Media executive and author, Kathleen Cooke shares the hidden truth that will change your life.
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Terry: A
SELF-IDENTIFIED PARTY GUY
REALIZES HE HAS GONE TOO
FAR.
I I WAS NO LONGER THIS
HAPPY-GO-LUCKY PARTY GUY.
ESSENTIALLY, I WAS A
HEROIN ADDICT.
Terry: WATCH HOW HE
STOPPED SURRENDERING TO
HEROIN AND SURRENDERED TO
GOD.
THAT AND MORE ON TODAY'S
"700 CLUB INTERACTIVE."
Andrew: HI AND
WELCOME TO THE SHOW.
THE GERBER COMPANY
CELEBRATED THE FIRST DOWN
SYNDROME GERBER BABY.
Terry: RIVER ISLAND
FEATURES MODELS WITH
VARIOUS DISABILITIES, FROM
DOWN SYNDROME TO
CONGRESSIONAL PALSY, AND
THE MODELS ARE REPRESENTED
BY ZEBIDI MANAGEMENT, WHO
IN A RECENT INTERVIEW SAID
ZEBIDI WANTS TO SEE MORE
PEOPLE WITH DISABILITIES
ON TELEVISION, MAGAZINES,
ONLINE, AND ON-FILM.
WE BELIEVE THEY SHOULD
HAVE THE SAME
OPPORTUNITIES.
I LOVE THAT.
Andrew: BEAUTIFUL
KIDS.
IT IS ALMOST SAD THAT
WE'RE JUST KIND OF GETTING
TO THIS POINT.
WE'RE ALL MADE IN THE
IMAGE OF GOD.
IT IS SO CUTE AND THEY'RE
GREAT STORIES.
Terry: AND HOW
ENCOURAGING TO THEIR
FAMILIES, TOO.
Andrew: AND THE
FAMILIES WERE EVEN MORE
EXCITED THAN THE CHILDREN.
VERY SWEET.
> ONE THING PEOPLE DON'T
SEEM TO CELEBRATE, AND
THAT IS BABIES AND
TODDLERS ON AIRPLANES.
AND IF YOU'RE A PARENT WHO
HAS EVER FLOWN WITH YOUNG
CHILDREN, YOU CERTAINLY
KNOW WHAT I MEAN.
Terry: AND EVEN IF
YOU'RE NOT A PARENT,
YOU'VE LIKELY BEEN ON A
PLANE WITH A CRYING CHILD.
AND YOU'RE EITHER IN ONE
OF TWO CAMPS, THE
SYMPATHETIC OR COMPLETELY
ANNOYED.
Andrew: A PASSENGER
TRAVELLING FROM HAWAII TO
LOS ANGELES RECENTLY
REPORTED THAT OTHER
PASSENGERS WERE GETTING
FRUSTRATED WITH A MOM WHO
HAD THREE CHILDREN, WHO
HAD TROUBLE COMFORTING HER
YOUNG GUEST.
YOUNGEST.
THE ATTENDANT OFFERED TO
TAKE THE BOY, AND HE
ROCKED THE BOY UNTIL HE
CALMED DOWN.
AND ONE WROTE, THANK YOU
FOR YOUR KINDNESS.
YOU GAVE EVERY A MOMENT TO
BREATHE.
Terry: I OFTEN THINK
WHEN I TRAVEL -- I JUST
CAME BACK FROM A TRIP, AND
THERE WERE A COUPLE OF
MOMS WHO HAD MULTIPLE
CHILDREN, AND, I MEAN --
Andrew: IT'S HARD.
Terry: YOU JUST WANT
TO GO, CAN I SIT NEXT TO
YOU AND JUST HELP YOU.
Andrew: AND NOW WE
SEE WE CAN ALL MAYBE DO
SOMETHING LIKE THAT.
Terry: KUDOS TO THAT
FLIGHT ATTENDANT.
SHE OUGHT TO GET A RAISE.
Andrew: AND WHEN
WE'RE AT AIRPORTS, WE
THINK, LOOK AT ALL OF THE
KIDS WERE CELL PHONES, BUT
THEY MAY USE THEM IN A
CASE LIKE THIS.
Terry: STUDIES SHOW
THAT HALF OF THE CALLS TO
9-1-1 ARE ACCIDENTAL OR AS
SOME MAY CALL IT, POCKET
DIALING."
IT COSTS THE POLICE FORCE
A TREMENDOUS AMOUNT IN
RESOURCES.
Andrew: RECENTLY KIRA
PLACED A 9-1-1 CALL ON A
DISCONNECTED CELL PHONE,
BUT IT WENT THROUGH, AND
SHE FELT BAD.
SHE CALLED AND APOLOGIZED.
WE WENT OUT IN THE
FRONT LOBBY, AND THERE WAS
A LITTLE GIRL THERE WITH
HER PARENTS, AND SHE WAS
REALLY EXCITED WE WEREN'T
MAD AT HER OR ANYTHING
LIKE THAT.
