What's the difference between a covenant and a contract? Spoken word artist Jefferson Bethke shares how God really is our Father.
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Gordon: A MAN'S MOST
IMPORTANT JOB.
HE IS SO MUCH BETTER THAN
BEING OUR ETERNAL BOSS.
HE IS BETTER THAN THAT
BECAUSE HE IS A FATHER.
Gordon: HOW TO KNOW
YOUR TRUE FATHER ON TODAY'S
"700 CLUB INTERACTIVE."
ON "700 CLUB INTERACTIVE,"
WE USE TECHNOLOGY TO PRAY
FOR EACH OTHER AND EXPLORE
TOPICS THAT MATTER TO YOU.
WATCH WHAT GOD IS DOING IN
THE WORLD TODAY.
WELL, WELCOME TO "700 CLUB
INTERACTIVE."
WELL, CAN YOU GUESS WHAT 85%
OF YOUNG PEOPLE IN PRISON
HAVE IN COMMON?
AND WHAT THEY, IN TURN, HAVE
IN COMMON WITH 70% OF
PREGNANT TEENAGERS AND 70%
OF HIGH SCHOOL DROPOUTS.
WELL, THE ANSWER: THEY ALL
GREW UP IN HOMES WITHOUT
THEIR FATHERS.
Terry: AND THIS IS
BECOMING INCREASINGLY MORE
COMMON.
SO WE ASKED JUB STAR,
YouTube STAR, JEFFERSON
BESKE, ABOUT THE TRUE
MEANING OF BEING A FATHER.
I WANTED TO SHARE A
LESSON I LEARNED FROM THE
STORY OF THE PRODIGAL SON
WHICH SHAPED HOW I VIEW
GOD.
THE STORY IS THE DIFFERENCE
BETWEEN COVENANT AND
CONTRACT.
IT COMES FROM ONE VERSE IN
LUKE 15, OF COURSE 19 VERSE
19, WHERE THE PRODIGAL SON
LEFT AND THEN HE CAME HOME.
HE SAYS, FATHER, I HAVE
SINNED AGAINST HEAVEN AND
AGAINST YOU.
I AM NO LONGER WORTHY TO
BECOME YOUR SON.
TREAT ME AS ONE OF YOUR
HIRED SERVANTS.
THE REASON I THINK THAT
VERSE IS SO DIFFERENT
BECAUSE IT'S LIKE SO MUCH OF
US.
A LOT OF US ARE NOT MUCH
DIFFERENT.
MANY OF US WHO HAVE SINNED
SAY, I'M NOT WORTHY TO BE
CALLED YOUR SON.
FIRST OF ALL, NO ONE IS
WORTHY TO BECOME HIS SON.
IT JUST HAPPENS.
AND SECOND OF ALL, THOSE ARE
TWO DIFFERENT
RELATIONSHIPS.
A SON OR DAUGHTER IS A
COVENANT RELATIONSHIP, BUT A
HIRED SERVANT IS A CONTRACT
RELATIONSHIP.
A CONTRACT IS ABOUT THE
BEHAVIOR, NOT THE PROMISE.
MEANING IF YOU BREAK IT, IF
YOU MESS UP, IF YOU DO
SOMETHING BAD ENOUGH TO YOUR
BOSS, WHAT HAPPENS?
YOU GET FIRED, RIGHT?
WITH A COVENANT, YOU HAVE
NEVER SEEN THAT HAPPEN.
HAVE YOU EVER SEEN A KID
SPILL CEREAL ON THE FLOOR
AND THE PARENT SAYS, YOU
STUPID IDIOT, GET OUT OF
HERE.
I NEVER WANT TO SEE YOU
AGAIN.
IT DOESN'T HAPPEN BECAUSE IT
IS A COVENANT.
A COVENANT IS STRONGER THAN
ANY BEHAVIOR THAT CAN BE IN
THAT.
THAT'S WHERE GOD PUTS US.
HE SAYS WE'RE UNDER
COVENANT, AND NOT UNDER
CONTRACT.
BUT WE THINK IF WE MESS UP,
HE IS GOING TO FIRE US.
WE HAVE THE IMAGE OF A
LIGHTNING BOLT IN THE
HEAVENS.
I LIKE TO SAY, THAT'S NOT
GOD.
SO MY DAD'S NAME IS GARY
BESKE.
AND IF YOU SAY, HEY, JEFF,
IS GARY BESKE YOUR DAD?
AND I SAY, WELL, IT'S REALLY
HARD.
I MAYBE LOOKED AT SOMETHING
I SHOULDN'T HAVE LOOKED AT.
I GUESS I'M TRYING.
