Musician, TV star and former NBA player Ben Tankard discusses living a life of hope and purpose in Christ, and learning through failure.
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When it came time for Ben
Tankard to pick a college,
he had 35 scholarship offers
for basketball and 30 others
for playing the tuba.
Who knew?
He's a true Renaissance man.
And if you want to
know his secret,
it's because he lives
a full tank life.
Ben Tankard is the King of
Tankard Palace on Bravo TVs
Thicker Than Water.
He's also the godfather of
gospel jazz music, a former NBA
star, and a
motivational speaker.
With his many
talents, Ben says he's
doing what he was born to do.
In his book Full Tank Life,
Ben shares the changes
to making your daily routine
that clear you for takeoff
and fuel your dreams.
Well, Ben Tankard
is here with us now.
And Ben, we welcome
you to the 700 Club.
It's great to have you here.
Thank you so much
for having me.
You're so sweet.
You know, we're talking about
all of the wonderful blessings,
and successes, and victories
that you've had in your life.
But I want you to talk
about your beginnings.
Because sometimes we let the
stuff that happens around us
define us.
And that didn't happen for you.
But your beginnings were lean?
Oh yes, we were very,
very poor when I grew up.
I was six foot six by the
time I was in the sixth grade.
Wow.
And so I'm 18 inches taller
than the rest of the class.
And they're saying, Tank, how
many years did you stay back?
I'm not dumb, I'm just tall.
[LAUGHING]
But we were very, very poor.
Public assistance, powdered
eggs, powdered milk,
Hamburger Helper
without the hamburger.
And I thought that my
way out of the ghetto
would be pro basketball.
But I was a tuba player.
So I loved the music, but
I liked the basketball.
But the basketball was
just because I was tall.
Well, I mean that
would seem logical.
You know, anyone
seeing a young guy
that's got that kind of
height as part of his gift
would say NBA.
My parents, they
didn't help matters.
Because we were
so poor that when
I wanted to choose between
the basketball and the tuba
scholarship, I wanted
to go with the tuba.
Well, I love what
your dad said.
What did he say to
you, something about--
He said son, we're black,
you're tall, we're poor.
Play ball.
[LAUGHING]
A wise man.
And so I went the
basketball route
not because that
was my true heart.
I went the basketball route
because I felt like that
would be a meal ticket.
And I went to college and
dropped out after one year.
I went pro in the minor league.
Here I am with the
opportunity to work out
with Jack Ramsey, the coach
of the Portland Trailblazers.
If I can just get
through this camp--
You're on your way.
I might be the guy coming
off the bench behind Clyde
the Glide, who knows.
But what happened?
I got injured.
Early on?
Injured in camp.
And they cut me from the team.
So here I am with no education,
no money, and a Jheri curl.
Wow.
You know, I want you
to talk about what
happened to you then.
Because you were
alone in a dark room--
I mean, you've got to feel
like you played all your cards
and this is what
you're left with.
And everybody can look back
and have thoughts about gee,
if I could do it over again.
But what happened to
you in that dark room?
Well, I felt kind of
like I'm on my own cross.
And God, why has
though forsaken me.
Yeah.
You know, that's how I
felt. But I had enough sense
to get myself up
and go to church.
Because I was born in church--
my parents were ministers--
but I never accepted
the Lord for myself
because I would just kind
of living off their wings.
But away from home, nothing
to turn to except God,
I decided let me try this.
I went to church really
to get something to eat.
I knew they would
have chicken dinners.
And I went to get a chicken
sandwich and messed around
and got saved.
And the minister
called me up and told
me to put my hands on the keys.
I had never played keyboard.
I had played tuba.
So I'm like why is
he praying for--
That is just a prophetic
move on his part
to call you forth to do that.
And he tells me to put my
hands on the keys by faith
because God has a
new destiny for me.
I'm like, what is this
guy talking about?
Did he know your music
background at all?
Or your tuba?
He knew nothing except that
I was this former basketball
player that hobbled
into this church.
Wow.
And I put my hands
on the keys and I
begin to play the first time
like a professional jazz
musician in church.
Wow.
And I didn't know
if it came that night
or if it was in
me the whole time.
Wow.
But if it was in
me the whole time,
I wouldn't have known it because
I was chasing the basketball.
Yeah.
Wow.
And my mission in life is
then to encourage people
that are at that crossroads
that don't know what they're
supposed to be when they grow
up, there is life after death.
And I'm the biggest
failure in the room.
But God blessed me.
I mean, I've had two divorces.
I've had bankruptcy.
I've had my parents both die
within a year of one another.
But now.
But now-- thicker than water.
A hit TV show with
a blended family,
great wife-- Jewel-- five
kids, three grandkids.
I'm a pilot.
I fly my own airplanes
to my concerts.
My music is played
in every country.
I am happier than a
witch in a broom factory
with a 90% off coupon.
[LAUGHING]
We get questions like this
all the time here on our Bring
It On segment--
how do I find out
what my destiny, what
my purpose in life is?
What do you say to
people who say that?
Look at your left hand
and put in that left hand
what makes you tick.
What do you like?
What do you lose time doing?
You know, times get away
from you because you love it.
And that makes you tick.
Then look in this
hand at what makes you
ticked-- what makes you mad.
Yeah.
For me, I love
music and motivation.
And here I hate poverty and
sickness and depression.
So somewhere between
what makes you tick
and what makes you
ticked is your purpose.
That's where you find it.
You know, you
could've missed yours.
And that's true for a lot of us.
We pursue our dream rather
than asking God what
did you create me within mind.
I think we get caught
up with Goliath.
But I don't think Goliath
was sent to defeat David.
I believe Goliath was
sent to make David famous.
I like that.
I like that.
So the bigger the problem,
the bigger the victory
on the backside of that problem.
You know, Jesus died and there
was life after that death.
There was life after the
death of my basketball career.
Had I known that God had
all this planned for me,
I would have never
dressed out for PE.
You would have
gotten there sooner.
Absolutely.
You know, I was hijacked by
my own dreams which we're not
really God's plan for me.
But maybe that's
part of the struggle,
because it brings
us to surrender.
Do you think?
Absolutely.
And I think in
times of depression,
in times of confusion,
that's where
our character is developed.
Because riches can be deceitful.
Oh, maybe the worst.
And as a motivational speaker,
I speak to NBA players.
And the reason they ask me
to come talk to the players
is that they say
to take somebody
with money to tell somebody
with money that it's not
about the money.
Boy, that's the truth.
That's the truth.
God has given you
an amazing platform,
an amazing gift on many levels.
But music is one of them.
So I'm going to let you go
get ready, because you're
going to give us a treat today.
Absolutely.
So if you'll go get
ready to play, Ben.
I want to tell people
about your book.
The book is called The Full
Tank Life, fuel your dreams
and ignite your destiny.
It's available nationwide.
And don't forget to check your
local listings for air dates
and times for
Thicker Than Water.
And lastly, for more,
check out Ben's latest CD.
It's called Full Tank 2.0.
And it's available for
purchase or download
wherever music is sold.
But now to play us to break here
is the very gifted Ben Tankard
with How Great is our God.
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