Josh and Aly Taylor share how Aly was left infertile after a fight with cancer, and how they became parents to three kids in three months.
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- Most people have a datein mind when they think of a
day that changed their lives.
Well usually its a wedding anniversary,
or the birth of a child.
For Josh and Aly Taylor thatdate is October 17th, 2011.
Everything is measured assomething that happened
before that day or after.
That's because on October17th, their lives stopped
and their worst nightmare began.
- [Narrator] In Octoberof 2011, Aly Taylor was
diagnosed with breastcancer, at the age of 24.
She underwent years oftreatments and surgery's.
And everything her and Josh dreamed of
came to a screeching halt.
The chemo left Alyunable to have children,
so they decided to adopt.
9 months later Aly got pregnant.
- I don't know if you cansee but it says I'm pregnant.
I've never seen this beforeand I don't know if its real.
- 11 days after their babywas born, they adopted another
little girl. Josh andAly's story was featured on
TLC's rattled, and they continued to share
their remarkable journey,in their book Aly's Fight.
- Aly and Josh Taylorare here with us now,
and we welcome you to this700 club, its great to
see you both. You guysdon't do anything normally.
- No
- I mean I'm reading yourbook into the wee hours.
And I am exhausted justwalking through it.
Talk a little be aboutthat day that I mentioned,
October 17th 2011, was the daythat changed your life plan.
- [Aly] Yep
- What happened?
- Um so that's was the day I was diagnosed
with breast cancer.
I'm a big planner, I hadmy entire life planned out.
From the time I was married,and we all wanted to have kids.
And on that day it wasall thrown out the window.
We had been told that itwasn't cancer, so we thought
okay we can get on withour lives, we were starting
to try and have a baby, andthat day our life truly stopped.
- What was your lifeplan Josh before this?
- [Josh] Well Aly had areally long life plan,
mine was a little more immediate,
but we were building a brandnew house, I'm a contractor
so we were building ourfirst house for us, and uh
we were actually in a bedroom.
We had talked about howwe were going to tell our
parents we were pregnant,by painting on the wall.
And so we were there preppingfor the painters to come,
and that's when Aly gota call from the doctor.
That we weren't pregnantthat Aly had breast cancer,
and so our life plan changed real fast.
- And not just had breastcancer, a very aggressive
form of breast cancer,and from that point on
it seems like it was just one bad piece
of news after another.
With out your faith I'mnot sure how you would
have survived that.
- [Aly] Yeah I don't know howpeople do, I don't know how
people do because, itwas your right it was
one bad piece I was diagnosedwith stage 3 breast cancer.
The most aggressive type thatyou can have, um we learned
we wouldn't have time topreserve our fertility.
We learned that if itspread, and so it was kind of
one bad piece after another,and I remember looking
at Josh and saying how dopeople do this without Jesus.
I..I don't know.
- Josh you say that thecancer changed you as well
and in what way?
- In too many ways to, wedon't have that much time.
But mainly just a um I grew up believing
that I could change it thatway. What we tell people
that is the first timeI ever ran into anything
money, time or talent wouldnot change, ya know no
amount of money could healher, no time I could give her.
No talent, there was nothing I could do.
And for a guy even at 26,27 at that point that was
a rough moment to cometoo, to realize I was
she didn't need anythingbut me too beg God
to reach down and heal her.
- And that's what you did,day after day after day.
I mean I was struck bythe fact that this was so
not what you had in the game plan.
I mean you guys were reallynewlyweds at this point.
Incredibly young.
You know the chemotherapycame, first you had a
double mastectomy,chemotherapy, radiation and then
the struggle with infertility.
How did you hang on to hope in that Aly?
- Yeah I think I had to justbelieve, you know I think
that sounds very elementaryto say, just believe.
But I just had to believe.
When I was diagnosed andtold we didn't have time to
preserve my fertility. Wereally held onto this one
verse, thats Psalm 1:28.
And it says your wife willbe like a fruitful vine
within your home, andyour children will be like
olive shoots around your table.
