Author of Hooked Gregory Jantz shares about the pitfalls of media, technology and social media.
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70% OF AMERICANS CAN'T GO AN
HOUR WITHOUT IT. THE ADDICTION
THAT MAY HAVE TAKEN OVER THE
LIVES OF YOUR FRIENDS AND
FAMILY
ON TODAY'S "THE 700 CLUB"
INTERACTIVE.
WELCOME TO THE SHOW.
TECHNOLOGY HAS BEEN MADE IT
EASIER FOR US TO CONNECT, AND
SOCIALIZE, BUT THE PROBLEMS
WITH
THESE THINGS AND ALL THESE
ADVANCES CAN ALSO BE DAMAGING
AS
IT IS INTRODUCED PHRASES AS
CRACK BERRY AND IPAD ENVY TO
THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE.
YEAH JUST ONE MORE.
I WILL BE THERE AT 5:00.
[INAUDIBLE]
NO, IT'S NOT WHAT IT LOOKS
LIKE.
, WELL JOIN BE US JOW IS
AUTHOR GREGORY CHANCE. THANKS
FOR BEING WITH US.
THIS SAN IMPORTANT TOP
DISBLIK IT IS. YOU MADE AN
PROVOKIVE STATEMENT IN YOUR
BOOK
AND SMART PHONES ARE KIND OF
LIKE LSD. WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY
THAT?
WE'RE SEEING MORE AND MORE
FOLKS WHO ARE TRULY ADDICTED TO
TECHNOLOGY. 75% OF FOLKS THAT
WE WORK WITH CANNOT PUT DOWN
THEIR DEVICE FOR ONE DAY
WITHOUT
CHECKING IT AND WE'RE FINDING
PEOPLE WITH TRUE ANXIETY ORDER.
BY THAT I MEAN THEY GET
PHYSICAL
SYMPTOMS THAT THEY CAN'T GET TO
THEIR DEVICE.
I WILL TELL YOU A STORY OF
ONE OF MY FRIENDS WHO I
SECRETLY
TOOK HIS SMART PHONE, AND HE
LITERALLY -- HE STARTED TO GET
ALL KINDS OF ANXIETY BECAUSE HE
COULDN'T FIND IT, AND IT WAS
KIND OF ODD, AND THE MORE HE
GOT
DISTRESSED IT WAS JUST A SPACE
OF ABOUT 90 SECONDS, AND HE
COULDN'T FIND IT, AND I GAVE IT
BACK TO HIM. HE DIDN'T TALK TO
ME FOR A WHILE AFTER THAT. WHY
DO WE GET ADDICTED TO IT? WHY
DO WE HAVE FEELINGS OF ANXIETY
IF WE CAN'T FIND OUR PHONE OR
GO
FOR A PERIOD WITHOUT CHECKING
OUR EMAIL?
YOU KNOW GORDON THAT'S A
GREAT QUESTION AND WE ACTUALLY
FIND OURSELVES ADDICTED IN THE
SENSE BECAUSE WE LIVE IN A ONE
CLICK SOCIETY SO EVERYTHING IS
INSTANT AND THE TECHNOLOGY
TEACHES US, WHAT I CALL, LOW
IMPULSE CONTROL. WE HAVE
TROUBLE CONTROLLING OUR
IMPULSES. WITH THAT SAID ONE
OF
THE THINGS WE WANT TO DO IS
BALANCE TECHNOLOGY IN OUR LIVES
BUT MY CONCERN IS EVEN WHAT
WE'RE MODELING FOR OUR KIDS.
THERE IS A NEW STUDY COMING
OUT OF STANFORD AND HOW YOUNG
MEN TODAY BECAUSE THEY'RE
SPENDING SO MANY HOURS DOING
VIDEO GAMES AND FRANKLY SO MANY
HOURS WATCHING INTERNET PORN
AND
THEIR ABILITY TO INTERACT WITH
FEMALE IS NOW AT RISK. HAVE
YOU
SEEN THAT.
I HAVE AND THOSE THAT HAVE
VIRTUAL RELATIONSHIPS AND NOT
TRUE RELATIONSHIPS THEY DON'T
GO
THROUGH THE NORMAL RELATIONSHIP
STAGES AND ON LINE AND FACEBOOK
-- I LOOK PERFECT ONLINE AND WE
PRESENT OUR BEST AND WE FIND
OURSELVES MOVING TOWARDS THESE
VIRTUAL RELATIONSHIPS AND MANY
TIMES TAKE US WHERE WE DON'T
WANT TO GO. THE AVERAGE AGE OF
EXPOSURE TO PORNOGRAPHY ON THE
INTERNET IS ACTUALLY 11 YEARS
OLD.
