Jim Daly Talks About Focus on the Family's 'Alive to Thrive' Program to Combat Teen Suicide
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- Teen suicide is also a growing problem.
And that's why Focus on the Family
has developed a new training to combat it.
It's called Alive to Thrive.
And we're joined nowby President Jim Daly.
Jim, thanks for joining us.
Heather, it's good to be with you.
- Well tell us,
it sounds like there reallyare some proactive steps
that people who have teensin their lives can take
to help them prevent suicide.
What can be done?
- Well, there's suicide hotlines.
I think the culture is waking up to this,
you know, terrible situation.
You think of the numbers,
there's approximately 30 million people
that fit that demographic 18 to 24,
and that's seven,approximately 7 million people
that have had suicidethoughts or ideation.
And that's exactly why wecreated Alive to Thrive,
to equip caregivers to the teens,
those in relationship with them,
parents, most of all,
but also coaches and youthleaders and others, pastors,
to be able to identifythose teens that are at risk
and those 20-somethings at risk
so that they can interveneand do what they need to do
to help save a life.
And I think Heather,
the biggest issue in the culture right now
is just this diminishing
of the value of human life generally.
And I think that suicide ideation
is just part of the downstream flow
of us disregarding beingmade in God's image.
- It's really fascinatingto think about that.
How can people tap into this resource?
- Well, they could certainlycome to focusonthefamily.com,
the website and navigate that to find it,
or they can call1-800-AFAMILY, and it's free.
We are not charging for this.
That's how much we believe inthis program and curriculum.
So we just want to getit into everybody's hands
so that fewer people willsucceed at taking their own life.
- Hmm.
What are some of the warning signs
that you're encouraging people to look for
that teens might be sending
indicating they'rehaving suicidal thoughts?
- Well, unfortunately COVID-19
has made these more amplified.
But you look at isolation,
it can be a chronic depression, obviously,
sleeping long periods of time,
no social interaction,isolation, bullying,
all these things contributeto the self esteem issues
that some young people suffer from
and then decide because of that pressure
and those external influences
that my life just isn't worth living.
I just signed a letter,I mean, 10 minutes ago
to a physician friend of minewhose son just took his life.
That's how real it is
and that's how common,
unfortunately, it is inthe culture right now.
- And just briefly
for people who are seeingthese warning signs,
what can they do?
What do you encourage them to say or do?
- Get help.
I mean, that's the key thing.
If you don't know, butsomething is gnawing at you,
don't hesitate to getthe help that's needed.
My wife's brother committed suicide
and on the back end ofthat, after he succeeded,
the family had so much guilt
that they didn't act onthe signs that they saw.
And I would say if you're concerned,
go with that gut hunch and get help,
talk to a physician,
call the suicide hotline,
call Focus on the Family.
We're here to help you too.
- All right, really sobering information,
but helpful information.
Jim Daly with Focus on the Family.
Thanks for your time.