Detroit Tigers pitcher Daniel Norris is described as an unconventional non-conformist, occasionally living in his 1978 Volkswagen van as a minimalist. Despite his multi-million dollar salary, he’s living intentionally through God’s word.
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Terry: THE MAJOR
LEAGUE PITCHER WHO SPENDS
THE OFF-SEASON LIVING IN
HIS '78 VOLKSWAGEN.
THAT'S WHERE MY
INTEREST COMES FROM.
Terry: FIND OUT WHY
HE SAYS HE IS LIVING
INTENTIONALLY.
> PLUS...
ONE DAY I CAME HOME,
AND ALL OF MY DAD'S
CLOTHES WERE STACKED UP ON
THE COUCH.
I REMEMBER MY MOTHER
TELLING ME MY DAD WASN'T
GOING TO LIVE IN OUR HOUSE
ANYMORE.
Terry: HOW A
GRANDFATHER'S GIFT HELPED
CHANGE HIS LIFE ON TODAY'S
"700 CLUB INTERACTIVE."
Gordon: WELL, WELCOME
TO THE SHOW.
SOLDIERS PROTECTING OUR
FREEDOM ABROAD PUT ASIDE
THEIR OWN SAFETY.
LAST AUGUST, WHILE SERVING
OUR COUNTRY IN
AFGHANISTAN, ARMY
SPECIALIST CHRIS HARRIS
LOST HIS LIFE, DAYS AFTER
LEARNING HE WOULD BE A
FATHER.
Terry: CHRIS' UNIT
RETURNED HOME ON MARCH
17th, COINCIDENTALLY,
THE SAME DAY HIS DAUGHTER
WAS BORN.
HER NAME, CHRISTIAN
MICHELLE HARRIS.
THE UNIT GATHERED TO
CELEBRATE THE LIFE THAT
WOULD LIVE ON THROUGH
CHRISTIAN.
JUST KNOWING WE COULD
COME HOME THROUGH A BABY
GIRL WAS AWESOME.
AND WHEN WE CAME HOME,
THAT WAS THE DAY SHE WAS
BORN.
SO THAT JUST MADE IT 10
TIMES BETTER.
Gordon: THAT'S A
BEAUTIFUL LITTLE BABY.
IT IS A VERY POIGNANT
STORY.
> MORE THAN 10 YEARS
AGO, WHEN SHE WAS JUST
SEVEN YEARS OLD, LAUREN
RICH LOST HER FATHER.
MASTER TROOPER DETECTIVE
DAVE RICH WAS KILLED IN
THE LINE OF DUTY.
Terry: RECENTLY
LAUREN GRADUATED HIGH
SCHOOL, AND SHE HAD SOME
SPECIAL VISITORS:
SERGEANT TONY CLECOM, A
FRIEND OF HER DAD, AND
SOME FELLOW STATE POLICE
TROOPERS, WERE ON HAND TO
SUPPORT LAUREN ON HER
SPECIAL DAY.
39 OFFICERS FROM SIX
DIFFERENT POLICE
DEPARTMENTS ATTENDED
LAUREN'S GRADUATION.
THERE PROBABLY WASN'T ROOM
FOR THE PARENTS.
Gordon: THAT'S QUITE
AN ENTOURAGE.
Terry: AND THE
SERGEANT LATER TWEETERED, TWEETED,
CONGRATS, LAUREN, AND HE
SAID YOUR DAD WOULD BE SO
PROUD OF THE GREAT YOUNG
LADY LAUREN HAS BECOME.
BOY, THAT'S A FAMILY.
Gordon: IF YOU SEE
THAT, JUST REALIZE THE
SACRIFICES THAT PEOPLE,
FIRST RESPONDERS, OUR
MILITARY, ARE GIVING TO
YOU AND ME AND TO OUR
COUNTRY.
AND WHEN THEY'RE KILLED IN
THE LINE OF DUTY, THEN
THERE IS A FAMILY LEFT
BEHIND.
AND ISN'T IT WONDERFUL TO
SEE HOW THEY'RE SUPPORTING
THEM.
THAT IS REALLY GREAT.
Terry: A STATEMENT, A
VISIBLE STATEMENT.
Gordon: NOW THE ISSUE
IS: CAN SHE GET A DATE
WITH THAT MANY TROOPERS
WATCHING OVER HER.
Terry: BE CAREFUL.
Gordon: WELL, A
SIMPLE ACT OF KINDNESS HAS
NOW BEEN VIEWED OVER
100,000 TIMES ON
Facebook.
