Syndicated columnist Betsy Hart shares her personal experience of recovery from divorce. Plus, magician Jim Munroe learns that the power of God is no cheap trick.
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FROM THE BIRTHPLACE OF
NAZI-ISM, ANOTHER EXTREMIST
MOVEMENT IS ON THE RISE.
THEY WANT TO SPREAD THIS
MESSAGE ALL OVER GERMANY.
Reporter: PLUS...
I HAD NO IDEA WHAT I WAS
IN FOR.
IT'S LIKE A BOMB WENT OFF IN
MY BODY.
Reporter: AND NATIONAL
SYNDICATED COLUMNIST BETSY
HART SHARES HER VIEWS ON
LOVE AND MARRIAGE ON TODAY'S
"THE 700 CLUB."
Gordon: WELCOME TO THE
PROGRAM, AND THANKS FOR
SPENDING THE TIME WITH US.
THERE WAS A REPUBLICAN
CONVENTION.
AND IN BETWEEN HURRICANES.
WITH THE WEAK ECONOMY,
MILLIONS OF AMERICANS OUT OF
WORK, MITT ROMNEY SAYS IT IS
TIME FOR CHANGE IN THE WHITE
HOUSE, AND HE SAYS HE IS THE
MAN WHO CAN DO THE JOB.
Terry: THAT'S RIGHT,
ROMNEY MADE HIS CASE TO THE
REPUBLICAN CONVENTION AND TO
AMERICA, EXPLAINING WHY HE
SHOULD BE PRESIDENT AND
BARACK OBAMA SHOULDN'T.
HEATHER CELLS HAS THE
STORY.
Reporter: CLINT
EASTWOOD, THE EVENING'S
MYSTERY SPEAKER, LED INTO
ROMNEY'S SPEECH WITH AN
UNUSUAL MONOLOGUE, USING AN
EMPTY CHAIR TO REPRESENT THE
PRESIDENT.
BUT THE HOLLYWOOD STAR MADE
HIS POINT.
WHEN SOMEBODY DOES NOT DO
THE JOB, WE'VE GOT TO LET
HIM GO.
[APPLAUSE]
[CHEERING]
Reporter: AFTER TAKING
THE STAGE, ROMNEY WENT TO
THE ISSUE ON AMERICA'S MIND,
THE ECONOMY.
WHAT AMERICA NEEDS IS
JOBS, LOTS OF JOBS.
Reporter: ROMNEY LAID
OUT A FIVE-POINT PLAN TO ADD
5 MILLION NEW JOBS, AND HE
ATTACKED CUTS IN MEDICARE
AND ENERGY POLICIES.
BY 2020 AMERICA WILL BE
ENERGY INDEPENDENT BY TAKING
ADVANTAGE OF OUR COAL, OIL,
AND GAS.
Reporter: ROMNEY DREW
SHARP CONTRAST WITH OBAMA ON
THE ISSUE OF LIFE.
HE ARGUES THAT THE COUNTRY
IS LESS SAFE BECAUSE THE
PRESIDENT FAILED TO SLOW
IRAN'S NUCLEAR THREAT.
AND HE URGED AMERICANS WHO
VOTED FOR OBAMA TO CONSIDER
CHANGE.
YOU KNOW THERE IS
SOMETHING WRONG WITH THE JOB
HE HAS DONE AS PRESIDENT
WHEN THE BEST DAY HE HAD WAS
WHEN YOU VOTED FOR HIM.
WE WERE MORMONS, AND GROWING
UP IN MICHIGAN, THAT MIGHT
SEEM UNUSUAL OR OUT OF
PLACE.
BUT I REALLY DON'T REMEMBER
IT THAT WAY.
MY FRIENDS CARED MORE ABOUT
THE SPORTS TEAMS THAN WHAT
CHURCH WE WENT TO.
Reporter: TALKED ABOUT
HIS MOTHER.
I COULD SEE HER SAYING IN
HER BEAUTIFUL VOICE, WHY
SHOULD WOMEN HAVE ANY LESS
SAYING ABOUT THE GREAT
DECISIONS FACING OUR
NATION.
Reporter: NOW ROMNEY
WAITS FOR THE DEMOCRATIC
CONVENTION, AND THEN BOTH
PARTIES WILL TAKE THEIR
COMPAIGNS ON THE ROAD TO THE
U.S. PEOPLE.
Gordon: WELL, THERE IS
AN ELECTION COMING UP, AND
IT IS GOING TO BE A BIG
ONE.
THIS ONE WILL PROBABLY GO
DOWN TO THE WIRE AND IT WILL
BE HARD-HITTING.
IF YOU ARE NOT REGISTERED,
WE'VE GOT A TOOL FOR YOU.
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS GO TO
cbn.com, AND THEY'LL BE A
MAP OF THE UNITED STATES,
AND JUST CLICK ON YOUR
STATE, AND IT WILL TELL YOU
HOW YOU CAN GET REGISTERED
TO VOTE.
MAKE SURE YOUR REGISTERED.
MAKE SURE YOU VOTE.
LEE RELEE WEBB HAS MORE OF
OUR TOP STORIES FROM THE CBN
NEWS ROOM.
Lee: AS SOME LIBERALS
CALLED THE REPUBLICAN
NATIONAL CONVENTION JUST A
GATHERING OF WHITE PEOPLE,
BUT PAUL STRAND REPORTS THAT
WASN'T THE CASE.
HE FOUND A WIDE VERTEBRA OF
VARIETY OF FOLKS.
Reporter: THE CRITICS
SAY THE G.O.P. IS A PARTY OF
RICH, OLD WHITE GUYS, BUT
FOLKS WHO DON'T FIT THAT
PROFILE SHOWED UP.
HISPANICS, A DESPERATELY
DESIRED VOTING BLOCK, BUT
PUT OFF BY HARSH
ANTI-IMMIGRANT RHETORIC.
PROMINENT EVANGELICAL SAMUEL
RODRIGUEZ.
WE HAVE THE HISPANIC
FAITH COMMUNITY SAYING DO WE
REALLY WANT TO VOTE FOR A
PARTY THAT SEEMS, ACTS,
WALKS, AND TALKS LIKE THEY
DON'T WANT US.
Reporter: REPUBLICAN
CHELSEA HENRY, THIS
CONVENTION'S YOUNGEST FEMALE
DELEGATE, SAYS HER STANCE
HAS LED TO CRITICISM.
SOME PEOPLE SAY HEY,
BLACK REPUBLICAN, BUT I
DIDN'T TAKE OFFENSE TO IT.
ANY TIME I ENCOUNTER PEOPLE
WHO BELIEVE A LITTLE
DIFFERENT THAN ME, I LOOK AT
IT AS AN EDUCATIONAL
MOMENT.
Reporter: AND GAYS WHO
STAND STEADFASTLY AGAINST
GAY MARRIAGE.
MANY OPPONENTS ARE
REPRESENTED BY THE NATIONAL
ORGANIZATION FOR GAY
MARRIAGE, WHICH CHEERED THE
DEFEAT IN THE WRANGLE OVER
THE G.O.P. PLATFORM.
THERE WAS A LOT OF TALKS
FROM THE REPUBLICANS THAT
THEY WERE GOING TO WATER
DOWN THE PLATFORM ON
MARRIAGE.
THAT WAS TOTALLY
UNSUCCESSFUL.
Reporter: JIMMY SALVEO
CAME OUT IN A RAINSTORM TO
SUGGEST A CEASE-FIRE ON
THESE ISSUES.
WE SHOULD ALL BE FOCUSED
ON JOBS AND THE ECONOMY,
BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT THIS
ELECTION IS GOING TO BE
SELECTED ON.
Reporter: THE BIG PARTY
HOMOCON IS ONE OF THE
LARGEST IN THE CONVENTION.
GAY PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT
THAN NO ONE ELSE.
ALL OF THE ISSUES THAT
EFFECT EVERY AMERICAN, JOBS,
THE ECONOMY, AND HOW WE'RE
GOING TO PUT GAS IN OUR
VEHICLES.
WE'VE GOT TO CUT A LOT OF
UNNECESSARILY SPENDING.
IT IS UNBELIEVABLE, WHEN YOU
START LOOKING AT WHAT WE'RE
SPENDING MONEY ON.
IT'S TOO BIG.
