Shelly and Hal White were told that Mya was unadoptable because she wouldn't live long enough to see out the adoption process. Along with the help of local doctors, the White's pursued their dream to give Mya a home.
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NARRATOR: Shelly White vividly
remembers the first time
she laid eyes on the
eighteen-month-old Chinese
orphan named Mya.
The little girl was featured
on Show Hope orphan care
website in March 2013.
I was showing
everyone her picture,
and I was thinking gosh,
this girl is so precious
and she needs a home, and
I just longed to help her.
NARRATOR: But Mya
needed more than a home.
It said she had stage 4
cancer, and she needed healing
in a forever home.
So we prayed for that.
NARRATOR: At the time, adoption
wasn't on the radar for Shelly
or her husband, Hal.
They already had four
children of their own,
and were having a
rough time financially.
Which is a lot.
I'd always kind of
thought adoption
was maybe for people who
couldn't have children,
you know, maybe weren't
blessed with a big family
like God had already blessed us.
NARRATOR: But Shelly couldn't
get Mya off her mind.
I think I had this deep
love for her right away.
It was something I
had never experienced.
NARRATOR: So they prayed
about it every day,
and soon sensed God leading
them to adopt little Mya.
A week into the process, they
learned there was a problem.
We got a call from
the agency saying
that they had some bad news for
us, that she was unadoptable.
What do you mean,
she's not adoptable?
So they explained that
it would take seven
to nine months at
quickest, and they didn't
feel she would live that long.
NARRATOR: The Chinese
agency told them
their only option was
to bring Mya to the US
for better treatment as
her medical guardians.
That's when they met Dr. Stephen
Wright of Kosair Children's
Hospital in
Louisville, Kentucky.
First thing I thought
was yeah, we just
need to get her over here.
Let's do it.
NARRATOR: Dr.
Wright, the hospital,
and several other doctors
agreed to donate their services.
Still, there were no guarantees.
We wanted them to be
sure up front that they
knew it was going to be a
long and sometimes arduous
course that Mya might
have to go through.
NARRATOR: Mya arrived in
the US on May 7, 2013.
She spent most of
the next 10 months
in the hospital undergoing
aggressive chemotherapy
to shrink the large
abdominal tumor.
The hardest part was when
she was in so much pain.
She was in unbearable pain.
She would cry and scream and
sweat multiple times a day.
It was awful.
Every time I felt
really, really hopeless
or really, really down,
there would be something
at exactly the right time.
I would get a text from a friend
that says, I'm praying for you.
NARRATOR: But the
tumor did not respond,
and two days after
Christmas 2013,
doctors had to stop
the treatments.
It was really, really hard.
I mean, it was devastating.
They said that there was
nothing further they could do,
and that she had less
than a year to live.
NARRATOR: Doctors decided
to remove the tumor
to make little Mya
more comfortable.
We were told,
we'll take this out,
and the cancer will
likely come back.
But at least she'll have
some good pain-free time.
NARRATOR: Mya's primary
surgeon, Dr. Mary Fallat,
explained that they had to
remove other organs affected
by the tumor.
This was the sort of thing
where you're going for broke.
And we knew that the tumor
was just in the pelvis
and not in the lungs or
the brain or anywhere else,
and this is otherwise
a normal child.
And so what this
required was removing
the bladder, the uterus,
the vagina, and the rectum.
And I really just had
to change my thinking
that my hope couldn't
be in her healing,
my hope just had to be that
God had us all in his hands
and it was gonna be OK
no matter what happened.
Throughout this journey,
I think the one thing,
you know, you obviously know
that we're not in control.
God is in control,
and God has a plan.
NARRATOR: That plan
exceeded all expectations.
Mya not only lived
another year, she
remained cancer-free, making
her once again adoptable.
In April 2015, Mya
officially became
a part of the White family.
SHELLY WHITE: Oh,
it was really neat.
I got to see where
she lived, and I
got to see where she was found.
NARRATOR: Mya's been cancer-free
for more than two years now,
and is doing great.
Her doctors are
hopeful for many more.
There's always
complications that can occur,
so I think-- I'd like to
think we had a home run here.
NARRATOR: As for her
new family, they've
all learned to
trust God no matter
how bleak things may look.
You know, I first considered
it an act of obedience to God.
But what I didn't
know is how much
that obedience would bless
me, and the joy that I
would get from that obedience.
I'll tell you, the family
is an unbelievable example
of Christian love, a really
challenge to the rest of us
to step up to the plate.
SHELLY WHITE: It's just
deepened our faith.
Sometimes you kind
of get sidetracked
by grades and
sports, and you want
them to be a lot of things.
But now it's just really,
none of it matters.
I just want to raise
her to be a girl that
knows God and that trusts Him.
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