8-YEAR-OLD MAURICE ADAMS,
JR. WATCHED AS AN ELDERLY
WOMAN STRUGGLED WITH HER
WALKER TO CLIMB A FLIGHT
OF STAIRS.
Terry: THAT'S WHEN
MAURICE JUMPED IN TO HELP
AND ASSISTED THE WOMAN ALL
THE WAY TO THE TOP.
THE WOMAN HUGGED MAURICE,
AND HE WENT ON HIS WAY.
REILLY DUNCAN WAS THE
BY-STANDER WHO CAUGHT THE
GOOD DEED ON VIDEO.
HE SAID MAURICE HAD NO
IDEA HE WAS BEING FILMED.
HE POSTED THE VIDEO TO
Facebook AND WROTE,
"THANK GOD FOR OUR YOUTH."
Gordon: AND THERE IS
HOPE FOR OUR FUTURE.
THAT IS QUITE A PICTURE.
SHE TURNED AROUND AT THE
END AND GAVE HIM A BIG
HUG.
SPEAKING OF YOUNG PEOPLE
SHOWING COMPASSION, EVERY
MORNING ASHLEY'S
KINDERGARTEN CLASS STARTS
OFF THE DAY WITH GREETING
EVERYONE WITH HANDSHAKES,
HUGS, AND SMILES.
Terry: TAYLOR SAYS
SHE BELIEVES STARTING THE
DADE WITH A FRIENDLY
GREETING WILL HELP TEACH
HER STUDENTS COMPASSION
AND RESPECT FOR ONE
ANOTHER.
THE TEACHER POSTED ON
Facebook: "WHEN I SEE
THE DIRECTION THIS WORLD
IS HEADING, IT REMINDS ME
WHAT I AM DOING WILL MAKE
A DIFFERENCE."
I BELIEVE THAT IS SHOW.
I THINK IT IS GREAT TO SEE
YOUNG KIDS WHO KNOW HOW TO
SHAKE A HAND CORRECTLY.
Gordon: AND THEY KNOW
HOW TO HUG ONE ANOTHER.
LET'S ENCOURAGE ONE OTHER
WITH OUTBURSTS OF LOVE.
THAT'S WHAT THE NEW
TESTAMENT SAYS.
SPEND ALL OF OUR DAY TO DO
OUTBURSTS OF LOVE.
> DESPITE HIS MULTIPLE
MILLION SALARY, HE IS
OFTEN CALLED THE VAN MAN.
THAT'S BECAUSE OFF-SEASON,
YOU WILL FIND HIM LIVING
IN HIS '78 VOLKSWAGEN MAN.
HE SAYS HE LIVES
INTENTIONALLY BY LIVING
WITH GOD EVERY STEP OF THE
WAY.
Reporter: OF ALL OF
THE MAJOR LEAGUE PLAYERS,
ONE SEPARATES FROM THE
PACK: DETROIT TIGERS'
PITCHER DANIEL NORRIS,
WHO'S UNIQUE APPROACH IS
AS DIFFERENT AS THE
CHANGE-UP HE THROWS.
THE CHANGE-UP, THAT'S A
GOOD ANALOGY.
Reporter: HE LIVES
HIS OFF-SEASONS IN HIS '78
VOLKSWAGEN VAN.
THE LABELLING, MINIMALIST,
NON-CONFORMIST, FREE
SPIRIT.
HOW DOES DANIEL NORRIS
DESCRIBE HIMSELF?
I'VE ALWAYS KIND OF
DONE WHAT I'VE ENJOYED,
WHETHER THAT IS OFF THE
BEATEN PATH AND
NON-CONFORMING, WHATEVER
IT IS.
I'M INTRIGUED BY THE
CURIOSITY OF THE WORLD.
WE WERE ALWAYS VERY
SIMPLE.
WE HAD ONLY WHAT WE NEEDED
AND NOTHING IN EXCESS.
Reporter: AS A
PITCHER, HOW DOES THE
POSITION CAPTURE THAT
PERSONALITY?
I THINK IT BRINGS ME
OUT OF THAT COMFORT ZONE.
BECAUSE A LOT OF TIMES,
WHEN I'M OFF DOING MY OWN
THING, I HOLD MY RIGHT
HAND ALL DAY, BUT ON THE
MOUND, HE LIGHTS THE FIRE
UNDER ME TO GO OUT AND
COMPETE FOR HIM.
Reporter: YOU AND
THAT '78 V.W., YOU'RE
INSEPARABLE.
