Author and actress Sam Sorbo shares how to instill Godly qualities in your children, and promotes her new movie with husband Kevin Sorbo, Let There Be Light.
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Not many people can
say they did this.
But Sam Sorbo has
defeated Hercules.
She was cast as the leading
lady in the hit TV series,
and she made the title character
so nervous during the filming,
he couldn't remember his lines.
Well, the two married in
real life the following year.
And now, Sam is
raising their children
and helping other parents
navigate the legendary journey
through the school year.
Take a look.
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NARRATOR: Sam Sorbo is a talk
radio host, actress, and model.
But her greatest achievements
are that of a wife and mom.
Sam met her husband, Kevin
while playing his leading
lady in the hit TV
series "Hercules."
Both have been
successful in Hollywood,
yet remain outspoken
about their faith in God.
In her book, "Teach From
Love," Sam offers 180 lessons
to instill godly qualities
in your children, one
for every day of
the school year.
Sam Sorbo is here with us now.
And we welcome you
to "The 700 Club."
That's the most interesting
introduction I've ever had.
I appreciate that.
We'll loan that to
you if you'd like it.
[LAUGHTER]
How did you get
into homeschooling?
Was that always something
you intended to do,
or how did it come about?
So my second grader was
midway through second grade,
and I wasn't getting
reports back.
And the teacher, I finally
asked the teacher one day,
hey, how are his reports?
And she said, oh, not good.
And I had been a
very involved parent.
I went into the classroom
multiple times during the week
and helped out the teacher.
And on this
particular day, I was
helping her clean up the class.
And I thought, why am I not
getting this information?
So I started doing
the book reports with
and every day after school.
And I realized,
I'm homeschooling.
I'm just doing it at the
end of the day when we're
tired, and cranky, and hungry.
It's a big
responsibility, isn't it?
Even if your child is in
school with someone else, when
they come home, you have to
help process all of what's
happened during the
day in your time.
We're under a
misconception that we
are handing off the
responsibility to the schools.
But parents have sued
the school system
for not teaching their
children to read.
And they've lost every
suit, because it is still
the parent's responsibility.
So it is the responsibility
of the parent,
regardless of how
you handle that.
We think that the school's
going to do a good job,
but all evidence
to the contrary.
We know that our
schools are failing,
and yet we're continuing
to send our children
into those schools.
And frankly, as
Christians, I don't see it.
They're teaching our
children that they're
accidents of nature, and
that survival of the fittest
is the law of the land, and then
hypocritically telling them,
don't bully.
[LAUGHTER]
Yeah.
There's a disconnect here.
A weird message.
And we started out by
talking about academics.
Some of what you're
mentioning now
has to do with character and
just our thought process.
And you start your book out
with the story of a woman
who came to you after you had
spoken somewhere and said,
so are you saying
that the schools
aren't able to teach our
children strong values?
And how did you respond to that?
Well, they're
teaching our children
survival of the fittest.
Is that the biggest
value that we want?
Because then there's no reason
to go help the hurricane
survivors right now.
If survival of the fittest,
then, oh, I'm sorry.
That's up to you.
I mean, it's a very
callous message
that our kids are
getting in school.
And teachers have
almost been stripped
of the right to bring
them anything else.
Sadly, that's true.
Although in my book, I have
sort of secular stories
that are just stories
from the real world,
like Johnny finds a wallet,
and there's $20 in the wallet.
What should he do?
He should try to find
the owner of the wallet.
He shouldn't just take
the money and say, yay.
Bully for you,
because I, you know--
and so schoolteachers
could take these lessons
into the classroom, because
it is appropriate, I think,
for a school teacher.
And I love school teachers.
I mean, God bless them.
They're working in a system
that is very difficult for them
to get their job done.
Should be paid more than
anybody else in the country.
Right?
But the thing is they can bring
these sort of moral messages
into the classroom
without necessarily
having to bring up the Bible.
Being over, right.
I mean, we live in a
Judeo-Christian society.
The Bible and the message
from the Bible is everywhere.
It's in our legal system.
What's a stop sign?
A stop sign is a moral value.
TERRI MEEUWSEN: You're right.
Because we value life.
Why do we value life?
Because of our
Judeo-Christian culture.
We've disconnected that so
people don't realize that.
But that's the way it is.
So teachers could
use this book, too.
But I wrote it
primarily for families
to have the discussion.
You work with a group
of seventh graders
in homeschooling.
And that kind of initiated some
of what you've put in here,
saying, even the kids you
were working with, just
understanding what is morality?
What is good character?
How did those seventh
graders impact
you to write this book,
"Teach From Love?"
Well, I brought in a
moral characteristic.
I put a godly characteristic
up on the board,
and we'd workshop, and
we'd talk about it.
And then they would
internalize it.
They'd bring it up
later in the day.
And I thought, this
is a great opportunity
that is kind of being missed.