IT IS A GOOD LEARNING
EXPERIENCE FOR ALL
CHILDREN TO LEARN THAT
9-1-1 IS FOR EMERGENCY
SERVICES.
IT COULD TAKE THEM AWAY
FROM SOMEONE WHO ACTUALLY
NEEDS THEM.
Terry: WELL, SHE GETS
THE MESSAGE.
THAT IS PROBABLY A
POTENTIAL FOR A LOT OF
CHILDREN, WHEN YOU'RE
TRYING TO TEACH THEM AT A
YOUNG AGE TO USE 9-1-1 --
Andrew: I'VE STOPPED
A FEW OF THOSE CALLS FROM
MY 6-YEAR-OLD.
AND IT IS A GREAT SERVICE,
FROM THESE DISCONNECTED
PHONES, THAT THEY WILL
ACTUALLY CALL 9-1-1.
BUT I DIDN'T REALIZE THEY
GOT THAT MANY A YEAR.
Terry: AN ENTIRE
GENERATION IN THE MIDDLE
EAST AS GROWN UP UNDER
ISIS, AND THEY HAVE
ADOPTED ITS MANTRA OF
HATE.
NOW DESPERATE LEADERS
REALIZE THEY'RE DEALING
WITH A DEADLY EXTREMISM
FLOWING THROUGH THEIR
COUNTRIES.
SO THEY'RE TURNING TO A
CHRISTIAN WOMAN WHO'S LIFE
MISSION IS TEACHING
RELIGIOUS FREEDOM.
HEATHER SELLS HAS THAT
STORY.
Reporter: EVEN AS
VICTORY IS CLAIMED OVER
ISIS IN PLACES LIKE IRAQ
AND SYRIA, MILLIONS OF
CHILDREN REMAIN IN THOSE
REGIONS, HARBORING THE
THOUGHTS AND RAGE OF THEIR
FORMER CAPTORS.
IT IS WHY TINA RAMIREZ IS
CALLING FOR IMMEDIATE
INTERVENTION.
WHEN YOU'RE DEALING
WITH CHILDREN UNDER 14 WHO
HAVE BEEN LIVING UNDER
INDOCTRINATION OF HATE AND
VIOLENCE, AND HAVE
WITNESSED IT, AND
SOMETIMES HAVE BEEN FORCED
TO ENGAGE IN THAT VIOLENCE
THEMSELVES, THAT'S ALL
THEY HAVE FLYNN.
KNOWN.
AND FOR THEM, FREEDOM IS A
FOREIGN CONCEPT.
THOSE CHILDREN, WHEN THEY
TALK TO THEIR MOTHERS NOW
SAY, MOM, I'M ISIS.
I DON'T WANT TO BE YAZIDI.
I'M ISIS.
Heather: IN OTHER
CASES, ISIS PASSED ON ITS
CORE BELIEFS VIA THE
CLASSROOM.
IN MOSUL, YOU HAVE
600,000 CHILDREN WHO LIVED
UNDER ISIS FOR THE PAST
THREE YEARS.
600,000 THAT WERE TAUGHT
EVERY DAY IN THE
SCHOOLS -- ADDING UP BOMBS
IN ORDER TO LEARN MATH,
AND LEARNING TO HATE AND
KILL YAZIDIS, CHRISTIANS,
AND EVEN OTHER MUSLIMS
THAT DIDN'T BELIEVE LIKE
THEM.
Heather: MANY OF THE
CHILDREN WHO SURVIVED THIS
LIFE OF BRUTAL NOW
MAINTAIN LIKE-MINDED
ATTITUDES.
MANY SEE ISIS AS THE SUPER
HERO OF THEIR WORLD.
THOSE WHO TRY TO HELP THEM
SAY IT IS HORRIBLY
APPARENT, EVEN ON THE
PLAYGROUND.
A GROUP OF TEACHERS
THAT WE WORK WITH CAME
ACROSS A GROUP OF STUDENTS
PLAYING A GAME, AND IT WAS
A GAME WHERE THEY LOOKED
AND THEY WERE SHOCKED.
AND THEY TOLD US WHAT
HAPPENED.
THEY SAID W
REALIZED IT WAS A GROUP OF
STUDENTS BEHEADING ANOTHER
STUDENTS, THEY WERE SO
TERRIFIED THEY DIDN'T EVEN
KNOW WHAT TO O DO.
DO.
AND WE'VE HEARD THE SAME
STORIES IN LEBANON, AND
WE'VE HEARD SIMILAR
STORIES IN MOROCCO.
THIS IS ALL OVER THE
MIDDLE EAST.
Reporter: FOR THE
LAST THREE YEARS, RAMIREZ
HAS TRAINED TEACHERS TO
TEACH THESE CHILDREN
RELIGIOUS FREEDOM.