WHEN I GET IN THE VAN I
GO SOMEWHERE, THE
DESTINATION IS ALWAYS
GREAT.
IT USUALLY INVOLVES WATER.
I LIKE TO BE BY THE WATER.
THE JOURNEY THERE IS
ALWAYS SO PEACEFUL.
I CAN'T GO OVER 55
MILE-AN-HOUR, AND YOU'RE
IN THE RIGHT LANE, AND I'M
JUST TALKING TO GOD THE
WHOLE TIME AND LISTENING
TO MUSIC.
IT IS SOMETHING I'VE
ALWAYS ENJOYED.
Reporter: AS A
PHOTOGRAPHER, WHAT DOES
THAT LENS LET YOU SEE THAT
THE EYE NORMALLY DOESN'T?
FOR ONE, I WANT TO
SHARE GOD'S CREATION.
WHETHER THAT BE THE
MOUNTAINS OR THE OCEAN ARE
A HUMAN BEING, I WANT TO
SHARE THAT.
I'M VERY DRAWN TO THE
HOMELESS PEOPLE OR
POVERTY.
I THINK WE ALL CAN BE
INSPIRED BY ST. FRANCIS.
FOR ME IT IS SO INSPIRING,
TO BE ABLE TO WANT TO HELP
THE PEOPLE WHO ARE LESS
FORTUNATE.
AND THAT BRINGS ME
HAPPINESS.
LIVING ME INTENTIONALLY IS
JUST SO IMPORTANT TO ME.
Reporter: LIVING
INTENTIONALLY, IS THAT
ANOTHER WAY OF LIVING
WITHIN THE ETERNAL
PERSPECTIVE?
ABSOLUTELY.
EVERY STEP I TAKE EVERY
DAY SHOULD BE WITH THE
INTENTIONS OF LIVING
INTERNALLY WITH GOD.
IF YOU'RE ALWAYS FOCUSED
ON GOD AND YOUR MIND NEVER
LEAVES HIM, YOU'RE NOT
GOING TO MAKE THE MISTAKES
THAT HOLD YOU VICTIM.
FOR ME, LIVING
INTENTIONALLY MEANS LIVING
WITH GOD EVERY STEP.
THERE IS INTENT WE EVERY
STEP.
EVERY PITCH HAS INTENT.
Reporter: WHEN WE
HEAR "NON CONFORM MANT,"
"RADICAL," CHRISTIANITY IS
NOT USUALLY TIED TO THAT.
SHOULD CHRISTIANITY BE AT
THE FOREFRONT OF THAT
CONVERSATION?
I THINK SO.
BEING A CHRISTIAN IS
RADICAL.
YOU SHOULD LIVE RADICALLY.
YOU SHOULD LOVE RADICALLY.
YOU SHOULD GIVE RADICALLY.
I CHALLENGE MYSELF TO LIVE
THAT WAY.
GO OUT OF THAT COMFORT
ZONE.
I THINK THAT IS REALLY
IMPORTANT, TO REALLY
EMBODY CHRIST IN THAT WAY.
THINK, WHAT WOULD JESUS
DO?
HE WOULD DO A LOT OF
THINGS WE'RE NOT DOING.
Reporter: HOW DO YOU
THINK THE CURRENT AMERICAN
CHURCH COULD SHOW A
GREATER CONTRAST OF CHRIST
IN CULTURE?
WE THINK OF CHURCH AS
WE WALK INTO IT.
I THINK CHURCH AND
WORSHIPPING GOD IS EVERY
DAY.
IT'S INDIVIDUALLY, AS A
TEAM, AS A CONGREGATION --
IT'S EVERYTHING.
I CAN GO TO THIS BASEBALL
FIELD AND WORSHIP GOD OR
GO IN THIS VAN AND WORSHIP
GOD.
> TO ME, MY MISSION IS
TO GLORIFY GOD, WHATEVER I
DO, PITCHING IN A GAME, TO
ME THAT'S CHURCH.
YOU SHOULDN'T FEEL
CONFORMED INTO THE
BUILDING.
Gordon: THAT'S A
PHRASE TO LIVE ON: "YOU
SHOULDN'T BE CONFORMED
INTO THE BUILDING."
IT IS ONE OF THE
FUNDAMENTALS OF
CHRISTIANITY: YOU ARE THE
CHURCH.
BE THE CHURCH.
DON'T THINK THE CHURCH IS
SOME BUILDING.
GET OUT AND ENJOY THE LIFE
THAT GOD HAS GIVEN US.
