Rosemary Trible shares about her efforts to combat sexual assault on university campuses and bring healing to victims.
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I'm a freshman, I've been
on this campus for two weeks
and I was sexually
assaulted six days ago.
And no one tells you
where to go from there.
NARRATOR: Most people
can't comprehend
the trauma of sexual
assault. But Rosemary Trible
understands.
She survived a rape at gunpoint.
Her Emmy award
winning documentary
Be the Change teaches
students about the risks
of sexual assault on campus, and
challenges universities to make
campuses safe for everyone.
Rosemary Trible is
here with us now.
And we welcome you to
the show today, Rosemary.
Thank you, I'm honored
to be here with you.
Well this is a subject
near and dear to your heart
because you have personally
experienced this.
You were a victim.
Yes back in 1975.
I'd done a show, a television
talk show on sexual assault
and a rapist saw the
show and was infuriated.
Four days later he put a
gun to my head and said,
OK, cute talk show host, what do
you do with a gun in your head?
So I went through my own
night of complete horror.
And at the end he drug me to the
window, and again with that gun
said, I know who you are,
I know where you live,
and I promise I'll
kill you if you tell.
And that's that dagger
of fear that a victim
feels, which is sometimes
worse in the journey of healing
than even that moment.
But the moment he
was out that window
I reported him and
he was never found.
But that's not what
happens most of the time.
I mean, that fear that is
established in that moment
keeps a lot of victims silent.
I mean, what are you
doing to counter that?
To bring women to
the place-- and men,
because sometimes it's a male
that is accosted like this--
to the place where
they're free to say,
this happened to me, help.
And even though we're seeing
those reportings going up,
part of that is
positive because it
means that young men and
women, it affects both,
are actually reporting.
Silence is the greatest
enemy of healing.
And they say that one
in five female students
will be sexually assaulted
during their four
years in college.
But one in 16 men
will experience
some form of sexual
assault. So what we're doing
is having three
different programs that
can help a university
throughout an entire year
to combat sexual assault,
to redeem and restore
those sexually assaulted,
bringing them hope and healing.
But secondly, Terry, to change
the cultural understanding
our college campuses to empower
these students to be the change
and how to work with other
people that come to them
that have been affected.
So we have three different
programs that we are using.
Let's look at
what you have here.
All right.
One is our celebration
program, which we've
been doing for three years.
And we're putting together
these Fear 2 Freedom
kits for those that
go to the hospital
or to a rape crisis center that
have been sexually assaulted.
They don't realize
that all their clothes
have to be kept for evidence.
And so in our hospitals they're
walking out in paper scrubs.
So these are sized sweatpants,
t-shirt, underwear, toiletries
all the way up to 2x.
And it has toothpaste,
toothbrush, a brush,
sometimes they're
going to foster care,
sometimes they're
going to a shelter.
And then this
little freedom bear
is one of the most
special things.
The forensic nurse would give
this little bear to the victim
and say, he has a
little backpack.
Take out a little
piece of paper,
write the person's
name that wounded you,
or a stick figure
if you're a child.
Open up the heart of the
bear and put it inside.
And as you feel a
little stronger,
take it out and put it in water.
It's dissolving paper.
So first the words
disappear and then
the whole paper disappears
as a symbol they don't
have to stay stuck as a victim.
Just recently at George
Mason-- and we've
done this event for three years
here at Regent and Liberty--
but a young woman came up to
me and said, I have a bear.
And I knew immediately
what she meant.
And as I held her
she said, you'll
never know being able
to put on fresh clothes.
To also get the note that
the students write personally
after they assemble the
kits that goes in that kit
to the victim.
And then they actually
put it in the ambulance.
And she said holding
that little bear
and continuing to sleep
with that beer every night
has changed my life.
So now we have
expanded nationally.
To this day we've done over
13,000 of these Fear 2 Freedom
kits to victims.
In 18 universities and with 30
hospitals and community groups.
But now we want to
reach 400 universities
across this country.
And we're doing
this by this film.
Talk about the film.
It's-- be the change.
Yes.
And what do you want
to accomplish with it?
What is saying?
Well, what it's doing is
it's talking about consent,
bystander intervention.
It's giving survivors
telling their stories.
It's giving United
States senators
who actually put together
these Fear 2 Freedom
kits, which was an extraordinary
event just a few weeks ago.
But it's sharing about the
importance of nationally being
concerned about this issue.
And it also provides a
yearlong programming.
So it has discussion
groups, it has
the president challenging
them to sign a pledge
to be the change.
They take home a
little pocket resource
card that has their pledge, but
also has national statistics,
but also they put in their
own-- the university--
their police, their counseling.
So it's a real positive tool.
It can be used for sororities,
fraternities, athletics,
the Washington Redskins
are supporting us.
In fact, we're doing a Redskins
event this next Monday.
You know what I love
about it is that it really
gives people who have a genuine
concern about this voice.
Yes.
I mean, it's more
than just going, tsk,
tsk, tsk, shouldn't do that.
It's standing up and
being heard and making
the entire campus feel some
sense of responsibility for it.
Well we want to mention you
won an Emmy with Be The Change,
and so that certainly
has been a plus.
Well that was certainly a
surprise and a blessing to us.
But more than
anything it just helps
universities across the
country know that we
are a good, sound program.
Top notch.
And that this film is
very professionally done
and can help them
in so many ways.
So we hope people will go to our
website fear2freedom.org/change
and they can see the trailer
of the film if they wish.
That's wonderful.
You're doing a great
work and touching
many, many lives along the way.
I want to say, if you'd like
more information Be the Change
program or Faith to
Freedom, log on to cbn.com
and we'll lead you
to all of that.
And if you've been the
victim of abuse in your past
and you need someone to
talk to, give us a call.
We have someone
standing by right
now by the phones
ready to pray with you.
You don't even
have to tell us who
you are, you can call
anonymously and just say,
will you pray with me.
The number us toll free, it's
1-800-700-7000 and we'd love
to hear from you, love
to pray with you today.
Thank you.
Thank you.
What a privilege to be with you.
Thank you, Terry.