IT'S SUPPOSED TO BE LIMITED
GOVERNMENT.
IT IS UNLIMITED, OUT OF
CONTROL GOVERNMENT.
I HAVE A BIG PROBLEM WITH
BIG GOVERNMENT, AND A BIGGER
PROBLEM WITH THE DEBT WE
HAVE.
Reporter: THE G.O.P.,
WITH FOLKS LIKE THIS GETTING
MORE COLORFUL ALL OF THE
TIME.
PAUL STRAND, CBN NEWS,
REPORTING FROM THE
REPUBLICAN NATIONAL
CONVENTION.
Lee: TURNING AWAY FROM
POLITICS, HURRICAN ISAAC IS
NOW A TROPICAL DEPRESSION.
CAUSING MASSIVE FLOODING,
THAT YOU SEE HERE.
MORE THAN A MILLION
HOUSEHOLDS AND BUSINESSES IN
MISSISSIPPI LOST POWER.
"OPERATION BLESSING" IS ON
THE GROUND IN ONE OF THE
HARDEST HIT AREAS.
CBN NEWS' EPHRAIM GRAHAM IS
THERE, AND HE REPORTS THE
O.B. TEAM SERVED MORE THAN
2,000 MEALS IN TWO HOURS.
Reporter: A FLOOD WALL
SEPARATES ST ST. BERNARD'S
PARISH FROM PLAQUEMINES
PARISH.
ST. BERNARD RESIDENTS BEGIN
THEIR THURSDAY CLEANING
DEBRIS.
IN EAST PLAQUEMINES, RESCUE
TEAMS USE BOATS TO TOUR AN
AREA WHERE FLOODWATERS ARE
HIGHER THAN MOST HOMES.
WE WERE SUPPOSED TO BE
MOVING IN NEXT MONTH.
IT MIGHT BE A LITTLE DELAY
NOW.
Reporter: BECKY AND HER
HUSBAND HAVE SPENT THE LAST
FIVE YEARS FIXING ONE OF
THOSE HOMES.
IT WAS FIRST RUINED IN
KATRINA.
IT WAS DEFINITELY
DRENCHED DURING KATRINA,
BUT, BELIEVE IT OR NOT,
THERE WAS LESS WATER IN THE
HOUSE THEN THAN NOW.
Reporter: I AM STANDING
ON TOP OF THE LEVEE SOME
EIGHT FEET TO NINE FEET
DEEP.
THE WATER YOU SEE RUNNING SO
RAPIDLY IS SIX FEET TO SEVEN
FEET DEEP.
THE LEVEE CAUSED THE DITCH
TO DRAIN SOME OF THE WATER
AND EVENTUALLY OPEN THE
FLOOD WALL.
STILL, WORKERS ESTIMATE IT
WILL BE ANOTHER TWO WEEKS
BEFORE THE WATER RECEDES
ENOUGH FOR PEOPLE TO
ACTUALLY SEE THEIR HOMES OR
THE ROADS.
RESIDENTS ARE ALREADY TIRED
OF WAITING, BUT THEY TAKE
COMFORT AS A CARAVAN OF
RELIEF VEHICLES ROLLS IN.
IT FILLS YOUR HEART WITH
HOPE.
MOST OF US ARE DEVOUT
CHRISTIANS, BUT WHEN PEOPLE
COME TO HELP, IT MEANS THE
WORLD.
Reporter: JODY GETTUS
HEADS DISASTER OPERATIONS
FOR "OPERATION BLESSING."
SHE AND HER TEAM WERE HERE
SEVEN YEARS AGO WHEN KATRINA
HIT.
IT WAS HER FIRST DAY ON THE
JOB.
WHEN I SAW THE BOATS
FLOATING, TEARS CAME TO MY
EYES BECAUSE I WAS LIKE,
THEY CAN'T TAKE IT AGAIN.
IF THERE IS ANYTHING PEOPLE
CAN DO, I WOULD ASK THEM TO
PRAY FOR THEM.
Reporter: IT BEGINS
WITH A HOT MEAL.
KATHRYN WHITE AND HER
18-MONTH-OLD HAVEN'T HAD A
HOT MEAL IN FOUR DAYS.
I WON'T HAVE A HOT MEAL
UNTIL MONDAY BECAUSE THERE
WILL BE SEVERAL MORE DAYS
BEFORE WE GET POWER.
Reporter: LAWRENCE IS
GRATEFUL FOR A HOT MEAL AND
TO STILL HAVE A HOME AFTER
LIVING IN A TRAILER SINCE
KATRINA.
A HOT MEAL IS GOOD.
AFTER EATING ALL OF THE
SNACKS, YOU NEED SOMETHING A
LITTLE MORE NOURISHING.
Reporter: JAMES IS
EXHAUSTED, AFTER LIVING
THROUGH KATRINA, AND NOW
ISAAC.
I DON'T THINK I WANT TO
STAY ANYMORE.
I THINK THIS IS IT FOR ME.
Reporter: A HOT MEAL IS
SIMPLY WHERE "OPERATION
BLESSING" BEGINS THIS
MISSION.
FROM HERE, THE TEAM BEGINS
RESTORING HOPE, BY HELPING
PEOPLE TO REBUILD THEIR
HOMES AND THEIR LIVES.
WITH KATRINA, WE GREW SO
MUCH, IN CAPACITY, AND EVEN
IN EXPERTISE.
OF COURSE, THERE ARE A LOT
OF THINGS THAT ARE VERY
SIMILAR, BUT WE'RE SEVEN
YEARS DOWN THE ROAD.
SO WE CAN HELP A LOT MORE
PEOPLE IN A MUCH MORE
DIFFERENT MANNER.
Reporter: EPHRAIM
GRAHAM, CBN NEWS,
PLAQUEMINES PARISH,
LOUISIANA.
Lee: BECAUSE OF
KATRINA, AND THE DEVASTATION
IT CAUSED, THE FOCUS WAS ON
MANY OF THE WARDS, THE NINTH
WARD, AND THE IMMEDIATE
VICINITY OF NEW ORLEANS, BUT
IT SEEMS THE OUTLYING AREAS
REALLY GOT THE WORST OF IT
IN THIS STORY.
Gordon: THEY DID.
THEY REALLY TOOK IT ON THE
CHIN.
YOU CAN SEE FROM THE
FOOTAGE, FLOODING IS EPIC.
BUT WHEN DISASTER STRIKES,
WHETHER IT WAS KATRINA SEVEN
YEARS AGO, OR ISAAC TODAY,
WHEN DISASTER STRIKES, WE
WANT TO STRIKE BACK.
AND WE WANT TO STRIKE BACK
WITH LOVE AND CARE, TO LET
THEM KNOW THAT GOD LOVES
THEM AND WE LOVE THEM.
IF YOU WANT TO PARTICIPATE
IN THIS, ALL YOU HAVE TO DO
IS PICK UP THE PHONE AND
CALL 1-800-759-0700.
AND JUST SAY I WANT TO GIVE
TO THE OPERATION DISASTER
RELIEF FUND.
WHETHER IT IS IN LOUISIANA
OR AROUND THE WORLD.
SO WHEN DISASTER STRIKES, WE
CAN STRIKE BACK WITH LOVE.
CALL US OR WRITE TO THAT
ADDRESS ON THE SCREEN.
1-800-759-0700.
TERRY?
Terry: COMING UP, THE
EXTREMIST GROUP THAT IS
GRAIN GAINING STRENGTH
INSIDE GERMANY.
THEY HAVE GAINING
VIOLENCE AND
RADICALIZATION.
ALMOST EVERY TERRORIST IS A
SULAFIST.
Terry: FIND OUT WOULD
SULAFISTS BELIEVE AND WHAT
THEY HAVE PLANNED FOR THEIR
COUNTRY.
Gordon: FROM NAZI-ISM
TO COMMUNITY, GERMANY HAS
SEEN RADICAL IDEOLOGYS.
AND NOW IT FACES SALAFISM.
ERIC STACKELBACH HAS THAT
STORY FROM MUNICH.
Reporter: IN JUNE,
1,000 POLICE FANNED OUT
ACROSS GERMANY, THEY
TARGETED THE HOMES, SCHOOLS,
AND MOSQUES OF SALAFISTS.
THE MOVEMENT ENCOURAGES
VIOLENT JIHAD, AND IS SHARED
BY AL-QAEDA.
