God restored Riva Tims after her divorce and then sudden death of her ex-husband. In her book “When it All Comes Together,†Riva shares with others how to move forward in their lives.
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Gordon: HER WORLD
FELL APART, AND SHE WAS
LEFT PICKING UP THE
PIECES.
NOW PASTOR REVA TIMS
SHARES HOW SHE FOUND HOPE
IN THE MIDST OF CRISIS AND
HOW YOU CAN DO THE SAME.
THAT AND MORE ON TODAY'S
"700 CLUB INTERACTIVE."
> WELL, WELCOME TO THE
SHOW.
LET'S TAKE A LOOK AT THIS
WEEK'S TOP FIVE TRENDING
STORIES.
Efrem: AT NUMBER
FIVE...
* AMAZING GRACE
Efrem: THE QUEEN OF
SOUL RETIRES.
BORN IN MEMPHIS, RAISED
IN DETROIT, ARETHA
FRANKLIN REMINDS US OF THE
HARD ROAD THAT IS THE
AMERICAN DREAM.
Efrem: FRANKLIN TURNS
75 NEXT MONTH.
*
Efrem: AND SHE IS
COLLABORATING WITH
LONG-TIME FRIEND STEVIE
WONDER TO PRODUCE HER
FINAL ALBUM.
STRONG IS BORN FROM THE
OBSTACLES THAT WE
OVERCOME.
PAIN IS INEVITABLE.
SUFFERING IS ACTION.
Efrem: AT NUMBER
FOUR...
I DON'T CARE ABOUT
HEARING YOU.
I WANT TO HEAR GOD THROUGH
YOU.
Efrem: QUEEN LATIFAH
TURNS TO THE BIBLE,
TEAMING UP WITH HALLE
CARTER TO PRODUCE A
RELIGIOUS-THEMED DRAMA FOR
FOX.
THE SCROLL PROMISES TO
RECREATE SOME OF THE
BIBLE'S MOST POPULAR
STORIES IN THE PRESENT
DAY.
> NOW NUMBER THREE...
THE WHIP OR THE
NAY-NAY.
Efrem: TIM PEABODY
COULTIM TEBOWCOULD WHIP ACROSS 75
COUNTRIES WITH HIS
FOUNDATION ON FRIDAY, AS
HIS FOUNDATION HOSTS AN
UNFORGETTABLE PROM NIGHT
FOR KIDS WITH SPECIAL
NEEDS.
I FEEL LIKE A REGULAR
PERSON, NOT A PERSON WITH
SPECIAL NEEDS.
Efrem: THIS IS THE
PROM'S SECOND YEAR, AND
TEBOW PERSONALLY ATTENDED
EVENTS IN HAITI, FLORIDA,
AND ARKANSAS.
> Efrem: AT NUMBER
TWO...
THE GRAMMY GOES TO JOEY
AND RORY.
Efrem: AN EMOTIONAL
FIRST GRAMMY FOR RORY, FOR
BEST GOSPEL ALBUM.
MY WIFE'S DREAM WAS TO
MAKE A HYMNS ALBUM PRETTY
MUCH HER WHOLE LIFE.
SHE DIDN'T HAVE A CHANCE
TO DO IT UNTIL SHE WAS
DIAGNOSED WITH STAGE FOUR
CANCER.
Efrem: PAMELA MANN
TOOK HOME THE PRIZE FOR
BEST GOSPEL PERFORMANCE,
BUT THERE WAS A BUZZ FOR
THE BEST NEW ARTIST AWARD.
AND THE GRAMMY GOES
TO...
Efrem: CHANCE HONORED
GOD IN HIS ACCEPTANCE.
GLORY BE TO GOD.
[APPLAUSE]
I CLAIM THIS VICTORY IN
THE NAME OF THE LORD.
GLORY BE TO GOD.
I CLAIM THIS VICTORY IN
THE NAME OF THE LORD.
LET'S GO.
Efrem: AND IN HIS
PERFORMANCE WITH PAMELA
MANN AND KIRK FRANKLIN.
*
Efrem: AT NUMBER
ONE...THE 25th ANNUAL
MOVIE GUIDE AWARDS,
CELEBRATING FAMILY
ENTERTAINMENT, WITH HONORS
THIS YEAR FOR CBN FOUNDER
DR. PAT ROBERTSON FOR
LIFETIME ACHIEVEMENT.
Pat: IT IS A GREAT
HONOR.
AND I REALLY THINK THE
CREDIT BELONGS TO MEDIA --
THE MOVIE GUYS.
THEY DO SUCH A SUPERB GUY
AND IT IS A THRILL TO BE
PART OF THE CELEBRATION.
Efrem: AND POCAHONTAS
IS ALSO NOMINATED FOR TWO
AWARDS.
