Hollywood couple Devon Franklin and Meagan Good tell how waiting to have sex until marriage deepened their relationship and created more discipline in other areas of their life.
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NARRATOR: You may have
seen actress Meagan Good
in "Jumping the Broom," "Think
Like a Man," or on the arm
of her husband, pastor and
producer Devon Franklin,
who just recently celebrated
the release of "Miracles
from Heaven."
DEVON FRANKLIN: I'm really
excited because it's out, and--
MEAGAN GOOD: It's incredible.
It's so, so good,
and I'm not saying it
because he's my husband.
Like, it's so good.
You could say it
about everything.
That's cool.
Well, I mean, I acknowledge
it for that reason,
but I'm saying it.
Like, it's pretty darn good.
NARRATOR: Devon and Meagan met
during the filming of "Jumping
the Broom" back in 2011.
Not long after that,
the two started dating.
As the months passed,
it became clear
that something was different
about this Hollywood couple,
and everyone wanted to know why.
People would come up
to us and ask, well,
how did you get to know each
other, and what was going on?
NARRATOR: Then the
truth came out.
Devon and Meagan were waiting
until marriage to have sex.
As expected, their decision
created quite the buzz
in Hollywood.
But to the couple's
surprise, many
were intrigued by the
idea of abstinence.
As we started
telling our story,
more people were
interested, and people
began to really want to get
real information that could
help them in their love life.
What I've found is a lot of
people, not just in the world,
but that are here
in Hollywood as well
that are practicing it that
would never talk about it.
They're too embarrassed.
They feel they'll be shamed,
or that they're old school.
NARRATOR: Devon had made the
decision in his early 20s
when he began
serving as a pastor.
I wanted to be the same person
that could get up and preach
and the same person that
would go home at night.
Didn't want to be a liar.
Didn't want to be a hypocrite.
NARRATOR: He also
recognized the ideas
that premarital sex
was acceptable and even
beneficial were based on a lie.
It's just the mere
presentation of doubt
that maybe it's actually not
as bad for you as you think,
or maybe it's actually better
for you than you think,
and that is where
the lie comes in,
that we don't need
to follow God's plan,
that there is a
better plan out there,
an easier plan, and a plan
that'll make you happier.
And the truth is, there
isn't a better plan.
God's plan is the best plan,
and it does require sacrifice,
and it does require obedience,
and it's not always easy,
but it is deeply rewarding.
NARRATOR: Meagan, on the other
hand, bought into those lies.
At 19, she started
making compromises,
hoping to hold onto love.
She discovered years later that
it did more harm than good.
MEAGAN GOOD: You give a
piece of yourself away.
You lose a confidence in the
essence of who you were created
to be to begin with, and so
as you go from relationship
to relationship, or if
you are being promiscuous,
throughout those
years, it damages you.
NARRATOR: Those decisions
also affected her relationship
with Devon.
When we first got
together, I had
so much baggage, and so much
damage, and so much pain.
We had to unpack it,
and it was difficult.
It was a lot of even
pre-engagement counseling where
we literally just
talked, and we found
that I had this
deep-rooted kind of feeling
of, like, I'll never
be enough for somebody,
no matter what I do, no
matter how hard I try.
And it took a long time for
us to really get to a place
where we got past that.
NARRATOR: After 13 months
of dating without sex,
Devon and Meagan tied
the knot in June, 2012.
Now coming up on their
four-year anniversary,
they're convinced
that their decision
to honor each other and God has
strengthened their marriage.
I've never been
in a relationship
before where I
have so much trust.
It's just given us a
whole lot more peace,
a lot more understanding,
honoring God in this area.
He has blessed every
other area because when
you present your body
as a living sacrifice,
he honors that.
NARRATOR: In their new
book called "The Wait,"
the couple share their
story to encourage others
that a strong marriage
is worth waiting for.
DEVON FRANKLIN:
Because practicing
it had benefited our lives
in such an incredible way,
we felt like we wanted to share
it so we can help somebody
in their life.
MEAGAN GOOD: Our goal is not to
be preachy, or be judgmental,
or tell people how
to live their lives.
It's to say this is what we
did, and it changed everything.