IT IS NOW TAKING HOLD AMONG
A SMALL, BUT GROWING NUMBER
OF GERMANY'S 4.3 MILLION
MUSLIMS.
SALAFISTS ARE SEEN IN
GERMANY, AND SOME OF THE
SECURITY OFFICERS TELL US WE
HAVE ABOUT 5,000 SALAFISTS
IN GERMANY.
Reporter: HE FOLLOWS
GERMANY'S SALAFI THEME IN
GERMANY.
IT IS CREATING AN
ENVIRONMENT FOR VIOLENCE AND
FOR RADICALIZATION.
WHAT IS ABSOLUTELY CLEAR IS
THAT MOST EVERY SALAFISTHAT
NOT EVERY SALAFIST IS A
TERRORIST, BUT EVERY
TERRORIST IS A SALAFIST.
Reporter: AND THERE
WERE DOZENS OF OTHER GERMANY
MUSLIMS WHO HAVE BEEN
CHARGED.
A LOT OF JIHAD WITH
SALAFIST BACKGROUND ARE
GOING TO PAKISTAN AND
TRAINING CAMPS.
A LOT OF JIHADISTS ARE
PASSING THROUGH THE HOME OF
AFRICA, AND THEY'RE GOING TO
FIGHT IN SOMALIA, AND GOING
TO FIGHT IN YEMEN.
Reporter: SHEIKH ABBU
ADAM RUNS A MOSQUE IN MUNICH
AND SAYS HE IS SIMPLY A
MUSLIM.
GERMAN AUTHORITIES SAY HE IS
MUCH MORE.
IN AN EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW IN
HIS MUNICH APARTMENT, THE
SHEIKH SHOWED GOVERNMENT
DOCUMENTS.
HE DENIES THE CHARGES AND
SAYS HE HAS WORKED WITH THE
GERMAN GOVERNMENT TO FIGHT
EXTREMISM.
WHY ARE THEY SAYING THAT
ABOUT YOUR MOSQUE?
I DON'T KNOW.
ALL OF MY STUDENTS -- ALL --
I DON'T HAVE ANY EXCEPTION.
THEY ARE FIGHTING AGAINST
TERRORISM, AND THEY ARE VERY
INTEGRATED IN THE SOCIETY.
ALL OF THEM ARE VERY CANDID
PEOPLE.
THEY COMMUNICATE WITH ALL
PEOPLE.
Reporter: THE EGYPTIAN
NATIVE SAYS HE TRAVELS TO
PAKISTAN AND OTHER HOT SPOTS
TO PREACH AGAINST TERRORISM
AND DEBATE JIHADISTS.
HE HAS BEEN TARGETED WITH
DEATH THREATS, AND HIS
BODYGUARDS WERE PRESENT
DURING OUR INTERVIEW.
I TRIED TO CONVINCE THEM
TO LEAVE TERRORIST.
Reporter: ALTHOUGH THE
SIKH WITH THREE WIVES AND 10
CHILDREN AND RECEIVES
WELFARE, HE WANTS TO LEAVE.
THAT COMMUNICATION YOU
HAVE WITH THE GERMAN
GOVERNMENT DOESN'T EXIST
NOW?
I SACRIFICE MY FAMILY AND
MY PEOPLE AND YOU SAY I'M
FIGHTING AGAINST THE
TERRORIST.
Reporter: AND YET THE
SHEIKH HAS MADE HEADLINES,
WHEN HE WAS BRUTALLY ACCUSED
OF BREAKING ONE OF HIS WIVES
NOSE'S, HIS WIFE WOULD NOT
PRESS CHARGES.
LAST YEAR A GERMAN TV CREW
FILMED HIM PRESIDING OVER A
SHARI'A COURT INSIDE HIS
MOSQUE THAT OPERATES OUTSIDE
THE GERMAN LAW.
THE SALAFI PEOPLE TELL
THE TRUTH.
THEY SAY THEY WANT TO HAVE
SHARI'A IN GERMANY.
Reporter: MICHAEL HOPES
TO RALLY GERMANS AGAINST
THIS MOVEMENT.
HE SAYS THE CALL TO PLACE A
QURAN IN EVERY GERMAN HOME A
WAKE UP CALL.
THEY WANT TO SPREAD THIS
MESSAGE TO ALL OF GERMANY.
THEY GAVE IT TO EVERY CITY
IN GERMANY.
THEY WANT TO ISLAMIZE
GERMANY.
Reporter: AND THE
GERMANS FEAR THE GROWING
SALAFI BREAK-IN SALAFI
PRESENCE WILL NOT ONLY MAKE
THEM ENTICING FOR
TERRORISTS.
Gordon: YOU START
SHAKING YOUR HEAD, HOW MANY
MORE RADICAL ISLAMIC GROUPS
WILL POP UP.
THE CONTRAST CAN'T BE MORE
PLAIN.
WHEN YOU SEE WHAT THEY
PREACH AND WHAT THEY
BELIEVE, THAT CAUSES PEOPLE
TO BLOW THEMSELVES UP IN THE
MIDDLE OF A MARKETPLACE OR
GO OUT AND TRY TO KILL
PEOPLE.
YOU JUST GO, WHY DO THEY
BELIEVE THAT?
AND WHAT CAN BE DONE ABOUT
IT?
YOU NEVER SEE THE UNITED
METHODIST JIHAD.
WHEN YOU HEAR THE TERM
SALVATION ARMY, WHICH IS
PROBABLY A RADICAL CHRISTIAN
GROUP, YOU NEVER THINK OF
THEM BEING VIOLENT.
YOU THINK OF THEM ACTUALLY
CARING FOR PEOPLE AND
HELPING PEOPLE.
WE NEED TO EXPORT THE
GOSPEL.
WE NEED TO GET THE GOSPEL
OUT TO THE MIDDLE EAST, TO
THESE RADICAL GROUPS, TO LET
THEM KNOW GOD LOVES THEM.
THE GREAT COMMANDMENT IS TO
LOVE ONE ANOTHER.
TERRY?
Terry: COMING UP, ONE
MAGICIAN REVEALS THE SECRET
TO HIS LATEST TRICK, BEATING
LEUKEMIA.
Right Hon Jean:
Gordon: AS A MAGIC, JIM
WAS EXPERT WITH ILLUSIONS,
BUT WHAT WAS MORE DIFFICULT
WAS FACING REALITY,
ESPECIALLY WHEN HE WAS
DIAGNOSED WITH A TERMINAL
DISEASE.
WHEN YOU'RE A MAGIC, YOU
LEARN THERE IS A WIZARD
BEHIND THE CURTAIN ALL OF
THE TIME.
YOU NORM LAT NORM LATE
FORMULATE IN YOUR HEAD HOW
ALL OF THESE THINGS ARE
WORKING.
IT KIND OF STRIPS THE WONDER
A LITTLE BIT, YOU KNOW.
BUT I THINK GOD KNEW THAT.
SO MY QUESTION FOR THE LORD
WAS, I KNOW YOU ARE WHO YOU
SAY YOU ARE, AND I BELIEVE
THAT YOU DID WALK THE
EARTH.
I ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR TRUTH.
BUT I NEED YOU TO MAKE THIS
SO REAL TO ME THAT I CANNOT
IGNORE IT.
JUST MAKE IT REALLY REAL TO
ME.
I BEGAN THIS REALLY, YOU
KNOW, INTENSE PAIN THAT
BEGAN IN MY LEG.
MY LEG BEGAN TO SWELL UP
PRETTY BAD, AND THEY SAID IT
WAS A BLOOD CLOT AND I JUST
NEEDED TO GET MEDICINE.
BUT THEN THE PAIN CONTINUED
TO INCREASE.
I WENT TO THE HOSPITAL AND
GOT DIAGNOSED WITHIN THE
DAY.
ACUTE LIMPHO PLASTY
LEUKEMIA.
THEY TOLD ME IF YOU DON'T DO
ANYTHING, YOU'RE GOING TO
DIE IN TWO MONTHS.
MY FIRST THOUGHTS WERE, GOD,
WHERE ARE YOU?
IT WOULD BE GREAT IF YOU
COULD COME IN AND HEAL
ME, LIKE, NOW.
