WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY ABOUT PORNOGRAPHY? WITHOUT MY HUSBAND COMING TO CHRIST, HOW CAN WE HAVE A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE? HAVE WE FORGOTTEN THE THIRD COMMANDMENT?
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Welcome back.
It's time for your questions.
And Mercedes writes
and she says,
what does the Bible
say about pornography?
Pat, does the Bible
talk about it?
Well, the word that
we get pornography from
is the Greek word porneo, which
has to do with fornication.
So pornography comes right
out of the Greek language,
which is what the New
Testament was written in.
The Bible speaks about the
unclean thoughts, about
foolish jesting and dirty talk.
The Bible-- you
know, David said,
have I have no unclean
thought before my face,
I took nothing before my face.
Pornography was a terrible
thing, there's no question.
But does the Bible
say, specifically,
don't watch dirty
movies on television?
Because there was no television.
And there weren't any dirty
movies for people to watch.
But in terms of being
engaged in fornication,
being engaged in
sex act, the Bible
is very specific
about immorality,
about the things that
cause immorality.
And you know, Jesus
talked about the fact
that if you actually visualize
having sex in your mind,
it's the equivalent
of doing the act.
And so that's what pornography
is, it's visualizing the sex.
OK.
All right.
Good answer.
Natalie says, Dear Pat, I have
prayed now about seven years
for my husband to find Jesus.
We've been through a
lot in our marriage
and actually I
just wanted to skip
by today's 19th anniversary.
I just don't feel
like praying anymore.
And I'm wondering if God wants
me to stay in the marriage.
I thought I could have
enough faith for both of us,
but without my husband
coming to Christ, how can we
have a successful marriage?
Is one person in the
marriage believing enough?
Well, the Bible
says it's enough.
Other than that, your
children are not born holy.
If you have one
believer in a marriage,
I don't think you've
got grounds for divorce.
It just doesn't sound like it.
You know, you didn't say
your husband husband's
running around.
You didn't say he beats you.
You didn't say he
comes home drunk.
You didn't say he
wastes your money.
You didn't say he didn't
provide for your upkeep
and maintenance.
You just said he's
not a Christian.
Well, so what?
You keep praying for him
and he'll come to the Lord
by your Godly example,
the Bible says,
the unsaved spouse
will find the Lord.
OK?
That's a good answer.
All right, Connie
says, have we forgotten
the third commandment?
My husband and I are offended by
the use of God's or the Lord's
name in vain, exclamations
made by news media
friends, people at the
grocery store, our neighbors
and their small children.
It's hard to cover our
ears and say nothing.
I just can't think of any nice
way to say something to them.
Any suggestions?
You know, I was
looking at a script
that somebody had presented
to the possibility
of doing a movie.
And in the script,
the lead character
used the name Jesus over
and over and over again.
And the people who
wrote the script
were a Christian, at least
they they thought they were.
And they didn't find
any offense in this.
This is an offense to me to
be using the name of Jesus.
But it's become just
a throw away word.
But you don't hear anybody
talking about Muhammad
that way.
You don't hear them talking
about Buddha that way.
You don't hear him
talking about any
of these other
religious figures.
They don't talk
about Moses that way.
But it's always Jesus.
Well, it's wrong.
But look, the major thing
is the name of the Lord
is Jehovah, which is the
hiphil of the verb to be.
And it means he who causes
everything else to be.
Now, that's his name.
And His name is Jehovah,
or Jehovah or Yahweh.
And the Bible says
you shall not take
the name of he who
causes everything
to be as a curse word.
Now, that's what it
specifically means.
So somebody says, oh
Lordy, and oh God,
or something like that,
it's not the same thing
as that particular commandment.
But at the same time,
I think the freedom
of using God's name
in vain is something
that I was warned about
when I was a little kid.
My mother was very
strict on this.
And I think we all
ought to do it.
We should not encroach
on the name of God.
He's a holy God.
He's a righteous God.
He's an all powerful God.
And we should not take
his name for vanity.
All right?
Good.
All right, amen.
Jenny says I was watching The
700 Club a few weeks ago when
you had a guest on talking
about his book about heaven.
I've been worried
about his statement
at the gates of heaven
are really very narrow
and that it isn't
so easy to enter.
I thought our entry
to heaven is assured
by asking for forgiveness and
embracing God as our Father.
I so want to see my mom, my two
sisters, my dad, my husband,
and my precious daughter again.
Well, I didn't say it.
Jesus said it,
straight is the gate
and narrow is the way
that leads to life.
And few there are that find it.
That's what the Bible says.
And straight is the gate, narrow
the way that leads to life.
There's a broad way
that leads to hell.
It's easy to get
into hell, trust me.
It's really easy
to get into hell.
Is harder to get into
heaven because you
have to give up yourself.
You know, remember Jesus
it is easier for a camel
to go through the
eye of a needle
than for a rich man to come
into the Kingdom of God.
Well, what does that mean?
What it means that
it's difficult.
You have to leave some
of this baggage behind.
You can't walk into heaven
with all of your prejudices
and all of your hate
and all of your misery
and your things like that.
All of that's got to
be taken away from you.
So it's a narrow way to get in.
Is the call for everybody?
Of course it is.
God has call everybody.
God wants everybody to
be saved and the all
to come to the
knowledge of the truth.
So that's what you're asking.
Does God want
everybody to get saved?
Yes.
Does he want everybody to come
to the knowledge of the truth?
Yes.
But getting in is not as
easy as you might think.
That's what the Bible says.
I didn't write it.
That's the words of Jesus.
But I guess we can take
comfort in a few verses
that God says my heart is
that none should perish
and that whoever
believes in him--
That's right.
Will not perish but
have everlasting life.
Everlasting life.
Mostly it's the
desire of our Lord,
that we will come to Jesus.
That's what he wants.
Amen.
Amen.