Author Mark Batterson opens up the pages of his new book, “Play The Man.†Plus, after twenty years this husband was sent packing. Find out what brought him back home.
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Wendy: TODAY...THE
PASTOR OF D.C.'S NATIONAL
COMMUNITY CHURCH AND THE
AUTHOR OF THE BEST-SELLER,
"THE CIRCLE-MAKER," MARK
PATTERSON OPENS UP THE
PAGES OF HIS NEW BOOK.
> AND THEN...AFTER 20
YEARS, THIS HUSBAND WAS
SENT PACKING.
IT WAS THE HARDEST
THING I EVER WENT THROUGH.
Wendy: FIND OUT WHAT
BROUGHT HIM BACK HOME.
IT IS A REALLY SWEET
PLACE, TO BE THIS CLOSE.
Wendy: ON TODAY'S
"700 CLUB."
*
Pat: WELL, WELCOME,
FOLKS, TO THIS EDITION OF
"THE 700 CLUB."
YOU KNOW, I HAVE A FRIEND
WHO IS IN CHARGE OF
"OPERATION BLESSING," BILL
HORAN.
AND HIS HOBBY IS TARGET
SHOOTING.
HE LOVES TO SHOOT.
AND SO HE SAID, WOULD YOU
LIKE TO JOIN US?
AND I SAID, YES, LET'S DO
IT.
I HAVEN'T SHOT A RIFLE IN
A LONG, LONG TIME.
WE WENT TO A SHOOTING
RANGE --
Terry: HOW DID YOU
DO?
Pat: WELL, I WANT TO
SHOW THE TARGET, IF YOU
GIVE ME A CLOSEUP.
THERE WERE FOUR SHOTS
INSIDE ONE ANOTHER, AND
THAT'S THE BULL'S EYE.
I HAD A COUPLE.
Terry: IF YOU FRAME
THIS, YOU COULD PUT A
LITTLE NAME ON IT THAT
SAYS, "DON'T MESS WITH
ME."
Pat: THEY HAD A NAME
OF A PARTICULAR LEADING
SENATOR, WHO I WILL NOT
IDENTIFY --
Terry: THAT THEY PUT
UP THERE?
Pat: THEY SAID,
THAT'S WHO YOU ARE
SHOOTING.
I USED TO HAVE OSAMA BIN
LADEN, AND I HIT HIM RIGHT
BETWEEN THE EYES.
BUT HE'S GONE.
I HAVEN'T SHOT A RIFLE IN
THE LONGEST TIME, AND I'VE
GOT A LITTLE BIT OF STUFF
LEFT.
Terry: I THINK YOU'VE
GOT A LOT OF STUFF LEFT.
Pat: THIS WAS ABOUT
50 YARDS, I THINK --
Terry: GO YOU.
WAS IT FUN?
Pat: OF COURSE IT IS
FUN, A LOT OF FUN.
I HAVE BURNISHED MY
CREDENTIALS WITH THE
N.R.A.
I MAY HAVE A LIFETIME
MEMBERSHIP.
Terry: YOU QUALIFY.
Pat: LISTEN, THE
GOVERNMENT GOT OUT OF
CONTROL WHEN THE HEAD MAN
IS BYPASSED, AND HIS
SECOND IN COMMAND RECUSES
HIMSELF, AND THE THIRD IN
COMMAND TAKES IT UPON
HIMSELF TO APPOINT A
FORMER HEAD OF THE F.B.I.
TO CONDUCT A PROBE OF HIS
BOSS.
THAT'S WHAT HAPPENED.
AND THERE IS NO EVIDENCE
WHATSOEVER THAT THE
RUSSIANS INVOLVED
THEMSELVES IN THE TRUMP
CAMPAIGN.
PEOPLE HAVE TRIED AND
TRIED AND TRIED, AND THEY
HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO GET
IT.
BUT YET WE HAVE NOW
COMMISSIONED A MAN, WHO
HAS, THEY SAY, IMPECCABLE
CREDENTIALS, AND WE'RE
GOING TO GIVE HIM AN
UNLIMITED BUDGET.
HE HAS A FISHING LICENSE
TO GO ANYWHERE HE WANTS
TO.
AND FOR THE NEXT THREE,
FOUR, FIVE YEARS, HE WILL
BE OUT THERE PROBING AND
HOLDING HEARINGS, AND
PROBING AND HOLDING
HEARINGS, AND YOU TELL ME
WE'RE GOING TO GET A TAX
CUT THROUGH?
NO WAY.
HEALTH CARE?
NO WAY.
BUILD STRUCTURE?
NO WAY.
IT IS GOING TO CRIPPLE THE
TRUMP PRESIDENCY UNLESS
GOD HIMSELF INDECES VENES.
INTERVENES.
AND THE MARKETS RESPONDED.
THE DOW WENT DOWN A
DRAMATIC AMOUNT YESTERDAY.
BUT IF THE DEMOCRATS
SUCCEED -- I WANT TO SAY
THIS AS CLEARLY AS
POSSIBLE -- WE'RE GOING TO
HAVE ONE OF THE MOST
HORRENDOUS FINANCIAL
CRISIS IN AMERICA.
WE'RE TEETERS ON THE BRINK
RIGHT NOW.
THIS WOULD BE ALL IT WOULD
TAKE TO SEND THE WHOLE
COUNTRY AND THE WORLD INTO
A TAIL SPIN FROM WHICH IT
WILL BE UNABLE TO RECOVER.
WE'RE TALKING ABOUT
PLAYING WITH FIRE.
IT IS LIKE A BUNCH OF KIDS
GOT SOME MATCHES AND
THEY'RE IN THE MIDDLE OF
AN OIL DEPOT AND THEY'RE
PLAYING WITH MATCHES.
AND THE KIDS ARE UP THAT
PLAYING.
THERE IS NOTHING THAT
TRUMP HAS DONE THAT
JUSTIFIES ALL OF THIS.
AND THERE HAS BEEN NO
CRIME THAT ANYBODY CAN
TELL ME.
AND YET WE HAVE
SOMEBODY -- AS THEY SAY,
IF YOUR ONLY WEAPON IS A
HAMMER, THEN EVERYTHING
LOOKS LIKE A NAIL.
THEY'RE GOING TO BANG AWAY
AND FIND SOMETHING.
UNLESS GOD HIMSELF
INTERVENES.
Terry: WELL, THE
ANNOUNCEMENT OF THAT
SPECIAL COUNSEL AND THE
INVESTIGATION CAME ON THE
EVE OF PRESIDENT TRUMP'S
FIRST MAJOR INTERNATIONAL
TRIP.
HE IS TRAVELLING TO THE
MIDDLE EAST AND EUROPE.
AND NOW THERE IS WORD THAT
THE PRESIDENT HAS RULED
OUT MOVING THE UNITED
STATES EMBASSY IN ISRAEL
TO JERUSALEM, FOR NOW AT
LEAST.
MAKERMARK MARTIN HAS THE STORY.
Mark: ROBERT
MUELLER'S APPOINTMENT WAS
MET WITH PRAISE FROM BOTH
SIDES OF THE AISLE.
OBVIOUSLY, THAT IS A
STEP IN THE RIGHT
DIRECTION.
TAKE THE POLITICS OUT
OF THIS, HOPEFULLY.
Mark: DEPUTY
ATTORNEY-GENERAL RO ROD
ROSENSTEIN SAYS HE WANTS
SOMETHING TO OVERSEE THE
RUSSIAN GOVERNMENT EFFORTS
TO INFLUENCE THE 2016
PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION AND
RELATED MATTERS.
MY DECISION IS NOT A
FINDING THAT CRIMES HAVE
COMMITTED OR ANY
PROSECUTION IS WARRANTED.
I HAVE MADE NO SUCH
DETERMINATION.
WHAT I HAVE DETERMINED IS
BASED UPON THE UNIQUE
CIRCUMSTANCES THE PUBLIC
INTEREST REQUIRES ME TO
PLACE THIS INVESTIGATION
UNDER THE AUTHORITY OF A
PERSON WHO EXERCISE A
DEGREE OF INDEPENDENCE
FROM THE NORMAL CHANGE OF
COMMAND."
IN A STATEMENT, MUELLER
SAID, "I ACCEPT THIS
RESPONSIBILITY AND WILL
DISCHARGE IT TO THE BEST
OF MY ABILITY."
WHATEVER INVESTIGATION
GOES ON, IT WILL HAVE THE
CREDIBILITY OF BOB MULLER.
Reporter: AND
PRESIDENT TRUMP ALSO
ISSUED A STATEMENT: "AS I
HAVE STATED MANY TIMES, A
THOROUGH INVESTIGATION
WILL CONFIRM WHAT WE
ALREADY KNOW: THERE WAS NO
COLLUSION BETWEEN MY
CAMPAIGN AND ANY FOREIGN
ENTITY.