DEAN ERIC PATTERSON SERVES
ON HER BOARD AND SAYS
LEADERS IN PLACES LIKE
IRAQ REALIZE THEY NEED
HELP BEFORE ANOTHER
HATE-FILLED GENERATION
TAKES THE PLACE OF ISIS.
THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE,
INCLUDING PEOPLE OF
CONSERVATIVE MUSLIM FAITH,
WHO FEEL THAT WE'VE BEEN
KILLING EACH OTHER OVER
THESE THINGS FOR SO LONG
THAT MAYBE WE NEED TO HAVE
A DIFFERENT APPROACH.
Heather: AND THAT
MEANS MAKING SCHOOLS THE
FRONT LINES FOR CHILDREN.
TRAINING TEACHERS TO HELP
STUDENTS LEARN NOT JUST TO
TOLERATE EACH OTHER'S
BELIEFS, BUT TO DEFEND
THEM.
AFTER JUST A FEW
LESSONS OF LEARNING ABOUT
RELIGIOUS FREEDOM THROUGH
SIMULATIONS AND ACTVITIES,
THAT FORCES THEM TO
INTERNALIZE IT, AT THE END
THEIR ATTITUDES HAVE
SHIFTEDED IN JUST THE
MATTER OF A FEW LESSONS.
THE BASIC IDEA OF HARD
WIRED IS EVERY HUMAN IS
HARD-WIRED FOR FREEDOM.
WE BELIEVE AS CHRISTIANS,
THAT'S A PART OF THE WAY
THAT GOD MADE US IN THE
IMAGE OF GOD, WITH THE
ABILITY TO MAKE CHOICES
AND THINGS.
AND SO THAT IDEA IS REALLY
AT THE HEART OF IT.
Heather: ONE CORE
LESSON "THE PEACEFUL
GARDEN" DOES IS WALKS
CHILDREN THROUGH THE
PROCESS OF PLANTING
FLOWERS, WITH DIFFERENT
COLORS REPRESENTLY
DIFFERENT BELIEFS.
STUDENTS COMPARE AND
CONTRAST GARDENS WITH JUST
ONE COLOR OR MANY.
FROM THERE THEY TALK ABOUT
THE STRENGTH OF A SOCIETY
THAT TREATS ALL RELIGIONS
WITH DIGNITY AND RESPECT.
IT MAY LOOK LIKE JUST FUN
AND GAMES, BUT IT IS
DEADLY SERIOUS.
UNTIL WE HAVE A SOCIETY
THAT EMBRACES RELIGIOUS
FREEDOM FOR EVERYBODY, WE
WILL ONLY SEE RECURRENT
CYCLES OF RELIGION-RELATED
CAN'T FLICT AROUND THE
WORLD.
Heather: TEACHING
KIDS NOW TO RESPECT AND
DEFEND RELIGIOUS FREEDOM
CAN ULTIMATELY HELP TO
SHUT DOWN EXTREMISM AND
HELP TO STABILIZE
SOCIETIES THAT DESPERATELY
NEED PEACE.
HEATHER SELLS, CBN NEWS.
Terry: AN IMPORTANT
LESSON.
WE THINK OF SOME OF THE
THINGS THAT COME OUT OF
ISIS AND THEIR BEHAVIOR IS
IMPACTING COMMUNITIES,
ADULTS, BUT UT DON' YOU DON'T
THINK ABOUT HOW IT HAS
IMPACTED A WHOLE
GENERATION OF KIDS, AND
HOW WONDERFUL THAT THERE
IS SOMETHING IN PLACE THAT
IS SPREADING TO THE WHOLE
THAT CAN CHANGE THAT.
Andrew: AND THE
GLOBAL COMMUNITY MAY
EXHALE WHEN A CONFLICT OR
A BATTLE HAS CEASED, BUT
MAKING PEACE CAN SOMETIMES
BE EVEN MORE DIFFICULT
THAN MAKING WAR, AND WE'RE
SEEING THAT HERE.
Terry: WE ALL KIND OF
LIVE IN A CULTURE WHERE
THE NEED TO BE MORE CIVIL,
MORE RESPECTFUL OF EACH
OTHER'S DIFFERENCES NEEDS
TO HAPPEN FOR ALL OF US.
MAYBE EVEN AS WE ACT THAT
OUT AS GROWNUPS, AND OUR
CHILDREN WILL CATCH THAT.
Andrew: UP NEXT, HOW
A NEW HABIT CAN
DRASTICALLY CHANGE YOUR
LIFE.
KATHLEEN COOKE JOINS US IN
Andrew: RESEARCH
REVEALS THAT 93% OF
AMERICANS OWN A BIBLE, YET
MOST HARDLY EVER READ IT.
AND EVEN THOSE WHO PROFESS
TO BE CHRISTIANS SPEND
MORE TIME ON SOCIAL MEDIA
THAN THEY DO READING THE
WORD OF GOD.
