My husband cheated on me and does not want counseling. Should I stay with him or should I go? Will I go to hell if I don't give money to every homeless person that asks?
Read Transcript
Well, a couple
of minutes left.
Are ready to answer
some questions?
Let's go for it.
This is Carolina,
who says, I'm
ready to file for separation.
My husband cheated on me and
he does not want counseling.
He also cheated a lot
when we were just dating.
I realize I made a huge
mistake marrying him.
Should I stay for my love
and commitment to God
or should I go?
He said they did not have sex.
Is that adultery?
I no longer trust him.
We also have two sons.
Well, it's a tragedy.
It's a tragedy being played
out thousands of times
in our country.
The sexual revolution and
the infidelity that's there
is terrible.
Listen, that is a
grounds for divorce
under what Jesus had to say.
And what you've got is
an intolerable situation.
You have a philanderer
as your husband.
But there was a
former president who
was a philanderer and
his wife stayed with him.
But I think in your case,
you're probably better off
to finally get a settlement
where you get your money,
you get looked after,
and you get free.
Because this thing will
way down on you and
it will tear you apart.
And your ego, your
psyche, your inner being
will be damaged permanently.
So I think, get out of it.
This is Robert who
says, Pat, I was recently
told by a homeless person that
because I did not give him
any money in response
to his request
that I was going to hell.
Am I going to hell if
I do not give money
to every homeless
person that asks?
I think that homeless person
is closer to hell than you are.
I think he's a bum and he's
trying to play on your sympathy
and extort money from you.
The ruses they use if you--
I've worked the streets of
New York and I know how it is.
And what they'll do,
they will lie to you.
They'll tell you all this
stuff and what they want.
One of them will lie, I want
to go across to Staten Island.
I need some money.
OK, look.
I hear you want food.
Let's go, I'll take
you to the automat,
and I'll buy you lunch.
You're gonna do what?