that.
- There was some controversy,
his family, yes, Spike Lee didn't like it
because he said it was astory that's been done before.
He compared it to Driving Miss Daisy.
The whole idea--
- [Gordon] And he lost in that one.
- [Efrem] And he lost in that one too.
- [Gordon] So maybethat was just personal.
- [Efrem] Yeah, 'causeany time there's a story--
- About somebody driving
somebody else.- Somebody driving somebody
I'm not (laughs) gonna win.
And his family, theconcert pianist' family
did not necessarily like the film
but they said it wasn't because
it wasn't truthful.
There were just elements of his life
that they wanted to seeincluded that weren't there.
For example, part of hisreason for touring the country
the way he did was to go tohistorically black college
and universities to performto expose those children
to the work that he as doing.
And we did not see that in the film.
That was something that they wished--
- That was completely left out.
- Yeah, that was left out.
- The whole, why are you doing this
was also left out.
- Yeah.
- And so I think that wouldhave filled in that gap.
This is why you're doing it.
You're going to these other places
where there's still open discrimination.
You doing that to pay thebill so that you can go
to the black colleges and show those kids,
here.- What's possible.
- Here's what you can do.
- Absolutely, absolutely.
- Alright, Tim Tebow's goinginto the film business.
- Yes he is.
And a great first fun.
This project for him has beenseven years in the making.
For the actual gentlemanwho wrote the film,
it was 10 years in the making.
Tim Tebow and his brothercame along three years in.
- [Gordon] Now, that's a project,
so three years, I think that's forever.
- [Efrem] Yeah, I know.
- [Gordon] And you're gonna do 10?
- - [Efrem] Yeah, hewas at this for 10 years
and he said, I had a chance to talk to him
on the red carpet as well,
to ask where did this story come from
and was it true?
He he goes, well, what itwas was where he grew up.
He took elements of things that he saw
so that he could tall you any part
of that story.
He can tell you, well that'sactually my friend this
and that's my brother going through this,
which is significant tragedy that unfolds.
Don't want to give too much away
because it's still in theaters.
People can certainly
go see it.- 'cause you want people
to go see it.
- [Efrem] I want you to go see it.
It is a first great runfor Rob and Tim Tebow.
And he said in the interview,'cause I think I asked,
I said, so you've doneone, will you do this again
even though this isn't what you intended?
And he said he absolutelywould to it again.
It's hard work, he admits.
He goes, seven years for him,10 years for the filmmaker,
it's hard work but they would do it again.
- Well, that's sort of the untold story.
Everybody has a dream ofstanding on the stage,
holding the golden statue.
(laughing)
But you don't realizethe shear amount of work
that goes into it.
It is some of the hardest things.
And I thought I knew about live TV.
Then I thought, okay,let's take on animation.
But then you start doing feature films,
it's a different level.
- It is indeed, and in talking to people
who were working with the film,
they go, you know youmay think it's a big deal
they got it in 10 years, I've got projects
that I's still sitting onthe shelf that I'd like
to see come to fruition.
- Well, sitting on theshelf, doesn't, I'm sorry,
that doesn't count.
If you've been workinghard on it for 10 years
that's a different thing.
- And they were non-stop on this one.
- Alright, what do youthink of Bethel Music?
They're coming out with one too.
- It looks good.
I'm actually screening it right now.
I'm about half way through the film
so when I leave here I'mgoing back to my desk
to finish the film.
It's beautiful becausethis focuses on Bethel kids
essentially, Bethel Music'schildren's department.
It's one that I will certainlypush for the children
in my own church to seebecause it celebrates
being creative and usingyour creative juices
to bring glory to God, whichis something I don't think
we necessarily focus on enough.
- I would say mostchurches don't focus on.
- Not enough.
- You keep hearing the story,I started in the church choir.
You keep hearing that andthen for whatever reason,
churches aren't getting that, to say,
well, okay, let's be veryintentional with our children
and let's walk themthrough, how do you do this?
- Bethel gets that.
They're helping to tellthat story with this movie.
And I think it shouldencourage us all to do that.
I'm certainly gonna goback to my own congregation
and begin to look at our children and see
okay, how can we do this?
- You gonna criticize your--
- Not gonna criticize, no, no, no.
I'm gonna--
- You're gonna be constructive?
- I'm gonna be constructive.
Let's figure how we can--- You're gonna build up?
- How we can make this work.
- Efrem the edifier.
- Yes, you got it.
- Alright, well for thelatest in entertainment news
you can check out Efrem'sthe Edifier weekly show.