THAT'S A SHOCK. I DIDN'T
KNOW THAT STAT.
YEAH.
I HEARD IT'S AS HIGH OF 50%
OF MALES AND 25% OF FEMALE HAVE
A PROBLEM WITH ONLINE
PORNOGRAPHY AND THE NUMBERS ARE
GETTING WORSE.
YES.
IT'S REALLY STARTING TO GET
STAGGERING AND THERE IS AN
ADDITION THERE TOO THAT IS
SEPARATE FROM THE WHOLE
TECHNOLOGY ADDICTION.
ABSOLUTELY.
WHY DO -- I HAVE NOTICED A
PHENOMENON WHERE TEXTING SEEMS
TO BE TAKING OVER FOR
CONVERSATION WHERE YOU
LITERALLY
HAVE PEOPLE IN THE SAME ROOM
TEXTING EACH OTHER OPPOSED TO
TALKING. ARE WE FUNDAMENTALLY
CHANGING OUR SOCIAL
INTERACTIONS
AS A CULTURE?
OH MY GOODNESS. I MUST TELL
YOU FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.
I
HAVE TWO BOYS. I KNEW I HAD A
PROBLEM WHEN AT THE DINNER
TABLE
THEY'RE TEXTING BACK AND FORTH
TO EACH OTHER. YES. AND YOU
KNOW OUR YOUNG PEOPLE DON'T USE
A CELL PHONE TO MAKE PHONE
CALLS. THEY USE A CELL PHONE
FOR TEXTING. I CALLED MY SON
THE OTHER DAY AND HE DIDN'T
ANSWER BUT TEXTS ME BACK AND
SAYS "DAD, WHAT DO YOU WANT?"
AND THE TEXTING HAS ITS OWN
UNIQUE LANGUAGE AS WELL, AND IF
YOU DON'T KNOW THE LANGUAGE OF
TEXTING THERE IS A GENERATION
GAP THERE.
YOUR BOOK ALSO POINTS OUT
THERE'S ANOTHER FACTOR HERE
THAT
THE TECHNOLOGY IS ACTUALLY
INCREASING STRESS, INCREASING
ANXIETY FOR US. HOW DOES THAT
HAPPEN?
WELL, THE STRESS AND ANXIETY
-- ONE OF THE THINGS THAT
HAPPENS
GORDON WE FIND OURSELVES --
HERE
IS MY SMART PHONE AND IF WE
CAN'T GET TO THESE THINGS IT
CREATES PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS OF
ANXIETY. HOW THIS DEVELOPS IS
WE KEEP THIS WITH US. I HAVE
CLIENTS THAT COME TO SEE US
THEY
SLEEP WITH THEIR SMART PHONE,
THEIR DEVICE BECAUSE THEY DON'T
WANT TO MISS A TEXT. THAT'S A
PROBLEM.
YEAH. I WOULD SAY THAT'S A
PROBLEM. WHAT CAN WE DO TO GET
BACK TO WHAT I WOULD SAY OLD
FASHION CONNECTIONS, OLD
FASHION
CONVERSATION, REAL
INTERPERSONAL
CONNECTING WITH ANOTHER PERSON?
HOW CAN WE GET THERE?
ONE OF THE THINGS I WANT TO
MAKE SURE THAT WE'RE DOING IS
THAT WE ARE ACTUALLY SPENDING
MORE TIME WITH OUR REAL
RELATIONSHIPS IN PERSON VERSUS
OUR VIRTUAL RELATIONSHIPS, AND
ONE OF THE THINGS YOU MIGHT
WANT
TO TRY TAKE ONE DAY -- MAYBE
IT'S SUNDAY AND DO A TECHNOLOGY
DETOX. TAKE THAT DAY AND SET
IT
ASIDE AND DON'T INVOLVE
YOURSELF
WITH TECHNOLOGY ONE DAY. SEE
HOW YOU FEEL. SEE IF THERE ARE
PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS. HOW DO YOU
FEEL EMOTIONALLY? DO YOU FEEL
DISCONNECTED?
BUT ALLOW THAT AND AS A PLACE
OF
STARTING. ONE OF THE THINGS I
WANT YOU TO DO IS WHEN YOU ARE
PEOPLE REALLY BE WITH THEM.
HAVE YOU EVER BEEN WITH
SOMEONE AND
THEY'RE TEXTING.