YOU'D BE, LIKE, DUDE YOU'RE
AN IDIOT.
THAT MAKES NO SENSE.
BECAUSE WHEN YOU'RE IN THE
FAMILY, YOU JUST ARE.
THE TRUTH ABOUT COVENANT IS
IT IS JUST BEHIND YOU.
YOU'RE IN THE FAMILY, AND
YOU HAVE THE D.N.A., AND
THAT FUELS YOU TOWARDS
GROWTH.
THAT FUELS YOU TOWARDS A
JOURNEY.
THE CONTRACT FLIPS THAT AND
SAYS IF I'M GOOD ENOUGH, IF
I TRY HARD ENOUGH, MAYBE I
CAN GET THE RAISE.
MAYBE I CAN GET THE JOB.
MAYBE I WOULDN'T GET FIRED
IN THE FUTURE.
BUT GOD IS SO MUCH BETTER
THAN A CONTRACT.
HE IS SO MUCH BETTER THAN
BEING AN ETERNAL BOSS.
HE IS BETTER THAN THAT
BECAUSE HE IS A FATHER.
MY QUESTION IS, DO YOU KNOW
HIM AS A FATHER?
AND HAVE YOU EVER COME UNDER
THE BLESSING OF BEING UNDER
COVENANT?
Gordon: WELL, HERE IS A
COVENANT FOR YOU IF YOU'RE
FATHERLESS.
AND IT IS IN THE BIBLE.
FROM PSALM 68: "GOD IS A
FATHER OF THE FATHERLESS, A
DESCENDER OF WIDOWS.
GOD IS IN HIS HOLY
HABITATION, AND GOD SETS THE
SOLITARY IN FAMILIES."
THAT'S HIS COVENANT TO YOU.
I WANT TO TALK TO SINGLE
MOTHERS BECAUSE A LOT OF
TIMES THEY FEEL LEFT OUT.
AND THEY'RE WONDERING WHY
WAS I FORSAKEN?
WHY DID THE MAN WHO I HAD
THIS BABY WITH -- WHY DID HE
LEAVE?
AND WHERE IS GOD IN ALL OF
THIS?
WELL, GOD HAS A VERY SPECIAL
COVENANT FOR YOU.
YOU FIND IT IN THE BOOK OF
ISAIAH, IN THE 54th
CHAPTER.
AND REALIZE WHERE HIS
CHAPTER IS IN THE SEQUENCE
OF THINGS BECAUSE IT FOLLOWS
CHAPTER 53, WHICH IS THE
CHAPTER ABOUT THE SUFFERING
SERVANT.
IT IS THE CHAPTER ABOUT WHAT
JESUS DID FOR YOU ON THE
COURTHOUSE.
CROSS.
FROM 54 ON WARDS, IT'S ALL
ABOUT WHAT WONDERFUL THINGS
GOD WANTS TO DO FOR THOSE
WHO BELIEVE IN HIS SUFFERING
SERVANT.
SO FOR YOU TO HAVE ACCESS TO
THIS COVENANT, ALL IT TAKES
IS FOR YOU TO BELIEVE IN THE
SACRIFICE THAT JESUS MADE
FOR YOU.
HERE IS THE COVENANT.
IT STARTS IN VERSE 5: "FOR
YOUR PACKE MAKER IS YOUR
HUSBAND.
THE LORD OF HOSTS IS HIS
NAME.
AND YOUR REDEEMER IS THE
HOLY ONE OF ISRAEL.
HE IS CALLED THE GOD OF THE
WHOLE EARTH.
FOR THE LORD HAS CALLED YOU
LIKE A WOMAN FOl1]#Q' AND
GRIEVED IN SPIRIT.
LIKE A YOUTHFUL WIFE, WHEN
YOU WERE REFUSED, SAYS YOUR
GOD.
FOR A MERE MOMENT I HAVE
FORSAKEN YOU, BUT WITH GREAT
MERCIES I WILL GATHER YOU.
WITH A LITTLE WRATH, I HID
MY FACE FROM YOU FOR A
MOMENT.
BUT WITH EVERLASTING
KINDNESS, I WILL HAVE MERCY
ON YOU," SAYS THE LORD YOUR
REDEEMER.
"FOR THIS IS LIKE THE WATERS
OF NOAH TO ME.
FOR AS I HAVE SWORN THAT THE
WATERS OF NOAH WOULD NO
LONGER COVER THE EARTH, SO I
HAVE SWORN THAT I WOULD NOT
BE ANGRY WITH NOR REBUKE
YOU."
NOW CLAIM THAT ONE FOR YOU.