IF YOU ARE REAL, YOU'VE GOT
TO COME IN AND DO SOMETHING
AND WRAP IT UP IN A BIG BOW
AND TAKE IT AWAY.
I HAD NO IDEA WHAT I WAS IN
FOR.
THE SETUP THAT GOD WAS
GETTING READY TO DO IN MY
LIFE TO JUST BLOW ME AWAY.
IT IS BIGGER, BETTER, AND
MORE FABULOUS THAN ANY
ILLUSION YOU COULD EVER SEE
OR ANY MUSIC YOU COULD EVER
HEAR.
AND THEN THEY TOLD ME THE
WORST NEWS, WHICH WAS THIS
IS EVEN MORE UNIQUE OF A
CANCER THAN WE INITIALLY
ANTICIPATED.
THE BAD NEWS JUST KEPT
GETTING WORSE.
IT'S CALLED PHILADELPHIA
POSITIVE A.L. L., AND WE
CAN'T CURE IT WITH
CHEMOTHERAPY, BUT WE'RE
GOING TO GET YOU INTO
REMISSION.
BUT THEN IT COULD COME BACK
AT A 90% RELAPSE.
SO EITHER THE CHEMO WOULD
KILL ME OR THE CANCER WOULD
KILL ME.
THE ONLY WAY AROUND THIS IS
IF YOU HAVE A BONE MARROW
TRANSPLANT.
WE HAVE TO FIND SOMEONE
WHO'S D.N.A. MARROW MATCHES
YOURS.
AFTER THREE MONTHS OF
CHEMO.
HE SAID OUT OF NINE MILLION
PEOPLE, THERE ARE ONLY THREE
POTENTIAL MATCHES THAT MIGHT
BE ABLE TO CURE YOU OF YOUR
DISEASE.
AND THEN AFTER THAT, THERE
WAS IS ONE MATCH, A 10 OUT
OF 10 MATCH.
AND WE CONTACTED THIS PERSON
AND THEY'RE WILLING TO GO
THROUGH WITH THIS
PROCEDURE.
AS THEY'RE PREPARING YOU FOR
THIS, THEY SAY IT IS REALLY
COOL BECAUSE ON APRIL 23rd
YOU'RE GOING TO BE LIKE A
BABY INSIDE THE WOMB AND YOU
GET A BRAND NEW BIRTHDAY.
ESSENTIALLY, YOU'RE GOING TO
BE BORN AGAIN.
THERE IS CHEMOTHERAPY TO
TREAT CANCER, AND THEN THERE
IS CHEMOTHERAPY TO DESTROY
YOUR IMMUNE SYSTEM.
AND THE REASON WHY IS
BECAUSE THEY'RE TRYING TO
GET RID OF THE OLD MAN.
IN MY WORLD, IT MADE A LOT
OF SENSE.
THEY DESTROY YOU.
YOU JUST DON'T HAVE ANY
CONTROL.
TO GO STAND UP OR WALK OVER
TO THAT CHAIR AND SIT DOWN
REQUIRES ALL OF THE ENERGY
IN MY BODY.
I JUST DON'T HAVE ANY
ENERGY.
I COULDN'T EAT ANYTHING, AS
WELL, FOR THE LAST FOUR OR
FIVE DAYS.
BUT I'M FEELING TODAY IS
GOING TO BE ANOTHER REALLY
BAD DAY.
THE SCRIPTURE THAT I CLUNG
TO IS TO LIVE AS CHRIST TO
DIE IS GAIN.
PHILLIPIANS 1.
THEY CALLED THIS THE FIRST
HOUR AND THEY BROUGHT MY
WIFE OUT OF THE ROOM, AND
THEY DIDN'T TELL ME THIS,
BUT THEY SAID THIS IS THE
MOST SENSITIVE TIME IN THE
ENTIRE PROCESS.
IN THIS NEXT HOUR, HE IS
GOING TO ACCEPT THIS NEW
BLOOD OR HE WILL REJECT IT
AND POTENTIALLY DIE.
WE JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW
THAT.
THEY DRIPPED THE NEW BLOOD,
THE ONE IN NINE MILLION
MATCHED BLOOD INTO MY BODY.
AND I BODY RECEIVED IT.
MY BODY RECEIVED THE PERFECT
BLOOD.
I WAS RESURRECTED FROM THE
DEAD BECAUSE OF A PERFECT
MATCH IN THE WORLD THAT WAS
ABLE TO BE SUBSTITUTED ON MY
BEHALF SO I COULD LIVE
AGAIN.
IT IS LITERALLY NO LONGER
WHO LIVES, BUT SOMEONE ELSE
WHO LIVES INSIDE OF ME.
AND THE NEW SYSTEM, THE NEW
LIFE THAT WAS SUBSTITUTED ON
MY BEHALF.
THE ONE THING I DON'T HAVE A
QUESTION ABOUT IS WHO JESUS
IS.
AND HOW HE WANTS TO BE
INTIMATELY INVOLVED IN OUR
LIVES.
I FEEL LIKE I'M LAZARUS.
I FEEL LIKE I'M ALIVE TODAY
BECAUSE THE GOSPEL WAS
ILLUSTRATED MOST PERFECTLY
IN MY LIFE.
Gordon: TO LIVE IS
CHRIST, AND TO DIE IS GAIN.
WHAT AN UNUSUAL VERSE TO
CLAIM, BUT HE CLAIMED IT.
AND HE SAID, OKAY, GOD, IF
YOU WANT ME TO LIVE, I WANT
TO LIVE FOR YOU.
AND WHEN WE ALL SHARE IN
THAT GO, OKAY, TO LIVE IS
CHRIST AND TO DIE IS GAIN.
WHAT A WONDERFUL MESSAGE.
WE WANT TO PRAY.
BEFORE WE PRAY, WE WANT TO
ENCOURAGE YOU WITH OTHER
REPORTS.
FROM BEVERLY OF TEXAS.
SHE HAD SIX YEARS OF HAVING
PROBLEMS DIGESTING HER
FOOD.
SHE WAS EVENTUALLY DIAGNOSED
WITH ACID REFLUX AND DIVER
DIVERTICULITIS.
THE MEDICINE SHE WAS GIVEN
DIDN'T HELP.
THEN ONE DAY SHE WAS
WATCHING "THE 700 CLUB."
AND TERRY, YOU HAD A WORD OF
KNOWLEDGE.
YOU HAVE SOME CONDITION WITH
YOUR STOMACH, SOMETHING TO
DO WITH PROCESSING OF YOUR
FOOD.
GOD IS CHANGING THAT FOR
YOU.
BEVERLY CLAIMED THE WORD,
THE SWELLING WENT DOWN, AND
THE CRAMPING STOPPED.
AFTER SIX YEARS, SHE HADN'T
HAD ANY PROBLEMS WITH HER
DIGESTION SINCE THAT DAY.
Terry: PRAISE THE
LORD.
WHEN HE DOES IT, HE DOES
IT.
THIS IS MARSHA.
FOR 10 YEARS SHE HAD
PROBLEMS WITH HER RIGHT
SHOULDER.
HER DOCTOR DIAGNOSED HER
WITH BURSITIS, BUT THE PAIN
GOT SO MUCH MEDICINE DIDN'T
EASE IT.
SHE WAS WATCHING THIS
PROGRAM, AND SHE HEARD YOU
SAY, GORDON, A WOMEN WITH
PAIN IN YOUR RIGHT
SHOULDER.
MARSHA CRIED OUT, THAT'S
ME.
AND IN TRUST, SHE ACCEPTED
THE WORD, AND SHE HAS BEEN
PAIN-FREE EVER SINCE.
Gordon: FAITH IS AN
ACT.
FAITH SHOULD BE A VERB.
IT'S AN ACT.
JESUS SAW THEIR FAITH, WHEN
THE PARALYTIC WAS LOWERED IN
FRONT OF THEM.
HE SAW THEIR FAITH.
SO WHEN HE SEES IT, THAT'S
WHEN IT HAPPENS.
AND THEN HE WAS VERY
SPECIFIC.
YOU CAN READ IT IN MARK 11:
"WHEN YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU
HAVE ALREADY RECEIVED, THEN
YOU HAVE IT."
THAT IS BELIEVING.
THAT'S THAT MUSTARD SEED OF
FAITH.
WHEN YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU
HAVE ALREADY RECEIVED.
