Neal’s inability to juggle the stresses of life force him into addiction. He loses his marriage, his daughter and almost his life after a gruesome car accident.
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NARRATOR: On Saturday evening,
May 10, 2008, 32-year-old
Neal Ahearn left his AA meeting
early to go find a party.
NEAL AHEARN: I'm not
gonna quit drinking,
because I loved drinking.
I loved drinking.
And I thought, well,
I'm gonna drink.
NARRATOR: There were no
witnesses to the crash.
But at the scene,
local fire and rescue
found Neal lying on the pavement
with massive head injuries.
He was taken to
the local hospital
to be flown to Vidant Medical
Center in Greenville, North
Carolina.
His parents, Diane and
Mike, got there just in time
to see their son.
DIANE AHEARN: I grabbed
his hand, and I told him.
I said, Neal, you have been
stubborn your whole life.
Don't give up now.
Don't give up.
NARRATOR: Neal
had been suffering
with anxiety and depression
since he was a teenager.
He used alcohol, marijuana,
and eventually crack
to ease his mind.
For me, I could get a little
relief from my anxiety,
from my worrying, my
compulsive worrying.
NARRATOR: Diane believed God
was the only one who could help.
I would go to bed
praying at night.
You've got to do something,
because I can't do it,
and I know he's killing himself.
NARRATOR: As Neal got older,
he functioned well enough
to hold down a job, get
married, and have a daughter.
The added stress of a family
heightened his anxieties.
His addictions got worse,
eventually costing him
his marriage and
custody of his daughter.
I tell you, I would pray, and
I would say, Lord, you know,
I can't handle this.
I'm gonna turn it over you.
NARRATOR: It turns out that Neal
was also asking God for help.
So I prayed the Lord's Prayer.
Our Father in Heaven,
hallowed be Thy name.
And I would pray that prayer and
ask the Lord, please, help me.
I'm living-- this
is hell on Earth.
NARRATOR: Then in
April 2008, Diane
was watching "The 700 Club"
during CBN's Week of Prayer.
She had been giving to the
ministry for several years.
They sent me an
email telling me
if there's anybody that you
want us to pray for, we will.
And so I put in, you know,
pray for my son Neal,
and he has addiction problems.
NARRATOR: The next day, Diane
received a reply from CBN
with a prayer.
I bind the evils that are
trying to control my son
Neal here on Earth,
and I claim the victory
through Jesus Christ in Heaven.
NARRATOR: Some time later, Neal
asked his mother a question.
He said, are you
praying for me, Mom?
And I said, I am all
the time, every day.
And he said, don't stop.
And he said, I feel it.
I know somebody
was praying for me.
NARRATOR: Two weeks
later, Neal was
in a hospital with a
crushed skull, a life
flight to nearby
Vidant Medical Center
his only chance of survival.
Diane spoke to the
pilot before they left.
He said, you know, if you
want to say goodbye to him,
we're gonna let you.
First thing popped
into my head is
they don't expect him to live.
NARRATOR: The doctors
at Vidant explained
that Neal had
massive brain trauma
and would probably be in a
coma the rest of his life.
Even if he came out of it,
his mental capabilities
would be extremely limited.
As Diane prayed
over the next week,
she felt God telling
her something different.
And I'm crying, and I'm
reading the Bible and praying.
And I heard a voice says,
don't worry, I've got him.
And it was so vivid that
I actually looked around
to see if somebody said it,
but there was nobody there.
NARRATOR: Then 16 days
after the accident,
Neal suddenly woke up.
And I remember looking
at my arm and thinking,
I don't know what happened,
but whatever it was was bad.
And I remember thinking at
the time, thank God I'm here.
It was so miraculous,
because they've already
told me that your best that you
can hope for is long-term care.
I thought, here he's
got a second chance.
He's got a second
chance to get it right.
NARRATOR: It soon became
clear that Neal would be OK.
I'd been laying in the bed for
a while in the hospital here.
And I said, you know what?
I'm gonna make good
use of this time.
I'm gonna get up
and read my Bible.
NARRATOR: Something
else happened
in Neal's two-month
stay at the hospital.
He rededicated his
life to Jesus Christ.
There ain't but
one that would've
known that this
was what it would
take to turn my life around.
I've learned He's
my Lord and Savior,
and He's-- and I feel Him.
I feel that peace that
passes all understanding.
I never want to lose that.
NARRATOR: And not only that.
Neal says God freed
him from his addictions
to drugs and alcohol.
I truly believe
with all my heart
that God took that
desire away from me.
NARRATOR: Since then, Neal has
shown no signs of brain damage.
Diane believes it was
prayer, God's love, and grace
that made her son a new man.
Pray about everything,
and worry about nothing.
And that became my
motto, no matter what.