SO OFTEN WHEN YOU'RE A
SINGLE PARENT YOU THINK IT
IS SOMEHOW YOUR FAULT, THAT
GOD HAS CURSED YOU, THAT HE
IS MAD AT YOU, AND THAT
THERE IS JUST NO WAY OUT OF
THIS.
UNDERSTAND THAT COVENANT IS
FOR YOU.
A COVENANT OF EVERLASTING
KINDNESS.
A CO COVENANT HE WILL NEVER
BEEN ANGRY WITH YOU.
JUST AS THE COVENANT HE MADE
WITH ALL OF THE EARTH AFTER
THE FLOOD, THAT HE WOULD
NEVER DESTROY THE EARTH.
SEA TIME AND HARVEST WOULD
REMAIN, AND IT REMAINS FOR
YOU.
THE COVENANT GOES ON.
"THE MOUNTAINS SHALL DEPART
AND THE HITS MAY BE REMOVED,
BUT MY KINDNESS SHALL NOT
DEPART FROM YOU, NOR SHALL
MY COVENANT OF PEACE BE
REMOVED.
OH, YOU AFFLICTED ONE,
TOSSED WITH TEMPEST AND NOT
COMFORTED, BEHOLD I WILL LAY
YOUR STONES WITH COLORFUL
GEMS, LAY YOUR FOUNDATION
WITH SAPPHIRES, I WILL MAKE
YOUR PINNACLES WITH RUBIES
AND ALL OF YOUR WALLS WITH
PRECIOUS STONE.
ALL OF YOUR CHILDREN SHALL
BE TAUGHT BY THE LORD, AND
GREAT SHALL BE THE PEACE OF
YOUR CHILDREN.
IN RIGHTEOUSNESS YOU SHALL
BE ESTABLISHED.
YOU SHALL BE FAR FROM
OPPRESSION.
YOU SHALL NOT FEAR FROM
TERROR, FOR IT SHALL NOT
COME NEAR YOU."
NOW, THAT'S A COVENANT YOU
CAN HOLD ON TO.
AND THAT IS A COVENANT FOR
EVERY SINGLE PARENT.
WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO ACCESS
IT?
BELIEVE.
BELIEVE IN WHAT JESUS DID
FOR YOU.
AND THAT COVENANT IN YOU
WILL BE ESTABLISHED.
TERRY?
Terry: WELL, STILL
AHEAD, WE'LL BE ANSWERING
YOUR QUESTIONS ABOUT
FATHERHOOD, BUT FIRST A
HORRIBLE ACCIDENT ON A DARK
COUNTRY ROAD.
THE WINDSHIELD BLEW OUT.
THE GLASS SHOULD HAVE
DECAPITATED ME, AND IT
DIDN'T.
ABOUT 30 SECONDS LATER, I
REALIZED I WAS A
PEDESTRIAN.
IT WAS HORRIFIC.
Terry: SEE WHAT
HAPPENED WHEN WE COME BACK.
Terry: ROBERT
GUESSSESKE SEEM TO HAVE IT
ALL.
HE WAS A STAR BASKETBALL
PLAYER AND INTERNATIONAL
MODEL, BUT IT WASN'T
ENOUGH.
ROBERT WANTED SOMETHING
MORE, THE LOVE AND APPROVAL
OF HIS FATHER.
Reporter: ROBERT
ENJOYED THE MONEY AND STATUS
THAT CAME WITH BEING AN
INTERNATIONAL MODEL.
SOME WAY, SOMEHOW I'M
GOING TO BE OKAY IF I JUST
GET TO ANOTHER LEVEL.
IF I GET STARDOM, THAT NEXT
LEVEL OF NOTORIETY, THAT'S
WHEN I'M GOING TO BE
FULFILLED.
Reporter: BUT WHAT HE
LIKED MOST IS THE ATTENTION,
SOMETHING HE SAYS HE NEVER
GOT FROM HIS DAD.
I HAD THIS AMAZING MOM,
BUT I WAS ALWAYS LOOKING FOR
THE APPROVAL OF THE LOVE OF
A FATHER.
IT LED TO ME BEING VERY,
VERY INSECURE.
Reporter: ONE PLACE HE
DID FIND APPROVAL WAS O ON
THE BASKETBALL COURT.
HE WAS A STAR IN HIS SMALL
TOWN IN MASSACHUSETTS.
TO HIM IT WAS MORE THAN JUST
A SPORT.
IT WAS A WAY TO MASK THE
PAIN.
I BECAME OBSESSIVE WITH IT.
BECAUSE THE MORE I PLAYED
BASKETBALL, THE MORE I
DIDN'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE
VOID INSIDE.