HERE TO EXPLAIN MORE ABOUT
THIS AND HELP US GET BACK
ON TRACK IS THE AUTHOR OF
"HOPE FOR TODAY," KATHLEEN
COOKE.
HI.
THANK YOU FOR HAVING ME,
ANDREW.
Andrew: WE'RE
THRILLED TO HAVE YOU.
THIS SURVEY, EIGHT YEARS,
100,000 PEOPLE, AND WHAT
DOES IT REVEAL?
THE RESEARCH REVEALED
WE'RE NOT READING OUR
BIBLES, THAT WE CAN DO
BETTER.
THAT IF WE READ OUR BIBLES
FOUR OR MORE TIMES A WEEK,
WE WILL GREATLY CHANGE THE
DIRECTION OF OUR LIVES,
AND THE CHOICES IN OUR
LIVES WILL BE SO MUCH MORE
POSITIVE.
Andrew: AND WE'RE NOT
EVEN TALKING ABOUT THE
CASUAL CHRISTIAN WHO IS
NOT READING THE BIBLE.
WE'RE TALKING ABOUT THOSE
WHO SAY THEY'RE DEVOTED TO
CHRIST, BUT THEY'RE NOT
SPENDING TIME IN THE WORD.
YES.
WE ALMOST HAVE FIVE BIBLES
IN OUR HOMES AND THEY SIT
ON BOOKSHELVES AND THEY'RE
NEVER READ.
Andrew: IT IS A GREAT
CHALLENGE TO LIVE THE
CHRISTIAN LIFE, IF WE'RE
NOT SPENDING ANY TIME WITH
HIM LEARNING TO LIVE THE
WAY HE WANTS US TO LIVE.
WE SPEND A LOT OF TIME
GOING TO CHURCH, READING
OUR BIBLE, PRAYING,
WATCHING GREAT SHOWS LIKE
THIS, BUT OF ALL OF THOSE
THINGS, THE RESEARCH
SHOWED US THAT IT WAS
BIBLE READING, US
PERSONALLY ENGAGING WITH
GOD, THAT MADE THE
DIFFERENCE.
Andrew: EVEN MORE
THAN PRAYER.
EVEN MORE THAN PRAYER.
IT IS A ONE-WAY
CONVERSATION WHEN YOU'RE
PRAYING.
YOU'RE SAYING, OH, GOD,
CAN YOU HEL HELP ME WITH THIS
OR PRAYING FOR THIS
PERSON, AND WE NEED TO DO
THAT, AND THAT'S AN
ESSENTIAL PART OF BEING A
CHRISTIAN, BUT WHEN WE
STOP AND READ THE BIBLE
AND OPEN THE WORD OF GOD,
GOD HAS A CHANCE TO SPEAK
TO US.
AND WE STOP THE NOISE
AROUND US, FROM THE
BOMBARDMENT OF MEDIA AND
OUR SCHEDULES THAT ARE
OVERCOMMITTED THESE DAYS.
AND THOSE ARE THE TWO
BIGGEST REASONS WE'RE NOT
READING THE BIBLE: WE'RE
TOO BUSY AND TOO MUCH INTO
SOCIAL MEDIA.
Andrew: WE THINK
WE'RE TOO BUSY.
> HOW BIG A CHALLENGE DO
YOU THINK SOCIAL MEDIA
MAKES FOR US TO REALLY BE
COMMITTEDED TO READINCOMMITTED TO READING
THE
WORD OF GOD?
SOCIAL MEDIA IS
DEFINITELY A CHALLENGE.
WE GO TO SOCIAL MEDIA WHEN
WE HAVE A PROBLEM BEFORE
WE EVEN GO TO SCRIPTURE.
AND I LOVE ALL OF THE
THINGS WE CAN DOWNLOAD OFF
THE INTERNET AND APPS, AND
YOU CAN FIND MY DEVOTIONAL
ON THE NEW VERSION BIBLE
SITE, BUT THOSE ARE ALL
THINGS THAT WILL HELP US
ENGAGE WITH HIM.
BUT WE HAVE TO MAKE THAT
CHOICE.
WE HAVE TO BE OBEDIENT TO
SAY, OKAY, I'M GOING TO
SHUT OFF THE NOISE.
I'M GO GOING TO SHUT OFF WHAT
IS AROUND ME AND REALLY
SEE WHAT GOD HAS TO TALK
TO ME ABOUT.
Andrew: AND WHEN WE
SHUT OFF THE NOISE, THAT
CAN BE A WONDERFUL TIME
AND A GREAT EXPERIENCE.
IN FACT, YOU KNOW E, IT
WAS SUCH A WONDERFUL THING
FOR ME TO BE ABLE TO WRITE
THIS DEVOTIONAL.