IT WAS ORIGINALLY AN
ASSIGNMENT FOR GORDON THAT
MUSHROOMED INTO A
30-MINUTE DOCUMENTARY.
I ALWAYS PRAY BEFORE I DO
A STORY THAT GOD WOULD
TAKE AHOLD OF IT, AND HE
DID.
Gordon: ORIGINALLY AN
ASSIGNMENT FROM GORDON.
I CAN HEAR THE ENTHUSIASM
IN THAT.
[LAUGHTER]
Efrem: BUT IT WAS A
CELEBRATED HONOR.
THAT IS NOMINATED FOR TWO
AWARDS.
I CAN'T SAY WHAT THE
RESULTS ARE BECAUSE THAT
SHOW WON'T ACTUALLY AIR
UNTIL EASTER, BUT
NOMINATED FOR THE FAITH
AND FAMILY AWARD AND THE
EPIPHANY AWARD.
IT WAS NICE TO BE IN THE
AUDIENCE AND SEE THAT ON
THE SCREEN.
NOMINATED WITH "THE
SHIELD," AND HERE IT IS AN
ASSIGNMENT FROM YOU.
Gordon: YOU'RE GOING
TO DISS ME FOR THAT.
Efrem: IT WAS
BEAUTIFUL.
Gordon: I GET NO
RESPECT.
I'M LIKE THE RODNEY
DANGERFIELD OF CBN.
Efrem: YOUR IDEA,
HONORED AND CELEBRATED.
Gordon: IT IS
CERTAINLY NICE TO SEE MY
FATHER HONORED --
Efrem: ABSOLUTELY.
Gordon: TO HAVE THAT
DISTINCTION TO SAY, HERE
WE ARE IN HOLLYWOOD, AND
WE'RE GOING TO HONOR HIM
FOR HIS DECADES OF
SERVICE.
Efrem: AND BEAUTIFUL.
I WANT TO TELL YOU, CORBIN
BERNSTEIN INTRODUCED THE
AWARD AND INTRODUCED YOUR
DAD ON STAGE.
NICE TO SEE.
THERE WAS A STANDING
OVATION FOR HIM.
I'M SITTING THERE AT THE
TABLE WITH HIM, AND YOU
COULD FEEL THE LOVE IN THE
ROOM, THE ADMIRATION, THE
RESPECT FOR ALL THAT HE
HAS DONE.
AND HERE IT IS, AND HE IS
RECEIVING THIS AWARD, AND
ALSO THEN TELLING PEOPLE,
WE'VE DONE ONE MOVIE AT
REGENT UNIVERSITY, AND
WE'RE AT WORK ON MORE.
SO THE CONTRIBUTIONS HAVE
NOT ENDEDED IT ALL.
ENDED IT ALL.
HE PLANS TO DO LOTS MORE.
AND THE PEOPLE IN THE
AUDIENCE RESPECT HIM.
IT WAS NICE TO SEE HIM
THERE.
Gordon: THE BEST IS
YET TO COME.
Efrem: HE IS AN
EXAMPLE, INDEED.
Gordon: WE HAVE COME
THIS FAR, AND GOD IS GOING
TO SEE US THROUGH.
> ALL RIGHT, LET'S TURN
TO THE GRAMMYS.
YOU'VE GOT TO BE A
CHRISTIAN TO WIN NOW.
Efrem: TILE TEL I'LL TELL YOU.
IT IS SO BEAUTIFUL TO SEE.
KENDRICK LAMAR WON FIVE
GRAMMYS LAST YEAR, AND HE
TEXTED A CONGRATULATORY
MESSAGE TO CHANCE THE
RAPPER SAYING, GOD IS ON
THE MOVE.
CHANCE THE RAPPER'S MUSIC
IS AMAZING.
AT THE END OF THAT
PERFORMANCE, HE HAD THE
AUDIENCE SINGING "HOW
GREAT IS OUR GOD."
THERE, A RAPPER RECEIVING
HIS THREE AWARDS THERE AND
HAS THAT AUDIENCE SINGING
"HOW GREAT IS OUR GOD," IN
HIS PERFORMANCE.
BEAUTIFUL.
AND HE MAKES NO BONES
ABOUT HIS FAITH.
IT IS SHOWN THROUGHOUT HIS
MUSIC.
I LISTEN TO HIS MUSIC A
LOT.
I'M GOING TO BE TAKING MY
SON TO HIS CONCERT WHEN HE
COMES HERE BECAUSE I DO
ADMIRE THE WORK HE DOES.
Gordon: WERE YOU
SURPRISED BY IT?
Efrem: WAS SURPRISED
JUST BECAUSE HE HASN'T
TAKEN THE SAME ROAD AS
OTHERS.
REALLY, THAT GENERATION IS
DISRUPTING THE NORM IN SO
MANY WAYS.
