Korie Robertson of “Duck Dynasty†fame shares her two keys to parenting: Be “strong and kindâ€.
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Gordon: SHE'S STRONG,
KIND, AND SURROUNDED BY
DUCK CALLS.
"DUCK DYNASTY'S" KORIE
ROBERTSON SHARES HER
RED-NECK WISDOM ON RAISING
KIDS, ON TODAY'S "700 CLUB
INTERACTIVE."
WELL, WELCOME TO THE SHOW.
WILLIE AND KORIE
ROBERTSON'S ADVENTURES ON
"DUCK DYNASTY" HAVE MADE
THEM AND THEIR CHILDREN
FAN FAVOURITES.
SO WHAT'S THE SECRET OF
THEIR SUCCESS AS PARENTS?
TAKE A LOOK.
Reporter: MANY FANS
OF THE HIT REALITY SHOW
"DUCK DYNASTY" WONDER HOW
WILLIE AND KORIE ROBERTSON
HAVE MANAGED TO RAISE SUCH
GOOD KIDS.
IN HER BOOK, "STRONG AND
KIND," KORIE SHARES HER
TIME-TESTED PRACTICES FOR
PARENTING AND TALKS ABOUT
CHARACTER TRAITS THAT KIDS
NEED TO LEAD SUCCESSFUL
LIVES.
Gordon: KORIE,
WELCOME TO THE SHOW.
WE'VE HAD LOTS OF
RBLRTSONS ON THIS SHOW.
HAPPY TO HAVE YOU WITH US.
I'M HAPPY TO BE HERE.
Gordon: YOU HAD A
FAMILY TRADITION GROWING
UP, AND WHILE YOUç WERE
GROWING UP, I DON'T THINK
YOU REALLY ENJOYED IT
MUCH, BUT IT LEFT YOU WITH
SOMETHING.
WHAT WAS IT?
WHEN YOU'RE KIDS AND
YOUR ON VACCINE VACATION, YOU
DON'T WANT TO STOP AND
HAVE FAMILY DEVOTION
TIME -- YOU JUST WANT TO
BE ON THE BEACH.
BUT MY DAD GOT US TOGETHER
TO TALK ABOUT THE VALUES
THAT ARE IMPORTANT FOR OUR
FAMILY.
AND WE MADE UP PRINCIPLES
FOR LIVING FOR OUR FAMILY.
IT WAS A LIST FOR ALL OF
US TO COME UP WITH, WHAT
VALUES WE HELD DEAR,
THINGS LIKE TREATING
PEOPLE MORE IMPORTANTLY
THAN YOU TREAT THINGS AND
SHARING AND CARING.
AND THAT MADE AN IMPACT ON
ME.
Gordon: DID YOU KNOW
AT THE TIME WHY HE WAS
DOING IT?
I THINK AS A KID, YOU
GET IT, YOU UNDERSTAND
THAT, OKAY, THIS IS SOME
IMPORTANT, BUT YOU DON'T
REALLY WANT TO SIT DOWN
AND DO IT.
AND YOU DON'T EVER REALLY
UNDERSTAND UNTIL LATER
WHAT KIND OF IMPACT THAT
WILL MAKE ON YOU.
Gordon: WHAT WAS THE
IMPAG
ON YOU?
I THINK THE IMPACT ON
ME WAS REALLY ABOUT BEING
INTENTIONAL ABOUT HOW WE
LIDE.
IT MATTERS.
HAVING GOOD CHARACTER,
HAVING INTEGRITY, HAVING
VALUES, THOSE THINGS
MATTER.
AND THE WAY THAT WE LIVE
OUR LIVES.
AND AS KIDS -- A LOT OF
TIMES IT IS HARD FOR US TO
LOOK AT OUR KIDS AS
ADULTS.
BUT I THINK IT IS
IMPORTANT FOR US TO SEE
OUR KIDS AS THE ADULTS WE
WANT THEM TO BE.
WHENEVER THEY'RE THROWING
A TANTRUM IN THE GROCERY
STORE AT THREE, IT IS HARD
TO SEE THAT.
BUT YOU THINK, I WANT MY
CHILD TO BE AN ADULT SOME
DAY WHO HAS SELF-CONTROL,
AND WE'RE GOING TO SAY,
WE'RE NOT GOING TO ALLOW
THAT KIND OF BEHAVIOR AND
TEACH THEM THE RIGHT WAY.
Gordon: YOU SAY, I
WANT TO BE INTENTIONALLY
PARENTING, AND WHAT KIND
OF ADULT DO I WANT HERE
AND HOW DO I INSTILL THAT?