SO START BELIEVING.
WHEN WERE YOU HEALED?
WELL, THE BIBLE SAYS BY HIS
STRIPES WE WERE HEALED AND
WE ARE HEALED.
WHEN WERE OUR SINS
FORGIVEN?
AT THE SAME TIME, WHEN JESUS
DIED ON THE CROSS.
SO WHEN YOU BELIEVE THAT
YOUR SINS ARE FORGIVEN, WHEN
YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU'RE
HEALED, AND THEN WHEN YOU
ACT IT, THAT'S WHEN YOU GET
IT.
SO WE'RE GOING TO PRAY.
AND WE'RE GOING TO BELIEVE.
SO IN AN ACT OF FAITH, LAY
YOUR HAND ON THAT AREA OF
THE BODY THAT NEEDS
HEALING.
TERRY AND I WILL AGREE AND
WE'LL AGREE WITH YOU.
AND THE BIBLE SAYS WHEN TWO
OR MORE AGREE, TOUCHING
ANYTHING, IT SHALL BE DONE.
THESE AREN'T MY WORDS.
THESE ARE THE WORDS OF
JESUS.
AND YOU CAN BELIEVE THEM.
SO LET'S PRAY.
LORD, WE JUST LIFT THE NEEDS
TO YOU, AND WE COME BOLDLY
TO THE THRONE OF GRACE.
KNOWING THAT WHATEVER WE ASK
FOR IN ACCORDANCE WITH YOUR
WILL, IT SHALL BE DONE.
AND SO WE LOOK TO YOUR
WILL.
AND WE KNOW THAT IN HEAVEN
THERE ARE NO SICK.
THERE ARE NO DISEASES.
THERE IS NO ONE IN PAIN.
AND SO WE ASK RIGHT NOW THAT
YOUR WILL WIL BE DONE ON
EARTH AS IT IS IN HEAVEN.
WE ARE ASKING FOR THOSE
SPECIFICALLY WHO ARE LAYING
HANDS ON THAT PART OF THE
BODY THAT IS DISEASED THAT
NEEDS HEALING, WE COME INTO
AGREEMENT WITH THEM RIGHT
NOW, AND WE ANNOUNCE OVER
THEM, BE HEALED AND BE MADE
WHOLE BY THE BLOOD.
YOU'RE MADE WHOLE BY THE
STRIPES.
THEY PLOWED YOUR BACK SO
THAT YOUR CHILDREN WOULD BE
MADE WHOLE.
AND SO WE AGREE WITH THEM
NOW.
AND WE COME AGAINST CANCER,
WE COME AGAINST MIGRAINES,
WE COME AGAINST ANY PROBLEM
IN THEIR BODY NOW, AND WE
SAY BE HEALED AND BE
RESTORED.
TERRY, GOD IS GIVING YOU
SOMETHING.
Terry: THERE IS
SOMEBODY -- YOU HAVE A
PROBLEM WITH -- I DON'T KNOW
IF IT IS BOTH OF YOUR HIPS
OR ONE OF YOUR HIPS, BUT THE
JOINT ACTUALLY POPS OUT.
IT IS SO PAINFUL.
YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN IT IS
GOING TO HAPPEN.
GOD IS HEALING THAT FOR YOU
NOW.
THE MUSCLE YOU NEED IS
FORMING AROUND THAT.
THE BONE IS FORMING
DIFFERENTLY.
JUST RECEIVE THAT HEALING.
YOU'RE GOING TO FEEL ALMOST
LIKE A TINGLING IN YOUR
HIPS.
SOMEONE ELSE, YOU HAVE HAD
ALOPECIA FOR SO LONG, YOU
ALMOST LAUGH AT THE
THOUGHT.
GOD IS HEALING THAT
CONDITION FOR YOU.
YOU ARE SUDDENLY GOING TO
HAVE HAIR AGAIN, MOST
UNEXPECTANTLY.
Gordon: THERE IS
SOMEONE ELSE WHO HEARD THE
REPORT ABOUT A SHOULDER
BEING HEALED, AND YOU'RE
SAYING PLEASE SAY LEFT
SHOULDER.
YOUR PRAYERS ARE BEING
ANSWERED.
LEFT SHOULDER BE HEALED
NOW.
WHAT YOU COULDN'T DO BEFORE,
DO IT NOW.
BEGIN MOVING THAT SHOULDER,
AND REALIZE ALL OF THAT PAIN
IS GONE.
AND GOD IS ABLE TO RESTORE
IT.
HE IS EVEN ABLE TO RESTORE
ANY KIND OF TEAR INSIDE THAT
LEFT SHOULDER.
BEGINNING MOVING THAT LEFT
ARM AND RECEIVE THE
HEALING.
THERE IS SOMEONE ELSE --
I DON'T KNOW IF IT IS THE
HIPS -- IT IS LIKE YOUR
PELVIC GIRDLE IS OUT OF
BALANCE.
GOD IS CORRECTING THAT NOW,
AND THE PAIN FROM THAT IS
GOING TO BE GONE.
Gordon: GOD, WE THANK
YOU, FOR YOU ARE THE
HEARLG.
HEALER.
YOU SING SONGS OF
DELIVERANCE OVER US.
WE THANK YOU IN JESUS'
NAME.
IF YOU'VE BEEN TOUCHED BY
GOD, WE WANT TO SHARE IN
YOUR GOOD REPORT AND LET
OTHER PEOPLE KNOW.
SO GIVE US A CALL.
1-800-759-0700.
WE'RE HERE FOR YOU.
IF YOU NEED PRAYER, IT'S OUR
HONOR AND OUR PRIVILEGE TO
PRAY WITH YOU.
SO WE'RE HERE 24 HOURS A
DAY, SEVEN DAYS A WEEK.
1-800-759-0700.
Terry: COMING UP LATER,
OPRAH DUBBED HER ONE OF THE
TOP FIVE WOMEN CLIM
COLUMNISTS IN AMERICA.
AND YOU'RE ABOUT TO SEE
WHY.
BETSY HART SHARES HER VIEWS
ON LOVE AND MARRIAGE.
THAT'S LATER ON TODAY'S
SHOW.
Reporter: WELCOME BACK
TO "THE 700 CLUB."
OFFICIALS AT RIDGELAND HIGH
SCHOOL IN GEORGIA ARE
DEFENDING THE CHRISTIAN
INFLUENCE THE SCHOOL'S
FOOTBALL COACH IS TRYING TO
BRING TO THE TEAM.
THE FREEDOM FROM RELIGION
FOUNDATION ACCUSED THE COACH
OF TAKING ATHLETES TO A
CHURCH THAT PREACHED A
GOSPEL MESSAGE, LEADING
POST-GAME PRAYERS, AND
PRESSURING PLAYERS TO GO TO
A FOOTBALL CHRISTIAN CAMP.
THE COUNTY SUPERINTENDENT
SAYS THE COACH IS ONLY
TRYING TO DISPLAY CARB ON
CHARACTER ON AND OFF THE
FIELD.
"OPERATION BLESSING" IS
HELPING AT-RISK YOUTH IN
MEXICO FIND JOBS.
YOUNG PEOPLE MAKE UP 32% OF
THE COUNTRY'S POPULATION.
ONE IN FOUR IS UNEMPLOYED
AND LACKS EDUCATION AND
TRAINING.
"OPERATION BLESSING" MEXICO
IS OFFERING TRAINING IN
THREE COURSES, ELECTRICITY,
COSMETOLOGY, AND ENGLISH.
MORE THAN 230 YOUTH HAVE
GRADUATED FROM THAT
PROGRAM.
AND YOU CAN FIND OUT MORE
ABOUT "OPERATION BLESSING"
BY GOING TO ITS WEBSITE AT
OB.ORG.
STAY TUNED.
GORDON AND TERRY WILL BE
BACK WITH MORE OF "THE 700
CLUB" AFTER THIS.
Terry: MOST PEOPLE TAKE
A BATH TO GET CLEAN.
BUT FOR ONE FAMILY IN
GUATEMALA, BATHING IN THE
LOCAL RIVER WAS NOT ONLY
DIRTY, IT WAS DANGEROUS.
Reporter: FOR MANY
YEARS THIS SMALL STREAM HAS
PROVIDED WATER FOR JUVANTINA
AND HER FIVE CHILDREN.