HE RELEASED THIS ALBUM
"COLORING BOOK,"
INDEPENDENTLY.
HE IS AN INDEPENDENT
ARTIST.
AND TO RECEIVE BEST RAP
ALBUM, BEST RAP ARTIST,
AND BEST NEW ARTIST FROM
AN INDEPENDENT PERSON --
THAT'S REALLY A SURPRISE.
Gordon: CONSIDERING
HOW DISRUPTIVE THE
INDUSTRY IS.
Efrem: IT IS.
Gordon: THE STUDIO
SORT OF MENTALITY, THE
TRAINDUSTRY MENTALITY, AND
NOW THAT YOU HAVE INTERNET
ACCESS TO THE MARKET, LET
THE MARKET DETERMINE WHAT
WINS.
Efrem: THAT'S RIGHT.
IT IS LEVELLING THE
PLAYING FIELD.
Gordon: IT'S NICE TO
SEE.
AND IT SEEMS LIKE
CHRISTIANS ARE WINNING.
Efrem: I'M ALL FOR
THAT.
Gordon: TO GOD BE THE
GLORY.
Efrem: TO GOD BE THE
GLORY.
Gordon: QUEEN
LATIFAH, SHE IS DOING A
CHRISTIAN MOVIE.
Efrem: SHE IS TEAMING
UP WITH HOLLY CARTER, AND
SHE HAS DONE A THE LOT OF
REALITY SERIES,
FAITH-BASED, FROM THE
PREACHERS OF ATLANTA, AND
FIX MY CHOIR, AND THOSE
ARE THINGS SHE IS KNOWN
FOR.
THIS IS ALL IN
DEVELOPMENT.
I'M NOT SURE WHEN WE CAN
ACTUALLY WATCH THE SCROLL,
BUT IT IS IN DEVELOPMENT
FOR FOX, TAKING BIBLE
STORIES AND MODERNIZING
THEM.
IT WILL BE INTERESTING TO
WATCH AND TO SEE WHAT
QUEEN LATIFAH -- HER
COMPANY IS CALLED "FLAVOR
UNIT," AND THEY'LL BE
TEAMING UP.
Gordon: ANY HINT OF
WHAT THE STORY IS?
Efrem: NO HINT ON
WHICH STORIES THEY'RE
GOING TO ACTUALLY TAKE
YET, BUT ALL OF THE
STORIES WILL BE BIBLE
STORIES, HOPEFULLY THAT
WE'RE FAMILIAR WITH AND
SOMEHOW THEY BRING THEM
INTO MODERN DAY.
I'M HOPING THAT IS DONE
WELL.
WHENEVER WE TACKLE THE
BIBLE ON SCREEN, IT ALWAYS
MAKES ME A LITTLE NERVOUS.
Gordon: WHY IS THAT?
Efrem: HOLLYWOOD HAS
A TRACK RECORD -- WILL
THEY GET IT RIGHT?
Gordon: WILL THEY GET
IT RIGHT?
Efrem: I CAN SAY THIS
FOR HOLLY CARTER, SHE DOES
HAVE A DOCTORATE IN
THEOLOGY.
SO THE FACT THAT IS WHO
QUEEN LATIFAH HAS TURNED
TO FOR HELP IN DOING THIS
IS A GOOD SIGN.
SHE HAS ACTUALLY GOT
SOMEONE IN MINISTRY SHE IS
WORKING WITH.
WE CAN HOPE AND PRAY.
Gordon: WE CAN HOPE
AND PRAY.
Efrem: WE'RE GOING TO
DO THAT.
Gordon: WE HOPE IT IS
GOOD.
FOR ME, I JUST SEE THIS
INCREDIBLE FLOWERING IN
OUR CULTURE TODAY.
IT DOESN'T SEEM TO BE
GETTING INTO THE NARRATIVE
AS MUCH AS I WOULD LIKE
IT, BUT THERE IS
DEFINITELY A GROUND SWELL
BUILDING THAT, YES, WE
NEED GOD.
WE NEED TO REMEMBER HIM
AND PUT HIM FIRST.
WE ARE ONE NATION UNDER
GOD.
Efrem: UNDER GOD.
Gordon: THAT WOULD BE
GREAT.
Efrem: AND THE BIBLE
IS FILLED WITH SUCH GREAT
STORIES THAT NEVER EVER
GET OLD.
WE CAN TURN TO IT EVERY
SINGLE DAY AND READ THINGS
AND SEE THEM IN A WHOLE
NEW WAY, BASED UPON WHAT
WE'RE EXPERIENCING AT THE
TIME.
IT WOULD BE NICE TO SEE
MORE OF THAT ON TV.
Gordon: IT IS THE
ONLY BOOK IN THE WORLD
THAT WILL DO THAT.