This is the blessing forthe man who fears the Lord.
And that's what we stoodon, that I would be
a fruitful vine, that I would live.
That we would havechildren, so I think it was
just literally takingGod's word at its word.
- Well and sometimes youreally stood your ground
with that because doctor's,nurses, friends I'm sure
sometimes unwittinglyfamily would often come into
that with either sort ofwake up and smell the coffee.
- [Josh] Big time
- Scenario or just bringinga word that was negative.
And I mean you kind ofsaid stop right there.
How did you handle that?
- We just we thoughtwe were about 3days in
to MD Anderson, whenwe looked at the doctor
and said we really don'tcare about your statistics
we want to know your wisdome,we believe God's given you
wisdom and that's what, weare going to act on that,
but as far as yourstatistics were not depending
on them anyway. Andso, and they do nothing
but really tear your faith down and so we.
- So tell me about your first miracle Gena
- Genavieve that's right yes, she was born
we adopted her in March of2015. And it was the first
time cancer kinda made sense.
We always said had Ihad I not been diagnosed
we would have never been brought to her.
And so it was that momentof okay God I see the beauty
from ashes, you know thisbeautiful daughter, and so
we had her, but like mostlike a lot of adoptions do
we almost lost her, thebirth mom considered trying
to keep her, and that was a rollercoaster
- At the last, after you beenthere in the birth I mean.
- So much of that too is what tell people
that's the moment we were like we are
supposed to show a different kind of love.
- Yeah
- We loved her when shewas doing in what her
perception of what we wantedher to do, well its what
you do in that momentwhen she's not doing what,
when she knows she's breaking your heart,
will you still love here, andthe truth that's what we did,
we just stayed there with herno matter what her decision
was and obviously in theend God did step in and we
became the parents of Genavieve.
- So Genavieve came homewith you and then around
thanksgiving you started feeling ill
- yes
- Not long after Genavieveand what happened?
- Well I thought I washaving an infection in my arm
I was having an infectionand a lot of times I have
flu like symptoms withthat as a side effect
of my breast cancer treatment,so I chalked it up to that.
I had one little paperpregnancy test that I took,
felt silly over the yearsI bought in bulk of amazon.
But so I had one left, Ithought this was silly for
even taking it doctors toldus this was immpossible.
And came back and sawtwo lines and thought
what in the world, and Iwas pregnant and not only
was I pregnant but Iwent and saw the doctor
and she said it wasn'teven a high risk pregnancy,
it was as if I had justgotten pregnant miraculously.
- And along came Vera right?
- [Aly] Yes that's our Vera
- And even before youdelivered Vera you got
a strange call fromGenavieve's mother, well the
grandmother called youand the lawyer called you,
you must have wondered what in the world
are they calling now for?
So what happened?
- They call and say weknow Aly's pregnant but
I'm pregnant would youguys consider adopting.
Honestly we wanted to say right then yes,
but we said give us a fewdays were going to pray,
and then we obviously didsay yes, and then started
making plans to be ableto be at the birth of that
second little baby too.
- And home came
- Lidia
- That's right yes there'sLidia, so she was born 11 days
after Vera and so we, people always say
how did you say yes so quickly and to us
to be told at one pointwe wouldn't be parents
and now be the opportunityto have 3 little blessings.
- So right now your girls are how old?
- [Aly] Our oldest is4, Genavieve is 4 and
Vera and Lidia are 2 and a half.
- Unbelievable
- Yes unbelievable
- It's very quiet at ourhouse, very very quite
- Oh I bet and lots of sleep,yeah been there done that.
We are skimming the surfaceof this couple's story
its so worth the read,there's nobody that's going
through a tough timethat can't gain something
spiritually from readingTaylor's book as well
just know your not alone,your not the only one.
Sometimes that's theway life makes you feel.
It's called Aly's Fight, beating cancer,
battling infertility,believing in miracles.
It's in stores nationwide, highly recommended.
Great to have you here.
- Thanks for having us.