If we ask for forgiveness, will we still reap what we have sown? How should I pray for my son? How often should communion be served in Church? Are we being to harsh on our kids?
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Time to bring it on with
your email questions.
This first one is from Ed.
"The Bible says we reap
what we sow-- good or bad.
If we come to the Lord and ask
forgiveness and have our sins
washed away, will
we still reap what
we've sown if it's
something bad,
or will that be forgiven also?"
Ed, let's assume, for instance,
that you've been immoral
and you have sired a
child out of wedlock.
And you're ashamed of it.
And so you come to
the Lord and say, God,
I had sex out of wedlock
and I have sired this child.
And I am sorry, I ask
you to please forgive me.
And the Lord will say,
Ed, I forgive you.
Your sins are washed away.
But what happens
to the sired child?
God doesn't wash
that child away.
You still gotta take
care of the kid.
He's your responsibility,
and what you did
is going to have to
have consequences
and you may have to be paying
for that the rest of your life.
So, the answer is that
the eternal consequences
will be forgiven.
The temporal consequences,
you may have to work through.
How much you have to work
them through, I don't know.
For example, if
you're a glutton,
he'll forgive you
for gluttony but you
may have to spend a
lot of time dieting
to get rid of 100 pounds.
You know, that's
the way it goes.
So, he will not take away
all those temporal problems
that you have caused by
your actions, all right?
OK.
This is the Elizabeth, who
says, "I was told today
that my seven-year-old son must
repeat his second grade class.
As a mother, it breaks my heart.
It's an issue that
I've been praying
about ever since I noticed
his slowness in learning.
But accepting it is really
difficult. Even at this moment,
I'm trusting God to help
me identify his potential
and to accept him the
way God created him.
Please advise me on how
to pray for my son."
Well, pray that there will
be an influx of God's wisdom.
And you know, work
with that boy.
You just never can tell
if something might unlock.
If you get somebody that all
of a sudden learning, you know,
there's a huge potential.
And he hasn't hit his potential.
Even if he's a
slow learner, he's
still hasn't hit his potential.
And if you work
hard enough, begin
to get other things involved--
for example, with reading,
we did a program called
Sing, Spell, Read, and Write.
We had people singing songs,
singing words, singing
the ABC's, and their learning
curve just was dramatic.
The same thing with your son.
So, get some special training
and spend time, a lot of time,
working on it.
And something might turn, OK?
This is Ruth, Pat, who says,
"How often should communion
be served in church?
My pastor believes
it can be too often,
so we receive communion
only four times a year.
I choose to take it
every day at home.
Am I wrong, or is it
a personal choice?"
I really think you are.
I think it's an important
sacrament of the church.
But I just think
having every day, you
see something as communion,
just you in the kitchen,
I think you cheapen
the sacrament.
I don't think four
times-- I mean,
there's no rule in
the Bible, you know,
of how often you do this.
But nevertheless, it ought to
be something that is set apart
as something sacred.
It's like baptism, you don't
baptise somebody every day.
You want to get baptised?
Let's do it again,
and again, and again.
You don't do that.
So, I think the same
thing with communion.
We show forth the Lord's death
till he comes back again.
So it's a very
important, sacred thing.
But there's no rule in
the Bible how often.
All right.
This is a viewer who says, "Our
children are 20, 19, and 16.
They keep arguing with us about
not letting them watch movies
that we believe are
not good for any age
because they include swearing,
nudity, and extreme violence.
We've committed ourselves
not to watch those either.
Our kids say that
by their age, they
should have the opportunity to
choose what to watch and decide
if it's right or wrong.
Our kids still live with us.
Are we being too harsh on them?"
Well, I think not.
The Bible says, "I will not set
my eyes on any unclean thing."
It's so easy, with so much out
there-- all kinds of stuff.
Listen, if they're
living in your house
and it's your TV,
you can tell them,
if they want to buy
their own TV, then they--
Can go for it.
Go for it.
But they want to use
your TV to watch stuff
that you consider is salacious.
But it's very hard to
watch anything anymore.
They used to have a PG rating.
That could be pretty violent.
You know, there was one movie
that some friends of mine said,
we don't want to have
any R-rated movie,
we want to go to
something that's PG.
So we went to PG, and here,
one of the featured things
was a naked lady getting her--
you know-- drawn by an artist.
And so I said, OK,
I think that's great
that PG stuff is something else.
So.
Yeah, it's not easy to
stand by that standard.
It really isn't.
I mean you, don't
know anymore, but OK.