WHEN MY PUBLISHER SAID,
WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO?
I WANT TO DO A BOOK WITH
YOU.
I SAID, I WANT TO DO A
BOOK BASED ON HIS
RESEARCH, BUT I WANT THE
READER TO SEE GOD.
I WANT THEM TO SEE YOU
BECAUSE YOU HAVE SOMETHING
IMPORTANT TO TELL THEM.
AND SO WHEN YOU HELP ME
WRITE THIS BOOK, GOD, WHAT
DO YOU WANT TO SAY TO YOUR
PEOPLE?
YOU TELL ME.
THAT WAS THE EXPERIENCE.
I HAD THIS WONDERFUL,
INCREDIBLE SPIRITUAL
EXPERIENCE, WHERE GOD
WOULD WAKE ME UP IN THE
MIDDLE OF THE MORNING OR
IN THE MIDDLE OF THE
NIGHT -- WE WERE ON THE
ROAD, AND WE TRAVELLED
CONSTANTLY SPEAKING, AND I
WAS IN EIGHT COUNTRIES
LAST YEAR ALONE, AND HE
WOULD WAKE ME UP AND
REMIND ME OF STORIES AND
THINGS THAT HAD HAPPENED
RAISING KIDS, AS A MOM --
Andrew: THAT WILL
TEACH YOU A LOT ABOUT GOD,
WON'T IT?
OH, YES.
AND NOW THAT I HAVE
GRANDBABIES, EVEN MORE.
A WIFE AND MOTHER, AND
WORKING IN THE HOLLYWOOD
INDUSTRY FOR A NUMBER OF
YEARS AS AN ACTRESS AND
PRODUCER, AND GOD SAID, I
WANT TO WRITE ABOUT ALL OF
THAT.
Andrew: AND IT IS
CALLED "HOPE 4 A REASON."
TELL US ABOUT THAT.
THE NUMBER FOUR TELLS
US THAT THE ACTUAL
RESEARCH TELLS YOU WHEN
YOU'RE READING A BIBLE
FOUR OR MORE TIMES A WEEK,
THAT WILL DRAMATICALLY
CHANGE THE DIRECTION OF
YOUR LIFE.
Andrew: AND THAT'S
SIMPLE.
SIMPLE.
I SAY TAKE OUT YOUR CELL
PHONE AND SCHEDULE THE
TIME.
Andrew: TOO MANY OF
US STRUGGLE WITH FEAR AND
ANXIETY, AND WE FAIL TO
RES LIEREALIZE THAT ONE OF THE
GREATEST SOLUTIONS IS
RIGHT BEFORE US IN THE
WORD OF GOD.
SO MUCH SO.
I TELL EVERYONE, IF YOU
REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHAT
JESUS THINKS AND HOW TO
FIND CONTEMPTMENT AND
PEACE, YOU HAVE TO RUN
INTO THE MIDST OF
CONTEMPTMENT.
HE IS NOT OUTSIDE WHAT I
CALL THE TORNADO SPIN OF
THE WORLD.
GOD IS IN THE CENTER, THE
EYE OF THE STORM.
Andrew: AND ONE OF
THE DEVOTIONALS THAT
REALLY CONNECTED WITH ME
IS WHEN YOU SAID GOD
DOESN'T WANT US TO BE MORE
SPIRITUAL.
HE WANTS MORE
RELATIONSHIP.
TALK ABOUT THAT.
EXACTLY.
THAT IS MY PASSION HERE,
THAT YOU WOULD DEVELOP
THAT RELATIONSHIP WITH
GOD.
GOING TO CHURCH IS GREAT,
BUT YOU'RE NOT GOING TO
CREATE A RELATIONSHIP
OFTEN WITH A PASTOR OR THE
PEOPLE AROUND YOU,
NECESSARILY.
BUT WHEN YOU GO AND SPEND
TIME WITH GOD, YOU'RE
CREATING THAT
FATHERLY-CHILD
RELATIONSHIP THAT IS SO,
SO IMPORTANT IN OUR LIVES.
Andrew: A LOT OF
PEOPLE NEW TO THE
CHRISTIAN FAITH WILL SAY,
I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO
STARTER IN THE BIBLE, IT'S
INTIMIDATING.
HOWEVER, SOME WHO HAVE
BEEN WALKING WITH JESUS
FOR A WHILE SAY THE SAME
THING, I DON'T KNOW WHERE
TO BEGIN WHEN I WANT TO
READ THE WORD OF GOD.
AND THAT'S BECAUSE YOU
HAVEN'T BEEN READING THE
WORD OF GOD.
AND THAT'S BECAUSE YOU DO
FEEL LOST.
WE ARE SO BOMBARDED WITH
SO MUCH INFORMATION COMING
AT US ALL OF THE TIME, WE
DON'T REALIZE WE HAVE TO
STOP THAT NOISE AND KNOW
WHERE TO BEGIN.