Terry: I LOVE IT WHEN
YOU SEE A LIFE THAT
CHALLENGES YOU SIMPLY BY
THE WAY HE LIVES.
Gordon: JUST BY THE
WAY HE LIVES.
Terry: THE WAY HE
LIVES, THE WAY HE THINKS.
Gordon: ALTHOUGH, I
DON'T THINK I'M GOING TO
START SHAVING WITH AN AXE.
Terry: AND YOUR CAR
MAY BE A LITTLE SMALL FOR
ALL THOSE ADVENTURES.
Gordon: BARELY ENOUGH
ROOM TO LAY DOWN.
I CAN STILL PICK UP AN OLD
VAN.
Terry: I THINK I HAD
ONE OF THOSE, ACTUALLY.
> COMING UP, A MILITARY
WIFE HISTORY JUST SECONDS
TO TAKE SHELTER WITH HER
CHILDREN IN A CLOSET
BEFORE THEIR HOUSE TAKES A
DIRECT HIT FROM A TORNADO.
MY EARS FILLED UP WITH
PRESSURE, AND THEN JUST
THE EXPLOSION OF
EVERYTHING, ALL OF THE
GLASS AND EVERYTHING
FLYING THROUGH THE
HOUSE -- IT WAS SO FURIOUS
AND FAST, IT HAPPENED JUST
LIKE THAT.
Terry: SEE HOW THIS
MOM GETS HELP, WHEN WE
COME BACK.
Terry: BRANDIR IS A
MILITARY WIFE AND MOTHER.
SHE IS USED TO HANDLELY
ALL OF HER FAMILY'S
AFFAIRS WHILE HER HUSBAND
IS DEPLOYED.
BUT TWO MONTHS AGO, HER
HOME TOOK A DIRECT HIT BY
A TORNADO, AND SHE AND HER
CHILDREN WERE FACED WITH
MORE THAN SHE COULD HANDLE
ON HER OWN.
Reporter: FOR ARMY
WIFE BRANDI, KEEPING THE
HOUSEHOLD RUNNING SMOOTHLY
ALONE IS SECOND NATURE.
HER HUSBAND IS CURRENTLY
DEPLOYED IN AFGHANISTAN.
SHE CONSTANTLY PRAYS FOR
HIS SAFETY.
I TRUST IN GOD.
I SAY, I KNOW YOU HAVE
GREAT PLANS FOR MY
HUSBAND.
AND YOU ARE HIS PROTECTOR,
AND YOU HAVE, YOU KNOW,
ANGELS AROUND HIM.
Reporter: IN MARCH OF
2018, IT WAS BRANDI AND
THE CHILDREN WHO NEEDED
GOD'S PROTECTION WHEN A
TORNADO TOUCHED DOWN IN
THEIR NEIGHBORHOOD.
THE RAIN AND THE STORM
WAS JUST BEATING DOWN ON
THE HOUSE.
COW HEAON
THE HOUSE.
THE WIND WAS STARTING TO
GET REALLY AGGRESSIVE.
Reporter: BRANDI HAD
ONLY SECONDS TO GET HER
CHILDREN INTO THE INTERIOR
CLOSET BEFORE THE HOUSE
TOOK A DIRECT HIT.
MY EARS FILLED UP WITH
PRESSURE, AND JUST THE
EXPLOSION, ALL OF THE
GLASS, AND EVERYTHING
FLYING THROUGH THE
HOUSE -- YOU COULD JUST
HEAR IT OUTSIDE.
IT HAPPENED JUST LIKE
THAT.
Reporter: THE ROOF
WAS RIPPED OFF.
INSIDE, GLASS FROM
BLOWN-OUT WINDOWS
DESTROYED MOST OF THE
FURNITURE.
THIS IS WHERE HER DAUGHTER
WOULD HAVE BEEN SLEEPING.
JUST THE FORCE OF THE
GLASS BREAKING, AND THERE
IS GLASS AND DEBRIS -- I
MEAN, IT IS JUST
DESTROYED.
I LOOK AT THIS AND I CAN'T
HELP BUT JUST BE HUMBLE
AND THANKFUL, JUST FOR
GOD'S PROTECTION.
Reporter: MOVERS
ARRIVED TO CLEAR OUT THE
HOUSE.
MEANWHILE, BRANDI FACED A
POTENTIAL FINANCIAL
CRISIS: SHE WOULD HAVE TO
DIP INTO SAVINGS TO
REPLACE THE THINGS
INSURANCE WOULDN'T COVER.