RIGHT.
Gordon: WHY DID YOU
TITLE THE BOOK "STRONG AND
KIND?"
I CARRIED THOSE TRAITSç
WHEN WE THE KIDS WERE
YOUNG.
WE WANTED THEM TO BE
STRONG, NOT JUST IN WHOç
THEY ARE BUT WHOSE THEY
ARE.
THEY WANTED THEM TO KNOW
THAT GOD IS WITH THEM AND
HE IS FOR THEM.
I KNOW LIFE IS TOUGH.
WE'RE ALL GOING TO GO
THROUGH DIFFICULT TIMES.
NOBODY IS IMMUNE TO TOUGH
TIMES IN THIS WORLD.
I WANT THEM TO BE STRONG
TO KNOW THAT EVEN THOUGH
THEY MIGHT BEND, THEY WILL
NOT BREAK.
BECAUSE GOD IS WITH THEM
AND HE IS HOLDING THEM UP.
AND KINDNESS FOR OTHERS.
BECAUSE IF WE WERE KINDER,
I THINK OUR WORLD WOULD BE
A MUCH BETTER PLACE.
ALL OF THE THINGS THAT
COME WITH KINDNESS IS
COMPASSION AND GENEROSITY.
I WANT THEM TO BE KIND,
THE WAY THEY LIVE THEIR
LIFE AND THE WAY THEY
INTERACT WITH OTHERS.
Gordon: YOU'RE
UNUSUAL, AND I THINK IT IS
AN ACT OF KINDNESS IN WHAT
YOU DID, THAT YOU NOT ONLY
HAD NATURAL CHILDREN, BUT
YOU ALSO WENT OUT AND
ADOPTED.
WHY WERE YOU COMPELLED TO
DO THAT?
WELL, GROWING UP, OUR
FAMILY WAS VERY
HOSPITABLE.
WE HAD A GUEST ROOM THATç
WAS NEVER EMPTY.
WE HAD MOTHERS WITH
CHILDREN WHO MAYBE NEEDED
A PLACE.
MAYBE THEY CAME FSóM AN
ABUSIVE SITUATION.
AND IT WAS, LIKE, OVER 80
PEOPLE LIVE WITH US AS WE
WERE GROWING UP.
SO OUR HOME -- THEY
PRACTICED HOSPITALITY, AND
SO I UNDERSTOOD THAT.
WHILE THEY DIDN'T ADOPT A
CHILD, WE TOOK IN A LOT OF
CHILDREN AT DIFFERENT
CHILDREN AT DIFFERENT
TIMES THROUGHOUT THEIR
LIFE.
MY SENIOR YEAR IN HIGH
SCHOOL, MY BIBLE TEACHER
ADOPTED, AND HE REALLY
TALKED ABOUT THE VERSE,
RELIGION THAT IS TRUE AND
FAULTLESS IS TAKING CARE
OF AN ORPHAN.
WHEN WILLIE AND I STARTED
DATING, I TOLD WILLIE, AND
HE WAS, LIKE, ABSOLUTELY.
HE WAS 100% ON BOARD FROM
THE VERY BEGINNING.
IT WAS A DECISION WE KNEW
WE ALWAYS WANTED TO DO.
Gordon: WAS THERE A
DIFFERENCE IN APPARENTLY
YOUR NATURAPARENTINGYOUR NATURAL CHILDREN
AS
ADOPTED?
I THINK EVERY CHILD IS
DIFFERENT.
THEY'RE ALL A SURPRISE.
ABSOLUTELY NOT IN THE WAY
YOU LOVEç THEM AND IN THE
WAY THEY ARE YOURS 100%.
JUST LIKE WE ARE GOD'S
ADOPTED CHILDREN.
WE ARE HIS AND OURç
CHILDREN ARE OURS, NO
MATTER HOW THEY CAME TO
US.
BUT EACH CHILD IS
ABSOLUTELY DIFFERENT IN
THEIR PERSONALITIES AND
THEIR TALENTS AND THEIR
STRENGTHS AND THEIR
WEAKNESSES, SO, YES, YOU
PARENT EACH ONE
DIFFERENTLY.
Gordon: ANY
CHALLENGES RIGHT NOW?
YOU ARE, I WOULD SAY MEGA
FAMOUS, NOT JUST FAMOUS.
BUT YOU'VE HIT A, CAN YOU
WALK THROUGH AIRPORTS
ANYMORE?