I TRIED TO GO BACK TO HOW
JESUS TAUGHT US TO BE
ENGAGED WITH HIM.
HE TOLD US A STORY, AND HE
ASKED US QUESTIONS, BUT HE
DIDN'T ALWAYS ANSWER THE
QUESTIONS AND TELL US THE
RESULTS OF THAT STORY.
AND THAT'S WHAT MY HOPE IS
WITH THIS BOOK, THAT IT
WILL ENGAGE PEOPLE TO SEE
JESUS AND ENGAGE WITH HIM.
Andrew: IT IS A GREAT
BOOK.
IN ENCOURAGE YOU TO GET
IL.
IT.
THE BOOK IS CALLED "HOPE 4
TODAY," AND IT'S AVAILABLE
WHEREVER BOOKS ARE SOLD.
THANK YOU, KATHLEEN.
THANKS, ANDREW.
AND READ YOUR BIBLE.
Andrew: GEOFF BANKS
WAS DRIVING HIS
GIRLFRIEND'S CAR AND WHEN
HE PULLED OFF THE ROAD, HE
WAS SHOOTING UP.
HE GOT BACK ON THE ROAD
AND PASSED OUT BEHIND THE
WHEEL.
WHEN THE POLICE FOUND HIM,
THE NEEDLE WAS STILL IN
HIS ARM.
I THOUGHT THAT AS A
CHRISTIAN, I COULD NOT
HAVE FUN.
I SAW CHRISTIANS AS THE
STUFFY, LIKE STUCK-UP
PEOPLE.
AND I DECIDED THAT THE
CHRISTIAN LIFESTYLE WAS
THIS BORING LIFE, AND I
DIDN'T WANT THAT.
I DIDN'T WANT THAT AT ALL.
Andrew: HE WAS RAISED
IN A CHURCH AND WAS EVEN
BAPTIZED AS A BOY.
BUT AS HE GOT OLDER, HE
CHOSE ANOTHER DIRECTION.
AND IN DURHAM, WHERE I
GREW UP AT THAT TIME, WAS
VERY MUCH SATURATED WITH
DRUGS AND PARTYING.
AND THAT WAS LIKE THE COOL
THING TO DO.
I SURROUNDED MYSELF WITH
PEOPLE WHO DID THAT.
I GOT SO MUCH OF MY VALUE
AND IDENTITY FROM THE
PEOPLE THAT WERE AROUND
ME.
Andrew: IN MIDDLE
SCHOOL, GEOFF STARTED
SMOKING MARIJUANA.
I REMEMBER LOVING IT.
AND I THOUGHT IF THIS CAN
MAKE ME FEEL THIS GREAT, I
WONDER WHAT ALL OF THESE
OTHER DRUGS CAN MAKE ME
FEEL LIKE?
AND THAT STARTED MY
OBSESSION WITH DRUGS IN
GENERAL.
Andrew: WHEN A
FRIEND'S MOM DIED OF
CANCER, HE CONVINCED HIS
FRIEND TO GIVE HIM ALL HER
LEFTOVER PILLS.
I WENT THROUGH THOSE
PRETTY QUICKLY.
AND I BEGAN TO TRY TO FIND
THEM ON THE STREET.
I WAS 14, 15 YEARS OLD,
AND I DIDN'T HAVE A JOB,
SO I COULDN'T AFFORD
STUFF.
SO THE NATURAL NEXT STEP
WAS TO START SELLING STUFF
AND STEALING STUFF.
MY PARENTS CAUGHT ON AFTER
A WHILE, AND THEY GOT ME
IN COUNSELLING, AND TRIED
TO GET ME HELP IN
DIFFERENT MANNERS.
BUT I THOUGHT THEY DIDN'T
GET IT.
Andrew: AFTER GETTING
KICKED OUT OF SEVERAL HIGH
SCHOOLS, HE FINISHED
SCHOOL ONLINE.
HE WENT ON TO COLLEGE, BUT
HE HAD NO INTEREST IN
STUDYING.
I LOOKED AT COLLEGE AS
KIND OF A TURNING POINT,
WHERE IT STOPPED BEING
FUN, HA-HA, DOING DRUGS
AND PARTYING, AND STARTED
TO BECOME REALLY DARK.
IT WASN'T REALLY GETTING
HIGH ANYMORE.
IT WAS JUST, I HAVE TO DO
THIS TO FEEL NORMAL.
AND IF I DON'T DO IT, I
FEEL HORRIBLE.
Andrew: JEFF DROPPED
OUT OF COLLEGE, BUT
GRADUATED TO HEROIN.
I USED THE NEEDLE FOR
THE FIRST TIME AND
REMEMBER THINKING, WOW,
THAT WAS INCREDIBLE.
FROM THEN ON, I NEEDED IT.
I REALLY DID NEED IT.
