Joe and Cecilia went missing when a simple errand turned into a horrific accident. After they were found, prayers for a miracle became desperate.
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It was really terrifying.
It was really terrifying and
surreal, thinking of my family.
And everybody's probably
grilling hot dogs.
And they had no idea that we're
dying on the side of the road
two minutes away.
NARRATOR: On July 4,
2010, Cecilia Dettweiler
and her brother, Joe, left a
family party to run an errand.
Joe lost control of the
truck and slid off the road,
hitting a tree.
The impact left them alone
and fighting for their lives.
My leg was so mangled
and so intertwined
with the tree and the metal--
you know, bone sticking out.
I'm seeing my brother's
ear detached from his head.
His breathing was really
heavy, and hoarse, and ragged.
NARRATOR: Joe was unconscious
and bleeding heavily.
The only thing Cecilia
could do was pray.
CECILIA: I was
praying, Lord, help me.
You're the only one
who knows where I am.
You're the only one who
could do anything about it.
So just help me through this.
And please, Lord, send
somebody to find us.
NARRATOR: Minutes later, a
man found them and called 911.
Soon after, Mike and Mary
Dettweiler raced to the scene
and witnessed the rescue
efforts to save their children.
MIKE: They were trying to
tear them out of the vehicle
when Mary and I went up.
There was a state trooper there.
He would not let
me go down there.
He said, it's too bad.
Don't go.
And if you take the
front bumper and put it
at Cecilia's front legs, that's
how far it got pushed back.
It's the worst.
It's absolutely the worst.
You just-- you know, the
car was still smoking.
I don't know how anyone
could have survived that.
I really don't.
MIKE: They finally got
Joe out of the car.
And they threw him
in a helicopter.
They let us see him first.
MARY: And when they
took him out of the car,
I thought he was dead.
He was just lifeless,
just lifeless.
MIKE: It was horrific.
It was-- we thought he was gone.
NARRATOR: Rescue crews
worked for two hours
to get Cecilia from the truck
and save her mangled leg.
Both kids were flown to St.
Louis Children's Hospital.
Dr. Jose Pineda recalls
Joe's condition.
DR. JOSE PINEDA: There
was always a concern
that he may not survive.
CT scans and the
way he looked, we
could tell that it was what we
call a severe traumatic brain
injury.
And I would say in the
spectrum of severe,
he was amongst the
severe of the severe.
MIKE: Joe's brain pressure
was really very high.
And they did not
think he was going
to make it through the night.
And they prepared us for him
not to make it that night.
By the time Cec got there, she
was in worse shape than Joe.
She had almost bled to death.
They told us by the time
she got to the hospital,
she had less blood in
her than you're supposed
to have as a human being.
So she was minutes away
from not making it.
MARY: The first day, walking
and seeing your two kids side
by side in an ICU room
is pretty horrible.
You're praying, just, just
let them get out of the day.
Just give them another day.
Let me see them one more time,
just to tell them I love them.
NARRATOR: Cecilia
endured several surgeries
to save her legs.
Meanwhile, Joe remained
in a coma but alive.
As days went by, Mike and
Mary waited and prayed.
You're searching.
And you're praying.
And you're trying to
find a way to get there.
And you're trying to hope
that your prayers are heard.
Everybody was praying for us.
And we felt it.
We definitely felt it.
The faith of our friends and
family, they just stepped up.
I saw them live their
faith, because they
just stepped up and did things.
You know, it's one
thing to say something.
It's another thing to just
step up and help someone that's
that far down into the pit.
Cause boy, are you looking
for an arm to come down.
You just don't know
which way to turn.
NARRATOR: For weeks, Joe showed
little sign of improvement,
while Cecilia endured
painful physical therapy
and wondered if she
would ever walk again.
CECILIA: Feeling like,
you know, the life
I-- the wonderful life I had
was just over and done with.
And this is what I
had to deal with now.
MIKE: I remember her
saying, you know, to me.
It was tough.
She said, Daddy, my life's over.
I just don't know what to do.
What am I going to do?
I said, honey, we're
going to be with you.
We're going to work with you.
We're going to make the
best of whatever comes.
NARRATOR: Then, almost two
months after the accident,
Joe began to wake from his coma.
It was still unclear what his
mental and verbal capacity
would be, until
one night a priest
was praying in Joe's room.
MIKE: He's saying the prayers.
And he finishes up the glory be.
And Joe starts to whisper the
end of the prayer with him.
The very first
words he said were,
glory be to the Father, and
the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
NARRATOR: Joe began a
long recovery process,
both mentally and physically.
Both he and Cecilia
have recovered
beyond anyone's expectations.
MIKE: Their recoveries
were unbelievable.
In Joe's case, he's
off the charts.
The doctors told
my parents that I
think is actually
true, is you know,
like, Joe will never be the
same again if he survives.
And I'm not the same.
I think I feel
like I'm definitely
better than I've ever been.
The expectation of what his
recovery probably statistically
should have been and
what he has achieved
is remarkable, to say the least.
NARRATOR: Joe says
this experience
has confirmed his decision
to pursue the priesthood.
The entire family
is thankful God
walked with them in the
darkest time of their lives.
I'm amazed.
You feel, you feel God's
mercy is really what you feel.
Because I sure
didn't deserve it.
Look how amazing, you
know, of a recovery we had.
And we wouldn't have had it
without the grace of God.
You know, I came to realize,
we have a God who suffers,
who bleeds, who suffers with
us, not just for us to save us,
save us from sin, save
us get us to heaven.
He suffers with us, like
as our brother, too.
So I find a lot
of peace in that.
God is always with you.
Even when I can't
see Him, even when
it feels like He's
not there, it's
because He's carrying
me through it.
No matter what doubts I
might have sometimes and what
my experience is,
like, I can never, ever
doubt that God loves me or
that God hears my prayers
since that day.