WHEN YOU GO INTO THE
GROCERY STORE, PEOPLE ARE
LOOKING AT YOU.
DOES THAT CHANGE HOW YOU
PARENT?
I THINK IT MEANS THAT
YOU HAVE TO TALK TO YOUR
KIDS EVEN MORE.
I THINK THAT IN EVERY PART
OF LIFE -- WHENEVER WE
DECIDED TO DO THIS SHOW,
WE HEARD A LOT OF FEAR
FROM PEOPLE, ARE YOU SURE
YOU WANT TO DO THIS?
YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS TO
REALITY SHOW KIDS?
AND I THOUGHT, THIS IS
EVERY FAMILY.
THERE ARE UNIQUE
CHALLENGES TO BEING A
SCHOOL TEACHER OR BEING A
PASTOR, OR BEING WHATEVER
YOU ARE IN LIFE.
YOU'VE GOT TO FOCUS ON GOD
AND ASK HIM TO BLESS YOU
AND TO CARE FOR YOUç AND TO
WATCH OVER YOU.
AND YOU'VE GOT TO STAY
WITHIN HIS PATH.
SO I DON'T THINK THAT IT
ISç NECESSARILY UNIQUE
EXCEPT FOR THE FACT IT HAS
CAUSED US TO REALLY MAKE
SURE WE REPAIR THEM FOR
THE ROAD, AND FOR THE
DIFFICULTIES THAT MIGHT
COME WITH SOCIAL MEDIA OR
WHAT OTHER MIGHT SAY OR
OTHER PEOPLE'S THOUGHTS.
OR EVEN JUST PEOPLE TAKING
PICTURES OF YOU WHEN YOU
WALK DOWN THE AIRPORT.
WE TALK ABOUT BEING KIND
TO EVERYBODY.
Gordon: TAKE THE
MOMENT, STAY IN THE
MOMENT.
YOU'VE HAD A FEW YEARS OF
BEING STRONG AND KIND AND
LIVING INTENTIONALLY AND
BEING AN INTENTIONAL
PARENT.
WHAT ARE YOU MOST PROUD
OF?
WELL, I'M PROUD OF
WILLIE AND MY 24 YEARS OF
MARRIAGE.
I THINK THAT IS SO
IMPORTANT TO TEACH YOUR
CHILDREN.
EVERY SINGLE VALUE CAN BE
SUMMED UP AND SHOWN IN A
GOOD MARRIAGE AND A
HEALTHY MARRIAGE.
BECAUSE WE'VE HAD
DIFFICULT YEARS, LIKE
EVERYBODY ELSE.
24 YEARS OF MARRIAGE IS
NOT ALL EASY.
Gordon: MARRIAGE IS
WORK.
BUT SHOWING YOURç KIDS
THAT LOYALTY, THAT
HUMILITY WHEN IT IS TOUGH.
SAYING YOU'RE SORRY WHEN
YOU DON'T NECESSARILY WANTç
TO.
SHOWING LOVE AND
COMPASSION TO YOUR SPOUSE.
AND SO I THINK THAT THE
MOST IMPORTANT THING YOU
CAN DO FOR YOUR KIDS IS TO
LOVE YOUR SPOUSE AND TO
RESPECT THEM AND TREAT
THEM WELL.
SO I'M MOST PROUD OF THAT.
AND THEN, OF COURSE, MY
KIDS.
I COULDN'T BE MORE PROUD
OF EACH OF OUR KIDS.
I WAS PROUD OF THEM WHEN
THEY CAME OUT OF THE WOMB
AND WHEN WE GOT THEM.
Gordon: ARE YOU READY
TO BE A GRANDMOTHER?
YES, I AM.
I'M NOT SURE WHAT THEY'RE
GOING TO CALL ME, BUT I
AM.
THEY STILL HAVE COLLEGE
AND ALL OF THAT TO GO TO,
BUT WHEN THEY'RE READY,
I'LL ABSOLUTELY BE LOOKING
FORWARD TO IT.
I LOVE ME SOME BABIES.
Gordon: THE BOOK FROM
KORIE ROBERTSON, "STRONG
AND KIND AND OTHER
IMPORTANT CHARACTER TRAITS
YOUR CHILD NEEDS TO
SUCCEED."
I ENCOURAGE TO YOU GET IT
WHENEVER BOOKS ARE SOLD.
KORIE THAN THANK YOU SO MUCH
FOR BEING WITH US.
THANK YOU FOR HAVING
ME.