I WAS NO LONGER THIS
HAPPY-GO-LUCKY PARTY GUY.
I WAS A DOPE FIEND,
ESSENTIALLY A HEROIN
ADDICT AND THAT WAS ALL I
CARED ABOUT.
Andrew: OVER THE NEXT
FIVE YEARS, HE WAS
ARRESTED SEVERAL TIMES.
HE MADE NUMEROUS ATTEMPTS
AT REHAB, BUT ALWAYS
RELAPSED.
HE NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT HOW
HIS ACTIONS WERE AFFECTING
OTHERS, ESPECIALLY HIS
PARENTS.
I WAS SO SELFISH AT
THAT POINT IN TIME, I
DIDN'T CARE HOW THEY FELT.
I KNOW THEY WERE
CONSTANTLY PRAYING.
THEY WEREN'T SURE WHAT
CALL THEY WOULD GET,
WHETHER IT WOULD BE A CALL
FROM THE HOSPITAL, A JAIL,
OR THE MORGUE.
THEY DIDN'T KNOW.
ALL I WAS WORRIED ABOUT
WAS MYSELF.
Andrew: HE STILL
BELIEVED IN GOD, BUT DRUGS
HAD A STRONGER HOLD ON
HIM.
I COULDN'T IMAGINE A
LIFE FOR MYSELF WHERE I
WOULD BE HAPPY SOBER.
I DIDN'T REALLY WANT TOO
MUCH TO DO WITH GOD.
IF GOD WAS REAL, IF I WAS
PRETTY SURE HE WAS, I
DIDN'T THINK HE WOULD STEP
INTO MY LIFE AND HELP ME
STOP DOING JOBS.
SHHE WAS STILL THIS FAR-OFF
GOD.
Andrew: HE BORROWED
HIS GIRLFRIEND'S CAR ONE
DAY TO SCORE SOME HEROIN,
AND ALONG THE WAY BACK, HE
PULLED OFF THE ROAD TO
SHOOT UP.
I PUT THE NEEDLE IN MY
ARM AND DID IT, AND I
PULLED OFF KIND OF AS IT
WAS HITTING ME.
AND I SPEAD UP TO ABOUT
50, 60 MILES PER HOUR, AND
I HAD DONE TOO MUCH, AND I
PASSED OUT BEHIND THE
WHEEL.
Andrew: HIS NEXT
MEMORY WAS WAKING UP IN
THE HOSPITAL.
HE LEARNED THE CAR HAD HIT
A LIGHT POLE, AND THE
POLICE HAD FOUND HIM WITH
A NEEDLE STILL IN HIS ARM.
FINALLY HE REALIZED THE
GRAVITY OF HIS ADDICTION.
I JUST HURT EVERYONE
THAT I LOVED.
AND I REMEMBER, AGAIN,
FEELING LIKE, MAN, WHAT AM
I DOING?
Andrew: THE COURT
ORDERED GEOFF TO ANOTHER
REHAB PROGRAM.
HIS GIRLFRIEND LEFT HIM.
SO WITH NOWHERE ELSE TO
TURN, HE CALLED HIS
PARENTS FOR HELP.
REGARDLESS OF HOW MANY
TIMES I MESSED UP, THEY
STILL LOVED ME.
BUT THIS TIME THEY WERE
LIO,LIKE, WE TRIED YOUR WAY,
11 TIMES, AND IT'S NOT
WORKING.
SO IF YOU'R WE'RE GOING TO HELP
YOU, YOU'RE GOING TO DO IT
OUR WAY.
Andrew: THAT MEANT
GOING TO A CHRISTIAN REHAB
PROGRAM.
IT DIDN'T TURN OUT HOW HE
IMAGINED.
I I WA I WAS THINKING ABOUT A
BUNCH OF PEOPLE WHO DIDN'T
GET IT, BUT INSTEAD THEY
LOVED ME.
IT WAS THE MOST
EYE-OPENING EXPERIENCE
I'VE EVER HAD.
Andrew: THROUGH THE
PROGRAM, READING THE
BIBLE, AND PRAYING, GEOFF
DISCOVERED A NEW IDEA WITH
JESUS.
I WAS ALWAYS CALLING
MYSELF AN ADDICT OR AN
ALCOHOLIC.
AND THEY STARTED POINTING
ME TO VERSES WHERE THE OLD
CREATION IS GONE.
AND I STARTED TO REALIZE I
WASN'T THE PERSON I WAS
BEFORE.
I DIDN'T HAVE TO LIVE IN
THE IDENTITY OF BEING AN
ADDICT OR A CRACKHEAD OR A
DOPE FIEND ANYMORE.
Andrew: HE FOUND THE
KEY TO OVERCOMING HIS
ADDICTIONS BY SURRENDERING
HIS LIFE TO JESUS.
I SURRENDERED THIS PART
OF MY LIFE AND THEN THIS
PART AND THEN THIS PART.
