After losing his sister and part of his brain in a car accident, a former young aspiring athlete discovers he is more than just another miracle
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It was a normal morning, and
the doorbell started ringing.
Went to the front door, and
noticed it was my neighbor.
And she said, your kids
have been in an accident.
The doctor comes
out, and he said
that she has suffered a
devastating brain injury.
I know what devastating means.
We had the funeral
for Sasha on Saturday,
and then our total concentration
was on Tristan's health.
They were in the monitoring
the bleed of Tristan's brain
and told us if it
didn't quit, he
was going to have to do surgery.
He does have a blood clot
there, and I'm probably
going to have to remove
part of the brain,
and that area of the brain
controls the left side.
And there's a very,
very good possibility
that he'll be paralyzed
and at the minimum,
may we not have any purposeful
movement on the left side.
And after getting the
news we had about Sasha,
I think I told
him, I don't care.
If you can save his
life, I'll carry him
wherever he needs to go.
We were 3 and 1/2 weeks
into the induced coma,
and they took him off
the ventilator one time.
He was trying to talk to him.
And it was sure a blessing
when you hear his voice
for the first time.
You still have that doubt
until you hear him speak,
and it was a great joy.
Whenever I first woke up
from my coma, I woke up
and I was in pain.
My whole right side of my
brain is completely dead,
like, there's nothing there.
And with that, it
broke me down because I
was thinking what am I
going to do with just
my left side of my brain?
I mean, it's not
very functional.
I really never moved.
I would never be able to
walk again they told me.
I might not be able
to play sports again.
I was scared that I
wasn't going to be
the same kid I was going back.
I was scared that I might
have to be in a wheelchair.
Whenever my parents told
me that my sister died,
I had this feeling
already that she was gone.
Growing up, Sasha-- she
was my pretty much idol
as I was in sports.
I wore the same number as her.
Sasha was always
at my practices.
She wanted the best
for me in my life.
She always pushed
me to be the best,
and when I didn't want
to, she got on me for it.
She gave me the drive.
She was there with me.
Any time that she could go,
she wouldn't miss an event.
I'll never forget those moments.
And I totally trusted in God,
and I told God what he decides
is I'm going to be
happy with my life.
The first thing
they did was tell us,
we're going to go
get the rehab ladies,
and then we're going
to get him up and let
him walk this afternoon.
And I'm thinking, he's from
69 pounds to 53 pounds.
You can wrap your fingers
around his ankles,
and they're going to get him
up on the side of the bed
and try to get him to walk.
That was my thoughts.
And they did.
Wasn't a beautiful
walk, but it was a walk.
Whenever I got
up out of the bed
and I walked down
that hallway, I
got it in my heart and my mind
that whatever I set my mind
to do, I'm going to do it.
And I'm going to do
it the best I can,
and that I'm never
going to give up.
I had to learn
everything over again.
How to write and read.
They had these
puzzles with shapes,
so I had to put,
like, circles where
the circle was, or like the
square where the square was.
How to tie my shoe and I
struggled with that a lot.
It frustrated me
to realize that I
couldn't do that like I used
to, so I really practiced at it.
Being able to tie your shoes
and being able to button
a shirt don't mean you're going
to be able to go back and play
sports.
And Tristan had played at a
really high level, especially
in the baseball field.
And he worked extremely hard.
The doctors told me I
would never do it again,
but I believed in God.
I was on a walk that--
because it was a sunny day.
And Tristan goes, I'll
just go with you mom.
So we went to the track,
and he took off running.
I was walking behind him,
and I thought, oh, my gosh.
There's some talent there.
She's like, well, you're
going to go out for track
and see if you like it.
My very first race, there
was 40 or 50 guys in the 800,
and I took off.
EMILY OWENS: He was like
in the middle of the pack,
and before I knew it, I was
on the phone with Doug saying,
you're not going
to believe this.
Tristan's leading.
TRISTAN OWENS: I was like,
man, I really like this.
This is fun.
I enjoy running.
He ended up getting
second that day.
In that moment, I
realized that was
what I was going to
do with my life was
I was going to be a runner.
I was going to be
a distance runner.
DOUG OWENS: We enrolled him
in a competitive track club.
TRISTAN OWENS: We were
the conference champions.
We won every track event.
DOUG OWENS: The spring
of his freshman year,
he was the 3,200
meter state champion.
He went on in his
high school career
to win three more state
championships, three more state
runner ups, and never finished
a single race at the state
meet that he wasn't
on the podium.
And today, he is a
freshman in college
on a full track and field
cross-country scholarship.
That makes his dad feel awesome.
The really thing that
encouraged me the most
was, like, getting up
out of the hospital bed
and be able to do
all that stuff.
And I go back to that a lot.
The doctors told me I
shouldn't be able to walk,
that I should be paralyzed.
I just think God was with
me the whole the time.
And every race that I run,
that God's always with me.
We found out
through some research
that the neurosurgeon that
had done Tristan's surgery
is considered to be one
of the top neurosurgeons
in the nation, and
he explained to us
that medical science
could probably
explain some of the
regeneration that Tristan had,
but Tristan really is a miracle.
The reason I run
is I do it for me,
but I also do it for
my sister, Sasha.
I made custom shoes, and
they're pink and black.
I know that she was with
me every step of the way,
and she'll be proud of
me no matter what I did.
Christ does strengthen
me every day,
and He leads me into
the path I'm taking.
DOUG OWENS: For
Tristan's career,
he's won over 275 medals, and
he's just getting started.
No matter what you're
going to do with your life,
that you never want
to give up on God.
That there's always a brighter
side then the dark sides
that you're going through.
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