I LOOK FORWARD TO THIS
MATTER CONCLUDING
QUICKLY."
DURING A WEDNESDAY
COMMENCEMENT ADDRESS TO
THE UNITED STATES COAST
GUARD, THE PRESIDENT
BLASTED THE MEDIA.
President Trump: LOOK
AT THE WAY I'VE BEEN
TREATED LATELY.
ESPECIALLY BY THE MEDIA.
NO POLITICIAN IN HISTORY
HAS BEEN TREATED WORSE OR
MORE UNFAIRLY.
Reporter: THE
APPOINTMENT OF A SPECIAL
COUNSEL COMES AS TRUMP IS
ABOUT TO EMBARK ON HIS
FIRST OVERSEAS TRIP AS
PRESIDENT, HEADING TO
SAUDI ARABIA, ISRAEL, AND
THE VATICAN.
AND AMID REPORTS THAT THE
PRESIDENT HAS DECIDED GENS
AGAINST MOVING THE U.S.
EMBASSY FROM TEL AVIV TO
JERUSALEM, AT LEAST FOR
NOW.
AND THE RUSSIAN
INVESTIGATION COULD REMAIN
IN THE INVESTIGATION FOR
SOME TIME TO COME.
MARK MARTIN, CBN NEWS.
Pat: OUR CBN NEWS
POLITICAL CORRESPONDENT
DAVID BRODY IS WITH US.
YOU'RE SET TO TAKE OFF
WITH TRUMP FOR HIS MIDDLE
EAST TRIP IN ANOTHER FEW
DAYS.
David: AS A MATTER
OF FACT, WE LEAVE LATER
TONIGHT, THURSDAY EVENING.
THAT WILL BE INTERESTING.
IT IS THE WORLD RELIGION
TOUR, PAT, SAUDI ARABIA,
JERUSALEM, ROME, AND THEN
WE'RE COMING BACK.
IT WILL BE VERY
INTERESTING, ESPECIALLY AS
WHAT IT RELATES TO WHAT
THE PRESIDENT IS GOING TO
SAY ABOUT ISLAM.
HE WILL SPEAK TO 50 LEADER
OF MUSLIM-MAJORITY
COUNTRIES.
AND STEVEN MILLER IS
WRITING THAT ISLAM SPEECH.
SO GET READY FOR SOME
POTENTIAL FIGHTING WORDS,
IF YOU WILL.
I KNOW HE HAS TO PLAY THE
PART WITH SAUDI ARABIA AS
A STRATEGIC PARTNER
FIGHTING TERRORISM.
BUT THERE WILL PROBABLY BE
SOME TOXIC LANGUAGE IN
THERE, I WOULD THINK.
Pat: I THINK THE
APPOINTING OF A SPECIAL
PROSECUTOR, OR COUNSEL,
THEY CALL HIM, IS A
TERRIBLE MISTAKE.
YOU'RE TAKING HIM OUT OF
THE CHAIN OF COMMAND AND
HE NO LONGER REPORTS TO
ANYBODY.
HE IS AN INDEPENDENT.
HE CAN DO ANYTHING HE
WANTS TO.
WHAT DO YOU HEAR UP THERE
IN WASHINGTON?
David: WELL, YOU
DON'T REALLY HEAR MUCH
TALK ABOUT BIPARTISAN,
ACCEPT WHEN IEXCEPT WHEN IT COMES TO
THIS.
YOU HAVE REPUBLICANS WHO
ARE THROWING TRUMP UNDER
THE BUS.
AND YOU HAVE DEMOCRATS WHO
ARE ALL GIDDY AT THE
NAMING AT THIS SPECIAL
COUNSEL.
IT IS SOMEWHAT BIPARTISAN
UP HERE.
THEY THINK MUELLER IS A
GUY WHO HAS DONE A SUPERB
JOB IN THE F.B.I. BEFORE.
THIS GUY IS A MARINE AND
HE IS FROM NEW YORK.
AND HE IS GOOD FRIENDS, BY
THE WAY, DOT, DOT, DOT,
WITH JAMES COMEY.
LET'S GO MARINATE ON THAT
FOR A LITTLE WHILE.
THIS IS NOT A GOOD
SITUATION FOR THE WHITE
HOUSE AT ALL.
AND THIS COULD GO ON FOR A
VERY LONG TIME.
MUELLER COULD ACTUALLY GO
AHEAD AND SUBPOENA DONALD
TRUMP'S TAX RETURNS.
THE POINT IS HE HAS WIDE
AUTHORITY HERE.
Pat: IN A SENSE, WHAT
CRIME HAS ANYBODY FOUND?
THEY HAVE LOOKED AND
LOOKED AND LOOKED, AND
NOBODY HAS FOUND ANY
RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN THE
TRUMP CAMPAIGN AND RUSSIA.
I DON'T UNDERSTAND THE,
QUOTE, "WE'RE GOING TO GET
TO THE BOTTOM OF IT," TO
WHAT?
David: REUTERS IS
OUT THIS MORNING SAYING
THERE ARE 18 NEW PHONE
CALLS BETWEEN THE TRUMP
CAMPAIGN AND THE RUSSIAN
OFFICIALS.
WELL, IF YOU READ IN THE
THIRD PARAGRAPH OF THAT
STORY, IT SAYS, OH, BY THE
WAY, DURING THOSE PHONE
CALL CONVERSATIONS, THERE
REALLY WASN'T ANYTHING
IMPROPER DONE.
SO THE POINT IS -- OF
COURSE, THAT'S NOT THE
HEADLINE.
SO ULTIMATELY, DONALD
TRUMP ACTUALLY COULD HAVE
A BIG UPSIDE HERE, BELIEVE
IT OR NOT, EVENTUALLY.
IF MUELLER COMES BACK AND
SAYS, LOOK, I CAN'T FILE
ANY CRIMINAL CHARGES HERE,
THEN DONALD TRUMP HAS
TAKEN ON THE D.C.
ESTABLISHMENT AND WON.
HE'LL GO DOWN AS A HERO
AND A VICTIM OF ALL OF
THIS.
IT ACTUALLY COULD CEMENT
HIS STATUS EVEN MORE, BUT
HE HAS TO GET THROUGH THE
NEXT -- WHO KNOWS HOW LONG
THIS IS GOING TO BE.
IT COULD BE A COUPLE OF
YEARS.
Pat: WHAT HAPPENS TO
THE AGENDA?
WHAT HAPPENS TO THE TAX
REFORM.
WHAT HAPPENS TO OBAMACARE
REFORM?
DOES IT GOING TO LIMBO, DO
YOU THINK?
David: I THINK LIMBO
IS A GOOD WORD FOR IT.
IT MIGHT BE A KIND WORD
FOR IT.
IT IS HARD TO WALK AND
CHEW GUM UP HERE AT THE
SAME TIME.
NOW YOU'RE GOING TO ADD
ALL OF THESE SUBPOENAS AND
CONGRESSIONAL HEARINGS AND
ALL OF THIS THAT IS GOING
TO COME WITH THE SPECIAL
COUNSEL, AND IT IS GOING
TO BE VERY, VERY
DIFFICULT.
HAVING SAID THAT, THEY'RE
GOING TO MOVE FORWARD.
AND THE QUESTION THEN
BECOMES, IF THEY CAN GET
TAX REFORM DONE, WHICH
THEY BELIEVE THEY CAN GET
SOMETHING DONE BY THE END
OF THE YEAR -- HEALTH
CARE, WE'RE NOT QUITE SURE
HOW THA IT IS GOING TO WORK
IN THE SENATE, MAYBE
SOMETHING BY LABOR DAY,
BUT IF ONE OF THOSE
LEGISLATIVE
ACCOMPLISHMENTS COMES
THROUGH, IT BECOMES A NEW
DAY FOR DONALD TRUMP.
HE NEEDS THAT AT THIS
POINT, PAT.
THE DEGREE OF DIFFICULTY
HAS BECOME MUCH MORE
HARDER AT THIS POINT.
Pat: THERE IS TALK
ABOUT SHOUTING IN THE
WHITE HOUSE BETWEEN THE
VARIOUS PRESS TYPES.
SOME TALK ABOUT REPLACING
SEAN SPICER.
WHAT DO YOU HEAR ABOUT
THAT?
David: THERE IS SOME
OF THAT.
I DON'T THINK THERE IS ANY
QUESTION ABOUT IT.
BECAUSE DONALD TRUMP IS
TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT
EXACTLY TO DO, NOT JUST
WITH THE COMMUNICATIONS
STAFF, BUT IN TERMS OF A
STAFF SHAKEUP.
HERE IS PART OF THE
PROBLEM, PAT: HE IS A VERY
LOYAL GUY, AND POTENTIALLY
EVEN TO A FAULT.
TO WHERE HE WANTS TO KEEP
FOLKS ON A LITTLE LONGER
THAN MAYBE THEY SHOULD BE
THERE.