Reporter: IN HIGH
SCHOOL, HIS HEAD COACH WAS A
FATHER FIGURE TO HIM.
HE SHOWED THIS
UNCONDITIONAL LOVE TOWARDS
ME.
EN MY HIGHS AND MY LOWS, HE
WAS A REAL BIG ROCK IN MY
LIFE.
Reporter:
Reporter: HE EARNED A
COLLEGE SANTA CLAUS PARADE,
SCHOLARSHIP, WHERE HE
ENJOYED HIS CAREER.
BUT AN INJURY CUT SHORT HIS
CAREER.
I JUST KNEW IT WAS OVER.
WHERE DO YOU GO FROM THERE?
IT WAS SUGGESTED TO ME TO GO
INTO FASHION.
AND TO START TO MODEL.
I'M GOING TO MAKE MY DAD
PROUD.
I'M GOING TO MAKE MY MOM
PROUD.
AND I MOVED TO NEW YORK AND
I STARTED TO MODEL.
Reporter: ROBERT GAINED
RECOGNITION IN THE U.S. AND
OVERSEAS.
HE LOVED THE ATTENTION, BUT
HE WAS ALSO DRAWN INTO THE
LIFESTYLE OF THE FASHION
INDUSTRY.
I REALLY STARTED GOING
INTO THE PARTY SCENE HARD.
I WAS REALLY INTRODUCED TO
THE CLUB DRUGS THERE IN
GREECE, THE ECSTASY AND
COCAINE AND SPECIAL "K" AND
WEED.
Reporter: AFTER FIVE
YEARS, THAT LIFESTYLE WORE
THING.
THE ACCOLADES THAT I
RECEIVED IN FASHION STILL
WAS NOT CUTTING IT.
SO I JUST WANTED TO GO HOME
WHERE I WAS REALLY LOVED.
Reporter: ROBERT LEFT
MODELING, QUIT THE DRUGS,
AND RETURNED TO SUTTON TO
COACH BASKETBALL.
WHILE DRIVING HOME AFTER A
GAME ONE NIGHT --
THE WINDSHIELD BLEW OUT.
THE GLASS SHOULD HAVE
DECAPITATED ME, AND IT
DIDN'T.
ABOUT 30 SECONDS LATER, I
REALIZED I WAS A
PEDESTRIAN.
IT WAS HORRIFIC.
THEY FOUND OUT THAT A PERSON
HAD THREE TIMES OVER THEIR
ALCOHOL LEVEL, AND
UNFORTUNATELY THE PEDESTRIAN
WAS STANDING IN THE MIDDLE
OF THE ROAD.
Reporter: THOUGH THE
ACCIDENT WAS NOT HIS FAULT,
ROBERT COULDN'T SHAKE HIS
FEELINGS OF GUILT.
HOW DOES SOMEONE DIE WHEN
IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT, AND
YET YOU FEEL RESPONSIBLE
BECAUSE YOU'RE DRIVING THE
CAR.
I WAS SO DEVASTATED, I
NEEDED TO GET AWAY.
THAT'S WHEN I WENT BACK TO
HONG KONG IN MY LAST STINT,
JUST TO GET AWAY FROM THE
AREA AND THE ENVIRONMENT.
Reporter: THE AGENCY
ASSIGNED HIM A ROOMMATE.
THE MAN WAS A CHRISTIAN AND
NOTICED ROBERT WAS HURTING.
HE SHARED ABOUT THE
SUFFERING THAT JESUS WENT
THROUGH.
AND HE HAD GONE THROUGH THE
SUFFERING FOR THE SINS OF
THE WORLD.
AND IT REALLY, REALLY GAVE
ME A LOT OF HOPE.
Reporter: BUT THAT HOPE
SOON TURNED TO ANGER.
WHEN ROBERT CAME HOME, HE
RECONNECTED WITH HIS DAD,
BUT WITHIN MONTHS, HIS
FATHER DIED.
SOON AFTER, HIS FORMER COACH
ALSO PASSED AWAY.
AND ROBERT BLAMED GOD.
I JUST WAS SO MAD.
I SAID, YOU KNOW, GOD, IF
WHAT MY ROOMMATE SAID IN
HONG KONG IS TRUE, AND YOU
ARE WHO YOU SAY YOU ARE,
YOU'VE GOT TO PROVE IT
BECAUSE I DON'T BELIEVE IT.
I'VE LOST MY FATHER, MY
COACH, AND I'M STILL DEALING
WITH THE RESIN OF THE
ACCIDENT BECAUSE ALL OF
THESE THINGS ARE ONLY
BRINGING THAT BACK UP, TOO.
AND I'VE LOST EVERYTHING.
