A native of India, Tina never thought her new life in America would include an abusive husband. She found courage to leave him, but only supernatural encounters with Jesus could help her find salvation for herself and forgiveness for him.
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I WAS VERY, VERY REVENGE
FULL AT THAFUL AT THAT
TIME.
VERY UNFORGIVING.
I WAS GOING AFTER MY
EX-HUSBAND AND DOING
EVERYTHING POSSIBLE LEGALLY
TO AVENGE MYSELF.
I GREW UP AS A HINDU, AND
HINDUISM IS ALL ABOUT IDOLS
AND RITUALS AND CEREMONIES.
Reporter: IN 2000, TINA
WIGG MOVED TO AMERICA FOR A
JOB.
AND A YEAR LATER SHE MARRIED
HER HUSBAND.
SHE WAS BROUGHT UP IN A
SIKH FAMILY.
Reporter: HER HUSBAND
SOON BECAME ABUSIVE.
MY CULTURE TAUGHT ME THAT
MARRIAGES ARE TO BE KEPT, SO
I KEPT TO TOLERATING IT FOR
MANY, MANY YEARS.
I WAS VERY, VERY BROKEN AND
VERY, VERY HURT, VERY ANGRY
WITH MY HUSBAND.
Reporter: BUT IT WASN'T
UNTIL HER LIFE WAS
THREATENED THAT SHE TOOK OUT
A RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINST
HER HUSBAND.
I HAD THE COURT GIVE ME
CHILD CUSTODY, AND I GOT THE
HOUSE.
AND I GOT EVERYTHING THAT
FROM THE WORLD'S PERSPECTIVE
WAS A WIN.
BUT INSIDE I WAS JUST
DYING.
I WENT INTO DEEP DEPRESSION
AT THAT POINT.
I JUST WANTED TO END IT
ALL.
DURING THIS TIME MY REALTOR
CAME TO VISIT ME.
AS I TOLD HIM ABOUT THE
SITUATION, HE TOLD ME THAT I
NEED TO FORGIVE MY HUSBAND.
AND HE TOLD ME ABOUT JESUS
AND HOW HE EXTENDS GRACE,
AND SO WE NEED TO EXTEND
GRACE.
I SAID, HE NEEDS TO SEEK MY
FORGIVENESS.
Reporter: AS AN ESCAPE,
TINA DECIDED TO TAKE HER TWO
DAUGHTERS ON A VACATION TO
DISNEYLAND.
BUT THE REALTOR WANTED TO
MEET BEFORE SHE LEFT.
HE SAT ME DOWN IN A
CONFERENCE ROOM AND READ TO
ME ABOUT THE ARMOR OF GOD.
HE TOOK TWO HOURS,
EXPLAINING EVERY WORD IN THE
ARMOR OF GOD.
AND WAS QUITE IMPRESSED BY
WHAT HE HAD TOLD ME.
I THOUGHT IF THE BIBLE -- IF
JUST A SMALL PASSAGE IS SO
INTRIGUING, THE BOOK WOULD
BE AMAZING.
I NEED TO READ WHAT THE BOOK
HAD.
I FOUND A BIBLE APP, AND THE
BEST PART WAS THAT IT WOULD
READ TO ME.
SO I GOT THE BIBLE APP AND I
STARTED LISTENING TO IT
WHILE DRIVING TO L.A., FOR
SEVEN HOURS.
Reporter: THEY REACHED
THEIR HOTEL AND TINA PUT
THEIR KIDS TO BED.
EVEN THOUGH SHE WAS DRIVING
ALL DAY, SHE HAD A DESIRE TO
KEEP READING THE BIBLE.
I READ UNTIL ABOUT 3 A.M.
AND AT SOME POINT I FELL
ASLEEP.
IN THE MIDDLE OF MY SLEEP, I
HAD JUST WOKEN UP.
I DON'T KNOW IF I WAS AWAKE
OR WAS A DREAM.
THE ROOF OF THE HOTEL ROOM
LIFTED UP, AND A HAND
REACHED DOWN ON ME.
AND THAT HAND TOUCHED MY
FOREHEAD AND SAID, YOU ARE
MY DAUGHTER AND I WILL NOT
LET YOU DIE.
I WOKE UP AND IT WAS ALMOST
AS IF A BACKPACK FULL OF
WEIGHTS HAD BEEN LIFTED OFF
OF ME.