I'LL BE QUITE FRANK WITH
YOU.
I THINK THAT IS THE LEAST
OF THIS PRESIDENT'S
WORRIES RIGHT NOW, THE
COMMUNICATIONS STAFF.
HERE IS THE CRUX OF THE
ISSUE AS IT RELATES TO
DONALD TRUMP: THE
FREE-WHEELING DONALD TRUMP
WHEN HE WAS CANDIDATE WAS
WONDERFUL.
HE PLAYED GREAT.
HE WAS THE OUTSIDER.
BUT A FREE WHEELING
PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED
STATES IS A DIFFERENT
MATTER.
AND WHEN YOU'RE SLAPPING
GUYS ON THE BACK AND
SAYING, HEY, LET'S TALK
ABOUT SOME INFORMATION I
HEARD ABOUT ISIS TO
RUSSIAN OFFICIALS IN THE
OVAL OFFICE.
TRUMP IS OPERATING LIKE
THIS IS A BOARD ROOM.
THE PROBLEM IS THERE ARE
PEOPLE OUT TO GET HIM.
THERE IS PEOPLE INSIDE THE
WHITE HOUSE, INTELLIGENCE
FOLKS, THE MEDIA.
THAT'S A BAD TRINITY, IF
YOU WILL, PAT.
IT IS ONE THING TO TAKE ON
THE MEDIA, BUT HE HAS GOT
TO TAKE ON PEOPLE ACTUALLY
WITHIN THE WHITE HOUSE,
BELIEVE IT OR NOT, AND THE
INTELLIGENCE COMMUNITY.
NOT GOOD.
Pat: DAVID, YOU'VE
GOT A FUN TRIP AHEAD OF
YOU.
ARE YOU GOING TO BE
EMBARGOED?
CAN YOU TELL US STUFF AS
YOU GO DOWN THE LINE?
David: WELL, WE HAVE
THAT TRIP GOING TO SAUDI
ARABIA, JERUSALEM, AND
ROME, AND WE'LL START
REPORTING ON "THE 700
CLUB" NEXT WEEK.
BUT LATER THIS AFTERNOON,
I'M AT THIS NETWORK ANCHOR
LUNCHEON, SCOTT PELLEY AND
LESTER HOLESTER HOLT AND YOURS
TRULY.
AND IT IS OFF THE RECORD
WITH THE PRESIDENT OF THE
UNITED STATES AND SOME OF
THE SENIOR OFFICIALS AT
THE WHITE HOUSE, BUT OFF
THE RECORD WILL QUICKLY
TURN INTO A LOT OF LEAKS
OF WHAT THE PRESIDENT IS
PROBABLY GOING TO STAY.
I WOULD EXPECT A FEW
STORIES LATER THIS
AFTERNOON.
Pat: DAVE, THANKS SO
MUCH.
STAY WITH IT.
David: YOU BET.
Pat: AND WE JUST
HEARD THAT ROGER AILES
DIED THIS MORNING.
HIS WIFE SAID IN A
STATEMENT ON THE DRUDGE
REPORT THAT HE WAS A
LOVING HUSBAND, A PATRIOT,
AND A LOYAL FRIEND.
YOU KNOW, IT'S A SHAME --
HE WAS A MEDIA GENIUS, BUT
UNFORTUNATELY HIS
PROCLIVITY FOR LIKING
BEAUTIFUL YOUNG WOMEN DID
HIM IN.
AND I'M SORRY TO SEE -- I
LIKE FOX NEWS, BUT IT
LOOKS LIKE THEY'RE REALLY
LOSING OUT.
THEY'RE LOSING OUT TO
MSNBC, AND THERE IS JUST
TURMOIL IN THAT NETWORK.
AND IT WAS SO PROFITABLE.
THEY WERE BILLING ABOUT A
BILLION AND A HALF DOLLARS
A YEAR, AND FOR A CABLE
NETWORK, THAT'S
UNBELIEVABLE.
AND THEY JUST EASED OUT,
ONE AFTER THE OTHER.
AND ROGER AILES WAS A
GENIUS.
AND I'M SURE THOSE WHO
LOVE GOOD TELEVISION WILL
MOURN HIS PASSING.
I DIDN'T KNOW HIM
PERSONALLY.
I'VE SAID HI TO HIM, BUT
THAT WAS ABOUT IT.
Terry: WAS THAT
UNEXPECTED?
Pat: WELL, YOU LOOK
AT SOMEBODY, AND THEY'RE A
HEART ATTACK WAITING TO
HAPPEN.
OVERWEIGHT, NO EXERCISE,
THE WHOLE THING, STRESS --
A LOT OF STRESS.
AND THAT'S A KILLER.
AND THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS.
Terry: COMING UP,
IT'S A BOND THAT WAS
FORGED BY FIRE.
HEAR HOW THE SIX-DAY WAR
LED TO AN ALLIANCE BETWEEN
AMERICA AND ISRAEL, AND
WHY SOME OLD ENEMIES ARE
THREATENING IT TO THIS
DAY.
DAY.
Pat: IN THE 50 YEARS
SINCE THE SIX-DAY WAR IN
THE MIDDLE EAST, THE WORLD
HAS SEEN THE FALL OF THE
IRON CURTAIN AND THE RISE
OF RADICAL ISLAMIC
TERRORISM.
BUT THROUGH IT ALL, AT
LEAST ONE ALLIANCE HAS
THRIVED, AND THAT IS THE
U.S. AND ISRAEL.
JOHN WAGGI EXPLAINS.
Reporter: AFTER THE
TENSION OF THE OBAMA
YEARS, DONALD TRUMP'S
ELECTION OPENED A NEW
CHAPTER IN U.S. RELATIONS
WITH ISRAEL.
FROM THE CAMPAIGN THROUGH
HIS INAUGURATION, TRUMP
SOUNDED A CALL FOR U.S.'
SUPPORT FOR ISRAEL.
THE FOUNDATION OF THE
U.S.-ISRAEL ALLIANCE BEGAN
IN THE SIX-DAY WAR.
AFTER ISRAEL TOOK BACK ITS
BIBLICAL HEARTLAND,
INCLUDING JERUSALEM IN
1967, THE WHOLE WORLD TOOK
NOTICE.
ISRAEL'S FRIENDS AND
MILLIONS OF AMERICANS
REJOICED.
BUT ISRAEL'S ENEMIES BEGAN
TO CALL THE U.S. THE BIG
SATAN AND ISRAEL THE
LITTLE SATAN.
WHEN ISRAEL WON THE
SIX-DAY WAR, IT WAS HUGE.
BECAUSE YOU WENT FROM
ANTICIPATING DISASTER --
IT WASN'T THAT LONG AFTER
THE HOLOCAUST.
AND PERHAPS ANOTHER
MASSACRE OF THE JEWISH
PEOPLE TO AN INCREDIBLE
VICTORY.
Reporter: AMBASSADOR
DORY GOLD IS THE FORMER
DIRECTOR OF ISRAEL'S
FOREIGN MINISTRY.
I REMIND YOU IN GLOBAL
TERMS, THE U.S. HAD BEEN
BOGGED DOWN IN VIETNAM,
TRYING TO CONTAIN THE
SPREAD OF SOVIET POWER IN
THE FAR EAST.
AND HERE ALL OF A SUDDEN
ISRAEL STANDS FIRM.
AND NOT ONLY DEFEATS ITS
ARAB NEIGHBORS BUT
DEFEASTS CLIENTS OF THE
SOVIET UNION WHO ARE USING
SOVIET WEAPONRY.
SO IT WAS A VICTORY FOR
ISRAEL.
IT WAS SURVIVAL OF THE
JEWISH PEOPLE.
AND IT WAS AN ENORMOUS
VICTORY FOR THE WEST.
Reporter: MIDDLE EAST
EXPECT JOEL C. ROSENBERG
SAYS ISRAEL'S DEFEAT OF
THE SOVIET PROXIS WOKE UP
THE WHITE HOUSE UNDER
PRESIDENT LYNDON B.
JOHNSON.
SUDDENLY THIS LITTLE
SCAP PESCRAPPY ISRAEL WAS SEEN AS
AN OUTPOST, A FRONTAL
FORWARD POSITION OF
WESTERN DEMOCRACY, THAT
HAD THE CAPACITY TO DEFEAT
SOVIET MIGS,
SOVIET-TRAINED SOLDIERS.
SUDDENLY THE UNITED STATES
THOUGHT, MAYBE ISRAEL IS
MORE IMPORTANT THAN WE
THOUGHT, GEOPOLITICALLY,
AND IT WAS QUITE GAL
GALVANIZING TO WHAT BECAME
THE MOST IMPORTANT
ALLIANCE IN THE HISTORY OF
THE 20th CENTURY, THE
ALLIANCE BETWEEN THE
UNITED STATES AND ISRAEL.