Reporter: ONE NIGHT
WHILE WATCHING TELEVISION,
ROBERT CAME ACROSS A
PREACHER WHO WAS GIVING A
MESSAGE HE HAD HEARD
BEFORE.
GOD WANTS YOU WELL.
AND THAT GOD'S ONLY GOOD.
AND THAT THE DEVIL COMES TO
KILL, STEAL, AND DESTROY,
BUT GOD CAME TO GIVE LIFE,
AND LIFE ABUNDANTLY.
HE SAID THAT YOU HAVE TO
GIVE YOUR LIFE TO JESUS, AND
THAT YOU NEED TO BE BORN
AGAIN AND BAPTIZED IN THE
HOLY SPIRIT.
AND NO NOT ONLY DID CHRIST
TAKE MY SINS, BUT HE TOOK MY
SICKNESS.
Reporter: ROBERT
ACCEPTED JESUS CHRIST AS HIS
SAVIOR.
IT WAS INCREDIBLE.
FOR THE FIRST TIME I FELT A
REAL, REAL, REAL ENCOUNTER
OF THE LOVE OF A FATHER.
AND THAT WAS THROUGH OUR
HEAVENLY FATHER.
THAT VOID THAT I WAS ALWAYS
LOOKING FOR MY WHOLE LIFE
WAS FINALLY FILLED.
Reporter: ROBERT GREW
IN HIS FAITH AND SAYS HE
LEARNED THAT JESUS WASN'T
THE CAUSE OF HIS PROBLEMS;
HE WAS THE SOLUTION.
I CAN'T COMPARE MY
SUFFERING AT ALL -- AT ALL
COMPARED TO OUR SAVIOR.
HE DIDN'T CAUSE ANY OF THIS
PAIN.
THAT WE'RE IN A FALLEN
WORLD, AND THAT HE'S ONLY
GOOD.
Reporter: ROBERT IS NOW
MARRIED, AND HE AND HIS WIFE
ARE EXPECTING THEIR FIRST
CHILD.
SHE IS THE MOST AMAZING
WOMAN, AND LOVES GOD SO
MUCH.
AND IT IS JUST SUCH AN HONOR
AND A JOURNEY TO BE WITH HER
AND WITH OUR NEW CHILD ON
THE WAY.
THE GOODNESS OF GOD HAS JUST
CHANGED MY LIFE.
WHEN YOU COME FROM A PLACE
OF APPROVAL, WHEN YOU KNOW
YOU'RE ALREADY APPROVED,
THERE IS NO MORE PRESSURE.
YOU'RE JUST SATISFIED.
Terry: WELL, WE ARE
"700 CLUB INTERACTIVE," AND
WE HAVE RECEIVED QUESTIONS
FROM OUR VIEWERS.
YOU KNOW, SOME OF WHAT WE'RE
GOING TO TALK ABOUT TODAY
HAS TO DO WITH WHAT ROBERT
TALKED ABOUT.
YOU KNOW, WONDERING WHO WE
ARE, AND NEEDING APPROVAL
AND WANTING CONNECTION, AND
THEN WHERE DO WE FIND THAT
IF LIFE DOESN'T DEAL A CARD
TO US THAT PROVIDES IT.
Gordon: WELL, YOU FIND
IT IN YOUR HEAVEN FATHER.
Terry: YES.
Gordon: AND THAT'S
WHERE YOU SHOULD LOOK FOR
THE ANSWER.
IF YOU TRY TO FIND IT FROM
EARTHLY FATHERS, THEY'RE
ALWAYS GOING TO LET YOU
DONE.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT IT IS
ABOUT YOUNG CHILDREN -- AND
THIS TENDS TO BE
UNIVERSAL -- THEY LOOK TO
THEIR PARENTS AS SOMEHOW
ALL-POWERFUL AND ALL-KNOWING
BECAUSE THAT'S OUR
EXPERIENCE GROWING UP.
AND THEN THE REALIZATION,
WELL, THERE ARE SOME FLAWS
HERE, AND THERE ARE SOME
THINGS THAT WEREN'T RIGHT.
AND PARTICULARLY IF THEY'RE
ENTIRELY ABSENT, THEN A LOT
OF THINGS AREN'T RIGHT.
BUT WHEN YOU LOOK TO JESUS,
AND YOU LOOK TO THE ACCESS
TO THE FATHER HE HAS GIVEN
US, IT'S THE FIRST THING HE
SAID TO MARY MAGDALENE.
