In Elisabeth Hasselbeck's children's book, "Flashlight Night," she helps children navigate the uncertainties of life and process fear through faith.
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- Facing the unknown.
It's hard enough for adultsto ease their high anxiety
during this COVID pandemic,but what about children?
What can we do to calm their fears?
Take a look.
- [Reporter] During these uncertain times,
kids are dealing with more fear
and anxiety than ever before.
Parents are searching forways to ease those fears.
Emmy Award winner, best-selling author
and mother of three ElisabethHasselbeck wants to help.
In her book, "FlashlightNight, An Adventure
In Trusting God,"Hasselbeck encourages kids
to have faith and hope in God,
knowing that He hears our prayers,
even when we don't see an answer.
- Please welcome to The 700Club Elisabeth Hasselbeck.
Elisabeth, it's great tohave you with us today.
- Thank you for having me, Terry.
This is a blessing to behere and share the morning
with all of you, thank you.
- Tell us a little bitabout your children,
because of course we know yourhusband's sports background,
we know your background andthe many endeavors you've had,
but tell us about your children.
- They're amazing, Tim andI are just really thankful
to have brothers and sisters in Christ
in Grace, Taylor and Isaiah.
They are all unique andwe love them uniquely.
They have big hearts, they are curious,
and they have been like manyother kids really trying
to navigate 2020 remotelearning, cancellations,
and this world that kindof took everyone off guard.
So I think just tryingto steward the mindset
in our homes well as parentshas been the ultimate challenge
for many of us, but wecan do that with hope.
- Absolutely.
You say that your children were part
of the inspiration for this book.
Talk a little bit about the premise
behind "Flashlight Night."
- Sure, Grace, Taylor andIsaiah and Tim quietly,
he doesn't like to have cover credit,
but they really were co-authorsthrough this whole process.
And it all really beganwhen one of their friends,
Caroline, took my hand and showed me
how her family prayed on a wall.
And I thought, wow, what a power
in showing someone howopen you can be with God.
So that inspired ourchalk wall right here.
And then I think I knew that I needed
a little extra creditwork because he's like,
"Elisabeth, how can weexplain to these children
when you're asking them,Tim and I were like,
how can we ask them topray about big things
when the answer might be no?"
I didn't want them tobreak prayer time with God.
And so that's where the flashlight came in
with "Flashlight Night," andit's a sweet little book.
And when we see God working,we come up here in the dark
and just like we see thewall, when the light is off
and we don't see thewall, it's still there.
So what we do is we shine our light on
where we see God working.
Like hey Super Mimi, happy birthday, John.
And when we pray about thingsthat don't seem answered,
we're honest with God andwe shut our flashlight off
and say, "God, I don't see an answer yet.
And I don't see what you're doing,
but I'm trusting you'rethere working on it,
because that's who you are."
And so allowing kids topray about big things
and small things, andthey're all big to kids.
Nothing's too big for God tohandle and nothing's too small.
That project you have at school,
that friend that you want to ask you
to maybe hang out in a distanced way,
this COVID thing that you want to go away,
nothing is too small or too big for God.
His might and His tenderlove for you is there.
And so I think having a way
to be honest with Him was the key.
- In the book, you have this,and I see it behind you.
You have actually painted a whole wall
with chalkboard paint.
And obviously you've used thatwith your children regularly,
but not everybody hasthe capacity to do that.
How do you suggest theytake what you've done
with your children andapply it to their situation?
- Sure, Tim was awfully surprisedwhen he came home one day
and found our, our wallwas fine, it was great,
it was fine, and it became painted black.
What I did was in the book,
and God really put this on my heart,
and let me just say thisis all God just working
through His people, thisis actual chalk paper
inside the book so you can go in
so every child can have aflashlight night right here
in the book and then shine light on
where they see God working,
and get honest and turnit off where they don't.
And I think for a parent to see what's
on your children's heartsand for them to see
what's on our hearts is key.
They don't have to carryworry alone and fear alone.
God does not give us a spirit of fear.
He gives us a spirit of of power
and love and a sound mind.
So we want these things out of our kids.
They want them out of us, actually.
And then we get to see each other
and then we get to hope together.
And then we get to be honest with God.
He's a good God, He knows ourhearts, and He doesn't want us
carrying these worry rocks alone all day.
- It's actually good forour children, I think,
to recognize that we have concerns too,
and that we too are trusting God every day
and hoping for all of the blessings
and the things that are apromise to God's children.
There's so much negativityaround, not just for our kids,
but for adults as well.
You're hearing about iton the news every day.
What other ways do you andTim encourage your children
with hope and faith at a time like this?
- You know, truly,Terry, during this time,
if anything has felt darkand confusing and uncertain
and things not beinganswered, it was 2020.
And the beginning now, that things aren't
all of a sudden better.
And I think when you ask family to pray
and then you're gettingwhat feels like a no,
the continuation of prayer,
like we're gonna constantlybring our requests to God.
And we know, we just practice really,
it's been a lot of flashlightoff, but also celebrating.
I think one of the mostimportant things is gratitude
in that flashlight on moment.
Just like these two sweetkids have their flashlight on,
gratitude for the thingsthat are working out
that you can see, soyou practice gratitude.
So we write down fun things.
Like during quarantine, we wrote down
all the cool things wedid inside our house.
Sometimes you need to changeyour focus and understand,
as a family it might notlook how we thought it did,
but let's look for the good
and let's bring the honest hard to God.
Just like I don't wantmy kids hiding from me
when things feel hard forthem, God's a good parent.
He wants us to come to himand say I am struggling.
I don't see what you'redoing with this new curfew.
I don't see what you're doing,
why I can't go do what I want to do.
I don't see what you'redoing when our friend
didn't have one more day on this planet.
I don't see that God, butI'm still trusting you
because you're good,and I know you're good
because I've seen you in my life before
and I know I'm gonna see you work again.
And we might not all see it right now,
but one day we'll understand.
And I think giving kidsthe practice of prayer
through hard times is what"Flashlight Night" is about.
- And just being family together,walking the walk together.
Elisabeth's new book iscalled "Flashlight Night."
It is charming, it's filledwith beautiful pictures inside.
And she's even given you yourown chalkboard right inside.
So you don't have to paint your wall,
you can just get her book.
It's sold wherever books are sold.
Elisabeth, thanks, it'sgreat to have you with us.
- Thank you so much,Terry, God bless you all.