WHEN HER SUPPORT GROUP,
BATTLEGROUND, HEARD ABOUT
HIS SITUATION, THE GROUP'S
LEADER CALLED "HELPING THE
HOMEFRONT," AND SHE WENT
OVER TO TELL THEM THE GOOD
NEWS.
WE'RE PARTNERING WITH
CBN TO MAKE SURE YOU'RE
TAKEN CARE OF DURING THIS
HARDSHIP.
I FEEL SO LOVED, AND I
FEEL SO, JUST HUMBLE.
IT MEANS THE WORLD TO ME,
IT REALLY DOES.
WE ARE GOING TO TAKE
YOU SHOPPING TO REPLACE
HOUSEHOLD ITEMS, TOYS.
ALSO, WE ARE GOING TO TAKE
YOU TO THE FURNITURE STORE
SO THAT THAT DINING ROOM
TABLE THAT HAS GLASS
EMBEDDED IN IT, AND YOUR
CHINA HUTCH THAT IS
RUINED -- THOSE ITEMS CAN
BE REPLACED.
YOUR DAUGHTER'S BEDROOM
FURNITURE THAT HAS TO BE
REPLACED, WE'RE STEPPING
IN TO HELP YOU PURCHASE
THAT AS WELL.
IT'S JUST...A LOT.
Reporter: THE STAFF
AT ASHLEY'S WAS STANDING
BY TO OFFER DISCOUNTS ON
EVERYTHING BRANDI NEEDED.
AND CBN ALSO TOOK BRANDI
SHOPPING TO REPLACE HER
CHILDREN'S CLOTHES AND
BELONGINGS.
SHE CAN NOW FACE THE
CLEANUP WITH A LITTLE LESS
STRESS.
TO HAVE SOMEONE LIKE
CBN WHO COMES IN AND SAYS
WE WANT TO HELP IN THIS
SITUATION, IT ABSOLUTELY
MEANS A LOT.
IT ABSOLUTELY IS A
GAME-CHANGER.
Terry: I KNOW YOU
HAVE TO FEEL LIKE I DO,
SUCH ADMIRATION FOR THE
SPOUSES OF PEOPLE WHO
SERVE IN OUR MILITARY.
I MEAN, THEY SAY BEHIND.
THEY ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR
THE HOUSEHOLD, FOR THE
FAMILY.
AND IT MUST BE A FEELING
OF SUCH ALONELINESS SO
MUCH OF THE TIME.
AND THEN A DEVASTATING
THING LIKE THIS HAPPENS,
AND YOU ALMOST DON'T KNOW
WHERE TO PICK UP THE
PIECES AGAIN.
WHEN YOU GIVE TO "HELPING
THE HOMEFRONT," THIS IS
WHAT YOU'RE DOING.
THIS IS ONE STORY, BUT
THERE ARE MANY, MANY
FAMILIES LIKE THIS THAT WE
HAVE REACHED OUT TO,
TOUCHED, AND MADE A
DIFFERENCE IN THEIR
SITUATION AND IN THEIR
LIVES.
WE WOULD LOVE YOU TO BE A
PART OF THAT.
IT IS A WONDERFUL WAY TO
SAY THANK YOU FOR YOUR
SERVICE IN A VERY
MEANINGFUL, CONCRETE WAY.
HOW DO YOU DO THAT?
YOU CAN JUST CALL OUR
TOLL-FREE NUMBER:
1-800-700-7000.
OR THERE IS OUR ADDRESS,
IF YOU'D LIKE TO SEND YOUR
GIFT.
IT IS "HELPING THE
HOMEFRONT," CBN CENTER,
VIRGINIA BEACH, VIRGINIA,
2346 3.
OUR NUMBER, IF YOU'RE
CALLING AGAIN,
1-800-700-7000.
OR YOU CAN LOG ON TO
cbn.com AND GIVE THAT
WAY.
I SEE SO MANY PEOPLE IN
AIRPORTS AS I TRAVEL,
SAYING TO PEOPLE WHO ARE
DRESSED IN THEIR MILITARY
UNIFORMS, THANK YOU FOR
YOUR SERVICE.
THIS IS A WAY TO SAY THANK
YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE IN A
PLACE OF SERIOUS NEED.
AND SO, BE A PART OF THAT
WITH US, WON'T YOU?
WE WOULD LOVE TO HAVE YOU
CALL RIGHT NOW.
GORDON?
Gordon: UP NEXT, A
10-YEAR-OLD HAS HIS WORLD
SHATTERED IN A MATTER OF
MOMENTS.
