Is playing poker with fake money for fun a sin? I have had an addiction to gambling for years. I have even lied to my adult children about it. Will God forgive me and give me a second chance?
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WE HAVE SOME E-MAIL
QUESTIONS.
THIS FIRST ONE IS FROM GREG,
WHO WANTS TO KNOW, "IS
PLAYING POKER FOR PRETEND
MONEY A SIN?"
Pat: HEAVENS NO.
POKER IS A GAME.
IT IS A GAME OF SKILL.
IT IS A GAME -- THERE IS A
CERTAIN AMOUNT OF LUCK
INVOLVED, BUT IT IS ALSO
SKILL.
IT'S A GAME, BUT I DON'T
ENCOURAGE PEOPLE TO PLAY
FOR FOR FUN BECAUSE IT
DOESN'T TAKE YOU LONG BEFORE
YOU PLAY FOR THE REAL
THING.
I PLAYED WHEN I WAS YOUNGER,
AND LET ME TELL YOU, IT IS
AN ADDICTION.
I SPENT ALL NIGHT LOSING MY
MONEY.
Terry: THE ADDICTION IS
YOU'RE GOING TO WIN SOME OF
IT BACK THE NEXT HAND
AROUND?
Pat: GAMBLING IS --
THERE IS A RUSH.
I MEAN, ALL ADDICTIONS COME
ABOUT BECAUSE OF SOME KIND
OF A RUSH.
THAT'S WHAT DRUGS, ALCOHOL,
ETC., DO.
YOU WIN A BIG POT, YAY, BUT
YOU'RE THERE PRAYING TO DRAW
AN INSIDE STRAIGHT, AND
THERE IS A BIG PILE OF MONEY
IN THE MIDDLE.
AND IF YOU WIN, IT'S A
RUSH.
AND IF YOU LOSE IT'S A
RUSH.
Terry: REALLY?
IF YOU LOSE, IT'S A RUSH?
Pat: OF COURSE, LIKE
GOING DOWN A HILL OR A
ROLLERCOASTER.
IF YOU LOSE, YOU DIE.
THEN THE IDIOTS THINK I'M
GOING TO HIT ON THE NEXT
ONE, AND THEN I'M GOING TO
DOUBLE UP AND HIT THE
DEALER.
BY THE WAY, THESE THINGS ARE
FIXED FOR THE HOUSE.
THE HOUSE ALWAYS WINS.
Terry: THAT'S WHAT I
SAY.
IF YOU AND I WERE WINNING,
THE HOUSE WOULDN'T BE SO LIT
UP.
MARIA SAYS, "IN ORDER TO
ESCAPE THE PRESSURES OF
LIFE, I WOULD RUN TO THE
CASINOS AND GAMBLE.
I HAVE DONE THIS FOR ABOUT
10 YEARS, WHICH CAUSED ME TO
LOSE A SUBSTANTIAL AMOUNT OF
MONEY.
TO MAKE THINGS WORSE, I LIED
TO MY ADULT CHILDREN ABOUT
IT.
I'M IN MY 60s, AND I NEED
TO START OVER.
I'VE ASKED GOD TO FORGIVE ME
AND TAKE THIS OBSESSION AWAY
FROM ME.
WILL GOD FORGIVE ME AND GIVE
ME A CHANCE TO LEAVE AN
HERITANCE TO MY CHILDREN AND
GRANDCHILDREN.
I WOULD HATE TO LEAVE THEM
NOTHING."
Pat: BILL BRANDON SAID
HE LOST, LIKE, $7 MILLION.
IT IS AN ADDICTION.
WILL GOD FORGIVE IT?
DRUG ADDICTION?
YES.
SEX ADDICTION?
YES.
AND HE'LL GIVE YOU A FRESH
START.
BUT IF YOU KEEP THROWING
YOUR MONEY AWAY -- AND IT'S
SO EASY TO DO.
AGAIN, IT'S THAT RUSH, MAYBE
THIS NEXT TIME I'LL HIT.
Terry: WHEN YOU HAVE AN
ADDICTION, YOU SORT OF NEED
HELP WITH THAT.
ISN'T THERE A GAMBLERS'
ANONYMOUS?
Pat: OF COURSE THERE
IS.
BUT IT IS AN OBSESSION.
I HATE TO SEE THIS LOTTERY
BUSINESS.
THE CHANCES OF WINNING THE
LOTTERY, IS LIKE THE SAME
CHANCE YOU HAVE OF BEING HIT
BY A METEOR.
IT IS VERY JUST SLIM.
AND YET PEOPLE IN THESE
STORES ARE PUTTING DOWN
THEIR $5 AND $10 TO GET
THESE LITTLE TICKETS.
IT IS TERRIBLE.
Terry: THIS IS MICHELLE
WHO SAYS, "I HAVE THREE
TEENAGED BOYS AND NOW TWO OF
THEM ARE QUESTIONING THE
BIBLE.
THIS SCARES ME.
THEY TELL ME IF THE BIBLE IS
TRUTH, I SHOULD BE ABLE TO
EXPLAIN DINOSAURS.
EVEN MY HUSBAND IS AGREEING
WITH THEM.
HOW DO I EXPLAIN THINGS TO
THEM THAT THE BIBLE DOESN'T
COVER.
I'M SO AFRAID THEY'RE
WALKING AWAY FROM GOD.
MY BIGGEST FEAR IS NOT
HAVING MY HUSBAND AND
CHILDREN NEXT WITH ME IN
HEAVEN."
Pat: BISHOP USHER, GOD
BLESS HIM, WASN'T INSPIRED
BY THE LORD WHEN HE SAID IT
ALL TOOK 6,000 YEARS.
YOU GO BACK IN TIME, AND
YOU'VE GOT RADIO CARBON AND
YOU'VE GOT THE CARCASSES OF
DINOSAURS FROZEN IN TIME,
OUT IN THE COLD, AS YOU
KNOW.
THEY HAD THAT BIG -- WHAT
WAS IT, THE FIERCE ONE --
Terry: THE
TYRANNOSAURUS?
Pat: YEAH, THE
TYRANNOSAURSUS.
AND THERE WAS A TIME THESE
GIANT REPTILES WERE ON THE
EARTH, AND IT WAS BEFORE THE
TIME OF THE BIBLE.
SO DON'T TRY TO COVER IT UP
AND MAKE LIKE EVERYTHING WAS
6,000 YEARS.
THAT'S NOT THE BIBLE.
THAT'S BISHOP USHER.
SO IF YOU FIGHT SCIENCE,
YOU'RE GOING TO LOSE YOUR
CHILDREN.
I BELIEVE IN TELLING THEM
THE WAY IT WAS.