It's called Studio5.
You can watch it on theCBN News Channel or online
at CBN.com/Studio5.
And Efrem, thanks again for being with us.
- Good to be here.
- Well, coming up, theyplayed professional baseball
and started multi-milliondollar businesses.
Now these brothers saythey want to build a bridge
between heaven and earth.
David and Jason Benhamjoin us live to explain
right after this.
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Well, baseball playersturned real estate tycoons,
David and Jason Benham,are known for being bold.
Still, they say when itcomes to winning people
to Christ, boldness isonly half the equation.
- I'm Jason Benham.
- My name's David.
Our business- Our business
is named after me.- is named after me.
- [Reporter] That businessis the Benham Companies.
It's a multi-milliondollar real estate empire
founded by twin brothers,David and Jason Benham.
In 2014, the twins madeheadlines when they were hired
then fired by HGTV because of their stance
against same-sex marriage and abortion.
Today the Benhams encourageChristians to stand
in the gap for their faith and others
and explain why we need tobe that vital connection
between people and God intheir book, Bold and Broken.
- Well, Jason and David are here.
And welcome to the show.
- Thanks- Thanks for having us.
- You've got a new bookout, Bold and Broken,
Becoming the BridgeBetween Heaven and earth.
Alright, so Jason, I'mgonna start with you.
This book came out of a conversation
with a molecular biologist?
- (laughing) Actually, no,but that is a great chapter
in the book that talks aboutthat cell adhesion molecule
inside of our bodies called laminin.
And when you look at that, itliterally gels together cells
and it keeps them connectedto our muscle tissue.
And the pattern of thatmolecule is in the shape
of a cross.
And so I didn't have the conversation.
It was something I got from Louie Giglio.
But man, that is phenomenal, how the cross
brought the connection.
- Okay, and so that's the bridge?
- That's right.
- It's the adhesion thatholds everything together.
- Yeah and so as I was upearly one morning praying,
thinking about Ezekiel 22,you know where God said,
I'm looking for a man to stand in the gap.
And I prayed through theLord's prayer and then I got
to the part where itsays, your kingdom come,
your will be done, onearth as it is in heaven.
And I thought about that gap.
And then I thought, you knowin today's cultural context
the importance ofChristians standing boldly
for their faith, to stand in that gap,
it takes boldness.
But we wrote the book to showChristians through story,
that there are ditches onboth sides of that road.
Boldness apart frombrokenness makes you a bully.
We've found some folksthat have been there
and we've been in that ditch as well.
But on the other side,and this is where a lot
of Christians findthemselves, is that brokenness
apart from boldness makes you a bystander.
So the ditch on either side of the road
is that you can be a bully on one
or a bystander on the other.
What David and I say in this book
is that your boldness needs tobe fueled by your brokenness.
And when you do that, you'll discover
you become a bridgebetween heaven and earth.
And you actually becomethe answer to the prayer
that we pray, your kingdomcome, your will be done
on earth as it--
- And you become that cross.
- You become that bridge.
- The continued connection.
- Alright, David we'regonna let you talk now.
- Okay, thank you.- No, don't let him.
He talks all the time.- We'll take the conversation
up a few notches.- Finally, finally.
(laughing)
Alright, let's get intoone of the stories.
Right after you got bounced off of TV
you got a message from someonethat was just scathing.
- We had hundreds of thousands of messages
coming to us and especially on Facebook
in the Messenger and for some reason,
I know it was the Holy Spirit,
I remember I popped open my cell phone.
We had probably beenfired three or four days
and I just saw this one message.
And it was from a young man in Chicago.
And he said things about Jason and me
I never even knew existed.
It was just horriblethings and the Holy Spirit
really just softened my heart for him.
Instead of trying to win a point,
you wanna win a person.
And so I just simplysaid, Bro, I think you're
speaking through your pain.
Well, the next message he sent to me
was almost like a book.
I just read and he justpoured out his life story
and the abuse and thesethings and my heart
really broke for him.
So that started a conversationover about a two day
period of time.
And I found out during that conversation
that he's a huge Chicago Cubs fan.
So I reached out to Jason.
I said, hey man, let'sput him on the front row.
The Cards are about to be in town.
Let's go onto Stub Hub, buy some tickets,
send him a link and puthim right on the front row.
And so we did that.
And he was blown, he couldn't believe,
he was like, I couldn't believe you guys
are doing this for me.
Well, couple of days later--
- Did the Cubs win?
- You know, I don't remember.
(laughing)
I should know that.