ONE DAY I CAMELHOME,
AND ALL OF MY DAD'S
CLOTHES WERE STACKED UP ON
THE COUCH.
I REMEMBER MY MOTHER
TELLING ME THAT MY DAD
WASN'T GOING TO LIVE IN
OUR HOUSE ANYMORE.
Gordon: FIND OUT HOW
THAT DAY CHANGED THE
COURSE OF HIS LIFE, AND
HOW AN UNOPENED GIFT
BECAME HIS MOST PRECIOUS
POSSESSION, RIGHT AFTER
Gordon: WELL, HAVE
YOU EVER RECEIVED A GIFT
AND WONDERED, WHAT WOULD I
DO WITH THIS?
THAT'S WHAT HAPPENED TO
NATE.
ONLY HE REALIZED THE VALUE
OF THE GIFT HE HAD BEEN
GIVEN MANY YEARS LATER.
I HAD THIS ONGOING JOKE
I WOULD TELL MY FRIENDS:
HAS ANYONE EVER TOLD YOU
THAT GOD IS ALWAYS THERE
BESIDE YOU OR BEHIND YOU
TO SUPPORT YOU?
AND OF COURSE THE KIDS
WERE GO, YEAH, I'VE HEARD
THAT.
AND I WOULD JUST PUNCH THE
AIR BESIDE ME OR BEHIND
ME.
BECAUSE HE WAS ALWAYS
THERE BESIDE YOU, HE WAS
CLOSE ENOUGH TO HIT HIM
AND BE MAD AT HIM.
I SHOULD BE MAD AT HIM FOR
WHAT HAPPENED TO ME.
I HAD WHAT I FELT LIKE WAS
A PERFECT LIFE.
MY DAD WAS A BARBER.
MY MOM WAS A NURSE.
THERE WAS FIGHTING HERE
AND THERE, BUT TO ME, AS A
10-YEAR-OLD, IT SEEMED
LIKE A REGULAR FAMILY.
ONE DAY I CAME HOME, AND
ALL OF MY DAD'S CLOTHES
WERE STACKED UP ON THE
COUCH.
AND I REMEMBER MY MOTHER
TELLING ME THAT MY DAD
WASN'T GOING TO LIVE IN
OUR HOUSE ANYMORE.
COULD I HAVE DONE ANYTHING
DIFFERENTLY TO MAKE THIS
NOT HAVE HAPPENED?
WHAT IS IT ABOUT ME THAT
WOULD MAKE HIM WANT TO GO?
I STARTED TO BE ANYBODY
THAT I NEEDED TO BE TO BE
LIKED.
EVERYTHING MY FRIENDS
NEEDED ME TO BE, AND
EVERYTHING TEACHERS NEEDED
ME TO BE AND COACHES
NEEDED ME TO BE, MY MOM
NEEDED ME TO BE -- MAKE
SURE PEOPLE HAVE A GREAT
TIME WHEN THEY'RE AROUND
YOU BECAUSE NOBODY CAN
DISAPPROVE, NOBODY CANNOT
LIKE ME BECAUSE NOBODY CAN
LEAVE ANYMORE.
MY GRANDFATHER GAVE ME A
BIBLE FOR HIGH SCHOOL
GRADUATION.
AND IT WAS IN A BOX, IN
PLASTIC.
AND AT THE TIME, I
WONDERED WHY.
WHAT WAS I GOING TO DO
WITH THAT?
SO I PUT IT AWAY, AND
CARRIED IT WITH MY STUFF.
ANYTHING THAT FELT LIKE
FAMILY AGAIN, THAT WAS
STUFF I WAS KEEPING
BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT I
DESPERATELY WANTED.
I WANTED A WIFE.
I WANTED KIDS.
BUT THE FEAR WAS THAT I
WASN'T A PERSON THAT COULD
DO THAT.
I WASN'T WORTH THAT.
DON'T ALLOW YOURSELF TO
EVEN DREAM THOSE THINGS
BECAUSE YOU CAN'T HAVE
THEM.
I MADE A PROMISE TO
MYSELF, I WAS NOT GOING TO
DO THAT.
I WAS GOING TO BE RICH.
AND I WAS GOING TO BE
WILD.
AND I WAS GOING TO LIVE AN
ADVENTURE, AND FAMILY
WASN'T GOING TO BE FART OF PART OF
THAT.
HEADING TO COLLEGE, IT WAS
ALL ABOUT THRILL-SEEKING,
EXTREME PARTYING, AND
DEATH-DEFYING ADVENTURE.