We just expect our kids to
kind of just get the message--
TERRI MEEUWSEN: Osmosis.
By osmosis.
And that's not the way it works.
It's important to have
those discussions.
That's partly why I did
the movie that I did,
is because we need to be
talking about life and death.
What is the meaning?
Why are we here?
Why do we die?
TERRI MEEUWSEN: Why do we
believe what we believe?
Why do we believe
what we believe,
or why don't we believe what
we don't believe, right?
Exactly, just
as important, yes.
And so, yeah.
So it's all of a piece, really.
You do a really wonderful
job of taking two qualities
in each of these
lessons that you write.
And they're lessons for
Monday through Friday,
if that's the way
you want to use them
for homeschool scenarios.
Why two?
How did you determine that?
Well, we have two eyes
for binocular vision,
and I just thought there were
two ways-- in binocular vision,
we see things in
three dimensions.
And I think if you have
two qualities that you
can sort of juxtapose
to each other,
then you get a better vision.
School year has just started.
It's a fresh
opportunity, I think.
SAM SORBO: Yes.
It's also a responsibility.
I think parents feel
the weightiness of that.
And you start your
book with two qualities
that are significant going
into the school year.
One of them, fearlessness.
And what was the
other one, boldness.
Yes.
Now those two things do
play off of each other.
Yes.
TERRI MEEUWSEN: Why is that
important as our kids start
the school year?
Well, there's a
lot that happens
in school that causes
anxiety, which it saddens me,
because of course,
I'm a homeschooler.
So I went through this
with my middle child.
He started crying before
kindergarten every day.
And I finally realized
he wanted to nap.
He didn't want the
stress of going
into the classroom
in the afternoon,
because he was tired by then.
So I want to bolster both
children, and parents,
and families.
And if you can have this
discussion with your kids,
you will grow in
your relationship
with your children.
And that's what homeschooling
really is all about.
It's about the relationship.
We have to ask ourselves.
Our public schools
are telling us
that school is about college
prep and career readiness.
Is that your highest
aspiration for your children?
If it is, God bless you.
But if your highest
aspiration for your children
is to know God and
to make Him known,
then maybe you
need to revisit why
you're sending your
children into a system
that that's not
what their goal is.
It's how to best
make that happen.
"Teach From Love," it's
not just for homeschoolers.
SAM SORBO: No.
I mean, every family could
use this as a daily devotional.
SAM SORBO: Exactly, yeah.
Morning, noon, night,
whenever you choose to use it.
SAM SORBO: It's great
dinner table conversation.
Yes.
But I want to mention also
you have a movie coming out
in December.
SAM SORBO: No, it's in October.
October, OK.
October 27, "Let
There Be Light."
I co-wrote it.
I had the idea, and I found
a co-writer, thankfully,
who agreed to write
the movie with me.
And then two weeks later,
Sean Hannity called my husband
and said, I want to do a
faith-based movie with you.
TERRI MEEUWSEN: Wow.
Thank you, Lord.
SAM SORBO: And about a
year later, I had a movie.
I tell you, it's a miracle
that this movie exists,
because the story
behind this movie,
you couldn't make it as a movie.
It's not believable
enough to make as a movie.
TERRI MEEUWSEN: Yeah.
SAM SORBO: Right?
TERRI MEEUWSEN: Right.
SAM SORBO: But the
story of the movie
is absolutely believable, the
story that's in the movie.
And my husband plays
the lead character,
and he's fantastic, as we know.
[LAUGHTER]
So we should watch for this.
"Let There Be Light.
"Let There Be Light."
October 27.
Go to
lettherebelightthemovie.com.
Go to the Facebook page.
We need all the support in
social media that we can get.
Tell all your friends.
You'll see the trailer
on our Facebook page,
and we're doing
#sharethelight just
to get the message
out there, and trying
to encourage people
to share their faith,
and to get people
into the faith.
And by the way, this
movie, you know,
I encourage people to
invite people to church.
TERRI MEEUWSEN: Yes.
Because if you
have a great church,
why not share that, right?
TERRI MEEUWSEN: Exactly.
But it's hard to invite
people to church these days.
There's like a, oh,
that's a weird--
What do they want from me?
Right?
Invite them to the movie.
Yeah.
You don't have to
join the movie.
You can just go enjoy it.
Just bring them to the movie.
It'll move you.
It'll change you
Wonderful.
And again, the book is
called "Teach From Love."
Teach them love.
No, "Teach From Love."
"Teach From Love," a school
year devotional for families.
And it's available
wherever books are sold.
Highly recommend it.
For more information about the
movie, "Let There Be Light,"
go to our website, cbn.com.
It's all there.
And we'll send you
and the friends
you decided to invite off
on a wonderful opportunity
to see something
that's a blessing.
Thank you.
Thank you so
much for having me.
Great to have you here.
I appreciate it.