MY GOD AND YOUR GOD, MY
FATHER AND YOUR FATHER, AND
WE PRAY THE LORD'S PRAYER,
"OUR FATHER," AND WE PRAY IT
CASUALLY, BUT TO BE ABLE TO
SAY YOU HAVE THAT COVENANT
FAMILY RELATIONSHIP WITH THE
ALL-FATHER, THE CREATOR OF
THE UNIVERSE, WELL, THERE IS
HUGE IMPLICATIONS TO THAT.
AND IT IS A RELATIONSHIP
THAT GROWS OVER TIME.
Terry: RUBIN SAYS,
"I'VE READ IN THE BIBLE
ABOUT THE POWER OF A FATHER
SPEAKING A BLESSING OVER HIS
SON.
AND THAT GOD MADE A COVENANT
WITH US FOR BLESSINGS.
MY DAD DID NOTHING BUT CURSE
ME.
HE WISHED I HAD NEVER BEEN
BORN, AND SAID THAT I WAS
WORTHLESS.
PEOPLE TELL ME THAT THIS IS
NOT THE HEART OF GOD, BUT
I'M HAVING A HARD TIME
BELIEVING THERE ARE
BLESSINGS FOR ME.
I FEEL LIKE I'VE BEEN BORN
INTO A CURSED LIFE.
CAN YOU HELP ME UNDERSTAND
WHAT'S TRUE AND HOW TO GET
RID OF THESE NEGATIVE
THOUGHTS?"
Gordon: RUBIN, YOU HAVE
TO UNDERSTAND WHAT HAPPENED
ON THE CROSS.
WHAT HAPPENED ON THE CROSS
IS THAT ALL CURSES WERE
LIFTED.
THE BIBLE SAYS, WHOEVER
HANGS ON A TREE IS CURSED.
THE BIBLE SAYS, JESUS TOOK
ALL OF THOSE CURSES AND HE
HUNG ON THAT TREE, AND HE
TOOK EVERY SINGLE CURSE FROM
ALL TIME.
SO THOSE CURSES THAT YOUR
FATHER SPOKE OVER YOU NO
LONGER APPLY TO YOU.
AND THEY'RE NOT REAL.
NOW, ARE YOU WORTH WHAT
JESUS PAID FOR YOU?
START THINKING THAT.
ARE YOU WORTH THAT?
WELL, IN THE EYES OF JESUS,
YOU ARE.
AND HE LEFT THE 99 TO GO
SEEK FOR THE ONE.
AND THAT'S YOU.
AND BECAUSE YOU KNOW HIM, HE
SOUGHT YOU OUT.
HE CHOSE YOU.
AND HE SAYS THAT YOU'RE
WORTHWHILE.
THAT YOU'RE WORTH THE PRICE
HE PAID FOR YOU.
NOW YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE
THAT.
AND YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT
AS A REALITY.
BOTH THE REALITY THAT THERE
ARE NO MORE CURSES OVER YOU,
AND THE REALITY THAT YOUR
WORTH WAS JESUS PAID FOR
YOU.
NOW, WHY DID HE PAY THAT
PRICE?
HE PAID IT SO HE CAN HAVE A
RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU.
THAT'S THE INFINITE VALUE TO
HIM.
THAT'S BEEN HIS DREAM FROM
THE BEGINNING.
HE CREATED THE EARTH, THE
UNIVERSE, EVERYTHING IN IT,
SO THAT YOU AND I COULD HAVE
CONVERSATIONS WITH HIM IN
THE COOL OF THE EVENING IN A
GARDEN.
THAT'S WHAT HE WANTED.
AND HE STILL WANTS IT.
SO HAVE THAT CONVERSATION
WITH HIM.
START ASKING, CAN I HEAR
YOUR VOICE?
CAN I UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU
HAVE FOR ME?
AND WHEN YOU DO THAT, HE'LL
RESPOND.
HE'LL ANSWER YOU.
AND HE'LL FILL YOUR MIND,
YOUR VERY BEING, WITH HIS
PRESENCE AND HIS WORD.
IF YOU'RE HAVING TROUBLE
LISTENING TO HIS VOICE,
START WITH THE BIBLE.
START FINDING THE PROMISES
THERE ARE FOR THOSE WHO
BELIEVE.
ALL THE PROMISES OF GOD ARE
YES AND AMEN FOR THOSE WHO
ARE IN CHRIST JESUS.
THAT'S YOU.
SO START FINDING THOSE
PROMISES, AND THEN START
REALIZING THOSE PROMISES AND
LIVE IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE
PROMISE.
THEN YOU'LL HAVE ALL THESE
BLESSINGS.
AND THE CURSES WILL BECOME A
DIM MEMORY.
STILL AHEAD, WE'RE GOING TO
BE PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR
NEEDS.