ANYTHING THAT WOULD MAKE
ME HAPPY AGAIN.
I GOT GREAT NEW JOBS.
BUT IT WASN'T EVERY, THIS
IS IT.
WE'RE INTO THE LATE
'90s, WITH THE TECH
BOOM, AND I'M INVESTING IN
THE STOCK MARKET.
I WAS STARTING TO HAVE
LITERALLY HUNDREDS OF
THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IN AN
ACCOUNT, THAT COULD FEEL
LIKE I HAD SOMETHING, AND
IT DIDN'T WORK.
IT WAS LITERALLY NO JOY IN
IT.
ALL I THOUGHT ABOUT WAS
LOSING IT.
WHICH BROUGHT UP ALL OF
THE FEAR I HAD ABOUT
LOSING MY DAD AND LOSING
THE PEOPLE AROUND ME AND
LOSING MY SENSE OF MYSELF.
THE BREAKING POINT FOR ME
WAS COMING HOME TO MY
MOM'S HOUSE TO STAY WITH
HER, AND MY LIFE BEING SO
OUT OF CONTROL SHE SAID I
COULDN'T STAY THERE
ANYMORE.
THAT STARTED THE REAL
QUESTIONS.
THAT STARTED REAL
QUESTIONS IN MY LIFE:
WHERE AM I GOING?
WHERE IS THIS ALL TAKING
ME?
I REMEMBER A FRIEND OF
MINE AT WORK, AT A POINT,
SAYING, WHY DON'T YOU COME
TO CHURCH WITH ME?
AND CHURCH HAD NEVER BEEN
AN ANSWER.
BUT I THINK IN MY
BROKENNESS, I SAID, I'LL
GO.
THE GUY SPEAKING ACTUALLY
HAD STUFF TO SAY ABOUT MY
LIFE.
HE SAID, YOU CAN'T BE A
HUSBAND THE DAY YOU GET
MARRIED, YOU CAN'T BE A
FATHER THE DAY THAT YOU
HAVE A BABY, IT'S GOT TO
START BEFORE THEN.
THAT SPOKE TO ME.
I STARTED THINKING, WHAT
WOULD MY LIFE START TO
LOOK LIKE NOW, TO START
PREPARING FOR THAT.
IT'S NOT THIS, NOT WHAT
I'M DOING RIGHT NOW.
WHAT I'M DOING RIGHT NOW
DOES NOT LEAD TO ANY OF
THAT.
BUT I THOUGHT THERE WAS A
CHANCE.
I FELT HOPE.
I FELT LIKE I COULD BE
MORE THAN ME, OR MORE THAN
WHO I WAS.
COULD I?
WOW!
COULD I GET MARRIED?
GOD, COULD YOU HEAL ME
ENOUGH?
A FRIEND OF MINE TOOK ME
OUT TO LUNCH ONE DAY AND
SAID, I SEE YOU AT THE
CHURCH ALL OF THE TIME.
HAVE YOU EVER GIVEN YOUR
LIFE TO JESUS?
AND I SAID, NO, DO I NEED
TO?
AND HE SAID, YOU SHOULD
AND YOU CAN.
LET'S DO IT RIGHT NOW IN
THIS RESTAURANT.
I LEFT THAT RESTAURANT,
AND ALL I COULD THINK OF
WAS, DO I STILL HAVE THE
BIBLE MY GRANDPA HAD GIVEN
ME FOR MY GRADUATION?
I'VE BEEN CARRYING IT
AROUND FOR YEARS.
DO I STILL HAVE IT?
I DROVE HOME AS FAST I
COULD ON MY MOTORCYCLE,
FOUND IT, OPENED UP THE
PACKAGE, AND IT WAS STILL
WRAPPED IN THE PLASTIC
SEAL.
I STARTED READING IT.
I COULDN'T BELIEVE IT
SPOKE TO MY LIFE, RIGHT
WHERE I WAS AT.
IT WAS ONE OF THOSE
MOMENTS WHERE I WAS GOD
AND I, AND SAYING, I'VE
GOT YOU.
YOU DON'T NEED ALL OF
THAT.
YOU DON'T NEED ANYTHING
BUT ME.
I REALIZE THAT I REALLY
BELIEVED THIS, I THINK GOD
REALLY DOES LOVE ME.
I THINK I HAVE HOPE IN HIM
AND I CAN TRUST HIM.
I HAVE A FAMILY OF MY OWN
.I HAVE SEEN OVER AND OVER
AGAIN THAT I CAN TRUST
HIM.
