No matter how I've tried, she says she is not interested in a relationship with me. Should I put it all behind me? I was scared into answering an altar call at a Fire-and-Brimstone revival. It didn't "take".
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Time to answer some questions.
Are you ready?
This first bring it
on question comes
from Suzette who says, "Dear
Pat, when my daughter was
a 20-year-old
college student, she
dated a 30-year-old married
man who lied about everything
concerning himself.
I gently voiced my concerns, and
she severed all ties with me.
She is now 40, and her husband
is serving a long prison
sentence.
She has three children I've only
seen three times in 17 years.
No matter how I've
tried, she says
she's not interested in
a relationship with me.
Should I put it all behind me?"
That kid is one of the most
rebellious, stupid people I've
heard about in a long time.
It's unbelievable.
She brought all the
problem on herself.
I mean, having an affair with a
guy 10 years older than she is
and a mother who loves her.
To turn away from her, I
don't know what to say.
You know, they use the
term you made your bed
now you get to lie in it.
That daughter is doomed, doomed
for a life of misery because
of her rebellious spirit.
"The way of the transgressor,
" the Bible says, "is hard."
But what would you do?
I'd continue to pray for them.
You can send her a letter
saying, I'll always love you.
You've made very bad
choices in your life.
I've tried to love you and
tell you what a better way.
But when things
really get bad, just
know that Mother
is here for you.
Write her a letter like
that, and then pray for her.
Leave the rest of it in
the hand of the Lord.
All right.
This is Janine who says, "I
was brought up in the church
and was scared into answering an
altar call at an old time fire
and brimstone revival.
It didn't 'take' and I
continued in a lifestyle of sin
until much later.
I know when my heart changed
and I surrendered to the Lord,
but this former revival
date keeps coming up.
Since John states that
no one who is a Christian
continues to sin,
isn't it safe to say
that I became a true born-again
Christian later in life?
Am I crazy to think that the
church wants the right to judge
me for my sinful life earlier?"
Nobody is judging you.
I mean, who's keeping score?
I mean, you know, it's the Lord.
You have given your
heart to the Lord
whether it was a
revival meeting that you
said you were scared into,
or whether it was later
on, whatever it didn't "take".
If anybody is in Christ,
he is a new creation.
Old things are passed away
but it will always become new.
When did you become
a new creation
and what's the church got to do
about beating you up about it?
It's nobody's
business, you know?
It's between you and God.
So don't sweat it.
Live for the Lord and know
that he's forgiven you
if you indeed have turned
to Him as you said you have,
all right?
This is Barbara who
says, "I have a Bible
app on my mobile phone
and recently noticed
that in the King James
Version, the name of Philistia
was changed to Palestina
in Exodus 15:14, Isaiah
14:29, and Isaiah 14:31.
Who would change
the name like this?
I thought the scriptures,
especially in the King James
version, would be
protected by law.
Also, would this be a sign
that the 'famine' concerning
the word of God is starting?"
It's two names that
are the same thing.
One was called-- named
after the Philistines
and that other was
called Palestine.
So big deal.
What's your problem?
Look, the King James
was a translation
from the Textus Receptus, which
was put together by Erasmus.
It did have some
flaws in the Greek
and the later translations
have cleaned it up
if I can use that term.
More recent documents
we have discovered
is getting us closer
to the originals.
So minor things like that
do not affect your faith.
We leave you with our
Power Minute from Numbers.
"The Lord bless
you and keep you.
The Lord make His
face shine upon you
and be gracious to you."