Gordon: WE'LL BE
RIGHT BACK WITH MOREç OF
"700 CLUB INTERACTIVE"
RIGHT AFTER THIS.
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Gordon: JIN LIVING IMAGINE
LIVING WHERE MOST CHILDREN
DON'T GET ENOUGH TO EAT?
THAT'S THE REALITY IN
HAITI, WHERE ONE IN FIVE
CHILDREN ARE UNDERWEIGHT,
AND ONE IN 14 WILL DIE
BEFORE REACHING THE AGE OF
FIVE.
THE HUNGER CRISIS THEREç
AFFECTS ALL A ASPECTS OF
LIFE, ESPECIALLYç
EDUCATION.
CAITLIN BURKE TRAVELLED TO
HAITI FOR A LOOK AT THE
SOLUTIONS.
Reporter: WHAT IF YOU
HAD TO GO TO SCHOOL IN
STIFLING HEAT AND TRY TO
FOCUS WHEN YOU'RE ALSO
STARVING.
IF KIDS ARE HUNGRY, THEY
CAN'T LEARN.
IF THEY CAN'T LEARN, THEY
CAN NEVER GROW UP AND
BECOME THE CHANGE THAT
THEIR COUNTRY SO
DESPERATELY NEEDS.
IN HAITI, RICHARD AND DANA
ADAMS HAVE SEEN THIS FOR
MORE THAN 30 YEARS.
THEY OVERSEE THREE
CHRISTIAN SCHOOLS.
WE HAD CHILDREN THAT
WERE FAINTING IN SCHOOL
BECAUSE OF THE HEAT AND
COMING WITH AN EMPTY
STOMACH.
AND WE HAD A BURDEN FOR
YEARS TO BE ABLE TO FEED
THEM.
AND WE HAD A FEEDING
PROGRAM WHEN WE HAD 400
STUDENTS AT THE MAIN
COMPOUND.
BUT THEN THE SCHOOL BEGAN
TO GROW, AND WE JUST COULD
NOT KEEP GOING.
AND WE JUST PRAYED AND
PRAYED FOR THE LORD TO
GIVE A DELIVERANCE.
Reporter: GOD
ANSWERED THEIR PRAYER IN
THE FORM OFç CBN'S
"ORPHANS' PROMISE," WHICH
PROVIDED FUNDS TO START A
FEEDING PROGRAM IN TWO OF
THEIR SCHOOLS.
THE CAPACITY WE'RE
FUARED FOR THIS YEAR IS
1200 STUDENTS A DAY.
WE HAVE ABOUT 900 THAT
WE'RE FEEDING RIGHT NOW.
Reporter: FIVE DAYS A
WEEK, STUDENTS EAT A
NUTRITIOUS MEAL, PREPARED
BY HAITIAN COOKS HERE AT
THE SCHOOL.
THEY'RE MORE ALERT.
THEY'RE ABLE TO PAY
ATTENTION MORE.
IT MAKES ALL OF THE
DIFFERENCE.
THERE IS A HAITIAN PROVERB
THAT SAYS: "AN EMPTY SACK
CANNOT STAND."
Reporter:
DR. PATRICIA WOLF ALSO SO
A NEED WHEN SHE STARTED
COMING TO HAITI IN 1988.
PIERNTIO I WOULD COME BACK THE
NEXT TIME, AND THE KIDS
YOU SAW THAT WERE
MALNOURISHED WERE SICK
AGAIN OR SOMETIMES THEY
HAD DIED IN THE MEANTIME.
Reporter: AFTER 15
YEARS OF MEDICAL MISSION
VOLUNTEER WORK, WOLF
DECIDED TO DO SOMETHING ON
A BIGGER SCALE.
IN 2003, WE STARTED
MIXING TOGETHER PEANUTS,
POWDERED MILK, SUGAR AND
OIL, AND WE GAVE THEM
EXTRAç VITAMINS AND
MINERALS BECAUSE WE DIDN'T
HAVE THE VITAMINS AS
POWDER.
AND WE STARTED THATç IN A
METHODIST CHURCH SCHOOL
ROOM.
AND WE MADE THAT YEAR, IN
2003, WE MADE
100 KILOGRAMS A MONTH, AND
WE TREATED 10 KIDS A
MONTH.
AND IT WAS LIKE A MIRACLE.
ALL OF THE KIDS WHO LOOKED
HALF DEAD POPPED UP WITHIN
A WEEK OR TWO AND WERE
CURED IN SIX TO EIGHT
WEEKS.
