Kammy thought she would find love and acceptance through partying, but soon found herself with no one to turn to.
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CAMI (VOICEOVER): I would
sleep with strangers.
I would sleep with
people I would just meet.
When I was in the clubs, if that
person was giving me attention,
then I would sleep with them.
And I started believing
that sex was love.
And it became so
addictive that I just
couldn't have enough of it.
NARRATOR: Cami James
says sex gave her
the attention she craved.
Growing up, she
was a daddy's girl
who felt loved and
accepted by her father.
But when Cami was 15, he
died of a heart attack.
To fill the void, she started
partying and having sex.
CAMI (VOICEOVER): I just was
getting all the attention
I had been looking for.
I was so eager to
please whomever,
however it was necessary.
I was angry with God.
I believed and I felt like He
was the one that took my dad.
NARRATOR: At 19,
Cami married a man
she had dated for six months.
She says her husband
became physically abusive.
CAMI: I mean he would
beat me really bad.
But I tried to hide it.
I didn't want anybody to
know this was going on
because I wanted that
perfect family that I once
had growing up.
NARRATOR: As she thought about
the path she had taken in life,
she began to want
something more.
CAMI (VOICEOVER): My
self-esteem was so low.
I felt ashamed because
I was, at the time,
slowly trying to
get back to God.
I started going to church again.
I wanted to be better because
I was so sick on the inside.
I felt just dirty still.
NARRATOR: Two years later,
the couple divorced.
Once again, Cami sought
love through clubbing
and a promiscuous lifestyle.
CAMI: I needed
approval from others.
That addiction to
needing to please someone
and needing that attention
from a man came quickly.
NARRATOR: At 21, she began
dating a man named Denny, who
had been released from prison.
As she came to depend on
him for love and affection,
he spent more time out
drinking and doing drugs.
CAMI: While he was out partying
and getting high and drunk
and running around on me at
times, I was addicted to him.
I needed that
acceptance from him.
I needed him to care
about me and love me.
NARRATOR: But when
Denny was sentenced
to three months in prison
for violating parole,
Cami was alone and had to
face the woman she had become.
CAMI: I didn't even
recognize myself anymore.
I thought, what happened to that
good girl before my dad died?
What happened to that girl?
I was so ashamed.
I thought I can never be
any different than this.
I'm going to die this way.
I really didn't want
to live anymore.
NARRATOR: One night
in her apartment,
she cried out to God.
CAMI: I was almost just laying
on the floor, just almost
like a temper tantrum, just
hitting my hands on the floor
and just saying, God, I have
really screwed up my life.
I know you're real.
But I need you to show me
that you're real because I
don't know what love is.
I'm begging you to forgive
me for all the people I've
slept with, for all
the lies I have told,
for everything I've done wrong.
As I'm on the floor crying,
just weeping, all of a sudden I
just felt a warmth
to coming over me.
And I had never
felt that before.
All of a sudden, I just
started feeling peace.
And I felt God's love
at that very moment.
And it was like a little whisper
saying, I'm here for you.
I'll love you.
He really meant
that He was there
and He loved me and I
wasn't alone anymore.
And He was forgiving
me of all I had done.
NARRATOR: From that
day, Cami started
reading her Bible her
parents had given her
when she was a child and
set her heart on God.
She says within a few
months God freed her
from her sexual addiction.
CAMI: It all stopped.
I didn't go back.
And I still haven't to this day.
Because I got so addicted
to God's love that I just
started diving in my Bible.
I was like it was reading me.
NARRATOR: There was also someone
else who surrendered their life
to Christ.
CAMI: While Denny
was in prison, he
was going through his
own change of repentance,
asking for God's forgiveness.
And he wanted a second chance.
The darkness and the noise
of prison was all around.
I heard him clearly
say, I need you to fast.
I need you to pray.
And I need you to love Cami.
CAMI: And when he got out,
it's like God just completely
healed our relationship.
NARRATOR: Cami and
Denny have been
married for more than 15 years
now and have two children.
They established a ministry
they call Second Chance,
showing people that through
Christ there is always hope.
CAMI: I'm so grateful because I
didn't deserve a second chance.
I didn't deserve to
have this whole new life
that God has given me.
I found that love and
acceptance only from God.
That's where I became fulfilled.
That's when I
surrendered my life.
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