NO MORE MULTITASKING. IF
YOU
WANT TO HEAR ABOUT GREG'S WORK
AND GO TO "700 CLUB"
INTERACTIVE.COM AND HIS BOOK IS
AVAILABLE WHERE BOOKS ARE
SOLD.
THANKS FOR BEING WITH US TODAY.
THANKS GORDON
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DIVORCED WHEN HE WAS FIVE.
SHE WENT TO LIVE WITH HER
FATHER
WHO REMARRIED. SHE DIDN'T FEEL
LIKE SHE FELT IN AND FELT
INSIGNIFICANT.
I WAS INSECURE. IT WAS
AWFUL. I FELT VERY FORGOTTEN.
WHEN SHE GOT OLDER SHE MET A
YOUNG MAN WHO SHOWERED HER WITH
ATTENTION. HE WAS RICH AND
BOUGHT HER GIFTS. HE DIDN'T
KNOW WHERE HE GOT HIS MONEY
UNTIL SHE HEARD HIM YELLING ON
THE PHONE.
I WAS LIKE "WHO ARE YOU
TALKING TO?" AND HE SAID "I
SELL DOPE AND MY MOM IS A CRACK
HEAD AND SHE STOLE ALL MY DOPE,
AND I WAS LIKE "WOW".
HER BOYFRIEND WAS A
NOTORIOUS
DRUG DEALER.
I KNEW IT WAS WRONG AND
CRIMINALLY AND MORALLY WRONG. I
GUESS IT WAS EXCITING. THERE
WAS A LOT OF MONEY INVOLVED. A
LOT OF FLASHING STUFF, JEWELRY,
CARS.
AMANDA FOUND HERSELF DEEP IN
THE DRUG WORLD AND HER
BOYFRIEND'S OBSESSION WITH HER.
SHE THOUGHT IT WAS CHARMING
UNTIL HE TRIED TO HURT SOMEONE.
HE DIDN'T BELIEVE HER.
HE WAS PLANNING KILL THIS
GUY. HE WAS NOT HIDING HIS
FEELINGS ABOUT THIS, SO HE
CALLS
HIM TO THE PARK AND WHEN HE GOT
TO THE PARK THE NEXT THING YOU
KNOW THEY STARTED SHOOTING HIM.
SHOT HIM FIVE TIMES. AFTER
THAT
HE WAS DEAD.
AMANDA'S BOYFRIEND WAS
SENTENCED TO 24 YEARS IN
PRISON.
WHEN HERE FATHER FOUND OUT HE
DISOWNED HER AND BLAMED HER
LIFESTYLE FOR THE MURDER OF AN
INNOCENT MAN.
HE SAID I WOULD BE BETTER
OFF
DEAD AND DIDN'T WANT TO SEE ME
AGAIN. IT WAS THE WORSE THING
IN MY LIFE.
AMANDA RELIED ON DRUGS AND
ALCOHOL TO HIDE ALL EMOTIONS.
I WENT FROM SMOKING WEED AND
POPPING PILLS AND COCAINE AND
ALL OF THEM ON ONE DAY. I
WOULD
BE ON FIVE NARCOTICS AND A
FIFTH
OF WHISKEY A DAY.
THEN SHE GOT PREGNANT AND
MANAGED TO STOP EVERYTHING
WHILE
PREGNANT BUT GAVE THE BABY TO
HER MOTHER.
IT WAS AWFUL AND WHAT IS MY
BABY THINKING? DOES HE MISS
ME?
DOES HE THINK I'M NEVER COMING
AROUND? DOES SHE THINK WE'RE
NOT NORMAL? IS SHE GLAD I'M
NOT
AROUND.
THIS WOULDN'T STOP HER DAILY
DESTRUCTION.
I WOULD BUY EVERY DRUG AND
DO
THEM, DO THEM. I COULDN'T
FUNCTION WITHOUT IT. HAD TO
HAVE IT, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY,
EMOTIONALLY HAD TO HAVE IT
AND IT WAS HARD TO BE THIS WAY.
WHEN HER CHILD GOT OLDER
AMANDA DECIDED SHE WANTED A
SECOND CHANCE AND MOVED IN WITH
HER MOTHER AND DAUGHTER. SHE
TRIED TO STOP DRINKING BUT HER
DAUGHTER FOUND HER PASSED OUT
AND THE LITTLE GIRL WENT FOR
HELP IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD.
