Caylin Moore defied the odds as a child growing up in Compton who would become a prestigious Rhodes Scholar at Oxford. His journey was nothing short of miraculous.
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- [Narrator] Caylin Moore defied the odds
as a kid growing up in Compton
who would become a prestigiousRhodes Scholar at Oxford.
But his journey to getthere was nothing short
of miraculous.
- You have to dreamdreams that are too big.
You have to dream dreams that are so big,
so unimaginable, sounfathomable, so unrealistic
that they are destined to failwithout divine intervention.
- [Narrator] In hisbook "A Dream Too Big,"
Caylin shares how his pursuitof hope and unflinching faith
in God helped him overcometremendous adversity
and how you can, too.
(uplifting music)
- Caylin joins us now.
It's nice to have youon the program today.
- Thank you, it's my pleasure to be here.
- Your mother said that your family
was sort of like the Huxtables and then
things just kind ofexploded and fell apart
and you found yourself in Compton.
What was that like for you?
- Yeah, it was just a stark contrast
between what I experiencedin a upper middle class area.
My parents were married for nine years
then after they divorced,you know, now you hear,
you know, gunshots at nighttime and you're getting used
to hearing, you know, ratsand roaches in the wall.
It was just, it was hardto deal with as a kid.
- Your mom was
an amazing lady.
I mean, she had the abilityto implant in your heart
and in your mind thatability that you could be
whatever you wanted tobe, not where you were.
That's a hard thing to teach a child.
- I think it is difficultbut it takes a lot
of role modeling.
So my mom, you know, despiteall of her struggles,
she went back to lawschool and she graduated
from law school, you know,during this time period.
So that set a certain typeof example and for me,
you know, I inheritedthat belief in myself
and that faith from my mom.
- You know, you outline inthe book how difficult it was
to hang on to that belief, Caylin.
You had everything, everythingworking against you, really.
I mean, your safety in thearea that you lived in,
the fear that you dealtwith because of that,
even teachers, coaches,people who should have been
inspiring you and callingyou to a higher place
were sort of saying,
"Who do you think you are?"
- Right.
- How'd you deal with that?
- I think, you know, Ihave to have that faith
that like as I said,the same type of faith
that I inherited from my mom.
She always told us thatwe may live in the hood
but the hood does not have to live in us.
So it kinda put me in amindset that, you know,
I need to see beyond these things,
I need to know that, youknow, hurt people hurt people.
So even if people wereputting me down or telling me
that I can't be something, Ineed to know that, you know,
they probably went through things
and they weren't able tobecome what they became
for whatever reason so Ineed to see beyond that.
- You had a kind of a gritty determination
that worked on your behalf that
you'd like to think everyyoung person that lives
in difficult experienceswould grab hold of.
But you, your work ethic is unbelievable.
I mean, as I'm readingyour book, I'm thinking,
"I don't know that I would have done that
"as he's doing it."
There were times that you got discouraged.
How did you pull yourself upby the bootstraps and say,
"No, we're gonna keep going forward?"
- Well where I come from,quitting is not an option.
You know, a lot of timesI think kids can get in
a difficult circumstanceand say, you know,
"I'm gonna quit andI'm gonna go back home,
"or go to mom's basement."
We didn't have a basementand there was nowhere to go.
I would be sleeping onthe floor in a garage
so I told myself that even ifI quit or if I wanna give up,
there's nowhere to go to, so Ineed to find something within
and find something aboveto hold onto in order
to push me forward.
- How did you make college your reality?
(Caylin laughs)
- A lot of hard work, a lot of mentorship,
a lot of, you know,opportunities that I was afforded
that unfortunately, in a very underfunded,
under-resourced area, a lot of other kids
didn't get those chances.
- You know,
it seemed like your antennawere up all the time going,
"Where's the opportunity?
"Where's the opportunity?
"A-ha,"
and then you dug in witheverything that you had,
even going into the NCAADivision I football arena,
you know, you had an opportunityto be successful there
for your parents to see you play.
I mean, that was,
that was miraculous, really.
- It really was.
Just as you said, I alwayshad to have my antennas up
about the next opportunity because I knew
they wouldn't come, youknow, come to my front door
very often.
I remember going to collegeand the first week of school,
you know, I put on a shirt and tie,
similar to this and I wentto every office on campus
and I said,
"Hello, my name is Caylin Moore,
"do you have any opportunitiesfor me to better myself?"
Because that, you know, I was coming from
such a low position thatI was like, you know,
someone could just teach me something,
you know, anywhere on this campus,
you know, I wanna benefit from that.
- You know, when I
read your book, I mean, Iwanna mention so that we get
all of this in becauseyou need to read the book.
It's an amazing book, but
you went then from
your career academically onto become a Rhodes Scholar.
I mean, that would've seemedimpossible to most people.
Most people.
People who hadn't comefrom where you'd come from.
What did you think whenthey announced your name?
- When they announced, you know,
"Caylin Moore, you area 2017 Rhodes Scholar
"from district--"
whichever district itwas, I just immediately,
I stood--
I remember I stood stillin place in my shoes
and I just looked at my shoes.
And I stood there for about 37 seconds.
And the reason why isthat if I stepped forward
to shake the woman'shand of congratulations,
that would be me acceptingthat anything was possible
and for 37 seconds, I wasn'tready to deal with that yet.
- Wow.
But it was possible.
What would you say to young people who
might be watching--
not even young people.
There are people at any phaseof life where life kind of
beat you down and says,
"No, you won't."
What advice would you give them to really
stand up, strap themselves up again,
and head for the future?
- Right, I would say,you know, as difficult
as the circumstances maybe, I encourage anyone
going through anything to holdon to that faith in things
unseen because I know for a fact
that there is a brighter tomorrow.
I have to believe this.
- And you're still pursuingyour brighter tomorrow.
What's next for you?
You're getting a Ph.D you hope in--
- Yeah, I'm applying toPh.D programs in the fall
so my hope is to become atenured professor somewhere
in studying sociologyso I can help, you know,
change some of theseissues that I talk about
in the book.
- Let's take back academia.
(laughter)
Please?
People, Caylin's book iscalled "A Dream Too Big."
it's the story of animprobably journey from Compton
to Oxford, it's awesome.
You've gotta pick it up and read it.
Not just for yourself,pass it on to somebody else
who needs it.
Thank you, great story.