PLUS, A FATHER WHO IS
RAISING TWO DOZEN CHILDREN
IN ONE OF THE POOREST
COUNTRIES IN THE WORLD.
FIND OUT HOW HE DOES IT.
THAT'S UP NEXT.
Gordon: THE PEOPLE OF
SIERRA LEONE ARE AMONG THE
POOREST IN THE WORLD.
AND FOR CHILDREN THERE, LIFE
IS ESPECIALLY HARD.
AGNES' LIFE WAS NO
DIFFERENT, UNTIL SHE MET
PASTOR JACOB.
Terry: HERE IN THE
SEASIDE VILLAGE OF SIERRA
LEONE, MOST FAMILIES FISH
FOR A LIVING.
WE MET A YOUNG GIRL, NAMED
AGNES, WHO'S FATHER WAS A
FISHERMAN.
BUT JUST AS SOON AS SHE WAS
BORN, AGNES HAD ALMOST NO
FAMILY AT ALL.
AGNES' MOTHER DIED WHEN SHE
WAS BORN, AND HER FATHER
COULDN'T TAKE CARE OF HER,
SO SHE WAS LEFT WITH HER
GRANDMOTHER.
IT IS ALMOST REALLY TOO
EASY FOR ME, AND THE MOST
DIFFICULT.
Reporter: PASTOR JACOB
AND HIS WIFE WANTED TO TAKE
AGNES IN, BUT THEY WERE
ALREADY RAISING TWO DOZEN
CHILDREN IN A SMALL
APARTMENT.
THEY DIDN'T HAVE ROOM FOR
AGNES TO LIVE THERE.
SO AGNES SPENT PART OF EACH
DAY PLAYING WITH THE OTHER
CHILDREN.
BUT AT THE END OF EVERY DAY,
SHE HAD TO LEAVE.
WHEN "ORPHANS' PROMISE"
HEARD ABOUT PASTOR JACOB
TAKING CARE OF SO MANY
CHILDREN IN SUCH A SMALL
SPACE, WE BUILT THEM A BRAND
NEW HOME.
THE CHILDREN HAVE BIG ROOMS
AND THEIR OWN BEDS HERE.
AND NOW AGNES CAN LIVE WITH
ALL OF THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE
BECOME HER FAMILY.
THROUGH YOUR HELP AND
SUPPORT, THESE CHILDREN HAVE
A DECENT HOME, GOOD FOOD TO
EAT, AND PLACES WHERE THEY
CAN STUDY AND LOOK FORWARD
TO A GREAT FUTURE.
Gordon: YOU CAN BE A
PART OF THAT.
HOW?
BY GIVING TO "ORPHANS' PROMISE."
IF YOU WANT TO DESIGNATE
YOUR GIFT TO "ORPHANS'
PROMISE," ALL YOU HAVE TO DO
IS LOG ON TO CBN.COM.
OR YOU CAN CALL US.
THE NUMBER IS TOLL-FREE.
1-888-777-1999.
JUST SAY, I WANT TO GIVE TO
ORPHANS PROMISE.
I WANT TO HELP ORPHANS
AROUND THE WORLD, AND WE'LL
SEND YOUR GIFT OUT TO HELP
THOSE WHO ARE IN NEED.
RELIEF FOR ORPHANS AND
WIDOWS IS PURE AND UNDEFILED
RELIGION.
THAT'S WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS.
SO WHEN YOU'RE DOING IT,
YOU'RE DOING IT IN HIS
NAME.
AND IT IS A WONDERFUL
BLESSING FOR THOSE AROUND
THE WORLD.
DO IT NOW.
1-888-777-1999.
WELL, WE'RE GOING TO BE
PRAYING FOR YOU, SO LET'S GO
OVER TO JESSICA IN THE
CHATROOM.
WELL, GORDON, BRIANNA
WRITES IN, "MY GRANDFATHER
WAS ALWAYS LIKE A DAD TO
ME.
HE DIED WHEN I WAS 15, AND I
BECAME ANGRY AND ACTED OUT.
I LOST MY VIRGINITY AND GOT
PREGNANT.
WHEN I TOLD MY MOTHER, SHE
SAID I NEEDED TO HAVE AN
ABORTION.
I DID, BUT I GOT PREGNANT
AGAIN.
THIS TIME SHE WAS FURIOUS,
BUT LET ME PUT THIS CHILD UP
FOR ADOPTION.
PLEASE PRAY FOR ME.
I'M VERY ANGRY WITH MY MOM
AND HAVE A HUGE EMPTINESS
INSIDE OF ME."
BRETT WRITES IN, "PLEASE
PRAY FOR ME.