Reporter: PRESIDENT
JOHNSON TOLD THE RUSSIANS
NO WHEN THEY CALLED FOR
ISRAEL TO GIVE UP ALL OF
THE TERRITORY RECAPTURED
IN THE WAR.
JOHNSON MADE CLEAR THAT
ISRAEL WOULD HAVE SECURE
AND RECOGNIZED BOUNDARIES,
A POLICY EXPANDED BY
PRESIDENTS REAGAN AND
BUSH.
AND THAT BECAME THE
BASIS OF AMERICAN
DIPLOMACY FOR DECADES.
AND ONLY RECENTLY SOME
PEOPLE TALK ABOUT A FULL
ISRAELI WITHDRAWAL.
THAT WOULD BE CONTRARY TO
ISRAEL'S NATIONAL SECURITY
TODAY, AND IT CERTAINLY
WAS CONTRARY TO ISRAEL'S
NATIONAL SECURITY BACK
THEN.
Reporter: IN THE HALF
CENTURY SINCE THE WAR,
ISRAEL HAS BECOME A
MILITARY POWER AS THREATS
AROUND IT HAVE ALSO GROWN.
IRAN PURSUES NUCLEAR
AMBITIONS WHILE CALLING
FOR ISRAEL'S DESTRUCTION.
IT'S TERROR ARM IN
LEBANON, HEZBOLLAH, HAS
MORE THAN 100,000 MISSILES
POISED ON ISRAEL'S NORTH.
AND THE OLD BEAR, RUSSIA,
IS BACK IN THE REGION,
LOOKING FOR A FOOT HOLD.
GOLD WARNS IRAN'S TIES TO
NUCLEAR NORTH KOREA AND
THE MEXICAN DRUG CARTELS
PUT THE THREAT ON THE U.S.
DOORSTEP.
THE ENTIRE IRANIAN
BALLISTIC MISSILE PROGRAM
TO A LARGE EXTENT IS
CONNECTED WITH NORTH
KOREA'S BALLISTIC MISSILE
PROGRAM.
BOTH OF US HAVE AN
INTEREST THAT IT BE
STOPPED.
Reporter: AS EUROPE
BECOMES MORE MUSLIM, THE
WHOLE IDEA OF WESTERN
CIVILIZATION IS SHIFTING.
ROSENBERG BELIEVES THE
CHANGES COULD MEAN MORE
FULFILLMENT OF BIBLICAL
PROPHECY IN THE MIDDLE
EAST.
ONE OF THE WORST CASE WORST-CASE
SCENARIOS IN ISRAEL, IF IT
IS IRAN, YOU'LL HAVE A
GENOCIDAL BUREAUCRACY JUST
OVER THE BORDER.
IF THE RUSSIANS ASK THE
IRANIANS TO LEAVE, YOU
STILL HAVE RUSSIA, A
NUCLEAR-ARMED POWER RIGHT
ON ISRAEL'S BORDER, AND
ACCORDING TO BIBLE
PROPHECY, EZEKIEL 38 AND
39, WE KNOW RUSSIAN AND
IRAN WILL FORM AN ALLIANCE
AGAINST ISRAEL AND WILL
COME AGAINST ISRAEL FROM
THE NORTH IN THE END
TIMES.
I'M NOT SAYING WE'RE THERE
YET, BUT THE TREND LINE
CONTINUES TO BE CONSISTENT
WITH THE PREPARATION FOR
THOSE GOG AND MAGOG
PROPHECIES.
Reporter: JOHN WAGGI,
CBN NEWS, JERUSALEM.
Pat: YOU READ THE
NEWSPAPERS AND YOU READ
YOUR BIBLE, AND IT IS
HAPPENING.
IT IS PLAYING OUT BECAUSE
THE UNITED STATES IS THE
GREAT POWER, AND I WANT TO
URGE OUR VIEWERS PRAY
RIGHT NOW BECAUSE THERE IS
AN ATTACK BEING MADE TO
DESTROY AMERICA AND TO
DESTROY ISRAEL.
AND WE HAVE TO RECOGNIZE
THAT WE'RE DEALING WITH
SPIRITUAL FORCES, MAJOR,
MAJOR FORCES THAT WANT TO
TAKE AWAY THE FREEDOM WE
HAVE AND TAKE AWAY THE
FREEDOM THE ISRAELIS HAVE
AND PUT IN SOME KIND OF
A -- I DON'T KNOW --
ISLAMIC, SHAR'IA STATE, OR
WHATEVER IS COMING, BUT IT
IS NOT PLEASANT.
SO I WOULD LIKE US TO PRAY
RIGHT NOW.
AND TERRY AND I ARE GOING
TO JOIN HANDS AT THIS
MOMENT.
FATHER, WE PRAY -- YOU
SAID TO PRAY FOR THE PEACE
OF JERUSALEM.
AND WE PRAY, INDEED, FOR
THE PEACE OF JERUSALEM.
BUT WE PRAY FOR THIS
NATION OF OURS.
AND WE ASK, LORD, THAT YOU
MAY RAISE A STANDARD WHEN
THE ENEMY COMES IN LIKE A
FLOOD, THE LORD WILL RAISE
A STANDARD AGAINST HIM.
AND WE ASK THAT YOU MIGHT
LIFT UP THE STANDARD AND
PUT YOUR ENEMIES TO SHAME.
PUT THE ENEMIES OF FREEDOM
AND RIGHTEOUSNESS AND
JUSTICE TO SHAME, IN THE
NAME OF JESUS.
THANK YOU, LORD.
AMEN.
Terry: AMEN.
Pat: WELL, WE'VE GOT
A MOVIE COMING UP, I
THINK, IN ANOTHER FEW
DAYS.
Terry: WE SURE DO.
"IN OUR HANDS: THE BATTLE
FOR JERUSALEM," IS GOING
TO BE SHOWN IN THEATERS IN
A ONE NIGHT ONLY FATHOM
EVENT.
THAT NIGHT IS TUESDAY, MAY
23rd, AT 7 p.m., AND
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> UP NEXT, THEY HAD A
PICTURE-PERFECT ROMANCE,
BUT AFTER TWO DECADES,
THAT ROMANCE STARTED TO
CRACK.
I KNEW THERE WAS A
DIVIDE BETWEEN US, BUT I
NEVER DREMPT THERE WAS
ANYONE ELSE COMING INTO
THE PICTURE.
Terry: BUT THERE
WASN'T ONE PERSON COMING
INTO THAT PICTURE, THERE
WERE FOUR.
FIND OUT WHAT THIS WIFE
DID WHEN SHE FOUND OUT.
THAT'S NEXT.
Wendy: STILL AHEAD,
BEST-SELLING AUTHOR MARK
PATTERSON DECLARES HIS
MANTRA FOR MANHOOD.
HE JOINS US LIVE COMING
UP.
*
Pat: CHRIS AND
CHOLINCOLLEEN McCAIN GREW UP
ON THE SAME STREET.
THEY DATED, THEY MARRIED,
AND THEN THEY STARTED A
FAMILY.
BUT AFTER DECADES
TOGETHER, THIS INSEPARABLE
COUPLE BEGAN TO DRIFT
APART.
AND IN CHRIS' CASE, HE
WOUND UP IN THE ARMS OF
MAYBE NOT ONE, BUT THREE
OR FOUR WOMEN.
WE KNEW EACH OTHER FOR
SO MANY YEARS AS GREAT
FRIENDS.
WE SPENT A LOT OF TIME
TOGETHER GROWING UP.
AND WE BEGAN TO DATE AND
THEN WE GOT MARRIED, AND
THAT FRIENDSHIP CONTINUED.
AND WE JUST LOVED DOING
THINGS WITH EACH OTHER.
WE PREFERRED ONE ANOTHER.
WE HARDLY EVER FOUGHT.
Reporter: CHRIS
McCAIN AND HIS WIFE,
COLLEEN, WERE HIGH SCHOOL
SWEETHEARTS.
AFTER 20 YEARS, THEIR
PICTURE-PERFECT MARRIAGE
BEGAN TO FALL APART AFTER
THEY EXPERIENCED A SERIES
OF LOSSES.
CHRIS HAD SOME JOB
CHANGES.
MY FATHER DIED AND HIS
MOTHER DIED AND OUR
CHILDREN STARTED MOVING
OUT OF THE HOUSE.
IT REALLY CHANGED THE
DYNAMICS AND THE WAY WE
WERE RELATING TO EACH
OTHER, TOO.
A LOT OF THINGS IN MY
LIFE THAT I HAD CONTROL OF
WERE SLIPPING AWAY.
I HAD NOTICED A CHANGE IN
MY HEART, AS IT WAS
HAPPENING, THAT MY HEART
WAS GETTING HARD.
WE BEGAN TO HAVE ARGUMENTS
NOW, WE BEGAN TO FIGHT,
AND WE WEREN'T USED TO
THAT.
