Pastor Esther Ibanga wanted to help Nigeria heal from the violence between Christian and Muslims, but before she could do that, she had to forgive.
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[SOFT MUSIC PLAYING]
Esther Ibanga pastors
a church in Jos, Nigeria.
She remembers the day in 2010
when Islamic militants set fire
to her mother's home.
It really hurt me, because
it was like my whole childhood
just went into flames.
That same year, less than
five miles away in Dogo Nahawa,
more than 500 women and
children were slaughtered
by Islamic militants.
The Christian women
leaders in the city
began to come to my house.
And they said to me, Pastor
Esther, what should we do?
I mean, this cannot go on.
Esther says they dried their
tears and organized a protest.
Thousands of women marched,
petitioning the government
to end the corruption
and violence.
Shortly after, women from
a nearby Muslim village
responded with a
march of their own
for women and children
killed in an earlier attack
by Christian militants.
So I decided to reach
out to the Muslim women.
And I said, listen,
you're not my enemy
and I'm not your enemy.
She called Khadija Hawaja,
a Muslim community leader
to come up with a solution.
But Esther struggled with giving
her own anger and bitterness
over to God.
And I told the
Lord, no, I'm not
going to forgive because
I was hurting so much.
I just did not want to have
anything to do with any Muslim.
Then she heard
Khadija's story.
Her personal house
was also set on fire
by Christian youths.
When she said that, I
just stopped right there
in my tracks, because she
understood what I felt
and I understood what
she felt. And we just
realized we needed to come
together and help these kids.
So that healed me
and that brought me
to the point of
actual forgiveness.
It was then they established
Women Without Walls Initiative,
working to help Muslims
and Christians resolve
their differences to
bring peace to Nigeria.
They believe women
are natural agents
for social and national
change, because they
know the key to
transforming Nigeria
is to reach the children.
The Mother School basically
is raising local women
to be the first line of
security for their families
and their communities.
So we take them to
a 10 week training
on how to recognize the
signs of radicalization
in their children.
They're also giving at
risk youth scholarships
to finish school, offering
support for physically
challenged students, and helping
communities engage in dialogue.
But Esther says their
message of peace
hasn't always been welcomed.
They said, we don't
have drinking water
in this community.
Why are you coming to
talk to us about peace?
What is peace?
So we said to them, OK, if
we get you drinking water,
will you talk with us?
And they said yes.
Women Without Walls persuaded
an engineering company
to dig what they
call The Peace Well,
a source of clean drinking
water shared by Christians
and Muslims alike.
Through this and
other efforts, Esther
sees lives being changed.
I've had a Muslim
boy call me mother.
I've had a Muslim
boy listen to my tape
and just quote my sermon.
And he said he can relate
to what Pastor is saying.
So for him to want to see
Jesus, to hear Jesus just
through association with me,
I think God is glorified.
Esther has been criticized
by Christians for partnering
with the Muslim community.
But she's not quitting
any time soon.
She says the stakes are high,
and the only way to bring peace
is through God's message of hope
and love through Jesus Christ.
He died for the sins
of the whole world.
He didn't die for Christians.
He died for those Muslims, He
died for those unbelievers.
God is ready to transform
lives if we would
let Him use us as vessels.