Reporter: IN 2012,
M.F.K. BUILT THIS NEW
STATE-OF-THE-ART FACILITY,
WITH THE CAPACITIES TO
FEED 8,000 CHILDREN.
THE PRODUCTS INCLUDE A
PRODUCT FOR THE SEVERELY
MALNOURISHED, AND A
PRE-NATAL SUPPLEMENT, AND
A SCHOOL SNACK.
ALL OF THE M.F.K. PRODUCTS
ARE MADE HERE, USING LOCAL
WORKERS, AND WHENEVER
POSSIBLE, HAITIAN RAW
MATERIALS.
WHAT WE NEED TO DO IN
HAITI IS GO BEYOND RESCUE.
WE NEED TO RESCUE PEOPLE
WHO ARE LIKELY TO DIE AND
WHOç DON'T HAVE ENOUGH
NUTRITIOUS FOOD TO EAT,
BUT THAT DOESN'T GO
ANYWHEREç UNLESS YOU
DEVELOP THE COUNTRY AND
EMPLOY THEIR PARENTS SO
THAT THE NEXT CHILD AND
THE NEXT CHILD IN THAT
FAMILY ARE NOT ALSO
MALNOURISHED.
Reporter: THESE
PRODUCTS GIVE DESPERATE
PARENTS A WAY TO FIGHT
MALNUTRITION AND TO KEEP
THEIR FAMILIES TOGETHER.
A COMMON REASON A CHILD
WOULD BE IN AN O ORPHANAGE
IS BECAUSE THEIR PARENTS
CAN'T FEED THEM.
Reporter: IT IS THE
AGE WHEN THEIR BRAINS ARE
DEVELOP, AND WITHOUT
PROPER NUTRITION, THEY
WILL NEVER BE AS SMART OR
HEALTHY AS THEY COULD BE.
WE HAVE TO GO WITH THE
KIDS BECAUSE THE KIDS ARE
THE FUTURE.
AND THEY'RE THE MOST
LIKELY TO BE THE DAMAGED.
AND WE KNOW HOW TO FIX IT.
WE JUST HAVE TO PUT
RESOURCES INTO IT.
WE HAVE TO BE DETERMINED
TO PUT RESOURCES INTO IT.
Reporter: M.F.K. NOW
EXPORTS PRODUCTS TO OTHER
DEVELOPING COUNTRIES, WITH
BOTH UNICEF AND THE WORLD
FOOD PROGRAM AS MAJOR
COSTUMERS.
BUT EVEN WITH THE
ORGANIZATION'S GROWTH,
RUJt SAYS HER WORK IS
5Q
FAR FROM
OVER.
THE WORLD REALLY
SHOULDN'T BE THISç WAY.
PART OF THE WAY I FEEL
ABOUT IT IS THAT THERE ARE
SOME PEOPLE IN THE WORLD,
LIKE THE PEOPLE WHO ARE
BORN IN NORTH AMERICA OR
EUROPE, WHO KIND OF WON
THE LOTTERY.
IT ISN'T HAPPENING HERE.
IF YOU SAW A STRANGER
DROWNING, YOU WOULD JUMP
IN AND TRY TO SAVE THEM.
AND THAT'S PRETTY MUCH MY
MOTIVATION.
Reporter: CAITLIN
BURKE, CBN NEWS, HAITI.
Gordon: NUTRITION IS
ABSOLUTELY KEY TO
EDUCATION.
WITHOUT IT, CHILDREN DON'T
LEARN.
THEIR BRAINS DON'T
DEVELOP.
THEY DON'T HAVE THE
NEUROCONNECTIONS.
SO DOING THAT, TAKING A
HOLISTIC APPROACH, WHERE
YOU'RE NOT JUST SAYING,
WE'RE GOING TO GIVE A
HANDOUT, WE'RE GOING TO
GIVE A HANDUP IS THE
ABSOLUTE SOLUTION.
HOW DO YOU CHANGE A
COUNTRY?
YOU NEED TO TAKE AN ENTIRE
GENERATION AND SAY, WE'RE
GOING TO WALK YOU FUM.
WE'RçTHROUGH.
IN EASTERN HUNGARY, ONE
LITTLE BOY SPENT HIS DAYS
ONç THE STREETS BEGGING FOR
FOOD.
Terry: EVERY DAY,
FROM DAWN UNTIL DUSK, SEDU
SINGS THROUGHOUT HIS SMALL
VILLAGE IN INDIA.
IT IS THE ONLY WAY THE
5-YEAR-OLD CAN MAKE ENOUGH
MONEY TO BUY FOOD.