AND WE DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO
FIGHT.
HE AND I BOTH HAD
ALWAYS WANTED TO KEEP
CHRIST IN THE CENTER OF
OUR MARRIAGE.
AND DURING THAT TIME, I
KNEW THAT THERE WAS A
DIVIDE BETWEEN US, BUT I
REALLY NEVER DREMPT THAT
THERE WAS ANYONE ELSE THAT
WAS COMING INTO THE
PICTURE.
Reporter: BUT SOMEONE
DID.
CHRIS HAD BEGUN AN AFFAIR
THAT LASTED SEVERAL
MONTHS.
WHAT STARTED OUT AS
INNOCENT, WHICH WAS
COMPLETELY WRONG,
DEVELOPED INTO MORE.
AND JUST HAVING SOMEONE
LISTEN TO ME AND
UNDERSTAND ME, RATHER THAN
SOMEONE WHO WAS FIGHTING
WITH ME --
Reporter: ASHAMED OF
WHAT HE HAD DONE, CHRIS
CONFESSED TO COLLEEN.
I REALLY WAS SHOCKED
THAT THAT WAS HAPPENING.
BUT THEN HE CONFESSED.
HE SAID IT WAS OVER.
LET'S MOVE FORWARD.
THOUGH THERE WAS A LOT OF
PAIN AND A LOT OF BACK AND
FORTH FOR QUITE SOME TIME,
OF TRYING TO GET THROUGH
THAT, WE JUST SORT OF MADE
A DECISION THAT WE DID
WANT TO STAY TOGETHER.
Reporter: THE
McCAINS DECIDED NOT TO
TELL ANYONE OR SEEK OUT
HELP AFTER CHRIS' AFFAIR.
BASICALLY OUR PRIDE
PREVENTED US FROM WANTING
TO ADMIT TO ANYONE, YOU
KNOW, WE'VE HAD THIS
STORYBOOK MARRIAGE FOR SO
LONG, AND EVERYONE THOUGHT
WE WERE THE POSTER
CHILDREN OF MARRIAGE.
AND TO CONFESS THAT OUR
MARRIAGE WAS TERRIBLE, OUR
PRIDE WOULDN'T ALLOW US TO
DO THAT, TO REACH OUT.
Reporter: THEY STAYED
TOGETHER, BUT CHRIS' HEART
REMAINED UNCHANGED.
A HARD HEART IS FERTILE
GROUND FOR SATAN.
I HAD BEEN COMPLETELY
TAKEN OVER WITH BEING
SELF-ABSORBED AND PLEASING
SELF.
THIS NEEDING TO BE IN
CONTROL OF MY SITUATIONS
BECAUSE THAT'S THE WAY I
HAD ALWAYS BEEN.
I I WASN'T GOING TO BE
CONTROLLED BY MY WIFE AND
I DIDN'T WANT THE LORD TO
BE TELLING ME WHAT TO DO.
Reporter: FOUR YEARS
LATER, CHRIS AND COLLEEN
MET WITH THEIR PASTOR ONE
SUNDAY AFTER CHURCH.
THERE CHRIS CONFESSED TO
MORE AFFAIRS.
I LET OUT A LOT OF
ANGER.
AND MY MIND AND IN MY
HEART, AT THIS POINT I'M
DONE.
AFTER I CONFESSED TO MY
CHILDREN AND THEY WATCHED
ME PACK MY BAGS AND WALK
OUT OF THE HOUSE, THAT WAS
THE HARDEST THING I'D EVER
BEEN THROUGH.
THAT WAS WHEN I BECAME
COMPLETELY BROKEN.
Reporter: CHRIS MOVED
INTO A HOTEL, AND FOR THE
FIRST TIME IN YEARS BEGAN
TO SEEK THE LORD.
HE STUDIED THE WORD,
FASTED AND PRAYED, AND
INVITED OTHER MEN TO PRAY
WITH HIM.
THE PREVIOUS TIMES THAT
WE HAD DEALT WITH MY
AFFAIRS, I HAD CONFESSED.
I DON'T KNOW THAT I HAD
TRULY REPENTED.
WHEN I CONFESSED AFTER THE
FOURTH ONE, THAT WAS WHEN
EVERYTHING -- THAT WAS
WHEN I CAME CLEAN ON
EVERYTHING AND WAS NOT
TRYING TO BE DECEITFUL OR
HIDE ANYTHING ANYMORE
AFTER THAT.
Reporter: COLLEEN
BEGAN TO SEE CHANGES IN
CHRIS, AND RECEIVED
ENCOURAGEMENT FROM
SCRIPTURE.
THERE WAS ONE MORNING,
A SUNDAY MORNING, I WAS
READING MY BIBLE, AND THE
LORD SHOWED ME A VERSE, IN
SAMUEL, AND IT SAID, WATCH
AND SEE WHAT THE LORD IS
GOING TO DO.
WATCH AND SEE THIS GREAT
THING I'M ABOUT TO DO
BEFORE YOUR EYES.
UP UNTIL THAT TIME, I HAD
STARTED GIVING UP ON OUR
MARRIAGE.
Reporter: DURING
THEIR MARRIAGE, CHRIS
SELDOM WORE A WEDDING RING
BECAUSE OF HIS WORK.
HE TOLD COLLEEN, THE LORD
IMPRESSED UPON HIM TO BUY
A NEW RING.
WHEN HE GOT A RING, I
KNEW SOMETHING WAS
HAPPENING.
THIS WAS PROBABLY THE
FIRST THING GOD WAS
SHOWING ME, WATCH AND SEE
THESE GREAT THINGS I'M
ABOUT TO DO BEFORE YOUR
EYES.
BECAUSE THE RING WAS
SOMETHING THAT BOTHERED
ME, AND I HADN'T TOLD HIM.
I KNEW THAT SOMETHING WAS
GOING ON.
AND I TEXTED BACK, AND I
SAID, YOU'RE WALKING BACK
TO ME.
BECAUSE I KNEW THAT GOD
WAS IN IT.
AND IF GOD WAS IN IT, AND
I CAN TRUST GOD, THEN I
WAS ALL ON BOARD.
Reporter: THE
McCAINS SPENT MONTHS IN
COUNSELLING, AND GOD BEGAN
TO HEAL THEIR MARRIAGE.
IT HAS BEEN FIVE YEARS
SINCE THEY REUNITED, AND
THEY SAY THEIR MARRIAGE IS
STRONGER THAN EVER.
ONE OF THE THINGS THE
LORD HAD CHANGED IN ME WAS
BEING WILLING TO GIVE UP
CONTROL AND TO PREFER MY
WIFE AND MY FAMILY AND TO
PUT THE LORD FIRST, RATHER
THAN FOR ME TO CONTROL ALL
OF THAT, BECAUSE HIS WAYS
ARE BETTER THAN MINE.
HE HAS BLESSED US IN
SUCH A TREMENDOUS WAY.
THAT NOW I HAVE A BRAND
NEW HUSBAND.
I DIDN'T HAVE TO GET
MARRIED AGAIN TO HAVE A
NEW HUSBAND BECAUSE GOD
CHANGED HIM COMPLETELY
FROM THE INSIDE OUT.
AND WE JUST SHARE SO MUCH
MORE FREELY, SO MUCH MORE
DEEPLY.
IT IS A REALLY SWEET
PLACE, TO BE THIS CLOSE.
OUR MARRIAGE TODAY IS
INCREDIBLE.
WHEN SOMEONE SHOWS YOU AS
MUCH GRACE AS COLLEEN HAS
SHOWED ME, MY LOVE FOR HER
IS EXPEDENTIAL.
WHEN YOU EXPERIENCE GOD'S
GRACE IN THE WAY THAT WE
DID, HE IS THE ONE THAT
HAS MADE OUR MARRIAGE
GREAT, NOT US.
ALL WE'VE DONE IS JUST
SELL OUT TO HIM AND GIVE
HIM OUR MARRIAGE AND OUR
FAMILY AND OUR HOME.
AND SAID, LORD, YOU JUST
TAKE OUR MARRIAGE AND DO
WITH IT WHAT YOU NEED TO
DO.
Pat: NO SECRETS.
THEY KNOW NOW WHO THEY
ARE.
THEY KNOW WHAT HE HAS
DONE.
THEY KNOW WHAT TEMPTATIONS
HE'S ENCOUNTERED.
AND HAVING FORGIVEN ALL OF
THAT, THEY'RE STRONGER
THAN EVERY BECAUSE THERE
ARE NO LIES SEPARATING
THEM.
THAT'S THE THING THAT
ARISES IN SO MANY
MARRIAGES: YOU'RE KEEPING
SOMETHING FROM YOUR
SPOUSE, THE STUFF YOU LONG
FOR OR ARE DOING,
SOMETHING THAT YOU HAVE
DONE.