I WAS HEART BROKEN, ASHAMED
OF MYSELF. I WAS SO SAD THAT I
PUT HER IN A POSITION THAT HER
MOM WAS GOING TO DECIDE AND SHE
WOULD HAVE TO DEAL WITH A DEAD
MOM. IT WAS HORRIFYING. I
COULDN'T BELIEVE THAT MY NINE
YEAR OLD HAD TO DEAL WITH THAT
WITH ME. IT SCARED TO ME TO
DEATH AND I BEGGED GOD NOT TO
LET THAT HAPPEN. I BEGGED GOD
TO SAVE MY LIFE AND I WAS SO
REPENTANT AND JUST READY TO LET
HIM -- SURRENDER. READY TO LET
HIM WORK ME. I KNEW HE COULD.
EVERYTHING THAT I HAD EVER
KNOWN
ABOUT GOD AND HIS GOODNESS AND
HIS GRACE AND MERCY IMMEDIATELY
CAME TO ME RIGHT THEN. THAT
DAY
I KNEW WITHOUT A DOUBT THAT GOD
WAS GOING TO SAVE MY LIFE. I
KNEW HE WAS GOING TO HELP ME
AND
I WAS GOING TO BE FINE.
EVERYTHING CAME TO ME AND I
KNEW
IT WAS OVER, THAT LIFE WAS
OVER,
AND A NEW LIFE WAS BEGINNING.
AMANDA WENT TO A CHRISTIAN
TREATMENT FACILITY. THERE SHE
BEGAN A NEW LIFE.
IT WAS UNBELIEVABLE
SATURATION OF THE WORD OF GOD.
A GENERAL WONDERFUL PROGRAM,
NOTHING BUT THE LORD.
AMANDA MET TRAY AND BECAME
HIS WIFE. THEY HAVE THREE MORE
CHILDREN TOGETHER AND BOTH WORK
FULL TIME IN MINISTRY.
I AM IN AWEAND JUST HUMBLED,
THANKFUL, AMAZED. ANYONE CAN
BE
SAVED AND USED BY GOD IF I CAN
FOR SURE.
AND YOU CAN BE SAVED. THE
BIBLE SAYS WHO SO EVER FOR GOD
SO LOVED WORLD. THAT MEANS YOU
THAT HE SENT HIS OWN BEGOTTEN
SON AND WHO SO EVER BELIEVE IN
HIM WOULD HAVE EVER LASTING
LIFE. IF YOU'RE IN AN ADDITION
YOU'RE NOT HAVING EVER LASTING
LIFE. YOU'RE HAVING EVER
LASTING ADDICTION AND EVERYDAY
YOU WAKE UP AND SAY OH NO AM I
GOING TO DO THIS AGAIN TODAY?
AND MAYBE LIKE AMANDA YOU CAN'T
STOP. YOU DON'T KNOW HOW. YOU
LITERALLY HAVE TO LIVE LIFE
DROP
BY DROP, BUT YOU CAN CHANGE.
THERE IS A SAVIOR. HE WANTS TO
COME TO AND YOU HE LOVES YOU
JUST THE WAY YOU ARE RIGHT NOW.
HE HASN'T GIVEN UP ON YOU. HE
WANTS YOU JUST TO ASK HIM FOR
HELP AND WHEN YOU DO HE WILL
COME, AND HE WILL PROVIDE IT,
AND HE WILL OPEN THE DOOR.
NOW,
SOME OF YOU IF YOU GOT SEVERE
ADDICTIONS YOU NEED TO GO INTO
A
TREATMENT CENTER. YOU NEED TO
BE IN A SAFE PROTECTED
ENVIRONMENT WHERE YOU DON'T
HAVE
ACCESS TO CHEMICALS AND
ALCOHOL,
AND CAN BE FREE, CAN HAVE A
PERIOD OF TIME WHERE YOUR BODY
ADJUSTS AND IT'S IN A SUPERVISED
ENVIRONMENT AND THAT CAN ALL
HAPPEN FOR YOU IF YOU JUST SAY
YES. IF YOU JUST SURRENDER AND
SAY GOD NOT MY WILL ANYMORE.
LET YOUR WILL BE DONE IN MY
LIFE. LET YOUR PLAN COME TO
PASS IN MY LIFE AND IF YOU DO
THAT HE WILL COME. HE WILL BE
THERE FOR YOU. HERE IS THE
PRAYER FOR YOU AND IT'S A
SIMPLE
ONE. JESUS, IF YOU'RE THERE --
YOU CAN EVEN SAY I SAW WHAT YOU
DIDAR FOR
AMANDA. CAN YOU DOA THAT FOR
ME? IF YOU CAN HELP ME WILL
YOU
DO THAT? WILL YOU SHOW UP FOR
ME AND WILL YOU CHANGE MY LIFE?
