The most awarded artist in Christian music shares about the early days of his career, the death of his daughter, and his new book Between Heaven and the Real World.
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MAN (VOICEOVER):
Steven Curtis Chapman
is the most awarded artist in
Christian music with 58 Dove
Awards, five Grammys, and
48 number one singles.
I caught up with Steven
and his wife, Mary Beth,
at his recording
studio in Nashville.
You started out
more as a songwriter
before you became a singer
of the song, or what?
Well, for me, it was
because my brother, Herbie,
was the singer.
And he had the voice.
And my voice, first off, was
a guitar, was an instrument.
And that's how I really sort
of said what I wanted to say.
So I spent a lot of
time with the guitar.
And my dad wrote songs.
My dad and his buddies would
get together and talk about it
in the book, shut
the kitchen door.
And I'd hear him.
I'd put my ear up to the door.
And they'd be
recording these songs.
So I knew that was
something really cool.
But I never thought
of myself being
able to do that until I saw
appear somebody kind of my age
who'd written a song.
And I thought, well,
maybe I could do that.
Even then when I would
play songs that I wrote,
I would notice just a different
reaction from my friends.
They would lean in
a little bit more
and listen to what I
was singing, as opposed
to if I was singing a,
whatever, James Taylor song or--
"Puppy Love."
Yeah, "Puppy Love,"
the Donny Osmond song.
So I think that's where I
really began to find my voice.
MAN (VOICEOVER): After 30 years
as a singer and songwriter,
Steven has taken some
time off to write
his memoir, "Between
Heaven & the Real World--
My Story."
The stories that have had
the deepest impact on me
and one of the reasons I
was excited to finally get
to write my story, it's when
I can read the story of others
who are following Christ,
who are committed, but just
are still on the journey,
they haven't arrived, and can
be honest about that process.
MAN (VOICEOVER):
In his book, Steven
takes us from small
town Paducah, Kentucky,
all the way to Carnegie Hall.
He's candid about
raising a family--
adopting three girls from
China and his 32-year marriage
to Mary Beth.
MARY BETH CHAPMAN: It
took all of, I think,
the drive home from the
wedding, like two days
after our wedding, where I
was crying all the way home.
And you were like,
this is going to be--
Yeah, uh-oh.
Yeah, we basically went--
This is going to be
harder than we thought.
--this is going
to be a long life.
Yeah, this is--
(LAUGHING) This is
going to be a long life.
A long life.
A long life.
But yeah, just making a decision
to live as authentically
and talk, when we're going
to be interviewed, when
we are going to
write, that it is
going to be an honest
approach at life.
Because we all have that stuff.
Yeah.
We are not immune.
MAN (VOICEOVER):
Steven and Mary Beth
lost their youngest child,
Maria, in a tragic accident
at their home.
Maria was running to meet
her older brother, Will,
as he was pulling
into the driveway,
and she was struck by his SUV.
How many years
ago was this now?
Almost nine.
Almost nine.
It's coming up on nine.
Is the pain of
that still there?
Yes.
It is?
Yes.
You talk about it
in depth in the book.
And you do talk about it
publicly all the time.
I share the story from my
perspective of just that scene
of us huddled, arms
around each other,
just looking at
each other, saying,
we know this is
going to be hard.
We have no idea how hard or
where this is going to go,
but we have got to get through
this together as a family.
We're only going
to make it together
holding onto each
other and holding
onto the promises of God.
It almost is like
God, in our case,
gave us a shot of anesthesia
to your body and to your heart,
in a way, that you can
survive, that there's
enough of a numbness.
You're very much alive and
very aware of eternity.
In "Heaven and the
Real World" there,
I talk a lot about
that heaven has never
been more clear to me.
I've never been more sure
that we are made for eternity.
And I talk about speaking
that to the nurses and doctors
standing around right
there after Maria
had gone to be with Jesus.
Where are you now?
Where is it all now?
Where is music?
Where are you going?
Do you know?
Well, I start the
book in Paducah.
But I get quickly to Carnegie
Hall in New York, where I said,
people came to me after I played
at Carnegie Hall and said,
this had to be a dream
come true for a kid
from Paducah, Kentucky.
And really, honestly,
my answer was, no,
I can't say honestly
it's a dream come true.
Because a kid from
Paducah doesn't ever
think to dream quite this big.
So this journey has
been beyond anything we
could have asked or imagined.
And we want to
continue, honestly,
to be just faithful with the
story God's entrusted to us.
Music, I'm sure, will
be a part of that.
MAN (VOICEOVER): Music
has been his career.
But Steven is a man
grounded in the truth
of God's word, a
common thread that's
woven throughout his songs.
(SINGING) Now there
is no condemnation.
And now there is
no guilt or shame.
It says, "Taste and see
that the Lord is good."
And that's a promise that
we have had to hold onto.
Because so many
moments in our story--
and all of us have a story of,
life is anything but tasting
good at that moment or looking--
what we see does not look good.
But even before
then, can we really
believe that we were
still going to get
to see the goodness of the
Lord, that we were going
to have grandchildren
and we were
going to stand at the crib
of our first grandbaby
with tears in our eyes, with
our arms around each other,
and say, we made
it to this point,
we're getting to celebrate
this moment together,
this new beginning, the new
life that God has given us,
and the beauty that has and
is coming from the ashes,
even as we're hoping and longing
for what's yet to be realized
when God finally wipes
every tear from our eyes?