Richard was mortified when he arrived to the scene of a car crash and the dying driver asked him to pray out loud—he didn't know how. This led him to confronting the emptiness he felt, and he realized what he was missing.
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Traffic was stopped,
and I actually
drove right up to the remains
of this green Mercedes.
And it was on its side with the
roof facing me as I pulled up.
NARRATOR: On August 4th,
2013, deputy Richard Adair
of the Ross County Sheriff's
Department in Missouri
responded to an
accident involving two
cars in a head-on collision.
It was obvious that this
was a really bad accident.
It wouldn't be surprising
if it was a fatal.
The girl, the driver,
Katie all I could see
was the top of her head and
one hand that was sticking out.
I actually held her
hand, and talked to her,
and tried to calm her.
NARRATOR: But none
of his training
or 30 years of
experience prepared him
for what came next.
She said she wanted
to pray out loud,
and then I became mortified.
NARRATOR: Richard had
grown up in church,
but to him a prayer was
just an empty ritual
to a far away, uncaring God.
I didn't know how
to pray out loud.
I knew, you know, the Our
Father, I knew the Hail Mary.
I didn't know how
to pray out loud.
That, for me, personally,
it was mortifying.
Curtis White, the
gentleman there,
I asked, can you pray with her?
Yes, no problem.
And he took her hand
and I made the excuse
to go check the other
driver, in the other vehicle.
NARRATOR: The other driver
suffered minor injuries,
but had been drinking
and charged with a DUI.
As for Katie, it took
fire crews two hours
to safely cut her out
of the tangled wreckage
and put her on a chopper
to the nearest trauma unit.
Meanwhile, Richard couldn't stop
thinking about the young woman,
who despite being in
excruciating pain and holding
onto life, continued
asking people to pray.
Katie never screamed.
She never cried out loud.
She never cursed.
She never was angry.
All she did was pray out loud.
And I just couldn't believe that
as a 57-year-old man how that
young girl had that much
faith in God, and I didn't.
NARRATOR: That's because
over the past year
Richard had been
trying to come to terms
with the disappointments and
failures in his own life,
and was searching for
meaning and purpose.
You know, I wanted
to go to church.
I guess I was looking for
something I was missing.
NARRATOR: Then later, Richard
and his wife Debbie visited
Katie and her family at Blessing
Hospital in Quincy, Illinois.
I looked at my
wife, and I said,
I can't believe how
happy everybody is,
like, it's almost like
we're at a birthday party.
And her mother looked
at me and said,
we could be planning a funeral
right now and Katie's alive.
And because of God's
grace Katie's alive.
NARRATOR: Finally,
Richard understood what
he had been struggling with.
I was missing a
relationship with God.
I had no relationship with God.
NARRATOR: Soon afterwards,
Richard and Debbie
went to a local church service.
I knew it the first
time I was there
and we were talking
about God and Jesus,
and it just-- it clicked.
I don't know how to explain it.
It just-- I knew at that moment.
It was like someone opening
your eyes for the first time.
NARRATOR: In the
coming months, Richard
started reading the
Bible and praying.
As he did, he came to
understand and accept
God's love and forgiveness.
During that time he committed
his life to Jesus Christ.
I realized that I had
to become right with God
and correct things.
I had to let go of anger
that I held against others
and just let it go.
It's not for me to judge.
It's over.
Release that.
Let it go.
NARRATOR: As he grew in
his relationship with God,
the people he felt
he needed to share
his new faith with the
most were his children.
I never even talked to
my own children about God.
I mean they went to
parochial schools.
They did all the sacraments
that our religion
had you do-- things I failed to
teach them, and that was hard.
It's not easy go to your
children, your grown children
and saying, "Hey, I messed up.
I did know God and didn't know
how to show you who God was."
NARRATOR: As Richard
lived out his faith,
Debbie and his children
also made a commitment
to Jesus Christ.
Harry, I'm a 53-year-old
man who's 30 years as a cop,
and I'm filling up
because it's emotional.
And it is.
It's hard to explain.
It's sometimes hard
to put into words.
God used Katie that
day, and her suffering.
NARRATOR: And it's all because
of a young woman, a stranger,
who had the faith to pray.
It's a simple-- prayer
is just talking to God,
and having that relationship
to be able to do that.