I FELT VERY, VERY LIGHT IN
MY SPIRIT.
AND I DID NOT FEEL
DEPRESSION AT ALL.
SO WE WENT OFF TO
DISNEYLAND, AND EVERY TIME I
WOULD SEE A LONG LINE, I WAS
SO HAPPY BECAUSE THAT WOULD
GIVE ME 45 MINUTES OF
LISTENING TO THE BIBLE.
I WOULD LISTEN TO IT ALL DAY
AND THEN COME BACK AND
LISTEN TO IT IN THE NIGHT.
Reporter: WHEN TINA
RETURNED HOME FROM THE
VACATION, SHE DECIDED TO
BREAK HER RESTRAINING ORDER
AND MEET HER HUSBAND.
I HAD REHEARSED A LINE
ALL DAY, AND I HAD WRITTEN
IT ON MY PALM, THAT THIS IS
WHAT I'M GOING TO SAY.
I KNOCKED ON THE DOOR AND HE
OPENED IT, AND I COULDN'T
SAY A WORD.
Reporter: TINA IN HER
HUSBAND SAT DOWN, AND THEN
JUST LIKE IN HER HOTEL ROOM,
GOD SHOWED UP.
THERE WAS A MAN SITTING
RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME, BY THE
FIREPLACE, WEARING A WHITE,
SHINY COAT, AND HE HANDED ME
A SCROLL AND ASKED ME TO
READ IT.
ON IT WAS WRITTEN A THING
THAT I HAD DONE IN MY PAST,
WHICH WAS WRONG.
I SAID, I'M SORRY THAT I DID
THIS.
AND AS AS SOON A AS SOON AS
I SAID, I'M SORRY, THE SHEET
BLANK AND THERE WAS ANOTHER
LINE THAT APPEARED, WHICH
WAS ANOTHER SIN.
AND THIS WENT ON FOR TWO
HOURS.
Reporter: HER HUSBAND
NEVER SAW THE MAN IN WHITE,
BUT TINA'S REPENTANCE
TOUCHED HIM DEEPLY.
AT THE END OF THE TWO
HOURS, THIS MAN WHO WAS
SITTING RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME
SAID, IT'S FINISHED, AND HE
LEFT.
RIGHT THEN I FELT LIKE
EVERYTHING IN MY PAST HAD
BEEN WIPED OFF.
IT WAS A NEW START.
I FELT MY HEART HAD BEEN
CLEANSED.
A PHYSICAL CHANGE I FELT IN
MY SPIRIT AND MY BODY.
I FELT FORGIVENESS FOR MY
HUSBAND FROM THE BODY OF MY
HEART.
Reporter: IN THE MONTHS
AHEAD, TINA TRIED TO
RECONCILE WITH HER HUSBAND,
BUT HE WANTED NOTHING TO DO
WITH CHRISTIANITY.
I COMPLETELY FORGIVEN MY
HUSBAND.
I WANT HIM TO EXPERIENCE GOD
THE WAY I HAVE.
MY DAUGHTERS AND I ALL PRAY
FOR HIS LIFE TO BE CHANGED,
FOR GOD TO TOUCH HIS LIFE.
I REALLY BELIEVE ONE DAY IT
WILL.
GOD HAS REALLY STRENGTHENED
ME AND MADE MY WALK VERY,
VERY STRONG WITH HIM.
HE HAS BLESSED ME IN MANY,
MANY WAYS.
BOTH MY DAUGHTERS HAVE
ACCEPTED CHRIST.
AND MY MOM ACCEPTED CHRIST A
YEAR AGO.
MY SISTER ACCEPTED CHRIST A
FEW MONTHS AGO.
SO I CAN SEE GOD MOVING IN
MY FAMILY AND THINGS
CHANGING.
UYOU CAN BE FROM A
DIFFERENT CULTURE FRRK,
FROM A DIFFERENT RELIGION,
BUT GOD CAN STILL TOUCH
YOU.
AND GOD CAN STILL HEAL YOU.
GOD CAN BRING YOU OUT OF
THAT.
I BELIEVE FOR WOMEN OUT
THERE WHO HAVE GONE THROUGH
AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP,
THAT GOD CAN REALLY HEAL YOU
IF YOU GIVE IT TO HIM.
IF YOU SURRENDER, HE CAN
TAKE THAT AND MAKE YOUR LIFE
VERY BEAUTIFUL.