Author and motivational speaker Pat Williams shares how to maximize your passion and natural gifts.
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NARRATOR: It's an understatement
to say Pat Williams looks
at the bright side of things.
He's one of America's
top motivational speakers
and has inspired
millions of people.
As an NBA executive that
led 23 teams to the playoffs
and co-founded
the Orlando Magic,
he's written dozens of
books and still finds
time to raise his 19 children.
Even cancer couldn't
dampen his outlook on life.
In his book, "The
Success Intersection,"
Pat offers a clear roadmap to
identify your greatest talent
and outlines how to focus that
talent on achieving your goals.
Well, joining me
now is Pat Williams
and it's always a
pleasure to have you.
Hey, Gordon.
It's great to have you back.
I'm so glad to see you.
Good to see you.
It's always good to be here.
It's good to see
you in good health.
Thank you.
And that is wonderful news.
Thank you.
The doctor's reports
are good, Gordon,
so I'm encouraged [INAUDIBLE].
I like good doctor's reports.
That's right.
That's right.
You go to the
doctor with something
and you're kind of fearful
and then when you get
the good report, you go, yeah.
Yes.
Yes.
That's always a good feeling.
Yeah.
Let's get back to work.
[LAUGHTER]
I find it kind of incredible
that your dream growing up
was you wanted to be
a baseball player.
Well, that's true.
Pat, my roots are in baseball.
My dad took me to my first
major league ball game.
I was seven years old.
We went to the ball game in
Philadelphia, Shibe Park, 21st
and Lehigh Avenue.
GORDON: Wow.
Connie Mack was still
managing the Philadelphia A's.
GORDON: Wow.
The Cleveland Indians were
in town for a Sunday afternoon
doubleheader-- they
don't do them anymore--
but there we were.
And I was immediately
captured by the sights
and the sound and the smell
and the color of baseball.
I remember waking up
as a seven-year old.
The next morning,
I knew exactly what
I wanted to do with my life.
I wanted to be a ballplayer.
And so through school and
then on to Wake Forest
and into the Phillies
organization, I was a catcher
and I got to play and I got
a shot in the pro ranks.
But it became apparent
after my second year
in minor league
baseball that I wasn't
going to get to the big
leagues as a catcher.
The Phillies saw something in
me and they said, you know,
you've got a future, we
think, in the front office.
And they gave me
some opportunities
in their minor league
farm system, including
four years in Spartanburg,
South Carolina, where
I ran their minor league team.
Did they tell
you what they saw?
Well, the only thing I
can tell you is this, Pat--
the scout in North Carolina who
followed me through college did
send reports in on me and
it listed my baseball skills
and non-skills.
And then he wrote, "Has a
future in the front office,"
said this scout.
GORDON: The scout said?
Wes Livengood, "Has a
future in the front office."
So they must have
seen something.
They saw my interest,
first of all.
They saw my enthusiasm.
They saw the passion
I had for baseball
and they saw some
leadership skills
that I would not have
recognized or been aware of.
And so the Phillies
said, OK, we're
going to send you
to Spartanburg.
I was 24 years old
and you're going
to be the general manager of
this minor league ball club
here.
Well, that was
quite an experience.
I spent four years there
at beautiful Duncan Park
trying to--
promoting and putting
people in the ball park.
And the Phillies sent some good
teams to us with young players
and it was a
marvelous experience.
And so I was there
for those four years,
not knowing where I was headed.
I had become a
Christian in the process
so I had been able,
at that point, to take
my hands off my career because
they'd been all over my career
and maneuvering and trying
to work my way to the top
and being noticed.
And after I became a Christian,
it was a different outlook.
I just said, OK, Lord, I'm
taking my hands off this
and I'm in your hands.
And within months, I get a
call from the Philadelphia
76ers basketball team about
coming to Philadelphia
to help run the front office
of the 76ers at age 28.
GORDON: Now, how did
they hear about you?
Go figure.
A good question.
Jack Ramsey was
the coach, becoming
the coach and the GM of the
76ers and I'd never met him
and he called me out of a
clear blue sky and said,
I'd like to talk to
you about coming here.
I once asked him, I said,
Jack, what was that all about?
And all he ever said was there
was a lot more known about you
in Philadelphia than
you would have thought,
referring to the Phillies
minor league ball
club in Spartanburg.
GORDON: So they were
bragging on you.
Well, and the newspaper
people had come down
and done some stories on us in
Spartanburg, about promotions
and the things we were doing.
And I guess Jack said-- and
Jack probably had read that--
didn't know me
but that's what he
said-- he said there was more
known about you in Philadelphia
than you thought.
And so he brought me up there
and I spent that first year
with him.
And then one year
later, I'm heading
to Chicago as the general
manager of the Chicago Bulls
in the fall of 1969.
So I was on a fast track and my
hands were off of it, Gordon,
and there's a good lesson here.
God was orchestrating
all of this
because I wasn't
orchestrating any of it--
couldn't have.