YOU DON'T NECESSARILY HAVE
TO HAVE A BIG CONFESSION
SEASON, BUT THERE NEEDS TO
BE SOMETHING THAT CLEARS
THE AIR.
AND IN THE CASE OF CHRIS
AND COLLEEN, THEY CLEARED
THE AIR, BUT IT WAS TOUGH.
OVER THE YEARS -- IT
DIDN'T HAPPEN OVERNIGHT.
ALL OF THE TEMPTATION THAT
HE HAD HAD, AND THE CHANGE
IN HIM.
IT WASN'T A QUESTION THAT
HE HAD A ONE-NIGHT STAND
WITH ONE BIMBO, BUT HE HAD
A DEEP-SEATED NEED TO BE
FREE, TO BE INDEPENDENT.
AND HE HAD TO SURRENDER
THAT TO THE LORD.
AND COLLEEN HAD TO FORGIVE
WHAT SHE PERCEIVED AS A
SLIGHT AGAINST HER.
YOU KNOW, THE WOMAN WOULD
SAY, LOOK WHAT HE DID TO
ME.
WELL, WHAT DID HE DO TO
HIMSELF?
WHAT DID HE DO TO HIS
CHILDREN?
HOW ABOUT LET'S GET
TOGETHER.
AND THEY GOT TOGETHER, AND
THE LORD DID A MIRACLE.
NOW, IF YOU WANT TO HAVE A
REALLY BLESSED MARRIAGE,
YOU HAVE TO FORGIVE THESE
THINGS.
IF YOU'VE GOT A
FILLANDERING HUSBAND, DO
YOU HAVE TO STAY WITH HIM,
IF HE BEATS YOU, I DON'T
THINK SO.
THAT'S A TOTALLY DIFFERENT
MATTER.
BUT IN THIS CASE, THE MAN
SAYS, I WANT TO COME BACK.
I WANT TO RESTORE OUR
MARRIAGE.
THEY WERE HIGH SCHOOL
SWEETHEARTS.
THEY WERE CLOSE TO EACH
OTHER FOR YEARS.
SO HE'LL NEVER FIND THAT
INTIMACY WITH SOME CASUAL
LOVE AFFAIR.
WE WON'T DO IT.
BUT SHE, COLLEEN, WAS THE
ONE FOR HIM.
AND HE WAS THE ONE FOR
HER.
AND THEY RECOGNIZED IT.
AND I REJOICE THAT THAT
HAS TAKEN PLACE.
SO IF YOU WANT TO BEGIN
AGAIN, BE WILLING TO
FORGIVE AND RECOGNIZE THAT
THE GOD OF THE UNIVERSE
ALSO HAS FORGIVEN YOU.
AND EVEN AS HE HAS
FORGIVEN YOU, YOU NEED TO
SHOW THAT FORGIVENESS TO
SOMEBODY ELSE.
I HAVE A LITTLE BOOKLET
HERE, AND IT IS CALLED
"LOVE AND MARRIAGE."
AND IT'S SOME OF THE
SCRIPTURAL PRINCIPLES
ABOUT LOVE AND MARRIAGE,
HOW TO GET GOD IN YOUR
FAMILY.
AND I'LL GIVE THIS TO YOU
FREE IF YOU WANT IT.
IT WILL HELP YOU.
IT IS A SMALL BOOKLET, BUT
THERE ARE SOME PRINCIPLES
THAT MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN
YOUR LIFE.
YOU CAN CALL IN:
1-800-700-7000.
SAY, I LIKE THAT BOOK THAT
PAT IS OFFERING CALLED
"LOVE AND MARRIAGE," AND
WE'LL GIVE IT TO YOU FOR
FREE.
TERRY?
Terry: STILL AHEAD,
PASTOR MARK PATTERSON
ISSUES A CHALLENGE TO GUYS
EVERYWHERE: BE THE MAN GOD
CALLED YOU TO BE.
HE SHARES HOW THEY CAN DO
JUST THAT, WHEN WE RETURN.
Efrem: AND WELCOME
BACK TO "THE 700 CLUB."
A JURY IN TULSA, OKLAHOMA,
ACQUITTED A POLICE OFFICER
IN THE SHOOTING OF AN
UNARMED BLACK MAN.
THE FAMILY OF TERRENCE
KUTCHER BURST INTO TEARS
AFTER THEY FOUND THE
OFFICER NOT GUILTY OF
FIRST DEGREE MANSLAUGHTER.
SHELBY SAYS SHE FIRED HER
GUN OUT OF FEAR BECAUSE
KUTCHER REFUSED TO LIE
DOWN.
AND SHE WAS AFRAID HE WAS
UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF
P.C.P., A POWERFUL DRUG
THAT CAN MAKE PEOPLE
UNPREDICTABLE AND
COMBATIVE.
AN AUTOPSY DID SHOW
KRUTCHER DID HAVE P.C.P.
IN HIS SYSTEM.
> THE NUMBER OF
AMERICANS WHO VIEW THE
BIBLE AS THE LITERAL WORD
OF GOD HAS DROPPED TO AN
HISTORIC LOW, WITH MORE
AND MORE AMERICANS NOW
CONSIDERING IT A BOOK OF
FICTION.
THE REPORT SHOWS 26% SEE
THE BIBLE AS, QUOTE, "A
BOOK OF FABLES, LEGENDS,
HISTORY AND MORAL PRECEPS
RECORDED BY MAN."
AND ONLY 24% OF AMERICANS
BELIEVE THE BIBLE IS THE
ACTUAL WORD OF GOD AND
SHOULD BE TAKEN LITERALLY.
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PAT AND TERRY ARE BACK
WITH MORE OF "THE 700
CLUB."
IT IS COMING UP RIGHT
AFTER THIS.
Terry: MARK BATTERSON
IS THE FIRST TO ADMIT HE
LACKS THE CRITICAL MAN
SKILLS.
HE SAYS HE GETS LOST IF HE
NEEDS TO PUT TOGETHER
ANYTHING THAT REQUIRES
MORE THAN TWO STEPS.
ME, TOO.
WHEN YOU HAVE HAD TO ROUGH
IT IN NATURE, HE MADE SURE
TO BRING AN INFLATABLE
MATTRESS TO THAT
EXPERIENCE.
BUT MARK SAYS MANHOOD IS
MORE THAN JUST A SKILL
SET.
IT IS A ROLE THAT NEEDS TO
BE PLAYED.
Reporter: "NEW YORK
TIMES" BEST-SELLING AUTHOR
AND PASTOR MARK BATTERSON
SAYS MEN AND BOYS ARE
CONFUSED ABOUT THEIR
ROLES, RESPONSIBILITIES,
AND RELATIONSHIPS.
AND THE VERY REASON GOD
MADE THEM MEN.
WE LIVE IN A CULTURE
THAT IN MANY WAYS HAVE
REDEFINED MANHOOD,
DEVALUED MANHOOD, SO WE
SETTLE FOR SOMETHING FAR
LESS THAN GOD ORIGINALLY
INTENDED.
Reporter: MARK'S
LATEST BOOK, "PLAY THE
MAN," TELLS GUYS HOW THEY
CAN BECOME THE MAN GOD
CREATED THEM TO BE, NO
MATTER HOW THEY WERE
RAISED, SO THEY CAN TEACH
THE NEXT GENERATION ABOUT
LIFE AND LOVE.
Terry: MARK BATTERSON
IS BACK WITH US ON "THE
700 CLUB."
AND WE WELCOME YOU.
IT IS GOOD TO HAVE YOU
BACK AGAIN.
THANK YOU, TERRY.
IT IS ALWAYS A JOY.
Terry: YOU'VE GOT
THIS NEW BOOK, "PLAY THE
MAN," AND WHAT DOES REAL
MANHOOD LOOK LIKE?
I THINK WE HAVE TO GO
BACK TO THE BEGINNING AND
REALIZE THAT GOD DID
CREATE US MALE AND FEMALE.
IT IS NOT JUST A GOOD
IDEA, IT'S A GOD IDEA.
Terry: IT'S A GOD
IDEA.
IT IS SOMETHING WE
SHOULD CELEBRATE.
AND, BY THE WAY, I THINK
THE GREATEST GIFT A MAN
COULD GIVE A WOMAN IS TO
BE A MAN OF GOD, AND VICE
VERSA.
AND THEN WE LOOK TO THE
NEW TESTAMENT, AND I THINK
JESUS IS THE STANDARD, THE
EXAMPLE OF WHAT IT MEANS,
AS THE SON OF MAN AND, OF
COURSE, AS THE SON OF GOD.
WE NEED LOOK NO FURTHER IF
WE WANT THE STANDARD FOR
WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A MAN
OF GOD.
Terry: HE HAD IT ALL.
HE KNEW WHEN TO EXERCISE A
SENSE OF OFFENSE OR
AUTHORITY, AND HE KNEW HOW
TO BE TENDER AND GENTLE.