THAT HE IS A GOOD FATHER.
AND HE WAS MY FATHER ALL
OF THE TIME.
I ABANDONED HIM FOR A LONG
TIME, DIDN'T THINK OF HIM
FOR YEARS, AND YET WHEN I
FINALLY WANTED HIM, NEEDED
HIM, TURNED TO HIM, HE'S
RIGHT THERE.
Gordon: AND HE'LL BE
RIGHT THERE FOR YOU, TOO.
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS
TURN.
AND YOU'LL FIND HE IS
RIGHT THERE.
HE HASN'T LEFT YOU.
HE HASN'T FORSAKEN YOU.
THERE IS NOTHING YOU HAVE
DONE THAT COULD EVER TURN
OFF HIS LOVE FOR YOU.
HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH, HE
WAS WILLING TO DIE FOR
YOU.
HE WAS WILLING TO SAY,
I'LL TAKE CARE OF ALL OF
THAT.
I'LL MAKE A WAY, I'LL MAKE
A PATH FOR YOU TO COME
HOME, FOR YOU TO BE LOVED
AGAIN, FOR YOU TO
UNDERSTAND ALL THAT
RUNNING AWAY, I WAS ALWAYS
THERE.
NOW, HOW DO YOU MAKE THAT
TURN?
WELL, FOR NATE THERE WERE
A COUPLE OF REVELATIONS
ALONG THE WAY.
SOME REALLY PROFOUND ONES.
THE DAY YOU BECOME A
HUSBAND IS NOT THE DAY
THAT YOU START THINKING
ABOUT THAT, YOU START
BEHAVING LIKE THAT.
THE DAY YOU BECOME A
FATHER, A CHILD IS BORN --
IF THAT'S THE DAY YOU'RE
THINKING ABOUT BEING A
FATHER, YOU'RE THINKING
AND WONDERING, HOW DO I
ACT LIKE THAT?
WELL, NO, YOU'VE GOT TO DO
THESE THINGS FAR IN
ADVANCE.
YOU'VE GOT TO BE PREPARED.
YOU'VE GOT TO KNOW YOU'RE
HEAVENLY FATHER.
AND THROUGH THAT, THEN ALL
YOU'RE OTHER RELATIONSHIPS
FALL INTO PLACE.
BECAUSE UNTIL GOD HAS HEAD
OF YOU, UNTIL HE IS LORD
OF YOUR LIFE, NONE OF THE
OTHER THINGS WORK.
THEY JUST DON'T HOLD
TOGETHER BECAUSE YOU'RE
OUT OF BALANCE.
YOU'RE OUT OF WHACK.
YOU'RE SEEKING THRILLS, OR
YOU'RE SEEKING SUCCESS, OR
YOU'RE SEEKING THE THINGS
OF THOF THIS WORLD.
AND YOU'RE NOT SEEKING
HIM.
YOU'RE NOT PUTTING
RIGHTEOUSNESS FIRST, AND
HIS KINGDOM FIRST, HIS
DOMINION OVER YOUR LIFE
FIRST.
BUT WHEN YOU DO THAT,
EVERYTHING LINES UP.
AND YOU SEE THE JOY, YOU
SEE THE SMILE ON NATE'S
FACE.
THAT'S NOT MADE UP.
THAT'S REAL.
AND IT IS COMING FROM HIS
INNERMOST BEING BECAUSE
THAT'S WHERE GOD DOES HIS
BEST WORK, RIGHT INSIDE OF
YOU.
TO SAY, I'LL MAKE YOU NEW
AGAIN, I'LL MAKE YOU
WHOLE.
IF YOU WANT THIS, THERE IS
A VERY SIMPLE PRAYER FOR
YOU: JESUS, IF YOU'RE
THERE, IF YOU'RE REAL, IF
YOU REALLY ARE MY SAVIOR,
COULD YOU SHOW ME?
IF YOU NEED HELP WITH THAT
PRAYER, WE'RE HERE FOR
YOU.
ALL YOU'VE GOT TO DO IS
CALL US: 1-800-700-7000.
> HERE IS A WORD FROM
EPHESIANS: "FOR BY GRACE
YOU HAVE BEEN SAVED
THROUGH FAITH, AND THAT,
NOT OF YOURSELVES.
IT IS THE GIFT OF GOD, NOT
OF WORKS, LEST ANYONE
SHOULD BOAST."
> GOD BLESS YOU,WE'LL
SEE YOU AGAIN TOMORROW.