NFL Safety Don Carey shares his journey from party boy athlete to follower of Christ.
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NARRATOR: Since 2009, Detroit
Lions safety, Don Carey,
has made a name for
himself as a play-maker.
Every week he goes up against
the toughest competition
in football, but as he looks
back at his path to the NFL
he says trying to beat
his opponent on the field
pales in comparison
to overcoming
the obstacles he
faced growing up
with a single mother
and three sisters.
You know, my mom worked
two jobs to provide.
She still struggled.
Imagine not being able to pay
your gas bill in Michigan when
it's cold outside.
NARRATOR: His mom
took them to church,
but Don blamed God for all the
hardships they had to endure.
I lumped Christianity
in that same path
as fatherlessness, the
same pile as poverty,
the same pile as everything
that I didn't want in my life.
And I kind of used all
of that as motivation
to go and be successful,
but I look back now
and would say hatred was my
motivation-- hated for poverty,
hatred for my father, hatred
for a fate that seemingly kept
my mother oppressed or whatnot.
NARRATOR: So Don began
searching for something else
to identify with.
What was it do you believe
you were looking for?
I was looking for God, and I
think all religions or anyone
claiming to be spiritual
at the core of that you're
looking for God.
NARRATOR: While
in high school he
thought he found
what he was looking
for in African Spiritualism.
You know, the idea that
the black man is God,
and that really became very
appealing to me, so that kind
of became my foundation.
Don's mother decided to
relocate the family to Norfolk,
Virginia where she married a man
that would become Don's father.
My dad is who I give that
title to William H. Robinson
the third because
he really stepped in
and he took that role
upon himself to provide
for our family, to teach us, to
guide us, and to discipline us.
I learned so many
lessons from him.
NARRATOR: After high
school, Don attended
Norfolk State University
on a football scholarship.
After four years at
NSU, Don was selected
in the sixth round
of the 2009 NFL draft
by the Cleveland Browns.
At the time, Don was all
about the party lifestyle
and used his religion
to justify it.
If I'm in touch with African
Spiritualism and nature
and spirituality there's
absolutely nothing wrong
with me smoking weed, right?
Drinking, having a good.
I'm not hurting nobody else.
We can actually go ahead
and do those things,
so my moral compass was wrong.
NARRATOR: He was waived by
Cleveland during training camp,
but picked up by Jacksonville.
And he says it was the greatest
thing to ever happen to him.
Because that's
when God shattered
my whole mindset
of Christianity.
So I walk into the Jacksonville
Jaguars locker room
and I see guys like Rashean
Mathis, Aaron Kampman, Maurice
Williams-- all these guys
who are millionaires,
but they are sold out
believers in Christ.
And it was something about them
that kind of drew me to them.
You said you walk in, you
see these Godly men-- I
mean, what did that do to you?
Like I said, it rocked my
understanding of Christianity,
and it really caused
me to sit back
and question you know
OK, maybe I should
look into this a little more.
You know, I still thought
it was something else
for weak-minded
people, I just couldn't
say it was for weak
or helpless people
anymore, because they had
every material thing that
would every need in
life, but yet they
still bent the same
knee to the God
that my mom who had nothing.
So I looked at it differently.
NARRATOR: Eventually,
the team chaplain
invited Don to attend a
conference called Professional
Athletes Outreach.
He wanted to know more,
so he decided to go.
It's a three day
seminar where they
bring in different
individuals and they
give 30 minute
sessions on the gospel
and living out faith
as a professional.
Listening to those guys talk
is like every session was
a dagger right into my heart.
And then we would
have breakout sessions
and different veterans in
the NFL would lead them.
And I remember to this
day Tommy Davis led ours,
and the passion that he had
for the Lord it just oozed out.
And everything he said
was a dagger to my heart.
NARRATOR: Don was
beginning to understand
what he'd been missing, and he
gave his life to Jesus Christ.
I came to the realization that
the faith is about surrendering
to a holy and
sovereign God, and when
I came to that understanding it
led me down the path I am now.
NARRATOR: Today
as a Detroit lion,
Don knows without a doubt where
his identity and purpose come
from.
When he's not on the
field he stays busy
working with his ministry,
which is geared toward preaching
the gospel of Christ.
In fact, he's in
seminary studying
how to better share
the love of Christ
with others, especially those
who are searching to fill
a void that only God can fill.
I've come to the understanding
that the only religion that
properly conveys who that God
is is the Christian faith.
The only religion that
conveys the love of that God
is the Christian faith,
and more so than anything
I want for you to
understand that God
is father who loves us enough
to know the numbers of the hairs
on our head, but just
having an understanding
that there is a personable
God who loves us
and who works all things out
for our good in the end I think
is paramount for
each individual.