THE TITLE OF YOUR BOOK
"PLAY THE MAN," AND THAT
ACTUALLY HAS SOME
HISTORICAL SIGNIFICANCE?
IT DOES AND I LOVE
HISTORY.
Terry: I COULD TELL
THAT BY READING YOUR BOOK.
155 A.D., THE BISHOP OF
SMYRNA, A GUY NAMED POLLY
CARP, AND YOU CAN READ
ABOUT HIM IN FOX'S BOOK OF
MARTYRS -- HE WAS ARRESTED
FOR HIS FAITH AND BROUGHT
INTO A COLLISIUM, AND TOLD
TO RECANT HIS FAITH.
BUT HE HEARD A VOICE FROM
HEAVEN THAT SAID, BE
STRONG, POLLY CARP, PLAY
THE MAN.
AND THAT'S WHAT HE DID.
HE COURAGEOUSLY DIED FOR
HIS FAITH.
THE GOOD NEWS, TERRY, IS I
DON'T THINK MANY OF US,
WITH THE FREEDOMS WE
ENJOY, WILL BE CALLED TO
DO THAT IN THE WEST, BUT
ARE WE GOING TO LIVE FOR
HIM?
WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO TAKE
UP YOUR CROSS DAILY AND
FOLLOW CHRIST?
THIS BOOK IS REALLY A CALL
TO MEN TO PLAY THE MAN.
AND I TALK ABOUT WHAT THAT
MEANS, AND TALK ABOUT THE
SEVEN VIRTUES OF MANHOOD.
Terry: TALK ABOUT THE
SEVEN VIRTUES.
YOU REALLY GIVE SOME
DIRECTION ON WHAT DOES
THAT LOOK LIKE.
WHAT DOES THE CONTENT OF A
REAL MAN LOOK LIKE, AND
HOW DO I GET THERE FROM
HERE?
YEAH, BECAUSE WHAT IS
THAT TARGET.
IN OUR CULTURE, WE'RE NOT
EVEN SURE EXACTLY WHAT
THAT MEANS.
WHAT IS IT THAT
DIFFERENTIATES MEN?
THE VERY FIRST SCRIPTURE
THAT I TALK ABOUT IS TOUGH
LOVE.
TOUGH LOVE IS CARRYING A
300-POUND CROSS 650 YARDS
DOWN THE VIA DELA ROSA FOR
SOMEONE ELSE'S SIN.
THAT'S TOUGH LOVE.
SO FOR ME, A TOUGH GUY IS
NOT SOMEONE WHO CAN
BLACKENED AN EYE.
IT IS SOMEONE WHO IS
WILLING TO BE NAILED TO A
CROSS FOR SOMEONE ELSE'S
SIN --
Terry: AND HE DOES IT
WILLINGLY.
AND HE DOES IT
WILLINGLY, AND THAT'S WHAT
WE'RE CALLED TO AS MEN, TO
FOLLOW THAT EXAMPLE.
Terry: GIVE US SOME
OF THE OTHERS.
I TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING
FROM CHILD-LIKE WONDER TO
WILLPOWER, TRUE GRIT, RAW
PASSION, CLEAR VISION --
AND THAT ONE IS KEY.
BUT A LOT OF MEN HAVE MORE
VISION FOR PERHAPS THE
CHURCH THEY LEAD OR THE
BUSINESS THAT THEY
STARTED, OR WHATEVER
OCCUPATION THEY'RE CALLED
TO, THAN THEIR FAMILY.
AND WE'VE GOT TO MAKE SURE
THAT WE'VE GOT VISION FOR
OUR FAMILIES AND FOR OUR
CHILDREN.
AND THEN I END WITH MORAL
COURAGE BECAUSE AT THE END
OF THE DAY, IT TAKES
COURAGE TO BE THE KIND OF
HUSBAND AND FATHER THAT
GOD HAS CALLED US TO BE.
Terry: LET'S JUMP
BACK TO CHILD-LIKE WONDER.
AND THERE IS A DIFFERENCE
BETWEEN BEING CHILD-LIKE
AND CHILD DISH.
CHILDISH.
YES.
CHILDISH, NOT A GOOD
THING.
Terry: I WANT TO BE
YOUR WIFE, NOT YOUR
MOTHER.
THEY NEVER REALLY
BECOME MEN.
IT DOESN'T HAPPEN BY
DEFAULT.
AND SO I'VE ACTUALLY TAKEN
MY BOYS THROUGH A
DISCIPLESHIP PROCESS,
WHICH WE CAN TALK ABOUT.
Terry: I LOVE THAT.
I THINK MAINTAINING
THAT CHILD LIKENESS.
THAT'S ONE OF THE GIFTS OF
HAVING CHILDREN.
BECAUSE IT REMINDS YOU OF
WHAT IT IS LIKE TO HAVE A
CHILD.
IF I REMEMBER CORRECTLY,
JESUS TOOK A CHILD AND PUT
HIM RIGHT IN THE CENTER OF
THE KINGDOM OF GOD.
AND SAID, UNLESS YOU'RE
LIKE THIS LITTLE CHILD,
YOU CAN'T EVEN GET INTO
THE FRONT DOOR.
THAT CHAPTER HAD A LITTLE
FUN TALKING ABOUT THAT
CHILD LIKENESS AND WHAT
THAT LOOKS LIKE FOR A MAN
OF GOD.
Terry: YOU TALKED
ABOUT THE SPECIAL -- I
DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU CALL
IT, LIKE A PROGRAM, OR A
PRACTICE THAT YOU PUT YOUR
BOYS THROUGH AS THEY COME
TO PUBERTY AND GET READY
TO GO INTO MANHOOD.
ALL OF THIS WOULD BE SO
MUCH EASIER FOR YOUNG MEN
IF THEIR DADS KIND OF LED
THE WAY.
TALK ABOUT WHAT IT IS YOU
DO WITH YOUR SONS.
A COUPLE OF MONTHS AGO,
I'M IN A SETTING WITH 500
GUYS.
AND I ASKED THEM THE
QUESTION: HOW MANY OF YOU
WERE INTENTIONALLY
DISCIPLED BY YOUR FATHER?
THREE HANDS WENT UP.
HOUSTON, WE HAVE A
PROBLEM.
BECAUSE WE HAVE FATHERS
WHO HAVE NEVER LEARNED
WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A
SPIRITUAL FATHER.
I'LL BE THE FIRST TO SAY,
I'VE MADE LOTS OF
MISTAKES.
Terry: WE ALL DO.
AND I SHARE SOME OF
THOSE IN THE BOOK.
BUT I WANTED TO GET ONE
THING RIGHT, AND PART OF
IT IS, TERRY, I WANT TO BE
FAMOUS IN MY HOME.
TO ME, SUCCESS IF WHEN
THOSE WHO KNOW YOU BEST
RESPECT YOU THE MOST, AND
THAT'S MY WIFE AND MY
CHILDREN.
AS MY SONS APPROACHED
THEIR 12th BIRTHDAY, I
THOUGHT, I'VE GOT TO DO
SOMETHING.
SO I CREATED THIS
DISCIPLESHIP COVENANT WITH
HAVE PHYSICAL CHALLENGE, A
MENTAL CHALLENGE AND A
SPIRITUAL CHALLENGE.
AND IT ENDED WITH A RIGHT
OF PASSAGE.
TERRY, IN OUR CULTURE, IT
IS ALMOST LIKE WE DON'T DO
ANYTHING WITH OUR SONS,
AND THEN THEY TURN 21,
LEGAL DRINKING AGE, AND
THEN THAT'S THEIR RIGHT OF
PASSAGE.
NO.
COME ON, WE'VE GOT TO DO
BETTER THAN THAT.
WHAT I WANTED TO DO WAS
TAKE MY SONS THROUGH A
DISCIPLESHIP PROCESS, AND
AT THE END OF IT,
CELEBRATE IT.
BECAUSE NOW WE'VE STEPPED
INTO THIS THING CALLED
MANHOOD.
LET'S HELP THIS YOUNG MAN
BECOME A MAN OF GOD.
THAT'S THE PROCESS THAT I
WENT THROUGH.
Terry: AND YOU'VE
SPOKEN THAT MANHOOD OVER
THEM IN A WAY THAT CALLS
THEM.
WHICH IS SO WONDERFUL.
AND ISN'T IT
INTERESTING THAT THE
HEAVENLY FATHER EVEN DID
THAT AT JESUS BAPTISM.
HE SAID, THIS IS MY
BELOVED SON IN WHOM I AM
WELL-PLEASED.
THAT'S MY HEART AS AN
EARTHLY FATHER, TO SPEAK
THAT SAME THING OVER MY
TWO SONS AND MY DAUGHTER.
Terry: IT'S WHAT IS
SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN, AND
IT'S ALL HERE.