MY BROTHERS AND I COME
EVERY DAY TO THE RIVER.
Reporter: BUT THEN ONE
DAY JUFVINTINA AND HER
YOUNGER SON, HECTOR, BEGAN
TO NOTICE THINGS FLOATING
DOWN THE STREAM.
ONE DAY I SAW A DIRTY
DIAPER, AND I GOT SICK TO MY
STOMACH.
WE ALSO STARTED SEEING
TOILET PAPER AND ALL OF THE
NASTY THINGS IN THE WATER.
Reporter:
EVEN THOUGH
SHE KNEW HOW DANGEROUS THE
WATER WAS BECOMING, THEY
WERE ALL STILL FORCED TO USE
IT TO WASH DISHES AND
CLOTHES AND EVEN TO BATHE
IN.
ONLY OCCASIONAL, WHEN THEY
HAD THE TIME AND THE MONEY
TO PAY FOR IT, THEY WOULD
WALK FOR HOURS TO GET ONE OR
TWO BOTTLES OF WATER FOR
DRINKING.
BUT IN THE END, THE CHILDREN
WERE STILL GETTING SICK.
THE DOCTORS SAID THE
CHILDREN HAD A VIRUS IN
THEIR STOMACH FROM DRINKING
THE DIRTY WATER, AND THAT
WAS MAKING THEM SICK.
Reporter: WHEN
"OPERATION BLESSING" LEARNED
ABOUT JUVINTINA'S SITUATION,
WE DUG A WELL TO PROVIDE
FRESH WATER FOR IT'S ENTIRE
VILLAGE.
WE ALSO INSTALLED MANY PIPES
AND FAUCETS, SO NO ONE WOULD
HAVE TO WAIT IN LONG LINES
TO COLLECT WATER.
WE NEVER IMAGINED TO HAVE
THIS WATER RIGHT NEAR OUR
HOME.
IT IS WONDERFUL.
WE DON'T HAVE TO DRINK THE
NASTY WATER ANYMORE.
AND THE CHILDREN HAVE
RUNNING WATER TO BATHE
WITH.
I THANK YOU SO MUCH,
"OPERATION BLESSING," FOR
WHAT YOU DID FOR US.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
Terry:
CLEAN, PURE,
FRESH WATER.
IT IS A RARE COMMODITY IN
MANY, MANY AREAS OF THE
WORLD.
SOMETIMES WE DON'T THINK
ABOUT THAT BECAUSE IT IS SO
AVAILABLE TO US HERE IN THE
UNITED STATES.
BUT IN LOTS OF PLACES, IT
OCCUPIES PEOPLE'S TIME DAY
IN AND DAY OUT, SIMPLY
TRYING TO FIND WATER, NOT
ALWAYS CLEAN OR PURE OR
FRESH, JUST ANY WATER.
YOU'RE HELPING US TODAY TO
DIG THESE WELLS AROUND THE
WORLD.
WHEN IT HELPS SOMEONE LIKE
JUVINTINA, IT ALSO HELPS HER
ENTIRE VILLAGE.
WHAT A TESTIMONY TO THE LOVE
OF JESUS THAT YOU AND I CARE
ENOUGH TO COME RIGHT INTO
THE MIST OF SOMETHING THEY
CAN'T PROVIDE FOR
THEMSELVES.
DIGGING WELLS IS JUST A PART
OF WHAT WE DO.
WE HAVE MEDICAL OUTREACHES.
WE'RE FEETING PEOPLE.
-- FEEDING PEOPLE.
WE'RE SHARING THE GOSPEL,
AND BRINGING EDUCATION INTO
AREAS WHERE PEOPLE ARE
ILLITERATE.
HELP US TO MEET PEOPLE, NOT
WITH A HANDOUT, BUT WITH A
HAND-UP.
IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE A
PART OF THAT, JOIN "THE 700
CLUB."
WE'RE A GROUP OF PEOPLE OUT
TO CHANGE THE WORLD IN THE
NAME OF JESUS.
JOIN WITH US.
IT IS 65 CENTS A DAY, $20 A
MONTH.
YOU CAN BECOME A MEMBER BY
CALLING THAT TOLL-FREE
NUMBER ON YOUR SCREEN.
1-800-759-0700.
AND JUST SAY, I WANT TO JOIN
"THE 700 CLUB."
WHEN YOU DO, OUR WAY OF
SAYING THANK YOU FOR CARING
ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE IS TO
SEND YOU PAT'S LATEST
TEACHING.
IT IS CALLED "THE THREE
BLESSINGS."
PAT SHARES WITH US THE THREE
THINGS HE HAS CONSISTENTLY
ASKED GOD FOR OVER HIS 50
YEARS OF MINISTRY.
WE THINK IT WILL LITERALLY
CHANGE YOUR WALK WITH THE
LORD.
CALL NOW, CHANGE SOMEONE
ELSE'S LIFE, AND WE WANT TO
SEND YOU SOMETHING THAT WE
THINK WILL CHANGE YOURS.
Gordon: UP NEXT, FROM
LOVE TO MARRIAGE TO DIVORCE
TO RECOVERY.
BETSY HART SHARES THE STAGES
OF HER RELATIONSHIP, AND USE
HER OWN EXPERIENCE AS A
GUIDE.
SHE JOINS US LIVE.
THAT'S UP NEXT.
Terry: BETSY HART
DIDN'T EXACTLY WRITE THE
BOOK ON LOVE, BUT SHE WRITES
A NATIONALLY SYNDICATED
COLUMN ON IT.
AND WHILE SHE TACKLES
RELATIONSHIPS, THEY ALL HAVE
ONE THING IN COMMON, THEY
ALL COME STRAIGHT FROM THE
HEART.
Reporter: NATIONALLY
SYNDICATED COLUMNIST BETSY
HART, SAYS WHEN IT COMES TO
LOVE AND ROMANCE, WE ARE
CONFUSED.
BETSY WENT THROUGH A DIVORCE
AND SUDDENLY BECAME A SINGLE
MOTHER OF FOUR.
SHE SPEAKS FROM EXPERIENCE.
HER PRACTICAL AND HUMOROUS
INSIGHTS ARE OFTEN FEATURED
ON SHOWS LIKE "FOX AND
FRIENDS," AND OTHER MEDIA
OUTLETS.
BETSY'S NEW BOOK "FROM THE
HEART," IS A COLLECTION OF
COLUMNS.
SHE HOPES TO HELP PEOPLE TO
THINK MORE ABOUT LIFE, LOVE,
AND THE LIFE-LONG COMMITMENT
OF MARRIAGE.
Terry: PLEASE WELCOME
BETSY HART.
IT'S GREAT TO BE HERE.
THANK YOU FOR HAVING ME.
Terry: YOU HAVE SO MUCH
SOUND AND SAGE ADVICE IN
THIS, BUT YOU SAY WOMEN TOO
OFTEN PINE FOR THE
CARICATURE OF MEN THAT WE
SEE IN CHICK FLICKS TODAY.
WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY THAT?
WE TEND TO WATCH THESE
VERY ROMANTIC MOVIES.
I ACTUALLY CALL THEM
ROMANTIC PORNOGRAPHY BECAUSE
I THINK THEY FEED THIS
FANTASY FOR WOMEN THAT IS
NOT REAL.
THAT THE MAN HAS TO BE FULL
OF FEELINGS AND BE A LOT
LIKE A BEST GIRLFRIEND.
SO I THINK WE GET THIS
VISION OF WHAT IS NOT REAL,
AND WE SORT OF PINE FOR
THAT.
AND WHEN THE FELLOW IN OUR
REAL LIFE DOESN'T MATCH UP,
WE SAY THE HECK WITH YOU.
BUT WHAT WE DON'T ASK FOR
TOO MUCH IS THE COMMITMENT
OF MARRIAGE.
I KNOW SO MANY WOMEN TODAY
ARE AFRAID TO ASK FOR
MARRIAGE.
WE DON'T EXPECT THE
RELATIONSHIPS WE'RE IN TO
MOVE TOWARDS MARRIAGE.
AND I THINK THAT'S A
MISTAKE --
Terry: WHY DON'T WE DO
THAT?
IS IT BECAUSE WE THINK THE
GUY DOESN'T WANT THAT?
THE CULTURE HAS FLIPPED
THINGS ON THEIR HEAD.