Efrem: INDEED.
Gordon: ALL RIGHT.
AARETHA FRANKLIN FINALLY
SAYING I'M RETIRING,
TURNING 75.
Efrem: I DON'T THINK
SHE WILL EVER STOP
SINGING.
THAT VOICE HAS TO BE
HEARD.
SHE IS GOING TO STEP AWAY
FROM THE REGULAR CONCERT
GRIND.
THIS IS HER LAST
FULL-LENGTH ALBUM.
SHE WANTS TO SPEND MORE
TIME WITH HER
GRANDCHILDREN.
75.
AND BEEN IN THE BUSINESS
SINCE BEING A KID.
SHE TALKS ABOUT THE FACT
THAT HER DAD USED TO MAKE
HER SING.
AND HER VOICE TOUCHED THE
CHURCH.
IT CONTINUES TO.
MY FAVORITE ARETHA
FRANKLIN SONG IS HEARING
HER SING "AMAZING GRACE."
Gordon: YOU DON'T
SING IT?
Efrem: NO, NO.
MY WIFE PROBABLY
APPRECIATES THAT.
> I DON'T THINK SHE IS
GOING TO GO AWAY.
SHE TAKES A BUS EVERYWHERE
BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T LIKE
TO FLY.
Gordon: YOU'RE 75, I
WANT TO SLEEP IN MY OWN
BED TONIGHT.
IT WILL BE GREAT TO HAVE
MY GRANDKIDS AROUND.
Efrem: I THINK SHE'LL
MISS IT AFTER A LITTLE
BIT.
Gordon: TIM TEBOW
CAN'T SEEM TO STAY OUT OF
THE NEWS.
AND HE IS ALWAYS IN THE
NEWS FOR A VERY GOOD
REASON.
Efrem: ABSOLUTELY.
HE USES HIS PLATFORM
CORRECTLY.
"A NIGHT TO SHINE," WE SAW
IT LAST YEAR AND IT CAME
BACK THIS YEAR.
THE BEAUTIFUL THING, IT
WAS LARGELY CHURCHES
HOSTING THIS PROM FOR
CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL
NEEDS.
IF YOU EVER HAVE A CHILD
WITH SPECIAL NEEDS IN YOUR
FAMILY OR YOU KNOW OF ONE,
IT IS NICE TO SEE THEM
CELEBRATED.
I HAD AN OPPORTUNITY, AS A
COLLEGE STUDENT, TO
WELCOME WITH SPECIAL-NEEDS
CHILDREN ON A REGULAR
BASIS.
THEY'RE OFTEN FORGOTTEN.
IT TAKES A LOT TO TAKE
CARE OF THEM, AND TO SEE
THEM CELEBRATED AND TIM
TEBOW DOING THAT, ALSO
WONDERFUL.
HE MANAGED IN ONE DAY TO
GET TO ALL OF THOSE PLACES
HIMSELF.
HE WENT TO ARKANSAS,
FLORIDA, TO HAITI, ALL IN
ONE DAY TO AT LEAST SHOW
HIS FACE AT FOUR TO FIVE
OF THOSE PROMISE.
Gordon: HE HAD TO BE
HELPED BY A PRIVATE PLANE.
Efrem: INDEED.
Gordon: BUT KUDOS TO
HIM TO DO THAT AND TO SAY
THIS IS THE RIGHT THING TO
DO AND LET'S LET THEM
SHINE.
Efrem: 75,000
CHILDREN.
Gordon: IF YOU'RE
LIKE ME AND YOU NEED HELP
STAYING CURRENT WITH
TODAY'S CULTURE, THERE IS
A WAY YOU CAN DO IT.
EFREM HOSTS A WEEKLY SHOW
CALLED "STUDIO 5."
YOU CAN CATCH IT ON ROKU,
APPLE TV OR GO TO
cbn.com/studio5.
UP NEXT, HOW TO
OVERCOME THE TRAIL OF
HEARTBREAK AND GRIEF.
PASTOR REVA TIMS OPENS UP
ABOUT HER PERSONAL JOURNEY
AND HOW TO FIND HOPE IN
THE MIDST OF CRISIS.
DON'T GO AWAY.
Gordon: JESUS SAID TO
HIS FOLLOWERS, "IN THIS
WORLD YOU WILL HAVE
TROUBLE.
BUT TAKE HEART, I HAVE
OVERCOME THE WORLD."
AND WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN
THINGS FALL APART.
PASTOR RIVA TIMS SEEMED TO
HAVE EVERYTHING UNTIL HER
WORLD BEGAN UNRAVELING.
TAKE A LOOK.
Reporter: RIVA TIMS
AND HER LATE EX-HUSBAND,
ZACHARY, WERE THE PASTORS
OF A MEGA CHURCH IN
FLORIDA.