AND IF
YOU PRAY THAT WITH ALL OF YOU
HE WILL COME AND BE YOUR
MESPICA
AND CHANGE YOUR WAYS. IT'S
THAT
SIMPLE. IT'S NOT COMPLICATED.
WHEN THE BIBLE SAYS WHEN YOU
TURN TO ME WITH ALL OF YOUR
HEART, WHEN YOU SEEK ME WITH
ALL
OF YOUR HEART I WILL BE FOUND,
AND YOU CAN TRUST THOSE WORDS
BECAUSE THOSE WORDS ARE TRUE.
BELIEVE THEM. BELIEVE ON THE
ONE THAT HE SENT AND YOU WILL
BE
SAVED. IF YOU NEED HELP, IF
YOU
NEED SOMEBODY TO PRAY WITH YOU
WE'RE HERE FOR YOU AND HERE 24
HOURS A DAY AND SEVEN DAYS A
WEEK AND IT'S A TOLL-FEE PHONE
NUMBER AND JUST CALL AND IF
YOU'RE GOING THROUGH ADDICTION
AND YOU'RE TRYING TO GET FREE
REALIZE THAT NUMBER IS THERE.
YOU CAN HAVE SOMEBODY -- WE'RE
NOT HERE TO JUDGE YOU. WE'RE
NOT HERE TO CONDEMN
AND CALL AND LOOK I'M HAVING A
COMPULSION RIGHT NOW. I NEED
SOMEBODY TO PRAY THROUGH. IT'S
A WONDERFUL THING FOR YOU THAT
THERE IS THIS PRAYER LINE WHERE
YOU CAN CALL AND WE WILL AGREE
WITH YOU IN PRAYER AND WATCH
WHAT HAPPENS. TRY IT AND SEE.
YOU CAN BE FREE. THIS IS THE
"THE 700 CLUB" CLUB WHERE WE
WANT TO INTERACT WITH YOU AND
WE
HAVE A QUESTION FROM SARAH.
TWO
YEARS AGO I STARTED TAKING PAIN
MEDS FOR CHRONIC PAIN FROM A
TUMOR PRESSING ON MY SPINE. I
WOULD LIKE TO STOP TAKING THEM
NOW BUT I'M ADDICTED. CAN YOU
PRAY FOR ME TO GET OFF? I WILL
DO THAT SARAH AND GO TO THE
DOCTOR THAT PRESCRIBED THEM AND
LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU'RE
ADDICTED AND YOU WANT TO COME
OFF. SOMETIMES WITH NARCOTIC
PAIN MEDICINE YOU NEED MEDICAL
SUPERVISION AND ESPECIALLY SOME
ARE LONG-TERM AND BLOOD
PRESSURE
CAN SPIKE WHEN COMING OFF AND I
DON'T KNOW THE ONE YOU'RE ON
AND
I DO COUNSEL FOR THIS AND LET'S
PRAY. LORD, WE BRING SARAH TO
YOU AND WE BREAK THE HOLD OF
HIS
PILLS ON HER LIFE. AND WE PRAY
FOR HER BACK THAT SHE BE PAIN
FREE. YOU ARE ABLE TO BREAK
OFF
ADDICTION AND ABLE TO DISSOLVE
TUMORS SO THEY NO LONGER HAVE
PRESSURE ON HER SPINE SO WE
SPEAK IN FAITH BELIEVING IN THE
ONE THAT GOD SENT, BELIEVING IN
YOUR SACRIFICE AND THE THINGS
THAT ARE HEALED HER AND WE ASK
FOR THAT NOW IN JESUS' NAME.
AMEN. WELL, LET'S GO OVER TO
THE CHAT ROOM. I THINK WE HAVE
ONE QUICK CHATD.
WE HAVE JULIE. I HAVE A
TEENAGE SON AND PLAYS VIDEO
GAMES AND DOESN'T INTERACT BUT
ONLY WITH GAMERS. WHAT CAN WE
DO THAT IS GOOD FOR HIM.
LOCKUP THE GAMES. IF HE'S
SPENDING HOURS HE'S NOT LIVING.
YOU NEED TO TAKE IT AWAY FOR A
PERIOD OF TIME AND SEE WHAT
HAPPENS. THAT'S ALL THE TIME
THAT WE HAVE FOR THIS PROGRAM.
WE LEAVE YOU WITH THIS WORD
FROM
JAMES. "HUMBLE YOURSELF BEFORE
GOD AND RESIST THE DEVIL AND HE
WILL FLEE FROM YOU. COME CLOSE
TO GOD AND GOD WILL COME CLOSE
TO YOU".