IT USED TO BE THAT DATING
WAS EXPECTED TO MOVE
NATURALLY TOWARDS MARRIAGE
AND NOT NATURALLY TOWARDS A
SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP.
NOW THE CULTURE SAYS WOMEN
AND MEN SHOULD BE THE SAME,
AND NOBODY REALLY NEEDS TO
BE MARRIAGE.
AND YOU SHOULD BE SEXUALLY
ACTIVE OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE,
AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT HAVING
THAT COMMITMENT THAT GOD
WANTS US TO HAVE, WHICH IS
THE COMMITMENT OF MARRIAGE
AND THE SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP
SAVED FOR THAT.
THE CULTURE HAS REALLY TAKEN
OVER HOW WE VIEW THESE
THINGS.
BUT, GUESS WHAT?
SO MANY WOMEN IN PARTICULAR,
AND MEN AS WELL, AND
CHILDREN, GET SHORT-CHANGED
IN THE PROCESS.
Terry: THEY REALLY DO.
YOU WENT THROUGH A DIVORCE
IN 2004.
WHAT WAS THAT LIKE FOR YOU?
UDEVASTATED. -- I WAS DEVASTATED.
I REALLY DIDN'T WANT THAT.
I HAD FOUR CHILDREN.
FORTUNATELY I HAD A
WONDERFUL SUPPORT NETWORK,
AND I HAD A WONDERFUL CHURCH
LIFE, AND I WAS ALREADY
WALKING WITH GOD.
HE USED THAT TO DRAW ME, I
THINK, SO MUCH CLOSER TO
HIMSELF.
AND THROUGH THOSE EIGHT
YEARS I LET MY CHILDREN SEE
ME IN ADVERSITY --
Terry: IT'S SO HARD.
WHEN YOU'RE IN THE MIDST OF
SUCH DEEP PAIN YOURSELF, AND
THEN YOU FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE
TO FILL THE BILL FOR ALL OF
YOUR CHILDREN AT A TIME.
AND THIS IS A VERY
DEVASTATING THING FOR THEM,
TOO.
HOW DID YOU JUGGLE ALL OF
THAT?
I THINK IT IS OKAY TO LET
OUR CHILDREN SEE US WHEN
WE'RE BROKEN.
SO OFTEN GOD WORKS THROUGH
THE BROKENNESS.
WHEN WE SAY THIS IS REALLY
HARD, BUT I'M WALKING WITH
GOD.
THAT CAN BE MORE POWERFUL
THAN LOOK AT ME, I HAVE IT
ALL TOGETHER.
BECAUSE ONE IS ABOUT GOD,
AND THE OTHER IS ABOUT ME.
AND I WANT IT TO BE ABOUT
GOD.
BUT LEARNING A LOT, AND
BEGINNING TO WRITE MORE
ANDMORE IN MY SYNDICATED
COLUMN ABOUT LOVE AND
ROMANCE AND DATING, AS I
BEGAN TO DATE AGAIN AS A
SINGLE MOM.
AND SO MANY OF THOSE STORIES
MADE IT INTO MY BOOK "FROM
THE HEAR HEART."
IT IS ABOUT ASKING WHAT WE
REALLY WANT, WHICH, FOR
WOMEN, IS TYPICALLY
MARRIAGE.
HOW TO MOVE WISELY THROUGH
THE WORLD OF DATING AND
RELATIONSHIPS.
AND I'M NEWLY ENGAGED --
Terry:
CONGRATULATIONS.
AND AFTER EIGHT YEARS AS
A SINGLE MOM, I'M VERY
GRATEFUL.
I'M HOPING IT TOUCHES AND
ENCOURAGES OTHER WOMEN,
TOO.
Terry: THIS MAY SOUND
LIKE A CRAZY QUESTION, BUT
ARE YOU A BETTER PERSON
TODAY FOR WHAT YOU'VE GONE
THROUGH IN ALL OF THIS?
ARE YOU DEEPER, WISER?
I HOPE SO.
I'VE HEARD PEOPLE TALK ABOUT
CANCER.
NOBODY WANTS IT, AND NOBODY
ASKS FOR IT, AND MY MOTHER
WAS A VICTIM, BUT I'VE HEARD
PEOPLE SAY IN SOME WAYS IT
REALLY CHANGED THEM, THAT
THEY'RE IN A STRANGE WAY
GLAD THAT GOD BROUGHT THAT
ADVERSITY INTO THEIR LIFE.
AND I THINK IN A STRANGE
WAY, ALTHOUGH I NEVER WOULD
HAVE CHOSEN THIS, BUT GOD
USED IT TO MAKE ME A BETTER
PERSON.
TO TEACH MY CHILDREN THINGS
ABOUT GROWING IN ADVERSITY,
AND TO SEE HE REALLY DOES
WORK IN BROKENNESS, AND
OFTEN IS SO REDEMPTIVE.
Terry: AND HE WORKS
SOME HEALING.
YOU ARE GETTING MARRIED THIS
FALL.
AND YOU HAVE FOUR CHILDREN,
AND YOUR FIANCE HAS FOUR
CHILDREN, AND NOW WE'RE
TAKING ON THE WHOLE BLENDED
FAMILY.
AND THEY'RE CHILDREN ARE
OLDER AND THEY'RE SO
WONDERFUL TO MY CHILDREN.
AND MY CHILDREN ARE EXCITED
ABOUT TOM.
WE'RE VERY BLESSED IN THAT
WAY.
WE'RE LEARNING A LOT.
WHAT MISTAKES DID WE MAKE IN
OUR FIRST MARRIAGES, NOT
THAT WE WERE RESPONSIBLE FOR
OUR SPOUSES LEAVING --
SPOUSES ARE SUPPOSED TO
STAY, WHETHER WEAR DOING ALL
OF THE RIGHT THINGS OR NOT.
THAT'S THE CALLING OF
MARRIAGE.
BUT, NEVERTHELESS, WE CAN
SAY WHAT CAN WE DO BETTER
THE NEXT TIME AROUND.
DEDRICK BONFIRE, A WRITER I
LIKES, SAYS MARRIAGE IS MORE
ABOUT HOLINESS THAN IT IS
ABOUT HAPPINESS.
YOU TALKED ABOUT HOW THAT
CONCEPT WAS NEAR AND DEAR TO
YOUR HEART AND YOU CLUNG TO
THAT EVEN THROUGH THE
DIVORCE.
YES.
I WAS IN THIS DIFFICULT
SITUATION OF BEING A
NATIONALLY SYNDICATED
COLUMNIST, WRITING ABOUT
MARRIAGE AND HOW IMPORTANT
IT WAS, AND SUDDENLY AND
VERY QUICKLY MINE WAS OVER
AND I DIDN'T WANT THAT.
IT WAS HUMILIATING, AND I
HAD TO TAKE A STEP BACK AND
SAY, WHAT DO I BELIEVE.
AND ALL OF THE THINGS I
BELIEVED WERE TRUE, BUT THEY
WERE JUST MORE TRUE TO ME.
I COULD SEE THE DEVASTATION
OF DIVORCE, AND IT IS OFTEN
THE DIFFICULTIES IN MARRIAGE
THAT DRAWS US CLOSER TO
GOD.
WHEN MY HUSBAND WASN'T BEING
A PERFECT HUSBAND OR I
WASN'T BEING A PERFECT WIFE,
THE CALLING WAS TO GO TO GOD
AND SAY HOW CAN I BE A
BETTER SPOUSE.
AND THROUGH THAT PROCESS,
GOD OFTEN DRAWS US CLOSER TO
HIMSELF AND ALLOWS US TO
GROW IN HOLINESS IN THE
MARRIAGE WHEN WEAR NOT JUST
SAYING, HOW CAN BE I HAPPY.
AND THROUGH THAT, HE OFTEN
GIVES US REAL JOY THAT WE
MIGHT NOT HAVE OTHERWISE
FOUND.
Terry: YOU MENTIONED
THAT EIGHT-YEAR WINDOW OF
TIME.
I KNOW IT HAD TO BE HARD TO
GET INTO THAT WHOLE DATING
SCENE.
IS THERE SOME WISDOM OF
TAKING SOME TIME AND SPACE
TO FIND OUT WHO YOU ARE?
I THINK THAT IS REALLY
WISE.