MY FATHER DIED BEFORE I
WAS BORN.
AND MY MOTHER DIED THE DAY
SHE GAVE BIRTH TO ME.
Terry: HIS
GRANDMOTHER SELLS FIREWOOD
SHE COLLECTS IN THE
JUNGLE, WHY SEDU BEGS AT
THE SHOPS.
SHE MAKES ENOUGH TO LIVE
ON HER OWN, BUT SOMETIMES
THEIR COMBINED INCOME
ISN'T ENOUGH TO BUY FOOD
FOR THEM BOTH.
SO SHE DECIDED TO TAKE HIM
TO A CHILDREN'S HOME
SUPPORTED BY "ORPHANS'
PROMISE." HERE HE HAS FOOD
EVERY DAY AND HE IS
ENROLLED IN A CHRISTIAN
SCHOOLMENT.
BEFORSCHOOL.
BEFORE COMING HERE, I
HAD TO WORK ALL OF THE
TIME.
BUT NOW I CAN GO TO SCHOOL
AND LEARNç MANY THINGS.
Terry: IT DIDN'T TAKE
LONG BEFORE SEDU ASKED
JESUS TO BE HIS LORD ANDç
SAVIOR.
NOW INSTEAD OF SINGING FOR
FOOD, HE SINGS ABOUT GOD'S
LOVE.
MY NEW PARENTS AND
FRIENDS LOVE ME SO MUCH.
I REALLY LIKE IT HERE.
Gordon: YOU CAN BE A
PART OF IT.
YOU CAN BE A PART OF
EVERYTHING WE DO AROUND
THE WORLD.
HOW DO YOU DO THAT?
YOU JUST JOIN "THE 700
CLUB."
HOW MUCH IS IT?
$20 A MONTH, 65 CENTS A
DAY, AND YOU JOIN WITH
TENS OF THOUSANDS OF
PEOPLE THAT SAY, YES, I
WANT TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE
IN THE WORLD TODAY.
IF YOU WANT TO BE A PART
OF HELPING PEOPLE, IF YOU
WANT TO BE A PART OF
FEEDING CHILDREN, IF YOU
WANT TO BE A PART OF
PREACHING THE GOSPEL, JOIN
"THE 700 CLUB."
A PORTION OF EVERY GIFT
GOES INTO THE WORK OF
"OPERATION BLESSING" TO
HELP PEOPLE AROUND THE
WORLD.
ANOTHER PORTION GOES INTO
THE WORK OF CBN
INTERNATIONAL TO PREACH
THE GOSPEL AROUND THE
WORLD, AND YOU'RE PART OF
ALL OF IT WHEN YOU JOIN
"THE 700 CLUB."
SO DO IT NOW.
CALL US, 1-888-777-1999.
OR YOU CAN LOG ONç TO
700clubinteractive.com,
AND THERE IS A PLACE ON
THE HOME PAGE WHERE YOU
CAN CLICK TO GIVE.
AND WHEN YOU GIVE, ASK FORç
PLEDGE EXPRESS.
THAT'S ELECTRONIC MONTHLY
GIVING WHERE THE BANK DOES
ALL OF THE WORK.
THERE ARE NO CHECKS TO
WRITE IN.
WE SAVE SO MUCH ON THE
PROCESSING, WE CAN SEND AS
OUR GIFT TO YOU, "POWER
FOR LIFE," MONTHLY
TEACHING C.D.s.
ASK FOR PLEDGE EXPRESS
WHEN YOU CALL OR JUST GIVE
MONTHLY ON THE WEBSITE.
> STILL AHEAD, A MOTHER
WHO REALIZED HER
14-YEAR-OLD HAD A DARK
SECRET ON THE DAY HER
DAUGHTER KILLED HERSELF.
THERE WAS A
CONVERSATION AT THE MOMENT
SHE DIED.
I'VE BEEN MARRIED 17
YEARS, AND I HAVEN'T HAD
CONVERSATIONS LIKE THAT
WITH MY HUSBAND.
Gordon: FIND OUT WHAT
WAS SO SHOCKING ABOUT THIS
CONVERSATION, AND LEARN
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR CHILD
IS HAVING ONE LIKE IT.
UP NEXT.
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Gordon: FOR ONE
ALABAMA MOTHER, THE PAIN
OF SUICIDE BECAME A
REALITY AFTERç HER
14-YEAR-OLD DAUGHTER TOOK
HER OWN LIFE.