WITH MORE THAN 7500
MEMBERS, THEY WERE DRIVEN
TO WIN SOULS TO JESUS.
RIVA WAS DEVASTATED WHEN
NEWS OF HIS INFIDELITY
SURFACED.
SHE TRIED TO KEEP THEIR
MARRIAGE TOGETHER, BUT
THREE YEARS LATER THEY
DIVORCED.
THEN IN 2011, ZACHARY'S
DEATH FROM AN OVERDOSE
SHOCKED HER AND GRIEVED A
COMMUNITY.
IN HER BOOK, SHE SHARES
HOW SHE OVER CAME
HEARTBREAK AND GRIEF.
Gordon: RIVA IS HERE
LIVE, AND THANK YOU FOR
BEING HERE.
THANK YOU FOR HAVING
ME.
Gordon: THINGS SEEMED
TO GO REALLY BAD VERY
QUICKLY.
WERE YOU SURPRISED HOW
QUICKLY IT WENT?
I WAS SHOCKED FOR IT TO
HAPPEN THAT QUICKLY AND
JUST THE INTENSITY OF IT.
SOMETIMES THE BLOWS ARE SO
HARD THAT IT WANTS TO TAKE
YOU OUT.
AND SO IT ALL CAME SO FAST
AND SO INTENSE.
Gordon: AS I
UNDERSTAND IT, YOU HAD,
LIKE, ZERO WARNING.
THERE WAS NO SIGN OF ANY
OF THIS.
NO.
NO.
JUST UP UNTIL AROUND THE
TIME WHEN I STARTED TO
REALLY REALIZE IT, BUT
HONESTLY, BUT AT THE TIME
OF THE AFFAIRS, I DIDN'T
HAVE ANY IDEA.
Gordon: NONE?
NONE.
Gordon: WHAT DO
PEOPLE SAY TO YOU NOW,
WHEN YOU SAY THAT TO THEM?
SOME CAN UNDERSTAND,
ESPECIALLY THOSE WHO HAVE
WALKED THROUGH THAT TYPE
OF SITUATION BECAUSE THE
WAY OUR MINISTRY IS, WHEN
YOU'RE TRAVELLING AND
MINISTERING AND GOING TO
CITY TO CITY AND TOWN TO
TOWN, IT IS NOT AS EASY TO
IDENTIFY THINGS LIKE THAT
IN YOUR HOME.
BUT YOU CAN TELL BY THE --
IN THE SPIRIT REALM.
EVERY WIFE OR HUSBAND
KNOWS WHEN SOMETHING IS
WRONG EVENTUALLY.
AND SO WHEN IT CAME TO THE
POINT WHEN I FINALLY
STARTED REALIZING IT OR
HEARING THE HOLY SPIRIT
TELL ME, IT TOOK ME OUT.
I COULDN'T BELIEVE IT.
Gordon: WERE YOU
ANGRY AT GOD?
YOU KNOW, I NEVER GOT
ANGRY ATED GOD.
I HAD A REALLY GOOD
FOUNDATION.
BUT I DID GET ANGRY.
AND I GOT ANGRY AT
EVERYONE AROUND ME.
I GOT ANGRY AT THINGS.
I GOT ANGRY AT THE
SITUATION.
THE WORD OF GOD SAYS, YOU
CAN BE ANGRY, BUT DON'T
SIN.
SOMETIMES ANGER CAN BE A
HEALTHY EMOTION.
I WAS ANGRY AT THE ENEMY,
FOR HAVING THE AUDACITY TO
COME AND ATTACK US THIS
WAY.
I WAS ANGRY AT JUST LIFE
IN GENERAL.
BUT I CAN'T SAY I WAS
ANGRY WITH GOD.
Gordon: WERE YOU EVER
ANGRY AT THE CHURCH?
YES.
Gordon: YOU GOT SOME,
WHAT I WOULD CONSIDER, BAD
ADVICE.
JUST SUCK IT UP AND MOVE
ON.
YOU'RE RIGHT.
I WAS ANGRY WITH THE WHOLE
RESTORATION PROCESS.
IT WASN'T DONE CORRECTLY.
AND BEFORE ZACH PASSED, HE
SAID, IF I HAD BETTER
COUNSEL, I WOULD BE WITH
MY WIFE TODAY.
SOMETIMES WHEN YOU'RE IN
THE THICK OF IT, YOU DON'T
KNOW.
BUT NOW I DO KNOW HOW TO
HANDLE RESTORATION IF
SOMEONE IS GOING THROUGH
THAT TYPE OF THING.
Gordon: HOW DO YOU?
HONESTLY, YOU KEEP THE
FAMILY TOGETHER.
WHEN YOU'RE GOING THROUGH
RESTORATION, YOU DON'T
SEPARATE THEM, THIS ONE IS
OVER THERE.
