Shortly after 9/11, Ray and his 10-year-old daughter Hannah were shot while working as aid workers in an Islamic country. They miraculously survived, and then got to meet their attacker in prison.
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The days and weeks following
9/11 were tenuous times
for Americans,
especially for people
like Ray Norman and his family.
His work with the Christian
humanitarian organization,
World Vision, had brought
them to Mauritania,
an Islamic republic on
the west coast of Africa.
RAY NORMAN: We were the largest
humanitarian organization
working with the government to
fight poverty in the country.
I knew there were some
pockets of extremism
in the country that were
not happy with our presence.
There was rocks
thrown at our cars,
and the government
assigned guards
at our home and our office,
around my daughter's school.
So it was a very tense time.
After five weeks,
security measures
were lightened as
tensions eased.
Ray decided to take his daughter
Hannah to a nearby beach.
He'd gotten out
to lock the wheels
into four wheel drive when an
Arab man walked up and greeted
him.
RAY NORMAN: He asked me
if I was in American,
which didn't alarm me at the
moment, and I said, yes, I am.
And then he said, well, thank
you, and he went on his way.
He took about three
paces, turned around,
and called to me.
And when I stood up, he had a
9mm pistol aimed at my chest.
And of course as a
father, all of my thoughts
were about how do
I protect Hannah?
I was hoping if he got me,
maybe he'd leave her alone.
I started screaming,
Daddy, that man has a gun.
He has a gun.
As Ray scrambled to
get in the vehicle,
the man pulled the trigger,
but the gun misfired.
RAY NORMAN: It went
click, click, click.
And he took the gun and he
tapped it twice and took aim
again.
But with Hannah screaming, he
took the gun's aim off of me
and aimed at Hannah.
My dad, he threw himself
up against the window
to block the man's view of me.
And as he did that,
that bullet went off.
RAY NORMAN: The bullet
came through my right arm.
Glass went everywhere.
It went into our
eyes, under our skin.
Ray spun off as the man
fired into the rear window.
They made it to safety,
but something was wrong.
I felt out of breath.
I felt like something
had punched me.
RAY NORMAN: The bullet that
had gone through my arm
had struck her in the
center of her chest.
And so my world crumbled.
And then she said
to me, she said,
well, daddy, am I about to die?
RAY NORMAN: I could
only respond in faith.
And something just
welled up within me,
and I said, Hannah,
you're not gonna die.
I need you to pray.
And says, OK, Daddy,
I can do that.
I just called on the
the name of Jesus
over and over and over again.
Ray sped towards
the nearest clinic,
praying desperately
for his daughter.
RAY NORMAN: I had an argument
right there my prayers.
I said, Lord, this is not the
way it was supposed to be.
Clinic staff tended to Hannah
and rushed her in for x-rays.
RAY NORMAN: And it turned
out that when the bullet had
hit her chest, it had
bounced off her sternum,
slid across her rib cage,
and exited in her armpit.
But the bullet
had not penetrated
her lungs or her heart, and
she was going to survive.
By then, friends had gathered
at the clinic to support them.
RAY NORMAN: I
remember with tears,
raising my hands in the air
and saying, Lord, thank you.
Your promises are
true and faithful.
I remember a Muslim
friend looked at me,
says yes, your
Jesus is faithful.
Both were patched up and flown
to Paris for medical attention.
Hannah's mother,
Helen, was finally
able to see her daughter.
My first reaction was
to go straight to Hannah
and just hold her.
She, in fact, was sitting up
in bed looking very chipper.
The Holy Spirit stepped in
and protected both of them
from those bullets.
And I was just so convinced
of that from the beginning.
As they recovered
physically, the family
tried to make sense
of what happened.
Why did he try to kill
my father and myself?
RAY NORMAN: Someone who
represented a people
that I had felt called to
serve in the name of Christ
would inflict such harm.
This man had never
given me the opportunity
to tell him how much I cared
about him and his people.
He just walked out of
the sand dunes and shot.
I felt somewhat sorry for him,
like, why did he feel the need
to do what he did?
A few days after the shooting,
authorities caught the gunman
Ali Ould Sidi.
Once the Normans
returned to Mauritania,
a Muslim friend
of Ray's explained
what would likely happen.
This This man has shamed
his family, his clan.
Many, many people are
very upset at what he did.
He said, you need to understand
that before his case ever
comes to trial, he will
probably conveniently disappear.
I was shocked, like,
why would that happen?
Why does he deserve that?
I was angry.
I was upset.
And it didn't make sense
to me for that to happen.
The family requested a
visit with Ali in prison.
Six months later,
they were finally
granted a five-minute visit.
Seeing him was
just sort of a relief
because I saw that
he was human, too.
And he wasn't a monster.
He was just a man.
And he looked really sad.
RAY NORMAN: He was
obviously shocked to see us.
And you could tell by
the look on his face
that he was expecting us to
accuse him, to bring him grief.
I turned to Hannah
and I said, Hannah,
do you want to say
anything to the prisoner?
She addressed him
directly, and she said,
Mr. Ali, I have two
things I want to say.
First is, I want to know why
you tried to kill my Daddy.
He paused for awhile and
then said, I lost my head.
I said, Mr. Ali, I hold
no bitterness in my heart
towards you, and I forgive you.
He froze, and he didn't move
for a couple of seconds.
And when he looked
up, we could all
see he had tears in his eyes.
I saw how fragile he was.
And even then, my heart
continued to soften for him.
It wasn't easy.
I was still shaking at the time.
I was also hearing God
ushering me into getting closer
to this man.
I just started explaining to
him the fact that maybe God was
thinking about him
when he protected
Ray and Hannah because he had
designs and plans for his life.
The next day, the Normans
received a handwritten letter
from Ali.
RAY NORMAN: I cannot find the
words to describe our meeting
today.
Although I still feel remorse
with regard to the evil I have
caused you, words cannot express
the depth of my joy in seeing
you with your daughter, that
little angel alive and well.
Many times I've heard
of Christian charity,
of Christian kindness and love.
When you came to see me, I
saw it and experienced it.
In accordance with Sharia
law, the Norman family's
public forgiveness helped
to commute Ali's sentence,
and he was released
after one year in prison.
The Normans never
got to see him again.
But for them, the
experience confirmed
everything they believe
about the God they serve.
He gives us this
ability to forgive
and to love that is unnatural.
As natural human beings,
we can't just do this.
RAY NORMAN: For God so loved
the world, he gave his son.
For God so loved
Muslims, he gave his son.