NOW SHE IS ON A MISSION TO
WARN PARENTS ABOUT HOW
STRANGERS CAN INFLUENCE
THE LIVES OF THEIR
CHILDREN, ESPECIALLY ON
THE INTERNET OR EVEN ON
THEIR SMARTPHONES.
CHARLENE AARON BRINGS US
THAT STORY FROM PELLE
CITY, ALABAMA.
Charlene: JENNIFER
SELLERS SURROUNDS HERSELF
WITH MEMORIES AND PICTURES
OF HER DAUGHTER, SYDNEY.
SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL.
SHE TOOK AFTER HER DAD.
Charlene: THEIR
RELATIONSHIP APPEARED AS
CLOSE AS ANY MOTHER AND
DAUGHTER COULD BE.
WE WEREN'T AND GOT OUR
HAIR DONE TOGETHER.
WE DID OUR NAILS TOGETHER.
WE DID WAL-MART TOGETHER.
Charlene: AND YET
SYDNEY KEPT SECRETS.
THOSE SECRETS WOULD LEAD
TO TRAGEDY IN 2014.
WHEN SELLERS SAW HER
TEENAGED DAUGHTER HANGING
FROM A BELT WHEN SHE
OPENED HER BEDROOM DOOR.
I SAID, SYDNEY, THAT IS
NOT A GOOD PRACTICAL JOKE.ç
Charlene: BUT IT WAS
REAL.
I DIDN'T HAVE THE
STRENGTH TO PICK HER UP.
THAT'S WHEN I STARTED
SCREAMING FOR MY HUSBAND.
HE PICIe HER UP.
I CUT HER DOWN, AND WE
LAID HER ON THE GROUND AND
HE IMMEDIATELY STARTED
C.P.R., AND I CALLED
9-1-1.
Charlene: SELLERS, A
CHILD ADVOCACY ATTORNEY
STILL STRUGGLES TO
UNDERSTAND WHY HER
DAUGHTER WHAT COMMIT SUCH
A DRASTIC ACT, ESPECIALLY
SINCE SHE SHOWED NO SIGNS
OF STRUGGLES.
AND SHE GLADLY ATTENDED
CHURCH WITH HER FAMILY
THAT MORNING.
WE WENT TO MASS.
IT WAS HER FIRST DAY AS AN
ALTER SERVER, AND WE WERE
SO EXCITED.
SHE DID A GREAT JOB.
Charlene: AS WORD
SPREAD OF SYDNEY'S DEATH,
HER FAMILY LEARNED FROM
FRIENDS SHE HAD BEEN
BULLIED AT SCHOOL AND HAD
ALSO BEEN CUTTING HERSELF.
YET NOTHING PREPARED THEM
FOR AN ONLINE CONVERSATION
THEY DISCOVERED ON
SYDNEY'S SMARTPHONE.
AT THE TIME OF HER DEATH,
SYDNEY AND A STRANGER HAD
BEEN MESSAGING ONE ANOTHER
ON AN APPç CALLED KICK.
THE SUBJECT, EROTIC
ASPHYXIATION OR BREATH
CONTROL PLAY,ç WHICH IS THE
INTENTIONAL RESTRICTION OF
OXYGEN TO THE BRAIN FOR
THE PURPOSES OF SEXUAL
ARROUSAL.
I'VE BEEN MARRIED 17
YEARS, AND I HAVEN'T HAD
CONVERSATIONS LIKE THAT
WITH MY HUSBAND.
THERE WAS A CONVERSATION
HAPPENING AT THE MOMENT
SHE DIED, BETWEEN HER AND
A PERSON WHO PURPORTED
HIMSELF TO BE A TEENAGED
BOY.
AND IT WAS DISGUSTING.
AND HE WAS GIVING HER
INSTRUCTIONING ON THINGS
INSTRUCTIONS ON THINGS TO
DO.
Charlene: SEXUALLY?
YES, VERY SEXUALLY.
Charlene: MANY TEENS
LOG ON TO THE INTERNET NOT
FROM A P.C., BUT FROM A
MOBILE DEVICE, LIKE A
SMARTPHONE OR A TABLET.
AND THEY'RE OFTEN
CONNECTING WITH PEOPLE
THEY DON'T REALLY KNOW,
AND THEIR PARENTS ARE
COMPLETELY UNAWARE.
PREDATORS ARE EVERYONE
O OON THE INTERNET.
THEY POSE AS SOMEONE THAT
A CHILD MIGHT EASILY TALKç
TO.