AND YOU DON'T SEPARATE THE
KIDS.
YOU PULL BACK FROM
MINISTRY.
YOU PULL SOMEONE ELSE IN
MINISTRY.
LET THEM BE THERE AT LEAST
A YEAR WHILE THE FAMILY IS
HEALING AND WHILE THE
FAMILY IS GETTING COUNSEL
TOGETHER.
GETTING UNDERSTANDING.
THAT, TO ME, IS THE MAJOR
KEY OF RESTORATION.
Gordon: HE EVENTUALLY
DIED OF AN OVERDOSE.
DID YOU SEE ANY OF THAT
COMING?
NO.
WHEN ZACH PASSED, IT HAD
BEEN TWO YEARS THAT WE
WERE SEPARATED AND TWO
YEARS DIVORCED, SO I
WASN'T IN HIS WORLD AT
THAT TIME.
SO, NO, I DIDN'T.
Gordon: DO YOU HAVE
ANY CLUE WHY HE WENT DOWN
THAT ROAD?
NO.
Gordon: DID YOU EVER
ASK WHY?
OF COURSE, EVEN FOR MY
CHILDREN.
I'M SURE EVERYTHING WILL
BE REVEALED ONE DAY.
Gordon: LET'S TALK
ABOUT YOU.
OKAY.
Gordon: HERE YOU ARE,
YOU WENT THROUGH WHAT, BY
ANY DEFINITION, IS
HORRIBLE -- NOT JUST ONE
REVELATION, BUT MULTIPLE
REVELATIONS.
AND YOU START TO WONDER,
WHO AM I MARRIED TO?
WHERE IS GOD IN THIS?
AND THEN YOU GO THROUGH A
RESTORATION PROCESS WHICH
IS OBVIOUSLY FAILED AND
DOESN'T WORK.
YOU GET INTO SEPARATION,
AND THEN YOU GET INTO
DIVORCE.
AND YOU HIT BOTTOM.
YEAH.
Gordon: AND WHERE DID
YOU COME OUT?
HOW DID YOU GET OUT OF
THAT?
LET ME TELL YOU, GOD IS
SO FAITHFUL.
BECAUSE THAT'S THE FIRST
THING.
THREE YEARS OF JUST GOING
THROUGH HARDSHIP, AND THE
NEXT FOUR YEARS IS WHAT
THIS BOOK IS ALL ABOUT,
COMING ALL TOGETHER.
STILL GOING THROUGH PAIN,
DEALING WITH ATTORNEYS,
DEALING WITH THE ESTATE,
DEALING WITH GRIEF.
SO ALL OF THAT WAS HARD.
BUT GOD HAS A WAY OF
PUTTING THINGS BACK
TOGETHER AGAIN.
AND THERE ARE THINGS THAT
YOU HAVE TO WALK THROUGH.
ONE OF THE THINGS I ALWAYS
SAY IS, LET GO AND LET
GOD.
THERE IS A SEASON WHERE
YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND IT,
YOU CAN'T MAKE SENSE OF
IT.
LET GO AND LET GOD.
YOU HAVE TO TAKE OFF YOUR
PRECONCEIVED NOTIONS OF
HOW YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO
WALK THROUGH IT.
BECAUSE NEW SEASONS AND
NEW DI DIMENSIONS, GOD GIVES
YOU NEW THINGS.
AND WHEN YOU'RE IN THAT
TIME OF STORM, YOU'VE GOT
TO LET HIM TAKE THE SAIL.
AND YOU'RE, LIKE, NO, I
WANT TO GO THIS WAY, GOD.
AND GOD SAYS, NO, I'M
LEADING YOU THIS WAY.
AT THE END OF THE DAY,
WHEN YOU'RE TRYING TO MAKE
SENSE OF ALL OF THE PUZZLE
PIECES, IT WILL NEVER
WORK.
BECAUSE YOU'VE GOT A PIECE
HERE AND SOME U UPSIDE
DOWN -- YOU HAVE TO LET
GOD START ALLOWING YOU TO
MAKE THE BORDER FIRST.
YOU HAVE TO START THE
BORDER FIRST, AND IT IS IN
THAT PLACE WHERE GOD
STARTS GIVING YOU
STRATEGY.
THAT'S WHEN YOU START
SAYING, AS FOR ME AND MY
HOUSE, WE'RE GOING TO
SERVE THE LORD.
AS FOR ME AND MY HOUSE,
WE'RE GOING TO SPEAK
FAITH.
AS FOR ME AND MY HOUSE,
WE'RE GOING TO DO WHAT GOD
SAYS.
AND IF YOU CAN'T DO THAT,
THEN YOU CAN'T COME INTO
THIS HOUSE.
Gordon: SO THAT WAS
YOUR FRAMEWORK?