AND IT WAS A GROWTH OF
FAITH.
OKAY, IF I CAN TIS TRUST YOU
WITH THIS, GOD, THEN I
COULD TRUST YOU WITH THIS.
IF I CAN TRUST YOU'RE
GOING TO GET ME FREE FROM
DRUGS, THEN I CAN TRUST
YOU WITH MY LIFE.
HE STOPPED BEING THIS
FAR-OFF, STOIC GOD.
I HAD SEEN HIM STEP INTO
THE MESS THAT WAS MY LIFE
AND FIX IT.
Andrew: TODAY GEOFF
IS A YOUTH PASTOR AND
LOVES TO ENCOURAGE KIDS
THAT JESUS IS THE ONLY
SOLUTION TO ANYTHING THEY
FACE.
THE BIGGEST THING I
HOPE PEOPLE HEAR FROM MY
STORY IS THAT THERE IS
HOPE, AND THERE IS HOPE IN
CHRIST, THAT GOD HAS A
PLAN FOR YOU, AND THAT
CHRIST CAME TO SET YOU FRY
AND GIVE YOU A NEW
IDENTITY, AND THAT HE
KNOWS WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU
BECAUSE HE MADE YOU.
THE BIGGEST THING THAT I
HOPE PEOPLE GET IS HOPE.
Andrew: I'M SO
BLESSED BY GEOFF'S STORY.
HE ARTICULATED IT SO WELL,
THAT IT WAS NO LONGER FUN,
THE ADDICTION, THE ESCAPE,
THE WAY HE WAS MEDICATING
HIMSELF THE WAY SO MANY OF
US HAVE DONE IN OUR LIVES,
TO HIDE WHATEVER PAIN WE
HAVE.
IT BECAME NO LONGER FUN.
IT BECAME SOMETHING HE HAD
TO DO.
AND HE SAW HE WAS IN A
PLACE HE MAY HAVE NEVER
EXPECTED TO BE AT, WHERE
HE WAS SO DESPERATE.
YOU KNOW, WHEN JESUS
WALKED THE STREETS
CENTURIES AGO, WE KNOW HE
HEALED MANY.
MANY.
BUT HERE IS THE THING: HE
HEALED IN RESPONSE TO AN
INVITATION.
HE HEALED IN RESPONSE TO
PEOPLE ASKING, IN SOME
CASES PLEADING, BEGGING
FOR JESUS' HEALING TOUCH.
THERE WAS AN INVITATION TO
JESUS AND HE RESPONDED.
SO THAT'S WHAT YOU NEED TO
DO TODAY, TO EXPERIENCE
WHAT JEFF EXPERIENCED, THE
FREEDOM THAT HE NOW HAS
APART FROM HIS ADDICTION.
THE NEW LIFE, THE NEW
CREATION THAT HE IS.
AND PERHAPS YOU'RE
HESITANT BECAUSE YOU FEEL
LIKE JESUS DOESN'T WANT
YOU, THAT YOU'RE THE
EXCEPTION TO ALL OF THIS.
THAT FOR EVERYBODY ELSE,
HE WILL TAKE, BUT YOU'VE
GONE TOO FAR AND HAVE TOO
MUCH SIN.
BUT ROMANS 8: 34 TELLS US
THAT THIS CHRIST WHO DIED
ON THE CROSS FOR US AN
ROSE FROM THE GRAVE IS NOW
IN HEAVEN, WITH THE
FATHER, INTERCEDING ON
YOUR BEHALF, PLEADING TO
THE FATHER ON YOUR BEHALF.
HE DESIRES RELATIONSHIP
WITH YOU.
AND IF YOU'RE LIKE GEOFF
WAS, IN BONDAGE TO SIN OR
ADDICTION, LET'S BRING IT
BEFORE THE LOVE OF JESUS
NOW.
LORD JESUS, YOU KNOW THE
MESS I'VE MADE OF MY LIFE.
YOU KNOW THE BONDAGE I'M
IN, YOU KNOW THE ADDICTION
I HAVE.
IT IS NO LONGER FUN.
IT IS NO LONGER AN ESCAPE.
IT IS A BURDEN AND IT IS
SOMETHING I FEEL I HAVE TO
DO.
JESUS, I GIVE IT TO YOU
NOW.
I SURRENDER IT BEFORE THE
WORK OF THE CROSS.
BECAUSE OF YOUR WORK ON
THE CROSS, I CAN BE MADE
WHOLE AND A NEW CREATION
AND FIND FREEDOM IN YOU.
AND, JESUS, I BRING THIS
ADDICTION TO YOU, AND I
SAY TAKE IT.
I SURRENDER IT TO YOU
TODAY IN JESUS' NAME.
AMEN.
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WE LEAVE YOU WITH
GALATIANS 5: "WITH
FREEDOM, CHRIST HAS SET US
FREE.