TAKE SOME TIME TO EXAMINE
HOW DID I GET TO THIS PLACE
WHERE I AM, AND HOW DO I
WANT TO MOVE FORWARD.
I THINK AT THE SAME TIME, WE
WANT TO SAY IN OUR CULTURE,
RELATIONSHIPS ARE ONLY WHEN
I'M WHOLE AND HEALTHY.
BUT THE SCRIPTURE SAID WE
OFTEN HEAL IN
RELATIONSHIPS.
GOD SAID BEFORE ADAM AND THE
FALL, IT IS NOT GOOD FOR MAN
TO BE ALONE.
SO THERE IS A BALANCE IN
MOVING FORWARD IN THE
RECALL RELATIONSHIP AND
ALLOWING US TO HELP EACH
OTHER.
Terry: IT SOUNDS LIKE
GOD HAS GIVEN YOU GREAT
WISDOM IN YOUR JOURNEY.
THANK YOU.
Terry: AND BETSY SHARES
THAT WITH ALL OF US.
IF YOU WOULD LIKE MORE,
CHECK OUT "FROM THE HEART,"
ON LOVE, LOSS, MARRIAGE, AND
OTHER EXTREME SPORTS.
AND IT IS AVAILABLE
NATION-WIDE.
THANK YOU FOR BEING WITH
US.
THANK YOU.
Terry: STILL
AHEAD,
WE'RE GOING TO WRAP
UP
THE
SHOW
WITH
YOUR VIEWER
QUESTIONS.
SO DON'T GO AWAY.
WE'LL BE RIGHT BACK.
Terry: WE HAVE A FEW
MINUTES LEFT AND WE WANT TO
ANSWER SOME OF THE E-MAIL
QUESTIONS YOU SENT IN.
THE FIRST ONE IS FROM NANCY,
WHO SAYS, "MY FAMILY HAS
BEEN RECEIVING NUMEROUS
PHONE CALLS AROUND 3:00 IN
THE MORNING.
WE ANSWER, BUT NO ONE IS
THERE.
THE FACT THAT WE CAN'T
FIGURE OUT WHO IT IS OR WHY
THEY'RE CALLING HAS SHAKEN
US A BIT, BUT WE ALWAYS TURN
TO GOD FOR SECURITY.
BUT SOMETIMES I TEND TO HAVE
SCARY THOUGHTS AND I LET
THEM TAKE OVER MY MIND.
DOES THAT MEAN I'M LOSING
FAITH IN GOD?
HOW CAN I KEEP MY FAITH AND
KEEP MY PEACE OF MIND."
Gordon: LET ME GIVE YOU
PRACTICAL ADVICE.
LEARN HOW TO USE STAR 69.
THAT IS A PROGRAM THAT MOST
TELEPHONE PROVIDERS HAVE
THAT ALLOWS YOU TO KNOW THE
NUMBER OF THAT LAST CALL.
SO THE NEXT TIME IT HAPPENS,
REMEMBER STAR 69.
AND YOU CAN EVEN ASK YOUR
TELEPHONE PROVIDER, CAN YOU
GIVE ME A LIST OF WHO IS
CALLING, IF YOU HAVE A
SPECIFIC TIME AND DATE.
THEY MIGHT STILL HAVE THE
RECORD OF THAT.
SO YOU CAN FIND OUT.
Terry: HOW
DOES THAT
WORK?
YOU HANG
UP FROM THE
CALL --
Gordon: YOU
HANG UP AND
PICK
IT UP AND HIT STAR 69
AND YOU CAN FIND OUT.
JUST ON, ARE YOU LOSING YOUR
FAITH?
NO.
NO.
NO.
FEAR IS A VERY NATURAL
THING, BUT FEAR IS TORMENT.
AND YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT
GOD IS YOUR SECURITY.
YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT.
SO DON'T LET FEAR TORMENT
YOU.
WHENEVER YOU HAVE THAT AND
WHENEVER YOU HAVE THOSE
SCARY THOUGHTS, ALL YOU HAVE
TO DO IS TURN TO HIM.
AND HIS PERFECT LOVE WILL
CAST OUT ALL FEAR.
WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND THAT HE
HAS GOT YOU, THAT YOU'RE IN
HIS RIGHT HAND, THEN OKAY,
WHAT CAN MAN DO TO ME.
IF GOD BE FOR US, WHO CAN BE
AGAINST US.
AND JUST START MEDITATING ON
THAT.
AND YOU'LL FIND THE RELIEF
YOU NEED.
Terry: THIS IS FROM
DARLENE WHO SAYS, "I JUST
HEARD ON A CHRISTIAN
PROGRAM, IF YOU DO NOT SPEAK
IN TONGUES, YOU ARE NOT
SAVED.
I'VE BEEN SAVED FOR OVER 24
YEARS, AND I'VE NEVER SPOKEN
IN TONGUES.
I'M VERY UPSET OVER THIS."
Gordon: DARLENE DON'T
BE UPSET.
"ALL WHO CALL ON THE NAME OF
THE LORD SHALL BE SAVED."
JESS, JESHUA, IT MEANS
SAVIOR.
GOD, SAVE ME.
THAT'S ALL YOU NEED.
EVEN IN THE BOOKS OF ACTS,
PAUL GOES TO A CHURCH AND
THEY JUST HEARD ABOUT THE
SAVE YOU SAVIOR, AND THEY
WERE SAVED AND HE ANNOUNCES
THERE IS THE BAPTISM AND THE
HOLY SPIRIT.
IF YOU WANT TO FIND OUT MORE
ABOUT THE BAPTISTISM, WE'VE
GOT PLENTY OF TEACHING.
THERE IS A GREAT ONE I WOULD
REALLY ENCOURAGE PEOPLE TO
GET, FROM HAROLD BADISON,
HOW TO RECEIVE THE BAPTISM
AND SHARE IT WITH OTHERS.
Terry: CINDY SAYS, "MY
FAMILY DOESN'T HAVE A HOME
SERVICE.
RIGHT NOW WE'RE GETTING A
LOT OF OUR TEACHING FROM
TELEVISION, AND SO WE SEND
IN OUR DONATIONS TO SOME OF
THOSE.
IF WE TOOK PART OF OUR
TITHES AND HELPED OUT THOSE
FAMILIES, IS IT STILL
CONSIDERED A TITHE?"
Gordon: CINDY, I SAY
YES.
I THINK THERE IS A LOT OF
CONFUSION OVER TITHING.
BECAUSE OF MALACHI, BRING
ALL OF THE TITHES INTO THE
STOREHOUSE.
THE STOREHOUSE WAS THE
TEMPLE, SO THAT WAS THE
PLACE IN THE OLD TESTAMENT.
BUT JESUS SAYS, WHATEVER YOU
DO TO THE LEAST OF THESE, MY
BROTHEREND, YOU DO ON TO
ME.
SO IF YOU FEEL COMPASSION
FOR THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU
AND YOU WANT TO HELP THEM,
BY ALL MEANS CONSIDER THAT
YOU'RE TITHING TO THE LORD
WHEN YOU DO THAT.
Terry: ACTUALLY IN OUR
CULTURE TODAY, WITH THE
NEEDS BEING SO GREAT, THIS
IS AN OPPORTUNITY FOR
CHRISTIANS TO LI LET THEIR
LIGHT SHINE IN THE MIDST --
Gordon: I THINK IT IS
TIME FOR THE BODY OF CHRIST
TO REALLY STEP UP.
NOT JUST HERE IN AMERICA,
BUT AROUND THE WORLD.
THEY'RE PLAYING THE MUSIC,
AND THAT MEANS THAT'S ALL OF
THE TIME WE HAVE FOR TODAY'S
SHOW.
NEXT WEEK WE'RE GOING TO BE
SITTING DOWN WITH
QUARTERBACK MICHAEL VICK.
YOU DON'T WANT TO MISS IT.
WE LEAVE YOU WITH THESE
WORDS FROM EPHESIANS: "BE
FILLED WITH THE SPIRIT,
GIVING THANKS FOR ALL THINGS
FROM GOD, THE FATHER, IN THE
NAME OF OUR LORD, JESUS
CHRIST."
FOR TERRY, FOR LEE, AND FOR
ME AND ALL OF US, GOD BLESS
YOU AND WE'LL SEE YOU
AGAIN.