- It was the Cards- They played the Cardinals,
no they probably didn't win.
- I am sure if they wereplaying the Cards they lost.
Well, couple of days later after the game
he responded back to meand he sent me an email.
And in it was a link to a Mercy Me song,
I Can Only Imagine.
And he said, for the last two days,
he said, after you guyssent me those tickets
I have been listening to thissong over and over again.
And I am so overwhelmed by God's love
that I've chosen, he saidthis, to surrender my life
to the Lord and walkaway from the lifestyle
I've been living.
And it was just amazing.
Now, it doesn't always work that way
but God wants to connect people.
- [Gordon] When it does work that way--
- That's right, it's amazing.
God wants to connect with people.
Because everybody's broken,
everybody needs a touch from the Lord.
And so oftentimes, if we'relooking at the culture
around us, we as believerswant to engage boldly
and we do need to engage boldly.
But it cannot come apart from brokenness
that really wants to touchpeople with compassion
and the love of Jesus Christ.
- Why is it so hard to get there?
I will say, I felt likea lesser Christian.
If I'd gotten a messagelike that, I don't know
if I would have done anything.
- We look at scriptureand this is 28 chapters
filled with stories soit's very practical.
And we talk about several scriptures
and the one case studyis the life of Peter.
And you see what happenedwith Peter in the Garden.
When he was asleep, and he was awakened
to the captors who were coming for Christ,
what did he reach for?
A sword, yeah.- Sword.
- So that's what happens with us.
And when he takes that dude's ear off,
Jesus instantly says, no.
Look, you're responsecannot be to harm people,
not to hurt, but to heal.
So we have to, as believers, our first
as we are waking up and realizing,
oh my goodness, look atthis spiritual battle
that's waging in thisnation, New York City,
expanding their abortion laws.
We're redefining marriageand redefining gender
and people are gripped by an identity
of their feelings and passions.
We really need to speak the truth in love
but we can't awaken tothis and reach for a sword
and hurt people.
No, we want to bring healing.
And so that's Peter the bully.
But then on the other side,just a few verses later,
you see Peter, now Jesusis walking to the cross
and he's following him at a distance.
He's beginning to distance himself now.
And then a young girl says,hey, I know you were with him.
And three times he denies the Lord.
That's Peter, the bystander.
But then in the book of Acts,
after the Holy Spiritcomes, all of a sudden,
Peter arises to his feet and speaks boldly
with a heart of compassionand has been broken
and boom, that's now the rest is history.
God used him as a bridge.
- Alright, Jason back to you.
I'll give you a bridgefrom what David was saying.
We just are seeing, whatI never thought I would
see in my life, where you have legislation
that says a child can be born alive
and it's still okay to kill that child.
How do you reach that?
- Well, that's the culture of death.
And we see that the gatesof hell will never prevail
against the church.
This is the moment wherethe church should stand
and be the leading voice that says look,
all life is sacred from conception
all the way through to death.
All life is sacred.
And so on stuff likethis that's happening,
what we see is the ceilingalways become the floor.
There was a time where theysaid, we just wanna abortion
up to six months.
And now, all of a sudden,we see what's happening.
But that's why it takes bold believers
to actually stand up andsay, no, wait a second.
God is the one who createslife, defines life.
And we have a responsibilityto protect all human life.
We need to start talking about it.
That's number one, isthat we just be willing
to actually enter the conversation.
If we get there, we'll besurprised at what God does.
- Okay.
It's got me mad.
- Sure it's a righteousindignation, that's it.
- It's like, you've got to be kidding me.
What have we come to?
And it's got me looking atsome Old Testament judgments
that happened when Israel
started sacrificing their children.
- You know, one of the things that we did
is we were asked to speakat the Day of Mourning
at the Capitol in Albany in New York.
And we actually had a moment of mourning.
This was a time where weshouldn't be rejoicing
over these thingsbecause these legislators
in New York were--
- Standing ovation for them and then got a
blessing over it.- And then you light
up the building.
No, so we have to as thechurch, we are the salt
and the light.
We are the ones that have respond to that.
So we went to the Day of Mourning.
But from that positionof mourning, we now need
to lead to action.
Because it's one thingto be against abortion.
It's another thing to be pro-life.
There are mothers that are out there
that feel, an overwhelmingmajority of them,
they feel that abortionis their only choice.
And we're like, no, no, no.
- There's no option for me.- There are
a myriad of options for you.
But the church can't belike the priest and Levite
in Luke 10, walking by onthe other side of the ditch.
They're over there on theother side of the road.