I DON'T KNOW HOW TO BE A
FATHER BECAUSE I'VE NEVER
HAD ONE.
I NEVER WANTED KIDS, BUT MY
WIFE WANTS US TO HAVE A
BABY.
I'M SCARED BECAUSE I DON'T
KNOW WHAT KIND OF FATHER I
WILL BE.
PRAY THAT THIS FEAR WILL GO
AWAY AND I WILL BE AN
AMAZING DAD."
AND FINALLY, AUDRA WRITES
IN, "I'M A SINGLE MOTHER
WITH A 14-YEAR-OLD
DAUGHTER.
SHE HAS NEVER KNOWN HER
FATHER.
WE ARE GOING TO CHURCH AND
SHE IS STARTING TO BELIEVE
THAT GOD LOVES HER.
PLEASE PRAY FOR HERMENT I
WANHER.
I WANT HER TO TRULY BELIEVE
THAT GOD IS HER FATHER."
WE'RE GOING TO GO TO PRAY.
PLEASE JOIN IN WITH US.
HEAVENLY FATHER, WE THANK
YOU SO MUCH.
WE THANK YOU THAT YOU'RE A
GOOD AND LOVING FATHER.
THAT WE CAN COME TO YOU AND
CRY OUT ABBA FATHER.
FATHER, WE LIFT UP BRIANNA,
AND, LORD, WE ASK THAT YOU
COME, AND THAT YOU HEAL HER
HEART.
HEAL HER FROM THE ABORTION.
HEAL HER FROM HER MOTHER
ENCOURAGING HER TO HAVE THE
ABORTION.
FATHER, HEAL HER BODY.
HEAL HER MIND.
WE ASK THAT SHE WOULD BE
ABLE TO FORGIVE AND RELEASE
ALL OF THE BITTERNESS AND
UNFORGIVENESS TOWARDS HER
MOM.
FATHER, WE ASK THAT SHE
WOULD HAVE AN ENCOUNTER WITH
THE LOVE OF THE HEAVENLY
FATHER.
WE ASK THAT YOUR SPIRIT OF
ADOPTION COME AND JUST BE
MANIFEST IN HER LIFE.
LORD, WE PRAY FOR BRETT, WHO
IS CONCERNED THAT BECAUSE HE
DIDN'T HAVE A FATHER, THAT
HE WON'T BE A GOOD FATHER.
LORD, AGAIN, WE ASK FOR A
REVELATION OF YOUR FATHER'S
HEART.
YOUR FATHER'S LOVE TO BE
PERMEATING THROUGHOUT HIS
WHOLE BEING.
THAT HAD WILL HAVE THE
CONFIDENCE TO KNOW THAT HE
CAN RAISE A CHILD, AND TO BE
THAT BEAUTIFUL PICTURE OF
THE HEAVENLY FATHER TO HIS
OWN CHILDREN.
AND, LORD, WE LIFT UP AUDRA
AND HER CONCERN FOR HER
14-YEAR-OLD DAUGHTER.
LORD, WE KNOW THAT EVEN A
14-YEAR-OLD CAN HAVE AN
ENCOUNTER SO STRONG THAT IT
WOULD CHANGE THE COURSE OF
HER LIFE.
SO, FATHER, WE ASK THAT YOU
ENCOUNTER HER.
WE ASK THAT YOU REVEAL
YOURSELF AS FATHER.
AND, LORD, WE JUST PRAY,
AGAIN, FOR ALL OF THE FATHER
WOUNDS, FOR THE PEOPLE WHO
ARE WATCHING.
AND WE PRAY FOR THOSE WITH
MOTHER WOUNDS.
AND, LORD, WE KNOW THAT YOU
CAN SATISFY THOSE EMPTY
PLACES, THAT YOU CAN COME IN
AND HEAL IN WAYS THAT NO
SUBSTANCE CAN HEAL, NO
PERSON CAN HEAL.
THAT NOTHING ELSE IN
CREATION CAN HEAL.
BUT THAT YOU CAN FILL THAT
VOID AND TAKE AWAY THE PAIN
AND THE GRIEF.
SO COME NOW, FATHER.
WE OPEN UP OUR HEARTS AND WE
INVITE YOU IN.
IN YOUR NAME, AMEN.
Gordon: WELL, THAT'S
ALL THE TIME WE HAVE FOR
THIS PROGRAM.
WE LEAVE YOU WITH THESE
WORDS FROM PSALMS: "FATHER
TO THE FATHERLESS.
DEFENDER OF WIDOWS.
THIS IS GOD, WHO'S DWELLING
IS HOLY."
GOD BLESS YOU.