To young people who are saying,
boy, I want to get ahead,
this, that and the other, I'm
saying, wait for God's timing.
GORDON: Right.
You know, he--
GORDON: Advancement
comes from the Lord.
Yeah.
That's what the Bible says.
And he'll take care of you and
he'll get you where he wants.
And so just take your
hands off of your career
and let God orchestrate it.
I'm living proof.
GORDON: You have to be diligent.
I know you--
PAT: That's right.
GORDON: You're very diligent.
PAT: And do your
work and do your job.
GORDON: Yes. and do it well.
Whatever your hand
finds to do, do it well.
PAT: Good.
Gordon, and here's the best
thing I tell young people,
don't worry about your next job.
Do your job right where
you are and max it out,
volunteer for everything.
Be one of those people who
says, what else can I do?
What else can I offer?
And if God wants to move you and
has other plans, he'll do it.
GORDON: I get this
question a lot--
and I know some
viewers are probably
having it right now--
how do I find my passion?
How do I discover what
I'm really good at so
that when the two come
together, I can be successful?
Well, that's the
meat of this book.
When your greatest talent
intersects with your greatest
passion, that's your
sweet spot right there.
Right there at that crossover--
that's your sweet spot.
And that's where
you want to live.
That's where you
want to get paid.
And that's where you
want to get educated.
I think another way of phrasing
it, Gordon, is God's will.
God dispatches us
down on this earth
with certain skills, certain
talents, certain abilities.
And I think it's important--
and I need to speak to parents
and grandparents, coaches, and
teachers, and youth workers--
boy, you have a big
job with young people
to recognize talent
that they have--
to recognize certain skills,
recognize certain potential
in young people.
GORDON: Right, and call it out.
And tell them about it.
GORDON: Yeah, call it out.
You know, to an
eighth grade girl--
Mary, you've got some
real writing ability.
You know, I'm so impressed
with the way you write.
I think you've got
a future there.
Well, Mary's not
going to forget that.
Or Fred, I see leadership
potential in you.
I don't know where it's
headed, but I tell you
what, you lead in the
classroom and I notice you out
on the playground, the other
kids are following you.
You've got great
leadership potential.
Listen, Fred's going
to remember that.
So we have a big job with our
children and grandchildren
to really recognize talent
and spot it and encourage it.
And then when a kid or
any of us become good
at something, Gordon,
we're excited.
GORDON: Yeah.
We're enthusiastic and
we're passionate about it,
if we're seeing success.
How do you deal
with the negative?
Because, you know, for
all the positive voices--
and I know you're
really oriented
to that and to the positive
to be encouraging--
what do you tell somebody who
has been told by a teacher,
you'll never amount to anything?
Or the parents that
say, you're just
going to be like your
father or whatever--
the real negative stuff that
can sometimes come your way.
What would you tell someone
how to deal with that?
Well, that's a great
question and it's
a great problem, isn't it?
GORDON: Yes, it's true.
And I would say, Gordon, is
to hopefully surround yourself
with enough of the positive
to eliminate the negative
or to alleviate or
minimize the negative.
If there are enough positive
people in your life,
I think they can overcome it.
These are called
voices in your head.
GORDON: Yeah.
I encourage people
to get the voice
of God going in your head.
And that's why you are--
You are fearfully
and wonderfully made.
Yeah.
And he has given you
certain things, too, for you
to develop.
And you've got to just
flush that into your brain.
And Gordon, let me try
and phrase this properly.
Walt Disney called these
people well poisoners.
GORDON: [LAUGHING]
Well poisoners.
These are negative,
downtrodden, defeated,
people who want to
drag you down, as well.
And Walt's advice
was, you've got
to get them out of your life.
Now, if that happens
to be your spouse--
GORDON: You've got a problem.
--or if it happens
to be a parent,
but if it's a boyfriend
or girlfriend--
GORDON: Yeah.
--or if it's certain friends
or if it's people that you do
have that opportunity, you
just have to get them out
of your life--
GORDON: Yeah.
--because these well
poisoners will destroy you--
Right
--if you let them.
And you've got to keep
that wellspring going,
because life's hard.
It can come at you
hard but if you
have that strength within
you that you can overcome it,
then--
And if you get around people,
Gordon, who are constantly
encouraging you and uplifting
you and rooting for you
and they're cheerleaders for
you, boy, that's important.
That is so powerful,
so meaningful.
And specifically, if it's
your parents or grandparents
who are saying, boy, I
see some talent here, son.
GORDON: Yeah.
I see some talent.
I can picture you doing
this, that, and the other
and planting those seeds--
putting a vision into
their minds in their hearts
as youngsters--
GORDON: Yeah, all
parents should do that.
--it sticks.
It sticks, Gordon.
Yeah.
It doesn't go away.
Prophesy good
things every occasion.
That's so good.
All right.
Well, the book is called
"The Success Intersection"
and it's available
wherever books are sold.
And, Pat, it's always a
pleasure to have you here.
Thanks for having me, Gordon.
It's good to see you.
I'm so pleased to see you.
Yeah.