YES.
HE SAID, I KNOW THE PLANS
THAT I HAVE FOR YOU.
HE HAS GIVEN US HOPE AND A
FUTURE, AND SO THAT'S THE
PICTURE ON THE BOX FOR THE
PUZZLE THAT WE CAN LOOK
TO.
HE ALWAYS GIVES US A
GLIMPSE OF OUR FUTURE.
WHAT THE LATE GREAT MILES
SAID, IF WHAT YOU SEE IS
NOT WHAT YOU SAW, THEN
WHAT YOU SEE IS TEMP TEMPORARY.
GOD TOLD ME THAT I WAS HIS
DAUGHTER.
I'M A CHILD OF THE MOST
HIGH GOD.
AND WHAT I'M LOOKING AT
DOESN'T LOOK LIKE A CHILD
OF THE MOST HIGH GOD.
SO UNTIL I CAN GET INTO
THAT FRAME OF THAT MINDSET
AND WALK IN THAT WAY, THEN
I'M GOING TO KEEP LOOKING
AT THE PICTURE ON THE BOX.
AND GOD IS PUTTING THE
PIECES TOGETHER.
AND NOW TODAY I CAN SAY I
CAN SEE HOW HE WORKED IT
ALL OUT.
Gordon: WHAT WOULD
YOU SAY TO SOMEBODY
WATCHING WHO IS IN THE
BEGINNING STAGES OF THIS.
AND FROM WHAT I HEAR OF
ALL OF THE STATISTICS,
THERE ARE A LOT OF
SINGLE-PARENT HOMES, THAT
IT'S MOM.
WHAT WOULD YOU SAY TO
THEM?
I WOULD ENCOURAGE THEM,
FIRST OF ALL, TO
UNDERSTAND THAT THE
TAPESTRY OF LIFE, WHEN YOU
LOOK AT YOUR PICTURE, IT
LOOKS KNOTTED AND MESSED
UP AND HORRIBLE.
BUT GOD IS WORKING ON A
MASTERPIECE FOR YOU.
IT WAS JUST LIKE THE WOMAN
WITH THE ALABASTER BOX.
SHE HAD GREAT WORSHIP ON
THE INSIDE OF HER, BUT
PEOPLE WERE LOOKING AT HER
EXTERIOR AND HER
SITUATION, AND THEY REALLY
WEREN'T LOOKING AT WHO GOD
HAD CALLED HER TO BE.
I WOULD ENCOURAGE YOU TO
PRESS THROUGH THE
BARRIERS, TO KEEP GETTING
TO JESUS.
PRESS THROUGH THE LABELS
OR ANY TYPE OF NAY-SAYERS
AND KEEP GETTING TO JESUS.
AND AS YOU GET TO JESUS
AND YOU WORSHIP HIM AND
LOVE ON HIM, THE SAME
ANOINTING THAT YOU POUR ON
HIM IS GETTING ALL OVER
YOU.
AND BEFORE YOU KNOW IT,
THAT SAME ANOINTING YOU
WERE LOOKING FOR IN JESUS,
HE HAS IT PERMEATING ALL
OVER YOU AND IN YOUR
SPIRIT.
BE ENCOURAGED TODAY THAT
AS EVERY OBSTACLE COMES UP
FROM THE ENEMY, DON'T LET
HIM STOP YOU.
YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH.
GOD HAS CREATED YOU TO BE
MORE THAN A CONQUERER.
I HAVE A TESTIMONY JUST
FOR YOU TO KNOW YOU CAN
LOSE EVERYTHING, BUT IF
YOU DON'T LOSE GOD, IT IS
ALL COMING BACK.
HE IS A RESTORER AND HE
WILL RESTORE GREATER THAN
WHAT YOU HAD BEFORE.
Gordon: AMEN.
AMEN.
ALABASTER BOX, LET THE
PERFUME OF YOUR BROKENNESS
FILL YOUR WHOLE HOUSE.
AMEN.
Gordon: JESUS WILL
REDEEM US.
HE'LL MAKE THE RIGHT FRAME
AND FILL IN ALL OF THE
PIECES.
> WE'RE OUT OF TIME, BUT
THAT WAS BEAUTIFUL.
RIVA, THANK YOU FOR BEING
WITH US.
AND IF YOU WANT TO KNOW
MORE, THERE IS A WONDERFUL
BOOK: "WHEN IT ALL COMES
TOGETHER."
AND YOU CAN GET IT
WHEREVER BOOKS ARE SOLD.
THANK YOU SO MUCH.
Gordon: COMING UP,
WE'RE HEADED TO CAMBODIA.
YOU'LL MEET A 10-YEAR-OLD
WITH AN ATTITUDE.