They might have preached a great sermon
or prayed a great prayerabout the man in the ditch
or maybe one day a year,held up sanctity of man
in the ditch Sunday.
While I go to those marches, it's vital
that we get down into the ditch
and really help our neighbor.
- But this is where spiritual leaders
need to take the lead.
You see, Gordon, we're at a huge problem
in our culture when our spiritual leaders,
their income, theirinfluence and their image
is all tied to people liking them.
When you're there, we're in big trouble.
We need for our spiritualleaders and all of us,
to individually, toactually lay those things
on the alter and realize thatany platform that we have,
that's not just meant for you to stand on.
It's meant for you to lay on as an alter.
And let it burn.
Let it burn.
That we're willing to stand and say,
no, all human life is sacred.
Look, God defines marriage.
We can't redefine marriage andwe start talking like that,
what we'll discover is a lotof us'll lose our platforms.
So be it.
But we'll stand for thetruth and let the Holy Spirit
do what the Holy Spirit does.
And that's to set people free.
- Yeah, you're speaking from example.
You did that.
You absolutely did that.
And let's just pray in agreement
that we can have aculture where every mother
wants their children.
Wouldn't that be a great thing?
- Amen.
- Let's incentivize that.
Let's praise mothers,let's congratulate them.
Because it's a risk,you're actually saying
there's hope for the future,there's hope for my children.
And let's give them that hope.
- Yes.- Amen.
- Amen.
The book, it's calledBold and Broken, Becoming
the Bridge Between Heaven and Earth.
It's available wherever books are sold.
And Dave and Jason, thankyou for being with us.
- Thanks for having us.
- Thank, Gordon.
- Still ahead, a man born withno arms asks God a question.
- God, how am I gonna havejoy when I know my situation,
my physical situation isnot gonna get any better?
- Daniel Ritchie shares the Bible verse
that changed his perspectiveright after this.
Daniel Ritchie was born with no arms.
So when it comes to every day tasks
like brushing his teeth, combing his hair,
making coffee, he uses his feet.
And even though Daniellearned to live independently
he still felt incompleteuntil he discovered
the secret of contentment.
- Hey, guys.
My name's Daniel Ritchie andI wanna take a couple minutes
just to share with you about what it means
to be content in Christ'cause that's something
I have struggled with my entire life
because I was born without arms.
And I look around and I see the rest
of everybody in my life,living life with hands
and using their thumbs.
And I look at what I do and who I am
and I'm not that.
And I know that my situationis never going to get better.
And so I sit here and goGod, how am I gonna have joy?
How am I gonna have peace when I know
my situation, my physical situation
is not gonna get any better?
And I love what Paul saysin Philippians chapter four.
He just says, I've learned to be content
in whatever I'm in,whether I have nothing,
whether I have everything.
He goes on to say in Philippians 4:13,
I can do all things through Christ
who gives me the strength.
And that's coming from aguy who writes those words
as he sits in a prison cell, not knowing
if he's gonna live or die.
But he can say, I can becontent in whatever I'm in.
And it's simply because of Jesus.
And that was somethingfor me, that I started
to realize that mycontentment doesn't come
from having arms.
My contentment doesn't comein my life getting better.
My contentment is found in Jesus
and in Jesus alone.
That's the only thing that doesn't change.
That's the only thingthat doesn't go away.
He's my hope in this life and in the next.
And so if you're sitting there right now
and thinking, God, mysituation's not gonna
get any better, how is there hope in this?
Our hope isn't in this life.
Our hope isn't in pain going away.
Our hope is in Jesus, in his love for us,
in his plan to use us, even in our pain,
knowing that one day,when faith becomes sight,
our pain goes away.
- It's the hope of our calling.
Paul said, godliness with contentment
is great gain.
And it's sometimes hard toget that contentment part.
The godliness, that can be hard too.
And that comes from a belief and a belief
that Jesus died for you,
that he paid the price sothat you wouldn't have to,
that together we died with him
and together we wereraised to new life in him.
So that godliness equation,
God has taken care of all of that.
That contentment is up to us.
And so the question weall have to ask ourselves,
is the cross sufficient?
Do I need something more
to make me happy?
Do I need something more thanmy relationship with God,
my security in knowingthat I will be with him
for all eternity?
When you look at it that way,
now contentment gets very easy.
And then you get tothe point where you say
yes God, this is great gain.
Here's a word for you.
I have learned the secret of being content
in any and every situation.
Whether well fed or hungry,whether living in plenty
or in want, I can doall this through Christ
who gives me strength.
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