THIS BOOK IS CALLED "PLAY
THE MAN," AND IT PROBABLY
HAS NEVER BEEN MORE NEEDED
IN OUR CULTURE FOR FATHERS
AND YOUNG GROWING UP
TODAY.
LOTS OF WISE COUNSEL IN
HERE.
THANK YOU, MARK.
THANK YOU SO MUCH,
TERRY.
Terry: STILL AHEAD,
WE'VE GOT YOUR E-MAIL
QUESTIONS.
LAUREN ASKS THIS "IS IT
OKAY TO CONTINUE A CORDIAL
RELATIONSHIP WITH AN
EX-SPOUSE AFTER THE
DIVORCE IS FINAL?"
PAT WEIGHS IN ON THAT AND
MORE AND IT'S ALL COMING
Terry: WELL, WE HAVE
SOME TIME TO BRING ON SOME
OF THE E-MAIL YOU SENT IN.
LET'S START WITH LAUREN,
WHO SAYS, "WAS WONDERING
IF IT IS RIGHT AND
BIBLICAL TO CONTINUE A
CORDIAL OR EVEN CLOSE
RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR
EX-SPOUSE AND THEIR
FAMILY.
I KNOW THE BIBLE SAYS
DIVORCE IS WRONG UNLESS
SOMEONE CHEATS.
SHOULD YOU AVOID ANY
RELATIONSHIP WITH EACH
OTHER ALL TOGETHER?
I KNOW OF A FEW SITUATIONS
WHERE THE EX-SPOUSES ARE
STILL FRIENDS.
IS THIS OKAY?"
Pat: I THINK IT WOULD
BE TRIRVEG.
TERRIFIC.
THE LORD IS ON THE SIDE OF
LOVE AND RECONCILIATION.
IF YOU CAN DO THAT AND
THERE IS NOT RANCOR AND
BITTERNESS, THAT'S GREAT.
Terry: CINDY SAYS,
"MY HUSBAND HAS DONE THE
MOST UNTHINKABLE THING I
THOUGHT HE WOULD EVER DO.
HE HAS BEEN WORKING FOR A
COMPANY FOR MORE THAN 30
YEARS.
HE WAS A TRUSTWORTHY
EMPLOYEE, UNTIL HE GOT
INTO PORNOGRAPHY, AND
EVERYTHING WENT WRONG FROM
THERE.
HE EMBEZZLED $25,000 FROM
HER EMPLOYER, AND HE JUST
GOT CAUGHT LAST FRIDAY.
WE HAVE TO PAY HIS
EMPLOYER BACK.
I ALSO FOUND OUT HE HAD
PLANS TO LEAVE ME.
NOW I'M STUCK IN THE
MIDDLE OF EVERYTHING.
WE'VE BEEN LIVING FROM
PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK AND I
CAN'T WORK.
WE ARE HAVING TO REFINANCE
OUR HOME, BUT WE CAN'T
AFFORD THE LOAN PAYMENTS.
I'M SO ASHAMED OF WHAT
HE'S DONE.
I CAN'T EVEN AFFORD TO GET
A DIVORCE.
WOULD SHOULD I DO?"
Pat: BOY, SIN IS VERY
COSTLY.
BUT, YOU KNOW, PORNOGRAPHY
IS AN ADDICTION.
YOUR HUSBAND WAS CAPTURED
BY PORNOGRAPHY, AND A
HARD-WORKING, DECENT MAN
WAS CAPTURED.
AND SUDDENLY HE IS HAVING
THESE SENSUAL FANTASIES
WHICH HAVE RUINED HIM.
WHY HE NEEDED $25,000, I
DON'T KNOW, BUT HE STOLE
IT.
OKAY.
YOU'RE ASHAMED.
I THINK THE THING YOU NEED
TO DO, FRANKLY, IS FORGIVE
HIM AND GET ON WITH YOUR
LIFE AND HELP BUILD HIM
UP.
YOU'VE GOT ARTHRITIS.
YOU CAN'T WORK.
YOU NEED HIM.
SO HE STOLE.
SO SLANDER IS AS BAD AS
STEALING IN THE BIBLE.
YOU'VE GOT PEOPLE WHO
SLANDER, AND YOU'RE NOT
ASHAMED TO BE IN THEIR
COMPANY.
SO IF I WERE YOU, I WOULD
PUT ON A BRAVE FACE, BE
THE GOOD WIFE, AND BUILD
HIM UP, AND SEE IF YOU
CAN'T GET THAT MARRIAGE
BACK TOGETHER AGAIN.
BECAUSE YOU NEED EACH
OTHER NOW, FOR BETTER OR
WORSE, RICHER OR POORER,
ALL OF THAT STUFF.
YOU SAID VOWS, LIVE THEM
OUT.
Terry: DEANNA SAYS,
"I'VE BEEN A CHRISTIAN NOW
FOR 14 YEARS, I'VE BEEN
PRAYING FOR SOMETHING FOR
YEARS, BUT I'M STRUGGLING
TO FIGURE OUT WHAT GOD IS
TELLING ME TO DO.
HOW DO YOU HEAR GOD
SPEAKING TO YOU, AND HOW
DO YOU KNOW IT'S FROM
HIM?"
Pat: WELL, THE BIBLE
IS GOD'S WORD, AND GOD
WON'T TELL YOU ANYTHING
CONTRARY TO THE BIBLE.
SO I RECOMMEND THAT YOU
GET VERY FAMILIAR WITH THE
BIBLE.
AND LET THE BIBLE BE YOUR
GUIDE.
THAT'S WHERE IT COMES
FROM.
HOW DO YOU KNOW?
WELL, THE BIBLE SAYS
YOU'LL HEAR A VOICE IN
YOUR EAR WHEN YOU TURN TO
THE RIGHT OR THE LEFT,
SAYING THIS IS THE WAY,
WALK YEE IN IT.
THERE IS A STILL, SMALL
VOICE OF THE LORD.
CORINTHIANS -- I'M GETTING
THE WRONG SCRIPTURE.
BUT, ANYHOW, LET THE PEACE
OF GOD BE AN UMPIRE IN
YOUR HEART.
LET THE PEACE OF GOD BE AN
UMPIRE.
AND IF THE PEACE LIVES,
YOU KNOW YOU'RE DOING THE
RIGHT THING.
Terry: ANNIE SAYS,
"PAT, I FOUND OUT I'M
ELIGIBLE TO COLLECT $2200
A MONTH IN SOCIAL SECURITY
FROM MY LATE HUSBAND OF 25
YEARS.
I'VE BEEN REMARRIED FOR 10
YEARS NOW, AND SOCIAL
SECURITY SAID IN ORDER TO
COLLECT THIS, I CAN'T BE
MARRIAGE.
WOULD I HAVE TO HAVE MY
MARRIAGE DISSOLVED ON
PAPER TO ABIDE BY MAN'S
LAW.
WHAT WOULD THE LORD THINK
OF THIS?"
Pat: I THINK THE LAW
THINKS YOU SHOULDN'T BREAK
THE LAW.
THE LAW SAYS IF YOU'RE
REMARRIED, YOU'RE NOT
ENTITLED TO SOCIAL
SECURITY BENEFITS.
THAT'S WHAT IT SAYS.
ARE YOU GOING TO GET A
DIVORCE FROM YOUR GOOD
HUSBAND IN ORDER TO
COLLECT A FEW BUCKS?
NO WAY.
THE LORD SAYS BE HONEST
AND HONORABLE IN YOUR
DEALINGS.
AND, BY THE WAY, IF YOU
GET CAUGHT, YOU MIGHT GO
TO JAIL AND YOU WOULDN'T
LIKE THAT EITHER.
Terry: CHRISTY WANTS
TO KNOW, "WHY WOULD NORTH
KOREA ACTUALLY TRY TO
DELIBERATELY ATTACK US
THROUGH TECHNOLOGY?"
Pat: BECAUSE THEY'RE
CRAZY.
THAT'S WHY, BECAUSE
THEY'RE CRAZY.
WHY WOULD THEY STARVE
THEIR PEOPLE?
WHY WOULD THEY TORTURE
PEOPLE?
WHY WOULD KIM JONG-UN HAVE
HIS RELATIVE SHOT, HIS
BROTHER?
THEY'RE CRAZY, THAT'S WHY.
> WE LEAVE YOU WITH OUR
POWER MEET FROM THE
PSALMS: "I WILL EXALT YOU,
MY GOD THE KING.
I WILL PRAISE YOUR NAME
FOREVER AND EVER."
TOMORROW WE'LL BE JOINED
BY HILLSONG'S CO-PASTOR,
BOBBY HOUSTON.
FOR TERRY AND WENDY AND
ALL OF US, THIS IS PAT
ROBERTSON.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR
BEING WITH US.
AND TUNE IN TOMORROW FOR
ANOTHER EDITION OF "THE
700 CLUB."
SEE YOU THEN.
BYE-BYE.