FIND OUT WHAT CHANGED HER
BEHAVIOR AND WHY SHE IS
NOW HELPING OTHERS WHEN WE
RETURN.
Gordon: RACHEL WAS A
10-YEAR-OLD WITH AN
ATTITUDE.
SHE ONLY WANTED TO PLEASE
HERSELF.
AND THEN ONE DAY ALL THAT
CHANGED AFTER RACHEL SAW
AN EPISODE OF "SUPERBOOK."
Reporter: LIKE MANY
CHILDREN, 10-YEAR-OLD
RACHEL HAD A HARD TIME
OBEYING HER MOM.
IN FACT, IT WAS BECOMING
QUITE A PROBLEM AT HOME.
I OFTEN ASKED RACHEL
FOR HELP WITH THE CHORES,
BUT SHE NEVER LISTENED TO
ME.
I FELT LIKE SHE WAS
REJECTING HER SISTER AND
ME.
IT MADE ME FEEL VERY SAD.
I DIDN'T CARE ABOUT
HELPING ANYONE.
I DIDN'T WANT TO SHARE
ANYTHING WITH MY SISTER.
I WOULD RATHER HAVE FUN
WITH MY FRIENDS THAN STAY
HOME TO HELP MY MOM.
Reporter: THEN A
VILLAGE PASTOR INVITED
RACHEL AND SOME KIDS TO
THE CHURCH TO WATCH THE
CLASSIC EDITION OF CBN
"SUPERBOOK" PROGRAM ABOUT
THE GOOD SAMARITAN.
I LIKED THE GOOD
SAMARITAN.
HE HAD A LOT OF LOVE IN
HIS HEART.
I WANTED TO BE LIKE HIM.
Reporter: AT THE END
OF THAT PROGRAM, RACHEL
PRAYED TO BECOME A
CHRISTIAN.
I LEARNED THAT JESUS
LOVED ME AND HE DIED FOR
ALL OF MY SINS.
Reporter: SHE ALSO
BEGAN TO THINK ABOUT WAYS
SHE COULD BE A GOOD
SAMARITAN, TOO.
I SHOULD NOT BE
SELFISH.
I SHOULD DO GOOD THINGS
FOR OTHER PEOPLE AND HELP
THOSE IN NEED.
Reporter: BACK HOME,
RACHEL PUT THOSE IDEAS
INTO ACTION AND HER MOM
NOTICED RIGHT AWAY.
RACHEL SHOWED LOVE FOR
HER FAMILY.
SHE STARTED HELPING ME
WITH THE HOUSEWORK.
WHEN I GOT SICK, SHE TOOK
CARE OF ME AND PRAYED FOR
ME.
Reporter: RACHEL TOLD
HER PARENTS WHAT SHE HAD
LEARNED ABOUT JESUS AND
THE GOOD SAMARITAN, AND
THEN SHE PRAYED WITH THEM.
AND THEY BECAME
CHRISTIANS, TOO.
NOW THE WHOLE FAMILY GOES
TO CHURCH TOGETHER.
RACHEL AND HER SISTER NOW
INVITE ALL OF THE
NEIGHBORHOOD KIDS TO COME
AND WATCH CBN'S NEW
RE-IMAGINED VERSION OF
"SUPERBOOK," WHICH IS
AIRING ACROSS CAMBODIA.
BECAUSE OF "SUPERBOOK,"
MY PARENTS, MY SISTER, AND
FRIENDS ALL RECEIVED JESUS
AS THEIR SAVIOR.
I'M SO HAPPY THAT GOD
HELPED ME TO LOVE OTHERS
AND CHANGED MY LIFE.
THANK YOU, CBN, FOR
"SUPERBOOK."
Gordon: YOU CAN BE A
PART OF IT.
YOU CAN BE A PART OF
HAVING THE CHILDREN OF THE
WORLD GET THE STORIES OF
THE BIBLE.
AND WHEN THEY UNDERSTAND
THESE STORIES, LIVES ARE
CHANGED.
YOU JUST SAW A WONDERFUL
STORY FROM CAMBODIA, AND
WE'RE HAVING GREAT RESULTS
THROUGHOUT SOUTHEAST ASIA.
YOU CAN BE A PART OF IT
WHEN YOU JOIN THE
"SUPERBOOK" D.V.D. CLUB.
GIVE US A CALL,
1-800-700-7000.
AND SAY, I WANT TO GIVE A
DONATION TO "SUPERBOOK."
> WE LEAVE YOU WITH THIS
WORD FROM MATTHEW: "IN THE
SAME WAY, LET YOUR LIGHT
SHINE BEFORE OTHERS SO
THEY MAY SEE YOUR GOOD
WORKS AND GIVE GLORY TO
YOUR FATHER, WHO IS IN
HEAVEN."
GOD BLESS YOU.
WE'LL SEE YOU AGAIN.