Charlene: SMARTPHONE
APPS ARE OFTEN THE WEAPONS
THEY USE TO TARGET KIDS.
Qjrrñ THEY KNOW HOW TO LURE
THESE KIDS INTO WHAT LOOKS
LIKE HARM LUS THINGLESS THINGS AND
GET THEM TALKING.
WHAT PARENTS NEED TO
REALIZE IS YOUR TEENS ARE
LIVING IN AN ENTIRELY
DIFFERENT WORLD.
Charlene: CALEB
KINCHLOW SHOWED US SOME OF
THE POPULAR APPS USED BY
TEENS TO CONNECT ON THE
INTERNET, OFTEN WITH
STRANGERS.
Facebook IS NOT THE
MOST POPULAR APP.
NOW IT IS INSTAGRAM,
SNAPCHAT, OOVOO.
AND TEENS ARE WILLING TO
SHARE INFORMATION THEY
NORMALLY WOULDN'T BE
COMFORTABLE SHARING,
INCLUDING NUDE PICTURES
AND THINGS OF MATURE
CONTENT.
Charlene: THE MAN
CHATTING WITH SYDNEY COULD
NOT BE TRACED BECAUSE THE
KICK APP ALLOWS USERS TO
CONNECT ANONYMOUSLY.
TODAY THIS GRIEVING MOTHER
SPENDS TIMES TALKING TO
TROUBLED TEENAGERS AND
ENCOURAGES PARENTS TO KEEP
UP WITH THEIR KIDS' LIVES,
SOMETHING SHE REGRETS NOT
DOING WITH HER OWN CHILD.
yñ I HAD GOTTEN
COMPLACENT.
SHE WENT TO SCHOOL, AND
SHE CAME BACK AND DID HER
WORK AND SHE MADE GREATç
GRADES.
WE FIGURE WE WERE GOOD
THERE.
Charlene: SHE SAYS
PARENTS NEED TO MONITOR
THEIR KIDS' INTERNET
ACTIVITY AS MUCH AS
POSSIBLE.
THEY NEED TO LOOK AT
EVERY DEVICE AND SAY, IS
THERE IS WAY TO ACCESS THE
INTERNET THROUGH THAT
DEVICE.
BECAUSE A LOT OF PEOPLE
DON'T THINK OF AN XBOX,
BEC ABLBEING ABLE TO GET ON THE
INTERNET FROM THERE.
Charlene: SELLERS
AGREES.
MOST KIDS ARE FINE IF
THEY'RE ON THEIR TABLETS
OR PHONES FOR AN HOUR
BEFORE THEY GO TO BED.
THEY'RE NOT MONITORING
THAT.
IF YOU BOUGHT THAT PHONE
AND PAID FOR THAT, THAT IS
YOUR PROPERTY AND YOU HAVE
A RIGHT TO KNOW WHAT'S ON
IT.
SEARCH IT OUT.
AND YOU NEED TO KNOW WHAT
IS GOING AND WITH YOUR
KIDS' ELECTRONICS.
WHILE UNPOPULAR, JUST
MIGHT SAVE A LIFE.
CHARLENE AARON, CBN NEWS,ç
PELLE CITY, ALABAMA.
Gordon: WISE WORDS
FROM A PARENT WHO HAS A
LOT OF REGRETS SHE DIDN'T
DO THAT.ç
TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THAT
ADVICE, AND FIND OUT WHAT
YOUR CHILDREN ARE DOING,
JUST FOR YOUR OWN PEACE OF
MIND.
MAYBE YOU'LL SEE SOME
EARLY WARNING SIGNS THAT
YOU CAN INTERFERE, YOU CAN
BE PART OF YOUR LIVES, AND
SHOW THEM A BETTER WAY TO
GO.
IF YOU WANT MORE
INFORMATION ABOUT THIS,
INFORMATION ABOUT THIS,
WE'VE GOT IT FOR YOU ON
cbnnews.com.
HOW YOU CAN BE INFORMED
ABOUT WHAT APPS TO WATCH
OUT FOR, WHAT KIND OF
CONVERSATIONS TO LOOK FOR.
IT IS ALL AVAILABLE FOR
YOU.
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS GO
TO cbnnews.com.
WE LEAVE YOU WITH THESE
WORDS FROM EPHESIANS: "BE
KIND AND COMPASSIONATE
WITH EACH OTHER, BE
FORGIVING TO EACH OTHER,
JUST AS IN CHRIST GOD
FORGAVE YOU."
GOD BLESS YOU.
WE'LL SEE YOU AGAIN.